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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:09am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Panshow: Hey Teddy, you're doing a great job, kudos to you. I understand. If u want sth, go for it. If u want to get a girls nbr, and u r acting like u realy want it, u won't get it. And wen a girl declines ur request, it doesn't mean its d end, 9O percent of the time its just a simple test. U shudnt av stopped talking to her, after she declined. Here is what u r gona do. Wen u see her.. "Hey been a while, u looking great....whre r u going/whr r u upto" Act lively, and up beat. So she can know..u aint just dere to get her nbr or stalking her or sth. She myt say..cool, doin ok, just say...nice seeing u arnd again, I was thinking u were kidnapped or sth...#just create light jokes Den tell her, nice talking to u..I av got to run to meet up wit ma friends #dont ask for her nbr She myt be expecting u to..don't ask Try d same pattern..two times... Den...third time... U can say.." Nice seeing again..it wud be cool to hangout for some fun later...#den give ur fone" #dont ask.what's ur nbr. Take it from dere. 5 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by bucacino(m): 11:15am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Bro, you never explained about girls you've known for a long time probably 8 years and you are kinda real close and am even scared if she already friendzoned me cos she is very free with me and discusses almost everything with me even her relationship life, we can be together alone in my house for hours, I have feelings for dis babe but am scared she might reject cos of our intimacy and that may worsen the already closeness we shared, I've known her right from primary school and she is in 100 level now and I just got admitted this year... I love her and I don't know how to tell her 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:20am On Dec 17, 2013 |
tomsniel: Nyc thread op...my prob z am cute so i get ghels easily bt have never approached one in ma life...der z ds ghel in ma church we have caught ourselves staring at each other bt i just cant bring ma sef to go talk to her....another ish z dat she z friends wif ma sis bt even when i try to summon courage to go after her she z always beside her mum and to make matters worse she hates social networking(found awt frm ma sis) so cant even chat her up on any social network cos am a lil efficient at that....so op kindly advise me on how to go abt ds..thankz in anticipatn U r welcome. u need to leave ur shell. @ a point in time..u will need to make approaches, just do it for the fun, get out of ur shell and comfort zone. Nothing awkward is goin up..and sure she will open up to u nicely. As per being wit her mother, there is nothing u can do abt dat. U just need to plan a perfect time to get her- wen she is alone by her sef |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:30am On Dec 17, 2013 |
vislabraye: We used to chat with whatssap. At a time she stopped replying. I asked her if we were quarrelling and she replied with a no. So I've stopped looking her way and she doesn't look my way. This is someone who was more interested in me that I in her. she was attracted to u before, but i guess u didnt make any move concerning her. sometimes wen we keep chatting wit a girl wit moving on to the next stage..her attraction my get stale. So u shud focus on d next stage..d next tin u want her to do. Weda its goin on a date, or stuff like dat |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by 2Awesome: 12:08pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
@ OP first of all i want to say u re doing great job the question is, as u described in a girls u have always seen on your street scenario. i would like you to give guys some lines that can be used in a case where u are seeing the girl for the first time and u have been able to establish eye contact. At that point when you walk up to her, what are those magic word u can say to initiate the convo with very slim chance of rejection |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by MattMelty: 12:33pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
teddy u toooooooooo musch..... C as u dey help lives! keep the scopes rolling bro & thanks a million times for all da skills u've given men thru dis tread. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Cupidkc(m): 12:40pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
nice one OP....wish i have the time to tackle some of the challenges some people encounted here. Will be back soon when am free. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by WackyJ1(m): 1:03pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Why will they go and put another thread similar to this one on front page when this thread has gone far and is better. I smel politics Anyway OP permission to type all the tips you have been giving here and post so as to prevent people from Having to go through all the pages |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by SageNaruto(m): 1:09pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
WackyJ1: Why will they go and put another thread similar to this one on front page when this thread has gone far and is better.Why don't u just refer dem 2 dis page. U knw d op is doin a good job, so let's support him as much as we can.... 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:35pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
WackyJ1: Why will they go and put another thread similar to this one on front page when this thread has gone far and is better. Yes thanks..I will really appreciate the support. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:42pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Just to clear a misconception. Most guys tink its all abt money...av money..and u can x***x any girl u want?..or av a car...and stuffs like dat. Like I said on page one..dis thread won't work for prostitutes..or ashewo..or allen avenue girls or stuff like dat.and u can't tell me u av d intentions of dating a prostitute. Yes money plays a gud role, but if u av all d money..and not av game..my broda..u will only meet girls dat will chop ur money. Its not simple. Its all about self development. All these stuffs are tins I av used before. I made a note of what worked and what didn't work. I tested every step. And up till today..itz what am still using...and I avent regretted any step. Its all about goin out dere. And spitting ur game. If u r using money to attract girls, what happens wen ur money finishes?...and if its money u r using, girls can easily detect dat. The best tin u can ever use to attract a girl is ur PERSONALITY. Some people myt disagree tho. But dat is what I av come to Know. 6 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:51pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Some people myt be of the opinion dat u must av enuf money..before u can date a girl or get a gf?.dats wrong. Must wait till u av enuf cash before u can get a gf?...#confused face. If u can dress cool, get a clean haircut, package ur sef wit,improve ur personality...what makes u tink u won't get a girl? U don't av to wait till all d money comes, or till u get a car, before u can date a girl. Its just a limiting belief. U r only limiting ur sef. And wen u wait tire u no still see gf, na den u go say, one woman for village dey do..or wen u finally get d money, u get all d girls, and all of a sudden, u go broke..or money..finish..hahah..by broda..#nalongtin_udey 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 1:54pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Oga ted elp me out oooo.. Dia is ds chick I av been chyking,now she don gree,we don dy run tinx Buh I saw ma frnd putin her on his dp,I asked him howfa abt the chick,pretending nt to knw abt her,what he told me was disheartening. In his own words he said" Guy u no go fit,She dy drink, smoke Ąπ∂ Bleep wella." Then I pretended and pressed further dt I liked her all dsame,he then said "Na asha Oº°˚˚°ºh." As in me sef,I was into her at first for d tin,buh along the way I got to like her,we dn't frequently see,cos she's in school. She told me dt she wud be in town come ds thursday. The said guy is in her school too Now I'm pissed off.what do I do? #though I get other mistresses too# 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:55pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Improve ur game n personality first. Don't let money prevent u from getting a girl. There r so many babes out dere, all u need is to package ur sef well, and be responsible for d outcome of d date. Dats all..in my opinion tho. Guys dat say all girls ar d same, just av plenty money, and u will s***x her av not rilly met girls who r independent and don't take trash. Its a game of nbrs. All girls r not d same, the same way, all guys r not d same too. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 1:55pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
2Awesome: @ OP first of all i want to say u re doing great jobop hs already answered sm of these questions...buh lemme helo out... .. . . .. about the girls on the street 1.make sure u dnt approach her from behind,cos u'l look like a nuisance/pest and she won't feel u at all... no try am oo 2.put on a smile 3.make ur shoulders free and try not to touch ur face... 4.dont talk fast...soo u won't appear timid,k 5.start with lines like"hey,hi... ve bin seein u around,buh we ve'nt met,officially... u look really good tday,cn i know ur name? ,kick it off from there 6.try to make the conversation as short,straight forward as possible,dnt beat abiut da bush 7.end with sth like "twas nice talking wit u finally,we'l be seeing each oda around" . . . come back and testify 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:00pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Phinity318: Oga ted elp me out oooo.. As far as d girl is cool wit u..go ahead wit d game. Forget what ur friend is saying. A guy has spoiled a girls name like dat for me before. But it all turned out to be a big lie. Just forget abt ur guy..and meet up wit d babe. Wen u r wit her. U will know tins for ur sef. Go ahead wit her. Since she as agreed. And she is behaving well to u..Go ahead 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ideepaul: 2:32pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
xxxtedyxxx:Bt Chair its too close...she z already treating me lyk a snr bro...she tells me abt even d smallest fly dt passes her way,I accepted d role at first nd nw I am in d well feared zone....I don buy market o! |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ideepaul: 2:33pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
ideepaul: My Oga Tedy!e b lyk se u do PSYCHOLOGY OF WOMANIZING 4 skl |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by LogoDWhiz(m): 2:50pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Good afternoon oga teddy.. Kudos on this great job you are doing.. I wanna seem your advice on something... I collected a girl's number on sunday, and I really like her and she seems like me cos she was kinda open when we were chatting.. The problem I have is I dont how to continue... Please HELP!!! |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:07pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
LogoDWhiz: Good afternoon oga teddy.. Kudos on this great job you are doing.. Of cos u know ow to continue, don't say u don't know.u need to compose ur sef ryt now...so u can act cool and smooth. She is open to u..u need to make her continuosly open..don't just focus on whatsapp chat, u need to add some calls too. U can check page 12 for a hint on investment. Get her to talk more abt her sef, and show genuine interest in her, tell her abt ur sef too, don't reveal every details tho. D next tin now..is to meet U..real..One on One.. After u myt av done d above stuffs, don't rush and don't act desperate, go for d simple tins like hugs, shakes, act like its natural to U. Make it a date...and show u care. Ur actions will tell u r interested in her, and not ur words. If there is any oda issue..tell us |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:11pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
ideepaul: From experience.. A romantic gesture from u to her can kick start a chain reaction dat will leapfrog u out of d friend zone. Sth like a kiss. Or take her out..on a trip.,date...anytin..she is alredy comfortable wit u 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by LogoDWhiz(m): 3:23pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
xxxtedyxxx:hmm.. Thanks a lot... Just scared of her falling for another guy.. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by boixplicit: 4:06pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Aswr 2 Jah..if derez anityn dat as stunned me in life...is dis thread. Hv bin a silenT guest of nairaland all dis while (I.e) literature thread!...av seen hilarious topics...nt evn 1 of dem....nt even Flow1759,Maxi,Rock5555 or Foxy abi na ishilove sef..#hehe..has got me $2sign as a member of nairaland.. Baba TED!!!....[i][/i](In gbo eng)I laika too much bros!....U b BABA!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kilo234(m): 4:20pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
oga teddy u av been doing a great Job here. i have dis problem with gals after they agree to go out wit me i just let it die, going out is my problem where to go, tins to do. if u can assist with smtin i would be greatfull thanks |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by anyebook(m): 4:47pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
that not problems @kilo dis what you should do frist make sure you pass through the intro stage ,atraction ,rapport it will become very easy when you know her better for the outing it depends on your locations if you stay in a low or expensive area,it also depend on the type of girl too. there are some babes that likes bars ,plaza it differs.it also include your pocket size meanwhile you also ask her while teasing or playful when you are finally make it to outing,ask for her order be a gentleman get it or call the attendant you can tease her ask her about her always remember to pick hook to enable the continuation of discussion you:you loke beautiful to night or your hair look nice,what this stlye call she it called baby face or whatever (pice the name of the hair) you;babyface wow it look nice on you,give her compliments make her understand you care,put smiles on your face too . (make sure you look good atlease cut your hair,shave,dress smartly enjoy the date )this is what i learnt from oga ted ,correct me oga ted ,you doing nice job bro[quote author=kilo234]oga teddy u av been doing a great Job here. i have dis problem with gals after they agree to go out wit me i just let it die, going out is my problem where to go, tins to do. if u can assist with smtin i would be greatfull thanks[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 4:50pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
boi_xplicit: Aswr 2 Jah..if derez anityn dat as stunned me in life...is dis thread. Hv bin a silenT guest of nairaland all dis while (I.e) literature thread!...av seen hilarious topics...nt evn 1 of dem....nt even Flow1759,Maxi,Rock5555 or Foxy abi na ishilove sef..#hehe..has got me $2sign as a member of nairaland.. Thanx for d support..I appreciate... And nice sense of humour too. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:09pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Be careful wit "miss U". Its a bad idea to tell a girl u just met now now now...on fone, dat u miss her, u can only get away wit dat wen u blend wit humour. #telling her u miss her, she myt or myt not reply "I miss u too" if u r expecting but if u wana use it for a girl u just met..u can say.. "Hey,,,it was great meeting u earlier, missing d way u talk and dat smile on ur face alrdy...av u eaten?(Diversion). She will av to feel d compliments..inherent in ur words, before answering ur diversion..whatever dat myt be. #enjoy 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by anyebook(m): 5:17pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
@oga ted chk kilo234 msg i replied it best to my knowlege as i follow my leader please chk to make corrections |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Panshow(m): 5:26pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
xxxtedyxxx: Wow... I so much love this. God bless you Teddy. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:28pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
anyebook: that not problems @kilo dis what you should do Yes u are absolutely correct... Very correct. @kilo..its al about planning...ur pocket, and what u r aiming for. If dere r cool places arnd ur area u can try dem. But d aim is not just abt d place, but ow u r gona continue the interaction wit her. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:32pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
bucacino: Bro, you never explained about girls you've known for a long time probably 8 years and you are kinda real close and am even scared if she already friendzoned me cos she is very free with me and discusses almost everything with me even her relationship life, we can be together alone in my house for hours, I have feelings for dis babe but am scared she might reject cos of our intimacy and that may worsen the already closeness we shared, I've known her right from primary school and she is in 100 level now and I just got admitted this year... I love her and I don't know how to tell her U av realy gone deep into the friendzone. Its important u don't destroy the trust she alrdy has for u. But u av a passion for her. U guys r close ardy. Before she can feel u..u will need to show bf potential. Dats what can get her attracted n get u off d friendzone. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by baggy4luv(m): 5:42pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
xxxtedyxxx: Here is the best line to use in ur dept or faculty. It works like magic. I don use dis line tire..sometimes e dey do me as if say na jazcliche |
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