Panshow: Hey Teddy, you're doing a great job, kudos to you.
There's this girl I love so much within the neighbourhood, just 2 weeks ago, I summoned the courage to talk to her. I actually asked of her number but she declined, and I felt it was a red flag, and since then I never talked to her again. Even though we use to say hi if coincidentally we meet on the road.
Just yesterday, about two of my friends told me that they saw her with another man, it was just like the end of the world to me cos I love this girl like mad.
Please Teddy, what do I do to win her? . I love her so much.

tomsniel: Nyc thread op...my prob z am cute so i get ghels easily bt have never approached one in ma life...der z ds ghel in ma church we have caught ourselves staring at each other bt i just cant bring ma sef to go talk to her....another ish z dat she z friends wif ma sis bt even when i try to summon courage to go after her she z always beside her mum and to make matters worse she hates social networking(found awt frm ma sis) so cant even chat her up on any social network cos am a lil efficient at that....so op kindly advise me on how to go abt ds..thankz in anticipatn

vislabraye: We used to chat with whatssap. At a time she stopped replying. I asked her if we were quarrelling and she replied with a no. So I've stopped looking her way and she doesn't look my way. This is someone who was more interested in me that I in her.
Suddenly she started feeling so special. It was funny at the same time senseless.

WackyJ1: Why will they go and put another thread similar to this one on front page when this thread has gone far and is better.

I smel politics

Anyway OP permission to type all the tips you have been giving here and post so as to prevent people from

Having to go through all the pages

WackyJ1: Why will they go and put another thread similar to this one on front page when this thread has gone far and is better.

I smel politics

Anyway OP permission to type all the tips you have been giving here and post so as to prevent people from

Having to go through all the pages

2Awesome: @ OP first of all i want to say u re doing great job
the question is, as u described in a girls u have always seen on your street scenario. i would like you to give guys some lines that can be used in a case where u are seeing the girl for the first time and u have been able to establish eye contact. At that point when you walk up to her, what are those magic word u can say to initiate the convo with very slim chance of rejection

Phinity318: Oga ted elp me out oooo..



Dia is ds chick I av been chyking,now she don gree,we don dy run tinx
Buh I saw ma frnd putin her on his dp,I asked him howfa abt the chick,pretending nt to knw abt her,what he told me was disheartening.

In his own words he said" Guy u no go fit,She dy drink, smoke Ąπ∂ Bleep wella."
Then I pretended and pressed further dt I liked her all dsame,he then said "Na asha Oº°˚˚°ºh."

As in me sef,I was into her at first for d tin,buh along the way I got to like her,we dn't frequently see,cos she's in school.
She told me dt she wud be in town come ds thursday.
The said guy is in her school too

Now I'm pissed off.what do I do?

#though I get other mistresses too#

xxxtedyxxx:

Its gud to know u r not rushing..dats a plus. And pls..don't rush so u don't kill the alredy existing trust she has for u. Now u need to do sth. U need to start acting like a boyfriend to her, just do it, she has opened up and told u thins abt her past relationships, u av definitely picked up some points or two.

So start caring abt her like a bfrend, u need to get her attracted, cos as tins stand, u r just a normal friend to her, wen u can start showing dat bf potential her attraction switch will be turned on..and she will see u different. Don't forget u av lots of advantage, cos she has rely opened up to U. Start small, focus on d process.

ideepaul: My Oga Tedy!e b lyk se u do PSYCHOLOGY OF WOMANIZING 4 skl

I v got a lil probs,I had a girl lyk dt, while we were in sec skl som yrs ago,I did nt pay attention 2,I was a saint then tho I was enviously close 2 most of them....afta 4 years(this year)I decided 2 contact most f them..the response was grrt!...she z nw 2 much into a woman of a guy's dream,we chat a lot(I suspect I was specially frndzoned immediately) she talks a lot abt her past nd present relationships,becos I listen a lot and help her out,she tells me everything...i mean evrything ,...I need 2 date her....how do i get out f this frndzone,wat shud I do...m not rushing o

LogoDWhiz: Good afternoon oga teddy.. Kudos on this great job you are doing..
I wanna seem your advice on something...

I collected a girl's number on sunday, and I really like her and she seems like me cos she was kinda open when we were chatting.. The problem I have is I dont how to continue... Please HELP!!!

ideepaul:
Bt Chair its too close...she z already treating me lyk a snr bro...she tells me abt even d smallest fly dt passes her way,I accepted d role at first nd nw I am in d well feared zone....I don buy market o!

xxxtedyxxx:

Of cos u know ow to continue, don't say u don't know.u need to compose ur sef ryt now...so u can act cool and smooth.

She is open to u..u need to make her continuosly open..don't just focus on whatsapp chat, u need to add some calls too. U can check page 12 for a hint on investment.


Get her to talk more abt her sef, and show genuine interest in her, tell her abt ur sef too, don't reveal every details tho.

D next tin now..is to meet U..real..One on One.. After u myt av done d above stuffs, don't rush and don't act desperate, go for d simple tins like hugs, shakes, act like its natural to U. Make it a date...and show u care. Ur actions will tell u r interested in her, and not ur words.

If there is any oda issue..tell us

boi_xplicit: Aswr 2 Jah..if derez anityn dat as stunned me in life...is dis thread. Hv bin a silenT guest of nairaland all dis while (I.e) literature thread!...av seen hilarious topics...nt evn 1 of dem....nt even Flow1759,Maxi,Rock5555 or Foxy abi na ishilove sef..#hehe..has got me $2sign as a member of nairaland..


Baba TED!!!....[i][/i](In gbo eng)I laika too much bros!....U b BABA!!!!

xxxtedyxxx:

I understand. If u want sth, go for it.

If u want to get a girls nbr, and u r acting like u realy want it, u won't get it. And wen a girl declines ur request, it doesn't mean its d end, 9O percent of the time its just a simple test. U shudnt av stopped talking to her, after she declined.

Here is what u r gona do.
Wen u see her..

"Hey been a while, u looking great....whre r u going/whr r u upto"

Act lively, and up beat. So she can know..u aint just dere to get her nbr or stalking her or sth.

She myt say..cool, doin ok, just say...nice seeing u arnd again, I was thinking u were kidnapped or sth...#just create light jokes

Den tell her, nice talking to u..I av got to run to meet up wit ma friends

#dont ask for her nbr

She myt be expecting u to..don't ask

Try d same pattern..two times...

Den...third time... U can say.." Nice seeing again..it wud be cool to hangout for some fun later...#den give ur fone" #dont ask.what's ur nbr.

Take it from dere.

anyebook: that not problems @kilo dis what you should do

frist make sure you pass through the intro stage ,atraction ,rapport it will become very easy when you know her better
for the outing it depends on your locations if you stay in a low or expensive area,it also depend on the type of girl too.

there are some babes that likes bars ,plaza it differs.it also include your pocket size meanwhile you also ask her while teasing or playful

when you are finally make it to outing,ask for her order be a gentleman get it or call the attendant
you can tease her ask her about her always remember to pick hook to enable the continuation of discussion
you:you loke beautiful to night or your hair look nice,what this stlye call
she it called baby face or whatever (pice the name of the hair)
you;babyface wow it look nice on you,give her compliments make her understand you care,put smiles on your face too .

(make sure you look good atlease cut your hair,shave,dress smartly enjoy the date )this is what i learnt from oga ted ,correct me oga ted ,you doing nice job bro

bucacino: Bro, you never explained about girls  you've known for a long time probably 8 years and you are kinda real close and am even scared if she already friendzoned me cos she is very free with me and discusses almost everything with me even her relationship life, we can be together alone in my house for hours, I have feelings for dis babe but am scared she might reject cos of our intimacy and that may worsen the already closeness we shared, I've known her right from primary school and she is in 100 level now and I just got admitted this year... I love her and I don't know how to tell her

xxxtedyxxx: Here is the best line to use in ur dept or faculty. It works like magic. I don use dis line tire..sometimes e dey do me as if say na jaz

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Hey..I was just heading to my class wen I saw u and I tot ...hey.dat girl I cute..I av got to say hello...what dept/faculty are u?

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I crafted dis line after much tot..dis line open girls easily..arnd ur dept or faculty..or school.

Ask for her name, and just say..hi..nice seeing u arnd

Hehe..don't worry..next time u see her..she will rmbr u...and una yans go dey easy..u can meet tons of babes everyday..using dis scope.