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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mczigx(m): 10:31am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Djboosting:bro plz hlp me out nw derez diz gal i love i did ask her out bt she said she cnt date me cuz am her best friend |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Tipzsy(m): 11:39am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Herez mine........i kinda askd diz gal out nd she said no dat she cnt date her bestfriend,my questn is hw cn i mve out of d friendzone so as 2 make her mine. Like seriously, i will say you really screwed everything up by prolonging the friendship to be of best. And another mistake i will say you made was asking her out without comfirming if she will actually like to be your girlfriend. You have made her to adore the platonic friendship thats exist between you guys more to the dating one that you had in mind. I have seen most guys make this same mistake severally. Factors that contribute to the kind of are: 1. Being friends with her for too long without making a move 2. lacking of body contact 3. Lack of confidence 4. Lack of emotional expression 5. Choice of topic discussed 6. Being too nice and gentle 7. Being the easily predictable guy 8. Being too supportive 9. Being too caring 10. Always letting her to win during an arguiment 11. Apologising everytime over little things believe me, as a guy. You are also important. To much of all these factors mention above only make her see's you as not being man enough. To get her back, seriously wont be easy. I cant be 100% correct. so you guys are free to comment 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Donpre(m): 12:20pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Herez mine.... we been friends for more than a year and we've had this chemistry all that time, so 2 weeks ago I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes bt I've been the one investing my time and knowledge, sending texts, starting convos on whatsapp, and she's done nothing bt treat me as if we were still jux friends. I don't blame her though, our friendship has quite long.... I juz wanna get her to invest too, make her want me as I do her, what can I do? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Impulse80(m): 1:14pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Donpre:you should fuc.k her! lure her to your house or go to her place and fvck her! she won't take you seriously until you've done the above. BTW i hope you are not a virgin? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Donpre(m): 1:38pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Impulse80:LOL... sex is outta the question, any other suggestions would be appreciated |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Tipzsy(m): 2:09pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Herez mine.... we been friends for more than a year and we've had this chemistry all that time, so 2 weeks ago I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes bt I've been the one investing my time and knowledge, sending texts, starting convos on whatsapp, and she's done nothing bt treat me as if we were still jux friends. I don't blame her though, our friendship has quite long.... I juz wanna get her to invest too, make her want me as I do her, what can I do? With what you have written. i will say she has lost the sparks before you asked her out. So all you need to do is to refilled the sparks that once exist between you two. And that can't be achieve by phone call talkmore of chatting only. But firstly I will advice you to free-style her for like a week. And If she doesn't call back then just know that she has another guy that is keeping her company. Dont be discourage it only means you need to stepup your game just like i had said earlier. Call her after 1weeks interval from the 1week, just to know how she fairing. And mind you. Don't apologise or behave as if its been long you guys talked. Just make you conversation short and brief. You can start by say. You: my dearest, whatup she: am fine & you you: am good, just wanna know how your doing, bye. Thats will make her feel she's slowly losing you too. She will be a bit unrelaxed because i believe she likes you that why she accept dating you in the first place. but its just the sparks that is missing. Text her in the morning of the next day telling her how you miss her note: the text should be short too. You can try something like this: ''i miss the way you laugh'' or ''i miss the way you smile'' Call her the evening of that same day inviting her to you place. She wont refuse but incase she does just laugh telling her later then. If you guys are staying in the same area it will be evening more easier. Just behave as if you guys aren't dating and flow with other girls. That will make her jealous and when next you invite her. She wont refuse. But if you guys aren't staying in the same area then you just have to find a way to make her visit you. And make sure you give her a little insight on why she's visiting you so that your move won't be surprise to her |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Donpre(m): 3:14pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Tipzsy:Many thanks... I'm gonna give it a try and yet they say "Dating Isn't Rocket Science" |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 3:27pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Mczigx: Friendzone 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mczigx(m): 9:56pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Djboosting:jst wnt 2 date her am nt abt d sex |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Perotti: 11:01pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
@OP. Pls i need your help. I am 25yrs old and uptil now I have never had a GF or loved any girl so much. Right from high school to university, i was always serious with my studies. I tried dating a girl in my final yr but she friendzoned me. I got friendzoned twice also during NYSC. Now, i am running a masters program and yet I am still single and do not want to experience d friendzone again and I cant just ask out any how kind of girl. Anytime I make a new female friend, i tend to act Mr Nice guy because i am introverted and shy. Pls help out |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Jasi7(m): 11:23am On Jan 10, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx: I wish to ask...i hv met dis gurl,took a walk while I introduced maself,den while we wer back to her door step I asked to get her numba so I culd reach her someyimes bt she refused...she said if i ever wantd to see her I shld cum to her gate,knock and ask after her...well I did,went to d house knocked she came out,we took a stroll out in d area and it seemed like I ws d only person talkin,,i neva started off wit any boring line,bt I ws expectin her to key into d convo and dat wuld make d conversation move frm one topic to another bt she wuldnt..and secondly she neva smiled...i ws wondering what culd b d ish..she ws so uptight and i told her so and she said of course ws she suppossed to smile witout being made to laff..I ws perturbed bt I kept my cool...been thinkin of how to make it more humourous when I go ther today...mayb u cn help |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mikocake(m): 3:40pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Jasi7:you're on a long thing ma brother...no e worry yourself too much before e enter insult...the girl no dey feel you... anyway maybe our experts in the house might have a few things to chip in for your matter..make I leave them to handle it. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by daben1(m): 11:12am On Jan 11, 2015 |
What about those that forget the 'sweet lines' when they're one-on-one the babe...? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by daben1(m): 11:35am On Jan 11, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx:what about those guys that forget the 'sweet lines' when they come one on one with a babe?:::::: and what's the best way to stop and talk to a girl you don't know and get her attention? Probably on the road |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:27pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
daben1: Situational openers are d best. U just comment on sth around d evironment wen u r close to her. If itz ur street, a street u know quite well..u can use. "Hi..av seen u a around a few times, but we avent met...am (introduce ur sef)...what's ur name dear?.... U must know how to transition to a new topic if u wana close the deal. Meeting girls on streets takes practice. A simple HI...can also work. Just make sure u r looking gud, and presentable. Most times..u don't av to push it, if she is appears to be walking fast, or busy, dere is not much u can do, u don't wana be a nuisance..bugging a chick u don't know on the street. For street game..its cool to approach @ nite..dan during d day...dts just me. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
daben1:its all about practice and composure. If u rehearse well, u won't forget what u wana say. Its all about mental rehearsal. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:38pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Jasi7: First of all..u need to know she don't value u or ur time, neither does she respect u. She telling u to come n be knocking her gate is an insult on ur personality. But dat aside. U knocked and she came out, u guys strolled, u invested a lot, but she didn't nuffin, she won't laf or smile..well..its either she has issues and she is boring..considering d way she replied, or she is just not into talkin on d street. U can either do two things. Free her, or ask to take her out. I will go with d first option, cos knocking on a girls gate anytime I wana see her is a disrespect on ma own part. She doenst wana give u her nbr, yet she wana keep seeing u, and yet, she is boring n doesn't engage in the convo. Sounds like a waste of time to me. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:44pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Perotti: Its gona take u months to develop and wipe out d old u. It takes practice, and time. I will suggest u read previous pages..0-12. U also need to develop d abundance mentality:dating more than one girl. U need to develop ur confidence and mental state. Learn to focus on d present, and forget d past mistakes. Always focusing on developing ur sef.u r shy, so try to push ur comfort zone daily. Do sth u don't normally do with d opposite sex. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by daben1(m): 2:24pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx:i see u bro, ur indeed an expert, i'll keep rehearsing |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by daben1(m): 2:34pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx:after she tells u her name? What next...? More tips pls! |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by pich4real(m): 5:14pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
there is dis gal I like so much in my department, I told her my mind but she said she had a guy so I backed off, I didn't add presure cos Its not my style, so I later found out dat she was dating my dept president who is now serving,I stopped calling her as usual stopped sending messages and even or friendship reduced, at times would see her and look aside and sometimes I would say hi,I but now his bf my ex president of my dept is out of d way and am seing signs dat she want me bak, remember wen I was chatting wit anoda gal outside my lecture room and she walked in and saw both of us, after 3mins my phone rang and it was her, and sometimes wen am wit my frnds chatting and I would turn my face only to discover she had been staring at me and Dis has happened so many times, dis evening She sent me new yr compliment greeting and ended d message like dis -WITH LOVE, dont knw wat to do either to go on or let go |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kennyman20(m): 5:44pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
pich4real: dont dull man.. The love thing is burning in her hrt now.. Go after her and shine her congo, afterall na the congo be ur target. After shinning the congo, her shakara go end and u can start doing anyhow to her. Dont dull!! Just read the tips here that'll take u down the lane of shinning her congo. Shine the congo and back off.. Dont dull once again and dont fall in love with her but fall in love in the name of her congo. i.e fall in love with brain. Cheers. My ogas, i hail oooo... I just dey try help oooo... I bow for u na oooo |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by mrsuperswag(m): 8:24pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
pich4real:if what teddy teachings is anything to go buy,she is investing so broda just START ACTING LIKE HER BF TOO, don't over engage urself though, talk lite to her,call her once a week for 1mins or so, don't reply any sms yet...and above all oh...the way u are acting right now is what is making her want you...so don't change at once nd being all over her shell run away. Bt after u guys hv settled into d relationship, u can jus mk her do anything. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by pich4real(m): 10:03pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
tanks man |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx: Can I get ur number, for whatsapp. Or do I need rapport to get ur num |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by daben1(m): 12:28pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx:guy! I need ur number so we could be talking on whatsaap |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 11:15pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
daben1: It takes practice and pretty soon, it will just come naturally to you. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Jasi7(m): 11:33pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx: My bro u wont imagine,its like a lady's reaction to every guy's approach varies widely,i ws ther today,well she is a bad host anyway,in jos here d cold is killing,she wuldnt even ask me in...she asked if I wantd to stay outside or inside,in my mind I ws like ''what da hell,how wuld u feel if I askd u d same question''...wel I told her I wuld stay outside(since she no get sense)...den she sat wit me,we spoke and she served food on a platter even after I told her I wasnt hungry and we ate together,at one point she wantd strollin bt I jst acted like I dint notice and culd u believe she ws a talkative today...mayb I misjudged her..what do u think abt d whole scenario'? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 11:36pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Perotti: I used to be like you, also grad young (21), its not like I consciously made up my mind not to get girls but I also didn't actively tried to get girls, the only relationship I had in university was barely a month old, she was a year senior tho and twas on phone I even did the job, I actually dated her just to confirm if my brain and d1ck dey ok. I also get friendzoned, infact I can't count how many times, the funny thing is it was when I was wiser that I realized how naive and ignorant I had been. The thing I realized is girls love bad guys, so Mr Nice guy will only get you desperate girls who are looking for maga to settle down with after they are through enjoying promiscuous life finish, you need to stop being Nice coz girls will see you as provider material and will not want to lose their provider to something like sex or love, Im not saying you should carry your arm like say you get boil for armpit ooo or frown your face. There are some fundamentals you need to have on lock tho like facial expression, how you walk, how you smile, how your voice sound, your eyes, dress sense, e.t.c. P.S You need money to get girls too, not money to spend on buying things for them oo but money to take care of yaself, you know looking good et al. 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
tr3y:YOu nailed it.. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by falansa: 5:55am On Jan 16, 2015 |
this is one of the best thread I've come across and learn much on NL. I've learnt much already. but my question is I want to know how to start a good conversation on social network like facebook, badoo, etc. that will allow the lady to reply and eventually get her contact because most times I ended up not receiving a reply. help me out Pls |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tomsniel(m): 4:41pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
hi guys.. i need your help your help with this issue of mine. there is this girl have been wooing for a while. she is an old schoolmate whom i lost contact with, then later got her contact and we started talking and chatting. over the months we have seen and chatted alot. she even has a sweet nickname for me. so according to teddy's advice, i started acting like her boyfriend. i have sent her romantic texts which she didnt reply and also call her sweet names as well. we flirt with one another as well. the main reason for this epistle is that when we were chatting yesterday, something came up and i called her 'my babe'. she laughed and said that who made her my babe or when did she become my babe. so i replied that isn't it obvious that i have feelings for you and all she said was thank you. so am asking abeg what should i do ? have i been friendzoned ? |
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