Tipzsy:
dahmelawlah(m):
please nobody should make me laffing stock. Am really at the bottom of the ladder in this dating game and i think i really need a whole load of help. Am 21 and in my final year in the university of Lagos, studying physics. Nobody would believe it if i say that with the amount of beautiful girls in unilag, av neva been in a relationship before and i av neva dated anyone before, and it's not that am d very serious or nerdy type. I dnt knw what i will attribute that to buh av neva really been a social person and am d shy and introverted type. Now that am going out of the system, i will like to make up for the past three years in this last year (dnt knw if dat is possible). Xxxtedyxxx, this is a personal plea for ur help


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Every human being possess a temperament according to Tim Lahaye in a book he wrote titled SPIRIT CONTROL TEMPERAMENT.

1.Melancholic(mel) - introvert

2.choleric(chol) - extrovert

3.phlegmatic(flag) - introvert

4.sanguine(sang) - extrovert

all humans possess not less than two of these atributes. Its either you are
mel+chol: introvert dominant

chol+mel: extrovert dominant

mel+sang: introvert dominant

sang+mel: extrovert dominant.

Phleg+chol: introvert dominant

chol+phleg: extrovert dominant

phleg+sang: introvert dominant

sang+phleg: extrovert dominant

But you can never be
mel+phleg or

chol+sang

because its just like joining two negative or positive wire together.

The reason why you see some people more jovial than the other is because their extrovert attribute is more dominant than the introvert. But the good news is that you can push through if you feel your introvert is more dominant than you extrovert, and the best way to do that is to find that thing that makes you happy. You can't despute the fact that even at you reserved mood. You are still friendly and jovial to very closed friends once in awhile.

Hey! that merely means you just dont know how to trigger your choleric or sanguine temperament just because its not dominant. What normally cause it is because you are so much into your phlegmatic or melancholic attribute. Now let me explain each of them.

1. SANGUINE : Sanguine is a sociable person. they laugh for the hard days, wise words when squeezed by the burden, creative, enthusiasm, and always have the energy to start. Sanguine love to be popular. They have a lot of friends. They love to talk, to perform, help each other and they always curious. Sanguine love to be children forever.

2. CHOLERIC : Choleric is a strong person. they have a strong leadership.They are faithful, brave, and have the freedom to be on one's own. They all forced and always want to make a change. Strong-willed and assertive, goal oriented, well organized, and they don't really need friends. They always be the superior one in the emergency time.

3. MELANCHOLIC: Melancholies is a sensitive person. depth to see the heart and soul of life. Artistic to appreciate the art.They are toughtfully, analytical, serious, and have a talent. they are perfectionist, so they love details. Melancholies lookin for some ideal mate.

4. PHLEGMATIC: Phlegmatic is a peaceful person. they always stable, patient, and have a compassion for the other. They always keep clam,when the other was in confusion.they are humble, silent, controlled, good listener, and always happy with their life. They always be the mediator, and easy to get along with.

lookin into your soul which one are you?

jetworldpee:
let the respect be giving to those who deserve it.... teddy is really doing great,i wonder what those chicks in your area would be saying bout you,chaii..how I wish we are acquainted to each other one way or the other,anyway don't forget the thread you speak of creating about bout the art of seducing a girl with chat(sexchat)..... anticipating waiting.
mouthed yew..

xxxtedyxxx:
av not forgotten bro...thanks for d kind words. I av not been constantly updating becos of NYSC ish...passing out on feb 19th sha

craiggylad:
abeg apart 4rm askin a gal this questions wat else shud b added{hw was ur day,av u eaten,}nd if u ask her nd she said yes i va eaten,nd then she said dnt ask me wat i ate...abeg contribute make oda guyz learn

jetworldpee:
between, I wanted to text a girl I miss,as in like dis
"hi babe,miss d way you smile and your lips dancing to the tune,probably u r in dreamland now nd don't wanna bug wit call..just sleep tight and be safe,lot of kiss"........ don't know maybe the message is weird or ssomething.have chyke the girl in question but we are really not in talking term(like it dat way) but we do communicate once in while.

xxxtedyxxx:

bugzyberry:
op pl answer my question...
xxxteddy first off i must say u are doing a pretty
gud job here.. i've been reading and following
everything u are teaching here and I must say
they work without a single doubt... recently i've
been gaming lots of chicks and i've neva had a
better experience with gurls.... you are amazing
man...keep it up
However, i still need ur help with a girl I met some
weeks ago.. I wanted dis gurl 2 b my gf d very
first time I met n talked wit her..we exchanged
contacts and ive called her for like 7 times of
which she has only answered 3 (when she do piks
up we talk as if we've known each others for
years...wel i use a couple of raports and i aint
being desperate). things neva went wel atol d last
time we talked over d phone (today). on d call I
was like telling her: so u don't pik my calls when i
call.... is like u were busy with ur sugar daddy or
smth and boom.... she flaked and was like wat
kind of question was dat? u dont ask a woman
dat sort of question she said(I made this qst
sound fun and I've used dis on a couple of chicks
with success) but hers was a different thing
altogether. .. finding myself in an awkward
situation, I quickly apologized 2 her and told her it
was jst a humor, a common joke...she finally said
ok.... call really got frustrating afterwards
. said she was gonna call me back later; she
normally says dis and never calls back......man I
lost my cool and I seriously need ur help. don't
even know what next to do... have thought abt
texting her bt im really confused... I need dis babe
as my gf...need ur help

Emmanuelclean:
@xxxteddy there are two gals on ma list they both im my uni,the first z nat in ma dept and shez in her final level how do i go about it shes a friend to my elder bro who z also a finalist nd we kinda of ve a good rapport.
the second girl i jst wana get her laid,she ma course mate,we've bin talkin she kalls me her husband i call her my wife but shes kind of jokin wit it,bouh i want more than that,mst of the time i call her she doesnt pick but when i ask her y she didnt pickup she'll say she was busy and this has mostly been her reply,ow do i go but her issue?
i dnt wana fck up nid ur help

jetworldpee:
between, I wanted to text a girl I miss,as in like dis "hi babe,miss d way you smile and your lips dancing to the tune,probably u r in dreamland now nd don't wanna bug wit call..just sleep tight and be safe,lot of kiss"........ don't know maybe the message is weird or ssomething.have chyke the girl in question but we are really not in talking term(like it dat way) but we do communicate once in while.

craiggylad:
abeg apart 4rm askin a gal this questions wat else shud b added{hw was ur day,av u eaten,}nd if u ask her nd she said yes i va eaten,nd then she said dnt ask me wat i ate...abeg contribute make oda guyz learn

chidexxy007:

bros teddy.... hw's life @ur end.....bros my problem is in transitioning from small talks to deep talks that can create rapport, can u kindly give me some tips can he be either questions or statements plus there is this girl I met, we talk fine but she neva calls or send text nd I've known her 4 more dan 1yr since I noticed too I started calling her once or twice a month, sometimes once in 2-3months......we sch in different parts of d country and always declines my invite 4 a date weneva we're on holiday...
wats ur advice bro cos am tinkin of boning her mata cos me don tire or can u give me some tips on hw to re-ignite the relationship?
thanks

xxxtedyxxx:


First of all..
Thanks for d compliments. This thread is nothing without u guys.

From ur post..I can clearly tell u r desperate. " I need dis babe as my gf..." Dts desperation.

U shudnt av apologised to her. On ur own part..u know u were just joking...she didn't get d joke...and she flared up.. U cud av said

" Hey...itz ok..I can tell u r squeezing ur face like one old mama..now..itz ok..oya smile for me babe"

U don't apologise for trying to give a babe a fun moment. It kills d frame/objective.

From ur posts..she is not dat invested in d convo..don't call her for a while. And wen u do..sound normal..like dat awkward moment didn't happen. U don't treat a girl well..wen she is treating u bad. U only rewards a girl's gud behaviour. Dat technique alone can improve ur game. She says she is gona call..but doesn't, don't call her often too...or check up on her. Act like she is just dere..in other words..u shudnt be overtly serious wif her, flirt with her, and ask for a date..a real meet up. U need solid attraction game.

Do u av a nickname u call her?...if u had one..u wud av used it wen she was angry wif u on fone.

Keep using dat line..it works..d babe just didn't get d joke.. And that rarely happens.


Success!.

adewumiopeyemi:
were u dey work nw teddy....

xxxtedyxxx:
just got ma certificate..on d 19th..am still in ondo..not working yet..till I get to lagos bro..


Ow dem chicks..hope u doing great.

xxxtedyxxx:
Sorry guys for not replying. Been up tight lately..service things.

Got ma certificate yday...na Godwin....let's flex dis thread guys..back n beta


Gona be replying all pending posts..today. Love u all..


Rembr..attraction is emotional..not logical.

Sugarbear007:
Hello mr tedy, I salute u boss....pls ur loyal boy needs ur help...am currently doin ma IT nd I met a gal frm my skul here...we started dating although she told me she has a BF(I didn't ask o) I agreed to be her side guy..she went to meet him in skul last week wednesday and he found out abt us...he beat her up and now she is asking if she shld leave d boy(d guy is threatening her)...pls help out asap...tnks boss