olumars:
xxxtedyxxx,
ds gal n I av bn dating for more dan a year nw, wen we started she call, txt very often, bt az tyms goes on she change, no cal or txt. I du cal her everyday, if shes online she dont send me mssg.
whenever I cal or chat wit her I dont rily knw wat to talk about. if I stay too long on call, we fight. I decided nt to cal her for lyk a month tym, during dt tym she neva deem t fit to kal, after d a month I ask her y she didn't cal she said Ntn,dt she doesn't av cal card.
she still claims she loves me,I still love her too Buh nt like before coz d feelings az drop .
I dont even knw if am her bf or not. we stay in diff plc we see once in a year coz of my sch n hers

olumars:
xxxtedyxxx,
ds gal n I av bn dating for more dan a year nw, wen we started she call, txt very often, bt az tyms goes on she change, no cal or txt. I du cal her everyday, if shes online she dont send me mssg.
whenever I cal or chat wit her I dont rily knw wat to talk about. if I stay too long on call, we fight. I decided nt to cal her for lyk a month tym, during dt tym she neva deem t fit to kal, after d a month I ask her y she didn't cal she said Ntn,dt she doesn't av cal card.
she still claims she loves me,I still love her too Buh nt like before coz d feelings az drop .
I dont even knw if am her bf or not. we stay in diff plc we see once in a year coz of my sch n hers

AdamSly007:
Just finished reading nw(from page 1-86), nyc thread u hav here bro..dj or jd, ilegend, fabulous n odas, u guys are great and to d grand architect of dis thread, u r d bomb bro(TEDYXX)...*kamisita*(tnx in korean) to everyone hu contributed...#chicks are in trouble

diggy4real:
Hi gurus.....Met this Gurl......gave her a lift.....she has been in sch ever since roughly 4 months now....buh hardly pick calls ....not invested at all.....buh suddenly picked and at d end of the convo she insinuated DAT she is need of cash* parasitic Bae* promised to help and invited her to my house.....I wanna bleep and possibly assist with wat I can buh needs advice on how to go about it.....thanks.

bulakos:
Op, there is this girl in my school at I secretly admired until recently I opened up to her friend, the friend gave me her number and simultaneously informed her about me. So two days later I called her and we strike a convo but unfortunately the call didn't last for more than a minutes before she interrupted and said she is coming she will get back to me, I waited the whole night but to no avail and I decided not to call back that same day beside today is two days since that happened...........your advice op.......I'm really into that girl

xxxtedyxxx:
you don't Wana start getting into or feeling attracted for a babe who is not invested yet.

keep your desires away, and master the process of getting her invested and attracted. focus on the process for now.

give her another, call. sound neutral, and never make any reference to the previous call. sound fun too.

feeling they say, is contagious.


tell me how it goes.

xxxtedyxxx:



Ok..no p..I call..it..Emotional Bomb..its basically an emotional spike. It shud be used wen d convo between u and d babe is goin fine. It can be spoken or written..asin during chat. Here is it... Its not compulsory u use it exactly.u can spice it up. Dis tecnique is kinda pyschological..it uses future projection and other covert tecniques that can influence behaviour.

You..: .hey de..<Funny nickname> gues what..

Her :..what...


You... Guess what am tinking

Her: what..# or sth like dat..or I can't gues



You... Am just tinking abt u wearing sth like a cute skimpy tyt gown...not to skimpty n tight doh.don't want guys staring @ ur ass.(Backside). And ur hair looking long and falling over d sides of ur face, while u r adored wit. Lovely earings, and some cute high heels to match...#but pls not too high oh...(Suprise smily or suprise face frome u) cos if u fall down..I won't carry u up oh...lolz....


Her-- wow...(Positive respons) # note she will most likely defend her sef concerning wearing heels n blah blah


I crafted dis routine ma sef and it works all d time..I av given it to most of ma friends and it always elicit a gud response.

U can always joke n tease her abt her respons. It works all d time.
Her :what

sokotoburundi:
bro i have this girl who i admire so much told her how i feel but she told me she prefers am her friends with no strings attached...but my chat up lines with her has been short and i wait for her to reply b4 i send her another msg coz i dont want to look desperate...so any tips?

xxxtedyxxx:
you don't Wana start getting into or feeling attracted for a babe who is not invested yet.

keep your desires away, and master the process of getting her invested and attracted. focus on the process for now.

give her another, call. sound neutral, and never make any reference to the previous call. sound fun too.

feeling they say, is contagious.


tell me how it goes.

deanxy:
OP before i say anything, i wud like to say you are doing a great jab,tryin 2 help brodas win. en kudos 2 all d brodas in d hauz.
i met dis lady at d ATM some 3mnths bck,got ha number den we started hangin out. initially i neva wantd ask d 'i want u 2 b ma gal' qustn, cos wen u do dat,u simply handova d power 2 dem en 80% of d time,they wud say no. bt i had 2 ask cos despite me arnd arnd ha as a bfrnd,she kept introducin me 2 ha frndz as ''he is my frnd' en she kept ringing my frnd,my frnd each time we 2geda or on call. so wen i finally ask ha out,she said it wnt work cos she is already in anoda relatnshp en she cnt double date bt she liks me as a frnd. en she ask if wat she said ws gonna change anytin en i said no. bt eva since den,i also gus wantd us 2 b frnd bt each time we meet i feel we dnt act lik frnds cos we hug,do touch plays,laf en all of dat en all dis maks me wanna hav ha as ma gal. so i dnt knw wat 2 do

xxxtedyxxx:
as e dey hot peeps.

Djboosting:
Been a while

dhayor58:
just got d right thread to ask for help

so there's this girl I met in church, we always stare at each other in church till I got d courage to ask for her no. But anytime I call her, our call doesn't last more than 2mins and she has travelled out if town for now and I'd be leaving for schl very soon too. Any help on how to make this girl mine

igboboy3:


Since you've already opened. She may or may not be interested in you. You have to find out. You may be staring at her thinking she likes you but she's staring at you wondering "Why is this dude staring at me?"

Your best bet is to make a move.

Tell her to hangout with you. Tell her, don't ask for permission
Set a definite time and place.
She may decline but if she's interested in you, she'll reschedule or find a way to hang out with you later.
If she simply says No, then you should forget her.