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Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 10:19am On Jul 17, 2014 |
xynerise:he who asks for good advice won't make wrong decision,so is either u drop an advice or you keep quiet,cos if I wanted to cheat y shld I ask for advice?I want u guys to understand that in the journey of marriage nobody knows it all. 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 10:25am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus:hey guy,you are harsh,its my wife we are talking about.I love her very very much. 25 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by xynerise: 10:27am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: he who asks for good advice won't make wrong decision,so is either u drop an advice or you keep quiet,cos if I wanted to cheat y shld I ask for advice?I want u guys to understand that in the journey of marriage nobody knows it all.Here on NL, people ask for advice even when they know what to do so I am not convinced Marriage is not that easy but we have to give reason for getting married to a person. Her beauty should go beyond the make-up you want. Do you prefer a woman who makes up and does not keep a strong christian faith or you prefer a woman who is beautiful from the inside and also spiritually strong? Your choice to make. Bro, seriously you don't need our advices to stop you from cheating. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Dygeasy(m): 10:28am On Jul 17, 2014 |
obayaya:I tried to bend right, left and low to view the issue from different perspectives and I still see NO CASE here. Her change in dressing and appearance should matter not. What if it were something worse? Say incapacitation or amputation of her body parts? What would he do then? It's hard, yeah but you signed up for all of that the moment you decided to get married. Marriage is NOT selfish! GERRIT!!! And @bolded, he hasn't overcome any temptation. He's still being tempted. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 10:31am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: hey guy,you are harsh,its my wife we are talking about.I love her very very much. Cool! First of all, accept my apology for my first post. Now can you lovingly call your wife and seat her down. Then talk to her about her new found religious zeal and its effect on your marriage. Tell her that she needs to switch up otherwise you may start getting tempted by other women outside and that cos you love her, you dont want none of that. After that, let her be. If she does not repent, then start playing away matches. #Remember: AlwaysPlaySafe. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Tannie(f): 10:37am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus: Are you married? 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 10:42am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Tannie: Who in her right mind would marry me? I am still sowing my wild oaths. 23 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by obayaya(m): 10:43am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Dygeasy: I tried to bend right, left and low to view the issue from different perspectives and I still see NO CASE here. Yeah, he's still being tempted that's why he needs all the help he can get right now. Ppl deal with changes differently. This man married a beautiful lady that takes care of her looks and all of a sudden she stops. He'll still see ladies who dress good just like the way his wife used to everyday. It may not be that easy for him to deal with as you do not know if his wife appearance was one of the major things he loved about her. Marriage isn't selfish.. Yes.. his wife ought to have put that into consideration too. Opening this thread means he really wants to save his marriage. 29 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 10:46am On Jul 17, 2014 |
obayaya: @ Highlight: Or he is just looking for someone to encourage him to cheat on his wife. #JustSaying. I do hoever, agree with most of your post. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by apolonius(m): 10:48am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Cheating is such a silly response to what you are bewailing bro. Take your time to show her hundreds of pastors and priests-so-called faith leaders-who do not joke with fashion. Also,use the Mary of Magdala pouring perfume on Jesus' feet as a foundation to a sound theology of fashion and how Christ even appreciated it. Listen to her reasons and give her hundreds of reasons including teachings by pastors like Myles Munroe and Dag-Edward Mills on the woman's beauty and fashion sense and its importance. Then,finally educate her on the effect or impact of her new 'no fashion' spirituality isd begining to have on your union. These should get her to change. Again,you can invite her to any of these churches were women come in high fashion- Living Faith,Christ Embassy,Worship Centre in Abuja,COZA and what have you. Women by their nature can't stop taking note of fashion in unusual places. She will be inspired to see what she is losing. Of course,good luck. 17 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 10:50am On Jul 17, 2014 |
l appreciate all the advice given,it makes me strong and opens my eyes more to understand something s which I didn't.by God's grace I will never cheat on her. 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 10:51am On Jul 17, 2014 |
apolonius: Cheating is such a silly response to what you are bewailing bro. He should take his wife to Churches like COZA? After what happened to Sister Efe Walters?! Why are you this wicked?! 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Ishilove: 10:54am On Jul 17, 2014 |
ammyluv2002: I understand your point....I sugguest you find a way to still love her like that cause if that's the way she has chosen to worship her God, it won't be fair for you to start cheating on her. I know guys have areas that gets them attracted to ladies but you don't really have a choice here rather you should support her and makke her feel loved.I agree with your post. I don't understand the Op's point. When he said 'doesn't want to do her hair', does he mean she leaves the hair unkempt or she has gone back to being natural and doesn't fix attachments and weaves again? I have a feeling it is the latter. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by obayaya(m): 10:54am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus: Lol!! That's a possibility tho. But that'll be silly of him. What he has with his wife is definitely worth preserving. I'm sure they'll sort things out. just that churchy people can be difficult to reason with. Especially the new converts wey the thing still dey shark 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Archildao: 10:57am On Jul 17, 2014 |
I dnt think spirituality stops one from looking good and smart.She may decide to go natural,but that shouldnt stop her from looking smart and tidy. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Nobody: 11:02am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.The BIG QUESTIONS you need to answer are: Why did you marry her? What attracted you to her? What are the things that caught your attention? I believe answering these questions will help facilitate better advice and response from us. |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Nobody: 11:11am On Jul 17, 2014 |
apolonius: Cheating is such a silly response to what you are bewailing bro.:-) Nice points. |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by blessedindeed: 11:12am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage. Honestly op you sound selfish. You mean u have considered CHEATING on your wife because she decided to walk/work with God the way she perceived it to be. Try it, the plaque of Pharoh and the Egyptians will be far better for you alone than the nemesis of the wrath of God on you if you try cheat on ur wife because of her new find faith. Advise : Try fall in love with Jesus Christ for real and maybe také ur wife to churches where there are real Women that preaches with good makeups and good dress sense (eg ) House on the Rock, TŘEM, David Christian Centre, DayStar, and my church Harvester International Church (HICC) She will encouraged to look real cute. Dont be doomed for these girls that open breast and panties walking along all angles looking for lifes to destroy. u will not appreciate what u hv now until u loss it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 11:14am On Jul 17, 2014 |
apolonius: Cheating is such a silly response to what you are bewailing bro.I have tried this suggestion of yours but she looks at those churches as though they are not practicing real Christianity,I will keep on talking to her til she changes or I will accept her like that.moreover the union is for better for worse 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 11:15am On Jul 17, 2014 |
obayaya: True Stoyy: Mans wife swtiches up and joins a Church and gets really close to her Pastor. Her husband still likes to sleep on Sunday morning and recover from Saturday nights hangover. Pastor starts praying personally for Wife as their relationship gets even closer. One Day, Pastor brings wife a vision; YOUR HUSBAND WANTS TO KILL YOU FOR WEALTH. Wife gets paranoid. Now everytime her husband jokingly says; I swear, to kill you dey hungry me sometimes' she sees it as a serious matter. Now, Wife is no longer living with her Husband. Pastor still visits her regularly for prayers. #TrueStory. That man needs to put a leash on his wife sooner than later before a Pastor becomes the head of his family. If a Man want his wife dressing like a stripper for him, then his wife should dress like a stripper. #The Man is the Head of the Woman, just like Christ in the head of the Church. 18 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by oieda: 11:23am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Me I thot the marriage was for better for worse. Toh, when she gets old and no makeup can make her look 'attractive' that means you will still cheat. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 11:28am On Jul 17, 2014 |
oieda: Me I thot the marriage was for better for worse. Toh, when she gets old and no makeup can make her look 'attractive' that means you will still cheat. For better for worse is not as simple as that. The man is in his sexual prime. His wife has decided to grow old faster than him. So if she wouldnt live up to her duties of satisfying her man, then ... 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Victornet: 11:29am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus: I don't mean to insult u. Please say something meaningful. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 11:36am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Victornet: You realize that the 'meaningfulness' or lack threrof of any subject is also subject to the 'comprehension capability' of the reciepient right?! Example: Mr. A reads a Shakespear book and calls it rubbish, Mr. B reads same book and calls it 'fine Art'. #NoInsultsIntendedEither. #Thanks. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Morotov1(m): 11:52am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus:You're a damn piece of work. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Emperortj93(m): 11:54am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus:i can't believe someone in his right frame of mind wrote this mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 11:57am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Morotov1: You're a damn piece of work. #GodBlessYouMyBrother. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by apolonius(m): 12:00pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: I have tried this suggestion of yours but she looks at those churches as though they are not practicing real Christianity,I will keep on talking to her til she changes or I will accept her like that.moreover the union is for better for worse For better or for worse does not mean you shouldn't be happy when you can be. Repeat it again and keep at it. God bless your union and the efforts. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 12:00pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Emperortj93: i can't believe someone in his right frame of mind wrote this Your problem started the moment you thought a Person with the Moniker 'Blockus' was in his/her right frame of mind. 17 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by apolonius(m): 12:02pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus: LOL! No na,e will go with her as an aggressive guard to break the head of that randy capitalist if he tries the Efe tricks na. Seriously,just a visit sha. |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Emperortj93(m): 12:08pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus:this post gat me laughing this early afternoon for no damn reason 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Emperortj93(m): 12:12pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Blockus:forgive me for not taking note of your moniker. Promise to do dat next time. Have a nice day ahead and thanks again for making to laugh hard dis early afternoon 2 Likes |
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