xynerise:
Exactly

Blockus:


OP!!

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

One day, take her by surprise, looosen your belt and whip her like a child that she is. And when you are done, give her an ultimatum; Return to factory default setting or move out.

Dont let any pastor become the head of your family. If your biitch isnt acting right, whip her or cut the biitch off.

And its okay if you cheat now, God would understand. If Virgin Mary looked like that, she would not had been God's babymama.

snowpe: he who asks for good advice won't make wrong decision,so is either u drop an advice or you keep quiet,cos if I wanted to cheat y shld I ask for advice?I want u guys to understand that in the journey of marriage nobody knows it all.

obayaya:

I don't think that's true.

The OP is going through a hard time adapting to his wife's sudden changes. And at such times, temptations abound. So far, he's been able to overcome the temptation.

He's only seeking advice on how to adapt to the changes as fast as possible and save his marriage.

The bolded is a rather harsh conclusion.

OP!!! Honestly I don't know what to tell you. I'm not married and I know very little about women and relationships. But I think you really need to remind yourself why you married your wife. The reasons you fell in love with her. I'm sure it's more than just her looks. look beyond that.

Goodluck

snowpe: hey guy,you are harsh,its my wife we are talking about.I love her very very much.

Blockus:


OP!!

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

One day, take her by surprise, looosen your belt and whip her like a child that she is. And when you are done, give her an ultimatum; Return to factory default setting or move out.

Dont let any pastor become the head of your family. If your biitch isnt acting right, whip her or cut the biitch off.

And its okay if you cheat now, God would understand. If Virgin Mary looked like that, she would not had been God's babymama.

Tannie:

Are you married?

Who in her right mind would marry me?

I am still sowing my wild oaths.

Dygeasy: I tried to bend right, left and low to view the issue from different perspectives and I still see NO CASE here.

Her change in dressing and appearance should matter not. What if it were something worse? Say incapacitation or amputation of her body parts? What would he do then?

It's hard, yeah but you signed up for all of that the moment you decided to get married.

Marriage is NOT selfish! GERRIT!!!

And @bolded, he hasn't overcome any temptation. He's still being tempted.

obayaya:

Yeah, he's still being tempted that's why he needs all the help he can get right now.

Ppl deal with changes differently.

This man married a beautiful lady that takes care of her looks and all of a sudden she stops.

He'll still see ladies who dress good just like the way his wife used to everyday.

It may not be that easy for him to deal with as you do not know if his wife appearance was one of the major things he loved about her.

Marriage isn't selfish.. Yes.. his wife ought to have put that into consideration too.

Opening this thread means he really wants to save his marriage.

@ Highlight: Or he is just looking for someone to encourage him to cheat on his wife.

#JustSaying.


I do hoever, agree with most of your post.

apolonius: Cheating is such a silly response to what you are bewailing bro.

Take your time to show her hundreds of pastors and priests-so-called faith leaders-who do not joke with fashion.

Also,use the Mary of Magdala pouring perfume on Jesus' feet as a foundation to a sound theology of fashion and how Christ even appreciated it.

Listen to her reasons and give her hundreds of reasons including teachings by pastors like Myles Munroe and Dag-Edward Mills on the woman's beauty and fashion sense and its importance.

Then,finally educate her on the effect or impact of her new 'no fashion' spirituality isd begining to have on your union. These should get her to change.

Again,you can invite her to any of these churches were women come in high fashion- Living Faith,Christ Embassy,Worship Centre in Abuja,COZA and what have you. Women by their nature can't stop taking note of fashion in unusual places. She will be inspired to see what she is losing.

Of course,good luck.

He should take his wife to Churches like COZA?

After what happened to Sister Efe Walters?!

Why are you this wicked?!

ammyluv2002: I understand your point....I sugguest you find a way to still love her like that cause if that's the way she has chosen to worship her God, it won't be fair for you to start cheating on her. I know guys have areas that gets them attracted to ladies but you don't really have a choice here rather you should support her and makke her feel loved.

Btw, thatz why is always good to fall in love with the someone from the inside and not because of the physical apperance cause you may get married to a queen today and by tomorrow her beauty is gone. We should be able to still love those we claim we love even if the person turns out to be a skeleton tomorrow, just take a clue from a mother's love to her child or even God's love to His children. Love should be unconditional. @OP, pls don't get me wrong o...I'm not making reference to you, just saying generally

Blockus:



@ Highlight: Or he is just looking for someone to encourage him to cheat on his wife.

#JustSaying.


I do hoever, agree with most of your post.

snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.
please moderator move this to front page for advice

apolonius: Cheating is such a silly response to what you are bewailing bro.

Take your time to show her hundreds of pastors and priests-so-called faith leaders-who do not joke with fashion.

Also,use the Mary of Magdala pouring perfume on Jesus' feet as a foundation to a sound theology of fashion and how Christ even appreciated it.

Listen to her reasons and give her hundreds of reasons including teachings by pastors like Myles Munroe and Dag-Edward Mills on the woman's beauty and fashion sense and its importance.

Then,finally educate her on the effect or impact of her new 'no fashion' spirituality isd begining to have on your union. These should get her to change.

Again,you can invite her to any of these churches were women come in high fashion- Living Faith,Christ Embassy,Worship Centre in Abuja,COZA and what have you. Women by their nature can't stop taking note of fashion in unusual places. She will be inspired to see what she is losing.

Of course,good luck.

snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.
please moderator move this to front page for advice

apolonius: Cheating is such a silly response to what you are bewailing bro.

Take your time to show her hundreds of pastors and priests-so-called faith leaders-who do not joke with fashion.

Also,use the Mary of Magdala pouring perfume on Jesus' feet as a foundation to a sound theology of fashion and how Christ even appreciated it.

Listen to her reasons and give her hundreds of reasons including teachings by pastors like Myles Munroe and Dag-Edward Mills on the woman's beauty and fashion sense and its importance.

Then,finally educate her on the effect or impact of her new 'no fashion' spirituality isd begining to have on your union. These should get her to change.

Again,you can invite her to any of these churches were women come in high fashion- Living Faith,Christ Embassy,Worship Centre in Abuja,COZA and what have you. Women by their nature can't stop taking note of fashion in unusual places. She will be inspired to see what she is losing.

Of course,good luck.

obayaya:

Lol!!

That's a possibility tho.

But that'll be silly of him.

What he has his wife is definitely worth preserving.

I'm sure they'll sort things out.

just that churchy people can be difficult to reason with. Especially the new converts wey the thing still dey shark

True Stoyy:

Mans wife swtiches up and joins a Church and gets really close to her Pastor. Her husband still likes to sleep on Sunday morning and recover from Saturday nights hangover.
Pastor starts praying personally for Wife as their relationship gets even closer.
One Day, Pastor brings wife a vision; YOUR HUSBAND WANTS TO KILL YOU FOR WEALTH.
Wife gets paranoid. Now everytime her husband jokingly says; I swear, to kill you dey hungry me sometimes' she sees it as a serious matter.

Now, Wife is no longer living with her Husband. Pastor still visits her regularly for prayers.

#TrueStory.

That man needs to put a leash on his wife sooner than later before a Pastor becomes the head of his family.
If a Man want his wife dressing like a stripper for him, then his wife should dress like a stripper.

#The Man is the Head of the Woman, just like Christ in the head of the Church.

oieda: Me I thot the marriage was for better for worse. Toh, when she gets old and no makeup can make her look 'attractive' that means you will still cheat.

Blockus:


OP!!

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

One day, take her by surprise, looosen your belt and whip her like a child that she is. And when you are done, give her an ultimatum; Return to factory default setting or move out.

Dont let any pastor become the head of your family. If your biitch isnt acting right, whip her or cut the biitch off.

And its okay if you cheat now, God would understand. If Virgin Mary looked like that, she would not had been God's babymama.

Victornet:

I don't mean to insult u. Please say something meaningful.

Blockus:


You realize that the 'meaningfulness' or lack threrof of any subject is also subject to the 'comprehension capability' of the reciepient right?!

Example: Mr. A reads a Shakespear book and calls it rubbish, Mr. B reads same book and calls it 'fine Art'.

#NoInsultsIntendedEither.

#Thanks.

Blockus:


OP!!

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

One day, take her by surprise, looosen your belt and whip her like a child that she is. And when you are done, give her an ultimatum; Return to factory default setting or move out.

Dont let any pastor become the head of your family. If your biitch isnt acting right, whip her or cut the biitch off.

And its okay if you cheat now, God would understand. If Virgin Mary looked like that, she would not had been God's babymama.

Morotov1: You're a damn piece of work.

snowpe: I have tried this suggestion of yours but she looks at those churches as though they are not practicing real Christianity,I will keep on talking to her til she changes or I will accept her like that.moreover the union is for better for worse

Emperortj93: i can't believe someone in his right frame of mind wrote this
mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Your problem started the moment you thought a Person with the Moniker 'Blockus' was in his/her right frame of mind.

Blockus:

He should take his wife to Churches like COZA?

After what happened to Sister Efe Walters?!

Why are you this wicked?!

Blockus:

True Stoyy:

Mans wife swtiches up and joins a Church and gets really close to her Pastor. Her husband still likes to sleep on Sunday morning and recover from Saturday nights hangover.
Pastor starts praying personally for Wife as their relationship gets even closer.
One Day, Pastor brings wife a vision; YOUR HUSBAND WANTS TO KILL YOU FOR WEALTH.
Wife gets paranoid. Now everytime her husband jokingly says; I swear, to kill you dey hungry me sometimes' she sees it as a serious matter.

Now, Wife is no longer living with her Husband. Pastor still visits her regularly for prayers.

#TrueStory.

That man needs to put a leash on his wife sooner than later before a Pastor becomes the head of his family.
If a Man want his wife dressing like a stripper for him, then his wife should dress like a stripper.

#The Man is the Head of the Woman, just like Christ in the head of the Church.

Blockus:


Your problem started the moment you thought a Person with the Moniker 'Blockus' was in his/her right frame of mind.