tosyne2much: yeah change of environment has elevated my level of exposure and life generally but I still I don't act stupidly... Wait first, ar you implying those exposures ought to have stopped me holding conversation or chill wit my tenants or my old-time frnds ?

xpensiv05: jst tryin 2be funny...... Lol I tink u re waitin 4 batch C rite?

tosyne2much: Time to change if you are guilty of this act

MadCow1:


Guilty of what Tosin?

tosyne2much: I hope you have not quoted to bash me oooo egbon ... I meant time to change for all those who fall in the category of this thread

You are my guyses..

I never attack you..





This thread is bullshiit.. ABSOLUTELY POINTLESS.. I expected you to see that.

Its like someone asking why have you changed between Primary and secondary school.. Because you are in a place of higher learning, more is expected of you.

MadCow1:

You are my guyses..

I never attack you..





This thread is bullshiit.. ABSOLUTELY POINTLESS.. I expected you to see that.

Its like someone asking why have you changed between Primary and secondary school.. Because you are in a place of higher learning, more is expected of you.

tosyne2much: woooooow is this coming frm a lady ? I owe you MTN 1, 500 recharge card for this... Gimme you fone number. Sharply

xpensiv05:
Grace,shuld I get u a job? A very 9c pay around ilrn

Arbiola: You're talking abt admission wen most of them change wen they enter ss1.

tosyne2much: This rubbishh is only peculiar to majority of Nigerian dummy ladies. I swear any lady that supports this act and see nothing wrong in it is dumb and immature . I also noticed that too... Most of my dudes back den in secondary sch still hold conversation till date even if it can neva be the way it used to be then but it shldnt drastically reduce the d extent of ignoring or not holding conversation with dem anymore... Most of those ladies are jst so dumb and myopic... They tend to change and start acting awkwardly because they lack insight, foresight and don't understand the principles of life... They presume it's the best measurement of class so they drastically change... How would you neglect or stop holding a conversation with your old-time frnds, neighbours or classmates because say you enta sch... To all the ladies with this silly mentality, its hightime you changed for beta.. There's no biggie in this admission of a thing... Just that when you are so dumb and immature, it triggers pride and oppression.. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN ORDINARY ADMISSION

Arbiola: You're talking abt admission wen most of them change wen they enter ss1.

tosyne2much: what kind of parable is this ? How does this fit in with what we are saying... With ur level of maturity, if someone should tell me this comment would come frm you, I would say its impossible.... So if I may comprehend what you are saying, so you are saying we have to forget or distance ourselves frm our old-time frnds and neighbours as a result of class abi ? You are the first person that would make me realize we have to throw our old-class mates and frnds in the bin as a reason of perishable parameters

tosyne2much: This rubbishh is only peculiar to majority of Nigerian dummy ladies. I swear any lady that supports this act and see nothing wrong in it is dumb and immature . I also noticed that too... Most of my dudes back den in secondary sch still hold conversation till date even if it can neva be the way it used to be then but it shldnt drastically reduce the d extent of ignoring or not holding conversation with dem anymore... Most of those ladies are jst so dumb and myopic... They tend to change and start acting awkwardly because they lack insight, foresight and don't understand the principles of life... They presume it's the best measurement of class so they drastically change... How would you neglect or stop holding a conversation with your old-time frnds, neighbours or classmates because say you enta sch... To all the ladies with this silly mentality, its hightime you changed for beta.. There's no biggie in this admission of a thing... Just that when you are so dumb and immature, it triggers pride and oppression.. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN ORDINARY ADMISSION

dmcdad:
Exactly! This is exactly the point. This is what people don't seem to get about this issue. Why is it not common with the men? Is it only women that move higher in life? If one were to do a rough stat about this, it would be somewhat safe to say the probability of this happening with a guy is 1 in every 10 guys. But for the girls, 8 in every 10 girls would fall for this.

And imagine, someone gave an analogy of big fish and whatever pond. Ohh crap! Some said it's due to change which is the only constant thing. Dang! Seriously? We use change as an escape route for everything which sometimes seem foolish. Some said it's natural that when you move higher in life, you throw away the people that were with you before going higher. And one begins to imagine that these people have brains to think. They fail to think outta the box. They fail to go beyond their horizon. This is not about change, neither is it about big fish in a small pond, nor is it about moving up the ladder blah blah blah. I'd repeat this; it's pure immaturity that is borne out of utter foolishness.

Now let's get this straight... If we attribute it to change, we would be saying it's normal that when you get to the next stage of life, then you forget about everyone else. But if this were true, why is it only common with girls? This would bring us to the reality of the fact that most (definitely not all) of these kids girls are very immature in nature and allow pride to get the better of them. And I would want to treat it as an admission-exclusive issue. I don't wanna stretch this to other facet of life, but wanna dwell more on the admission whatever because that seems to be the area this happens more often a lot.

If you attribute it to a big fish small blah blah blah... Does that mean because you have gained admission and for that others should be despised? And is life all centred on getting admission to the university first? If that were the case, how come Dangote is up there albeit he was never a renowned scholar? How come Phd holders were longing to become his drivers? If only they understand how things revolve, then they would pay less heed to their immature thoughts that are bourne out of foolishness and pride.

And for those who said it's only normal in regards to class. What is class? Can you say because you are now at the pinnacle of life, then your parents that raised you from the slums are no longer worthy to be called your parents? Of course you would say it's a different kettle of fish with parents since you can't obviously change your blood relations. But it goes more than that. You get to imagine that how come the people that stood by you in your darkness should automatically be nobodies while now in light? Now let's take a lesson from many professional footballers, many of whom I know their stories. These people have close friends as they move from lower divisions to higher divisions and even to the opium of their careers, yet many of them still have people they tag "childhood friends". Now this is a perfect epitome of loyalty. Take Neymar for example, when he signed his contract for FCBarcelona last year, there was an agreement he would be allowed to receive his childhood friends once every 2 months. Imagine the prospect of being with players like Messi, Xavi, Iniesta, Busquets, Piqué et al. what other calibre of people does he need in his profession that he ain't enjoying at Barcelona. Yet, he recognised the need for those he grew up with. Respect!

Now that was a challenge and is still a challenge, that whatever height I attain, I should be humble still. Even the Bible (Proverbs) attested to this; that the higher a man goes, the humbler he should be. The bottom line is; the higher you go, you add certain friends (probably better ones) and you drop some old friends (but not to the extent of having to not give the person a minute or two, at least to ask how the person is faring with life), and even though you have to drop some needless people, you don't drop everyone because your class is changed.

seyirock:
.wow dis guy don make my day...post of d month...

MrMash:

You dey share job ni?
I no mind oh

missdebs: a yoruba proverb says 20 friends cannot play for 20 years, d truth is change is always difficult but inevitable, if she doesnt reduce her closeness wit u wen she gains admission,she def would wen she gets married. Such is lyf.

MadCow1:

You are my guyses..

I never attack you..





This thread is bullshiit.. ABSOLUTELY POINTLESS.. I expected you to see that.

Its like someone asking why have you changed between Primary and secondary school.. Because you are in a place of higher learning, more is expected of you.

xpensiv05:
Yes oooo u can apply. Very attractive pay

Jamieb: Many of you must have observed this or even experienced it. Back in school then, thrz a female frnd will do talk almost everyday even on extra cool but the moment she gained admission she just switched off. Her character changed, and all that.
So many guys also complain that their gals change after gaining admission into schools. I dont know if to term it as one if the few ''madness'' of the female species cos after a while they will come back to beg for forgiveness.

dmcdad:
It's really childish. Simple! And it baffles me much that some so-called mature people would come up here to support this. Mehn, I sometimes wonder what maturity entails when I get to encounter such people one way or another.

People should understand that, there is an absolute tendency that you would always move higher in life. It's normal. The question that should linger in our minds would be; do we keep dropping and picking up new friends at every of those times? For the non - knowledgeable ones it would be a yes, but for the wise and reasonable ones, that would be a no-no.

Now I ain't saying one shouldn't make better company. That would be an awkward advise. But do we throw away the ones we had before making new ones, up till the extent of not having time to talk or spend even an iota of time with them? Now, that would be silly to say the least. Now, if these people add nothing whatsoever to you, I guess we could say it would be a different kettle of fish. But even at that, that shouldn't rid them of having at least 5minutes of your time to chat for old-time sake. Besides, the person you despise today might just turn out to be someone to be reckoned with tomorrow.

Wait a minute, how does it seem to people? You have a friend and because you move a step higher in the ladder then he/she is automatically alienated? For someone that is not a friend, it would be totally understandable. But for a close fellow, then it's immaturity that is borne out of foolishness.

temigracie: ...Just imagine this picture...

She was initially in a pond.....she was there with her mates...

Suddenly, she moved to a big river.....how do you think she s gonna behave??....She has changed levels ofcourse??....

Now, there are lots and lots of big fish in the river....will she remember her mates in the pond??....


Mba!!