martyns303:
some! the thing is, it is a 2 way thing. girls also do it, once they notice your falling heels over them, and some guys also take advantage when a girl is desperate and he his not feeling her.

OK I hear you ooo and are you handsome

KelvinGraphics:

Or wetin

Didn't I know you were gonna quote me immediately I saw your post above mine?

Thank God you didn't bring up the woMAN U ish

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striker9: I ugly pass obj ,oya now

hehehehe oya toast naa

OP you are super right. Just what I battle with most times

what about disadvantages of being ugly??

As in eh *phew* my previous chick was never at rest whenever we aint 2geda, God help me I'm too busy to read my pings she will immediately kill my battery with calls. Sometimes I find it difficult identifying with my pictures because some people will say it aint me. Also I tend to be very friendly with every girl cos I'm tired of hearing 'emperor forms a lot' I heard a lot of this in my university days. I begin to think I was cursed for having this good appearance even though I'm sure I'm just average

scobaba:


Shey ds one normal so?

lol. obote

so true about the jealous girlfriend and wife, I dnt even allow him come to my place that much, I prefer going to his place. I dnt want any frnd to snatch him from me

freshness2020:
Then Ūя̲̅ brothers and boyfriend will be brokers or they are ugly!
No offence please!

they are ugly see mumu question from mumu person **no offence please

prettythicksme: OK I hear you ooo and are you handsome

No am not handsome, but am "likeable", which is not the subject that we are discussing.

yet you dey cry follow dem up and down meanwhile that your lips na ebe ano o..

prettythicksme: most handsome guys are brokers cheaters good in yanshing,gay etc

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@topic, so so true. I hardly go out these days. Girls keep harassing me.. Honestly, its annoying..
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They're harassing you cos of your gangsterism not your look per se.

Pls drop a line that will make KelvinG leave woMAN U to Chelsea.

assfreak:

Ewo, na so dem dey do for Naija. 4 Liberia, na man dey spend for woman. Whether u be ugly abi fine woman, u go get man to spend for you.

Baba u dey Liberia?!.

hmmm...

djeezy: Presumed to be a player until proven otherwise. Well it depends on how you carry yourself. If you're seen with different ladies all the time. This can send the message. Attracting useless women, well who says the useless/ugly ones won't crush on you. Gay men staring? Like checking you out? Yuck! So annoying. Well I'm sure despite these disadvantages, people want to be handsome.

I disagree with ur first three lines, d op is rite, iv gon on several dates wit girls dat dnt know a tin about me and most of dem jst assume am a womanizer or playa rite frm d first date, it rilly is an issue. D op is rite in every word, speaking frm experience.

..and yes am handsome!

teeo:

Send me a pm you want an answer.

I don't know how to send pm**woman wrapper alert!!!hehehehee

@op,u r rite about ur points...esp the first "being assumed a player"....maybe because of my lovely smile..Lol..I remember some years back when I used 2 work as a computer operator in a cafe,my colleague once told me a lady confessed 2 him,her admiration 4 my 'looks' but was discouraged because she tot i had d face of a 'player'..Lol...but d truth is dat am no player....!!!

NellyGhenghen: This is totally true, the gay part, older women and girls you like not taking you seriously, especially the young lads. Every girl wants to flirt with a "fine boy" but most of em hesitate to get crious. We have a special zone called "They want you, but can't face the reality of having you" zone, cos they know lots of other girls are attracted to you and conclude you are just going to take them on a joli ride. In addition, we get constant hate n jealousy for nothing, jealous mates calling us gay, and some ugly girls giving us random dirty looks for absolutely no reason. And girls tend to play more games when the guy in question is handsome, cos they believe you think you can get any girl you want hence they dont want to be "one of those easy girls". I even feel more sorry for the handsome shy guys cos if you dont speak to anyone, no1 would speak to you, cos you are already prejudged as stuck up/full of yourself. We are human aswell tho

Spot on.

Kezifils: The curse men like us hav to liv wit.

dream on

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martyns303:
No am not handsome, but am "likeable", which is not the subject that we are discussing.

owkay

(Most) girls don't care about looks anymore. As long as you can get them the new Iphone 6.

prettythicksme: hehehehe oya toast naa

Ugly guys don't toast ,cos we already know the answer but I want an exception in ma case,I will just say this, Marry me,and I know we will live happily ever after.

I can't say I'm handsome but firstly my girl stared at me and said, "I wish you were less handsome!" MEHN!! I FROZE!!! The second time she stopped me from coming to their area with, "I'd come over when you want to see me."

so you have been a victim before... heeyaa...

prettythicksme: yes I dey burn self haba handsome guys worst
eehhn and they will even demand money from ladiea

Well, being handsome has made me too lazy to chase women, it's shortened my patience & persistence. It's getting worse as I get better looking with age.

Don't dare ask me for pics

I see guys chasing women ferociously, they're patient & persistent, and I want to be like those guys.

Gays are another of my problem, I've been hit on a couple of times by fa*ggots, at a former place of work, some guy started touching & complimenting me too much, he said I look like Will Smith. Initially I though nothing much of it as I though we were buddies (we even discussed a lot about chics) but when another colleague of mine witnessed what was going on, he told me to run for my life or rather to run for my as*s

His exact words "that guy is going to shag you, using sand as lubricant". It made for a good laugh.

Trust and less attention are the problems am facing sha........but that one they........especially when i tell them that am single,they never believe me......lolz........as for the gay guys i have had several encounters with them n its disgusting n irritating.......

hermesprogidy: yet you dey cry follow dem up and down meanwhile that your lips na ebe ano o..

hmmm what is the meaning of ebe anoo before I respond to that

prettythicksme: I don't know how to send pm**woman wrapper alert!!!hehehehee

Duh, a woman wrapper would send the pm.. i won't.. Oya run along

teeo: Disadvantages of being handsome: I saw this list somewhere online so i decide to add a few words to it.
1. Assumed to be a player- Women assume you're a player for no reason. They'll take you less seriously and question your motives the whole time. Its like infidelity is written all over you. Ladies make sentences like “who are you sleeping with now?” Like WTF.

2. Attracting useless women- Sure you attract more girls, but with the quantity comes a drop in quality. You'll constantly run into useless superficial women with no substance while the ones with substance are not phased or impressed by your looks. And trust me we don’t always like the pretty ones.

3. Amebor- Everyone's in your business and wants to know who you're sleeping with. Iya Basira on the street even warns her daughters never to cross your gate. On campus your name is on the lips of everyone, to make matters worse just be a little popular and you’re on every campus magazine. The amount of attention this person attracted troubled and confused her quite a bit. Everyone would know what you have done, not because of what you did but what you look like.

4. Older Women- Older women are pushy and aggressive and don't know when to turn it off. The worst part is the boldest ones are the ugliest more condemned cargo. You have a flock of obasanjo looking women constantly making you uncomfortable. The worst is they're openly biased towards you and will talk about you to everyone creating a lot of awkward tension and unwanted attention. Some would be like “Let me take care of you like a son”, biko does that involve servicing some parts..

5. Gays- Gay men stare at men the way men stare at women. It's annoying and infuriating and makes me want to fight but I'm not on so i refrain. Either way the worst part about it is gay men staring or trying to talk to you. So when a guy you think is straight glances at your arm or chest. Abomination. Once i got asked out by a gay dude, i had to stylishly turn him down, we’re great friends though.

6. Jealous Girlfriend- Your girlfriend or wife is always jealous, if she catches you smiling at a lady it’s almost equal to you sleeping with someone else. She feels so insecure, checks your phone, knows your plans and wants to follow you out on guys night. No matter how much you try to assure her, she still finds a reason not to trust you.
Guys who calm to be handsome on NL come and add yours ...

Source: http://www.nigeriafilms.com/news/19324/32/disadvantages-of-being-handsome.html

Spot on @op. I deal with these on a regular basis.

Logicalmindy: Sorry, none of these applies to me. Though, I get it on daily basis(exaggeration though) but it depends on how I handle myself.

I am not a girl or sex freak. I have important things to do in life than all that.

It's only when you are a flirt that you'll get yourself entangled.

The gay one pisses me off.

Then U aint Handsome bro...

Those point aint for Guerrillas....