softsparkyy: Severe se.xual frustration everywhere.

Evathyst: den let dem separate d 'ladies' 4rm d shaft. As 4 me, I don't request, bt if u give me i wont reject. Abi e get who no get needs?



Bt seriously, relationship shldnt be based on sex alone. Else, dt gal na 'corporate' ashi

Ezegozie:

You see that thing i am telling you.

Your body is the temple of God, yet you are in a relationship with somebody you know will not get married within 6yrs?

Your body is the temple of God, yet you demand from him everytime?

Your body is the temple of God, yet you may not be a virgin.

You read that very verse that said your body is the temple of God, but you are yet to read that very verse that says YOU DONT REAP WHERE YOU DIDN'T SEW.

Go and read that verse very well, you must sew before you reap

Dawezz: eeeeyaahhh sowi ooooo.....him eat the pkomo run? hope say you super glue that side tooo con bid ham with the blood of Jesus?

Truth24: I wonder ooo.... Me sef I don tire for everything about love and relationship, na book I dey face now....

cococandy: After they'll start looking for virgins.

Confused bunch

valdes00:
Mayb I will be different, mayb I am d right guy u av been waitin for, mayb u wil bliv in luv again because of me or mayb am d reason y u wil continue hatin al men... Who knws, MAYB....

MissMalia: na u go knw...c ya mouth lyk feel among.Shuld al relatnshp b based on Sex?

ronald4lif: Truth is, every relationship is based on interest so therefore depends on the interest of whoever you're in a relationship with. One can be attracted to someone coz they are good looking or rich or sex or character-wise, these doesn't mean they may not love them. Love doesn't just come out of the blue as some people may want us to believe. One first gets attracted to someone by apparently some features in that person before love crawls in. And that a guy is interested in sex with his girlfriend doesn't mean he doesn't mean he doesn't love her. There are other things a woman can bring in a relationship apart from sex but sex itself is very important and is the live-wire of any relationship.Without it a relationship can barely survive. What I am saying in essence is, most guys (if not all) can hardly maintain a relationship without sex and that to us is our top "interest".

Evathyst: Valdes my Padi! Ds one wey u dey follow me bumper to bumper. U want us to start washing our 'linens' here? Guy, calm down na. How e dey do u?

rahymat: u reason wit ur dicck

Olyboy16: I think a relationship should be of mutual benefits. I have an ideology and belief that its possible to make a woman love you so much that it will sometimes be difficult for her to live if she doesnt see you in a day!!
I believe if that "love" really did exist, your girlfriend would almost puke at the sight of any other man's unclothedness cos nufin would look as good as you are even if you are nt the muscular nd sexy type.
Wen we talk about relationships being biased and non-mutual as the OP stated, the first thing we should realy think of is dat is the love between both parties really "love"? Or just a situation where just due to self awareness and societal norm you think you need a girl/boyfriend cos all your friends and age group have one too? Is that love really true?
Most relationships today lack true love..ladies suffer most here cos they are usually at the recieving end.
But guys, i think the problem is with us! If you show your lady true love, care and companionship, i promise you, she wont go beyond your boundaries cos she'l knw she may not get anything better than you.
True love is not founded or built on sex, it is infact the complimentary part of it..and a compliment can always be avoided or 'postponed'.
Most guys are not matured enuf to handle relationships(age is not maturity) without being tutored one way or the other.
Infact, most nigerian guys start relationships without any prior education, meet your (successfuly married)dad or any likes, let him fill you with experience, let him tell you how love true looks like.
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Show your girlfriend true love, and she'll make you her king!
I've made lots of points to ponder on..

Royaltriplee: if u really mean "LOVE,"then d responsibility of the guy(for instance taking the girl out,buying her expensive gifts etc)should be vise versa.

Neatboy: I have been in such relationship so many times. Most of these ladies take these religious guys for granted because of their religious stands and moral compass. Most of my friends that always jagged these ladies always have them so loyal and attached immediately after sex. The real truth is that, if you've met a good and virtuous lady you'll realize that sex is just secondary. Relationship is like the two sides of same coin. Although it's not marriage, that's the more reason the efforts to sustain and maintain it should be from both sides. You can enjoy it without sex, believe it or not. Sex will not make you one with him/her, but trust, hope, faith, teamwork and love. Just try never to associate sex with love and you'll understand what I'm talking about.

link2ok:


With ur initial comments and d way yu look rilly totz yu wia responsible,bt ma dear yu re far from that. This is wat this post is abt,ladies lying n deceiving senseless men, cos me if yu dnt open that shit btwn ur legs then d door is alwz open for yu. Ladies deceivin men since d time of EVE

Evathyst: Not lyk dat! D guy was actually my course mate in d Univ(unknown to me bt planned by him). He played me all along til I fell in lov wit him, imagine dt kind carelessness. D day we met na him kasala burst, by den, he cldnt hide any longer.

Som guys ehn? Behaving lyk pple wey do I.T for devil side.

annoymous:
Lastly, my opinion is that the ultimate aim of any relationship, whether premarital or marital, is companionship and self improvement of both parties.

Ezegozie: I am really asking because i think some Boy's are being used to achieve financial needs.

Take for instance, a student that is probably not going to marry in the next 5yrs.
And he is in a so called relationship that does not involve sex or any romantic activities.
But he spends on her, he takes her out and pay for her private needs.

Let me ask you officially

what do you gain from such a parasitic relationship ?


If you are not into sex, because of religious purpose, then why are you into a relationship?

Why not save the money and give to the orphanage and receive blessings, if you are so
religious?

And for the girls, If you are not ready for sex before marriage, why are you ready for demanding from your boyfriend before marriage?

Orikinla: Most girls and women prefer guys who don't treat them as sex objects.
When you date any girl or woman in appreciation of her companionship, she respects you more and also gives you her most precious moments, including passionate love making. But when you behave like a dog always panting after her booty, she also treats you like a dog. And it is common to hear girls and women saying, "All he knows is sex. He has no brains". And she will dump you once she finds the guy who acts more from his brains than his loins.

Evathyst: Meet a nice man on a social network? Lyk seriously? God know sey I no go ever try am.
D last 'horrible' experience I had stil traumatise me sometimes. Imagine ds 'yeye' guy wey I fall for den wey fall my hand? Since den, I been don buy super glue one carton to dey use gum both my hrt, ears, eyes, nd.... U knw na

Truth24: I wonder ooo.... Me sef I don tire for everything about love and relationship, na book I dey face now....

donroxy: keep deceiving yourself !

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..