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Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by blaise26abj(m): 7:43pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
I think he is testing you. Someone that u have never had a fight with suddenly started misbehaving and telling u abt a particular girl he has been having sex with when u didn't catch him. He might just be getting ready to settle down with u and decided to test ur reaction to somethings. If the above hypothesis is true then it is a silly test. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by wax123(m): 7:44pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
is a painful one indeed after 5 gud yrs ....bt i will advice u to try and meet him face to face to sort out ds issue...evn if u guys will breakup afta dat...bt atleast get d reasons behind d whole change....he cud be dodging u cos he thinks u dnt deserve him cos of wat he did behind u ....who knws u guys can still iron tnz up...#real-love-dosnt-die |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Staru1(m): 7:54pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi: Sexytemi: IF you really want to attend the wedding, you should have call his sister before the wedding-day. since you didnt agree that he cheating, then accept ''he is chatting with you'' FREE THAT GUY. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by arinolaa(f): 8:00pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Forget the dude, he's obviously not serious. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Sanguine77(m): 8:15pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
VickyRotex:Agreed 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Classicman47(m): 8:20pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
EZEUDENE: How on earth do ppl just comment without ever thinking?? Oh, I get it. How culd u think when u are hurrying to type dis "ftc" sh!t. Smh |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Vick4rill(m): 8:27pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi:and yet he was unable to do dat for five years nw? When will u ever be serious wit lyf? |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Begonia(m): 8:27pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
MrTeymee: Fish brain 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Sexytemi(f): 9:21pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
xdunamis: I can be called anything but not a cheat, he also can testify to that, he was my first, n no other guy has ever and I mean ever slept with me, and he knows it, have been with him through thick n thin o, and he can also attest to that. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Sexytemi(f): 9:23pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
[quote author=xdunamis post=34499058]you are telling a one sided cellolanched story potraying yourself as the nice one but you are a demiurge. Such melanchohastic attitude from a guy can only be connected to karmalehandering - a payback response to a cheating girl. [/ I can be called anything but not a cheat, he also can testify to that, he was my first, n no other guy has ever and I mean ever slept with me, and he knows it, have been with him through thick n thin o, and he can also attest to that. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by pwerrymansion(f): 9:38pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Nicepoker:then you get a translator! Btw google is our friend |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by laykhorn(m): 10:00pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Tashaamania:Indeed funny! Thats weird, why would someone want to impersonate you. Cool sha, keep the vibe up. We're feeling you See you around |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by emmalezy(m): 10:29pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi: Force not urself on any man that disrespect u!! Move on with ur life coz time heals everything.. pin:2BC0453E Let's talk better |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by benedima1990(m): 11:05pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Guys knows where their heart belong...... |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by IYANGBALI: 11:12pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Amazo:yes o |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by HARDDON: 11:16pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
younghartz: And to think this sermon came from a guy? ! Son how old r u? Havent you heard? The best of gold comes from d furry furnace? Any gurl that listen to this fat thrash, is headed for a long lonely life, with a huge hope on hand, waiting for Mr right! Such a gurl shld be ready for a whole lot of test meters probing n dumping. Matters of the heart ain't about rule n cut, Listen to your small still voice...therein lies ur answer. Sometimes, mistakes happen, If he genuinely repents, hang in there, don't throw away every treasure because they've got some dent on da surface It is obvious, son, u haven't met gurls on mission. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by younghartz(m): 11:24pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
HARDDON:Lmao Father!! No one is talking about mr right here |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by olayinkaj2(m): 11:26pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Then dump his sorry ass, he doesn't deserve you. Some guys/men don't value what they have until they loose it. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by skyfullofstars(f): 12:02am On Jun 07, 2015 |
Hello sexytemi. I believe that we, the human beings, were born to contribute to this world, to make life more pleasant, not to ruin other people lives. If our parents gave birth to us, if God wanted us in this world, it's for a reason. No man or woman has the right to hurt you or anybody, or to disrespect you or be rude to you, in no aspect of life. Be it friendship, love relationship, in your job, school, nowhere. I don't why the ladies, including myself, we tend to accept as normal that guys will or could cheat on us. And it's not normal, it's not acceptable, as we would not accept any other form of lack of respect towards us. So why do we think that cheating is "OK"? Why when we see that our boyfriend is cheating, consider forgiveness? As long as a man loves you, there should be no reason to cheat. If love is strong, he shouldn't even cheat in the distance. Isn't life after all, about making efforts to succeed? That includes love. The way this man treated you is unfair, do not give him another chance, because a relationship is based on love and respect, something I can't see here. If you are looking for a partner for life, make sure you meet someone that is heading the same way, and looking for the same. Take your time to get to know the guy before going to bed, make sure you two are compatible, and when the moment arrives get married. Why do we waste our time with people that hurt our feelings? Hurting feelings is equal to being a bad person. Make up your mind, you are valuable, don't call him again, do not pick his calls, start a new life from today, free yourself from this burden, life is too short to waste time on things that don't matter. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by charmingeyes(m): 5:56am On Jun 07, 2015 |
Sexytemi: Sexytemi, whatever u decide concerning the status of d relationship, try to forgive. What do I mean? You can decide not to go on with him(which is normal based on d scenario u painted), but forgiveness is very vital for u to move on. It enables u to overcome any heaviness in ur hrt. Again, whatever decision u make, let it come from d hrt after u have searched ur hrt properly. I hate haphazard decisions many ladies make after which u see them licking their vomit. I wish u d 'strong hrt' and mental strength to stand by ur decision. Only forgive. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 6:26am On Jun 07, 2015 |
VickyRotex: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by DrGroove(f): 6:31am On Jun 07, 2015 |
Five years relationship? WHO DOES THAT? Anyway,Dude is fed up,has had enough and has moved on. stop embarrassing urself and get the message. He even had the guts to throw his escapade in ur face and still "form" for you. Am ashamed u are still asking questions Btw,whoever told you only your kittycat can satisy a man is a liar from hell... Take heart n forget abt the guy. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Godson201333(m): 7:38am On Jun 07, 2015 |
Brugo: Bros i tire oo...Bt some guys are wicked sha cos five years no be beans ... |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Whobedatte(m): 7:53am On Jun 07, 2015 |
strenghtofawoman:wisdom |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Blitz888(m): 8:00am On Jun 07, 2015 |
Sexytemi: What worries me most in your post is not that he had sex with another lady (cos it could be nothing but a one time mistake) but the frequency of the act and his unabashed lack of remorse. That dude has no respect for you and will most likely continue in his philandering ways. Imagine him blaming it on you... Its high time you took a walk for good... he doesn't deserve you and will continue to drive you to the edge of the precipice with his ways. Save yourself the regrets that are sure to come in future and do the needful. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by frankcell(m): 8:05am On Jun 07, 2015 |
Something is wrong and you got to find out Since you've not had issues with him for the past years |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Staru1(m): 8:07am On Jun 07, 2015 |
Godson201333: Think of this bros b4 you tire! It's not matter of 5yrs, how old was dis lady before d started dating?probably,they met in secondary days,either of the two is furthering his/her education! If the lady was 14yrs+5yrs=19yrs,she was deflowered by the guy. Age is not the matter. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by EZEUDENE(m): 8:13am On Jun 07, 2015 |
Classicman47:so wats wrong with wat I said I thought everybody is entitled 2 his opinion or am I dey only one dat said dey should try and sort tins out moreover mind u I modify wat I said so plz lemme be thanks |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Nobody: 8:22am On Jun 07, 2015 |
ginawest:Sorry my sister, fish no dey plenty this days oooo |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by jedyjedy(m): 8:24am On Jun 07, 2015 |
It's game over Sis; end of d relationship. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Classicman47(m): 10:11am On Jun 07, 2015 |
EZEUDENE: Sorry about dat. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by SirDorianGray(m): 10:50am On Jun 07, 2015 |
youmour: Bros u wicked oo |
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