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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by donbenedict(m): 9:01am On Jul 12, 2015
deavicky:
Yes. During my days in school, I used to ve this friend success. She had accommodation problem so she move in with me for one semester. We slept on the mattress for that period and nothing happened. Though she felt bad about it, like maybe she not attractive to me. but I call that discipline. And not to take advantage of her even if she may had had wanted.
discipline yes, buh sharpness, no..

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by olashas(f): 9:02am On Jul 12, 2015
donbenedict:
Can a boy and a gurl sleep on d same bed and nothn will happen?
It's very possible
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Kolade354(m): 9:03am On Jul 12, 2015
misspicy:

Am hurt by this post.Op tell that girl to move out of ur auz b4 u rape her.its gonna end in rape.
The world is so polluted this dayys that men cannot help women out of their free will.but rather what they can get frm a woman.vice versa.
That girl is still a teenager or she might not be exposed yet.am sure she is a fresher.
I wish I had her contact to talk some sense into her,she needs advice.
Am so pissed of right now.NL boys you guys are a disappointment to the human race with all the useless advice yu gave dis guy.
Shut-Up
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by agrovick(m): 9:04am On Jul 12, 2015
IamLEGEND1:


badt man doesnt indulge in any fantasy or fallacy, mate.
#TrueStory
but me just dey try relate to the O.P.
Issoright, living up to your moniker right
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Kolade354(m): 9:04am On Jul 12, 2015
olashas:

It's very possible
Shut-Up
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by donbenedict(m): 9:04am On Jul 12, 2015
olashas:

It's very possible
would u like it if d guy u like sleep wit u and nothn happens?
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by agrovick(m): 9:04am On Jul 12, 2015
cheesy
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by olashas(f): 9:07am On Jul 12, 2015
Kolade354:
Shut-Up
Lolz. Why are you pissed off? The fact that you can't lie on the same bed with a girl without touching her does not mean some guys don't. There are still honourable guys out there, you know. tongue

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by olashas(f): 9:09am On Jul 12, 2015
donbenedict:
would u like it if d guy u like sleep wit u and nothn happens?
No biggie. I have guy friends who don't take advantage of girls.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Kolade354(m): 9:11am On Jul 12, 2015
olashas:

Lolz. Why are you pissed off? The fact that you can't lie on the same bed with a girl without touching her does not mean some guys don't. There are still honourable guys out there, you know. tongue
The stuppid gurl will tell me what she is doing with a guy.............If she can't Squat with another gurl then she deserve to be Banged Hard....................
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by olashas(f): 9:15am On Jul 12, 2015
Kolade354:
The stuppid gurl will tell me what she is doing with a guy.............If she can't Squat with another gurl then she deserve to be Banged Hard....................
grin grin grin grin
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by islandmoon: 9:17am On Jul 12, 2015
olashas:

grin grin grin grin

whats funny? young lady??
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 9:21am On Jul 12, 2015
In phyno's voice..

This is nonsense, it is obvious inwero conscience.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 9:24am On Jul 12, 2015
Deexxy:
Op if you can't keep a woman in your house without seeing her as a means to satisfy your sexual urge please kindly tell her to leave.

You're definitely taking advantage of her. Women are weak and they can easily fall for such advances.
truely

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by olashas(f): 9:25am On Jul 12, 2015
islandmoon:


whats funny? young lady??
Read the post of the guy I quoted grin
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by islandmoon: 9:28am On Jul 12, 2015
olashas:

Read the post of the guy I quoted grin

interprete it to me, am a child, you know i will only be turning 18 tomorrow! ki lon so?
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by olashas(f): 9:30am On Jul 12, 2015
islandmoon:


interprete it to me, am a child, you know i will only be turning 18 tomorrow! ki lon so?
You don't need to know since you are still a minor tongue. I'll tell you tomorrow grin
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by islandmoon: 9:36am On Jul 12, 2015
olashas:

You don't need to know since you are still a minor tongue. I'll tell you tomorrow grin

damn! i shouldnt have lied, tell me now.. anyway, cute girl, am now following you on nairaland and you can do same.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by obichiekweibe59: 9:41am On Jul 12, 2015
Bros, imagine this scenario: a babe dreeses sexy,visits u without being invited,makes seductive moves at you which leads to banging.While d 2 of u are at it,she enjoys all the action but what does she do?SHE CRIES and moans as if you are taking advantage of her.
DO YOU BELIEVE THAT IF THIS GIRL DOES NOT FEEL ANYTHING FOR YOU,SHE WIL EVR CONTEMPLATE LIVING WITH YOU.I bet you as soon as you enter once,she will kill you with it if you dont take time.WOMEN CAN PRETEND.Just send her away because her BF still lives within.She wants to use you get back at the guy.Infact bang her and send her waway.The hostels are there for her or female friends can help her,To hell with her tears joo.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 9:43am On Jul 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Op sori to say bt u are a terrible liar,what abt the b.f?u tink he is dumb ah?so the guy accept to his g.f staying in anoda guy room without tinking twice? The gal allowed u to romance her even when she knew her b.f is in dat same house? They have misunderstanding so she packed out? Guy ur lie is outdated...am nt falling for this.

Why not comprehend the story b4 commenting. From what I read, they had misunderstanding and she asked for approval b4 leaving d house
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by AmarachiOnuoha(m): 9:46am On Jul 12, 2015
MzOnajin1:
Lol, no u were not taking advantage, u were only making use of d opportunity
Lol. ur funny
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by 2goodbobo(m): 9:46am On Jul 12, 2015
Everybody Aboki with his own grin kettle.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by AmarachiOnuoha(m): 9:52am On Jul 12, 2015
yilly:
ask ur "John Thomas" to stay calm. and u shouldn't Hv ignored her like dat, she will definitely think dat way, even I, would do dat.
Body no be firewood abeg.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by gabe: 10:02am On Jul 12, 2015
Samfigo1:
Nairalanderz I hail thee....
Goodday everyone , I want to share what I am going through at present, I want your advice or better still judge me I could be wrong with my action.
I have been cohabiting with a lady for a week now, before I move on let me share how the cohabitation began.
This girl came to our house when she was seeking admission to a school close to my house, one of my housemates accommodated her, he claimed the girl was his girlfriend, eventually, the girl got admitted into the school and started living with the guy but after two weeks they had misunderstandings the girl had no where to go, this lady in question since she came into the house I have taken her as my sister and my friend so we had good rapport. After the misunderstanding with her boyfriend she walked up to me and told me she wanted to leave her boyfriend's room for my room and that it won't last long just for mean time I concurred with immediate alarcrity I told her no qualm after consulting her boyfriend about her plan, the guy said he has no problem as regards her plan. The following day she packed her things inside my room, I thought I was dreaming, I started mulling on what to do, someone I have taken as my sister chei! Kongi na bastard you know now.... I kept calm, that night we were discussing she started telling me stories on the same matress with me, suddenly, I kept mute I was not responding to her super story I was even facing down because I was trying to pack my John Thomas I didn't want her to see the kind of press up it was performing, she thought I had slept so she kept quiet. After few minutes I did as if I jarupaing Lol. pardon me sleep walking or unconcious turning anyhow (you should have understood) I put one of my hands across, lo and behold it rested on her bossoms I was thinking she would throw away my hand but she didn't, that was why I drew her closer and we started kissing, pressing and the likes but whenever I wanted to go down low she would say stop and I would sluggishly take my hand off her, after 4-5 days I could not control the urge, I said to myself tonight I must enter this girl, when night came we started as usual when I was about going down she said stop I did as if I didn't hear, I was trying to unclothe her, she was still saying stop but I turned deaf ears when I was about to remove her undies she started crying profusely I was like what the hell! Did I beat you? She did say a word other than crying after few seconds she said ''it's because I'm staying here'' my blood that was flowing for 140km/min just slowed down and I left her on the matress and slept off. The following day she did not leave and this sexual urge was unresistable. Nairalanders am I taking advantage of her? or was she trying to form? If I asked her to leave she has no place to go what can I do?
U know u are. She'll Bleep u if she wants. No means no.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by MrDoGood(m): 10:06am On Jul 12, 2015
oochi123:
. Oh my God. U re such a nice man. Feel like crying now. Some of us have stories to tell in the future wen it comes to accommodation. Its gud to be gud cuz it pays. Also experienced something similar in de university then. bt tnk God for some gud n mature guys out there.Enjoy ur Relationship wit dat wonderful family.ve a blessed Sunday.
Thanks dearie and happy Sunday to you too.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by 49cents(m): 10:08am On Jul 12, 2015
Samfigo1:
Nairalanderz I hail thee....
Goodday everyone , I want to share what I am going through at present, I want your advice or better still judge me I could be wrong with my action.
I have been cohabiting with a lady for a week now, before I move on let me share how the cohabitation began.
This girl came to our house when she was seeking admission to a school close to my house, one of my housemates accommodated her, he claimed the girl was his girlfriend, eventually, the girl got admitted into the school and started living with the guy but after two weeks they had misunderstandings the girl had no where to go, this lady in question since she came into the house I have taken her as my sister and my friend so we had good rapport. After the misunderstanding with her boyfriend she walked up to me and told me she wanted to leave her boyfriend's room for my room and that it won't last long just for mean time I concurred with immediate alarcrity I told her no qualm after consulting her boyfriend about her plan, the guy said he has no problem as regards her plan. The following day she packed her things inside my room, I thought I was dreaming, I started mulling on what to do, someone I have taken as my sister chei! Kongi na bastard you know now.... I kept calm, that night we were discussing she started telling me stories on the same matress with me, suddenly, I kept mute I was not responding to her super story I was even facing down because I was trying to pack my John Thomas I didn't want her to see the kind of press up it was performing, she thought I had slept so she kept quiet. After few minutes I did as if I jarupaing Lol. pardon me sleep walking or unconcious turning anyhow (you should have understood) I put one of my hands across, lo and behold it rested on her bossoms I was thinking she would throw away my hand but she didn't, that was why I drew her closer and we started kissing, pressing and the likes but whenever I wanted to go down low she would say stop and I would sluggishly take my hand off her, after 4-5 days I could not control the urge, I said to myself tonight I must enter this girl, when night came we started as usual when I was about going down she said stop I did as if I didn't hear, I was trying to unclothe her, she was still saying stop but I turned deaf ears when I was about to remove her undies she started crying profusely I was like what the hell! Did I beat you? She did say a word other than crying after few seconds she said ''it's because I'm staying here'' my blood that was flowing for 140km/min just slowed down and I left her on the matress and slept off. The following day she did not leave and this sexual urge was unresistable. Nairalanders am I taking advantage of her? or was she trying to form? If I asked her to leave she has no place to go what can I do?

the girl has no business co habiting with biys at all

you, her boyfriend and she need better brain

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by islandmoon: 10:08am On Jul 12, 2015
MzOnajin1:
Lol, no u were not taking advantage, u were only making use of d opportunity
am so disappointed in you and you comment as a woman, do you even wear panties? i read your only post on nairaland and it says a lot about you



it read...

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY,
Have noticed most guys complain about we girls, that we are too demanding. We don't what to do to make them happy, so my dear ladies I compiled 8 ways for us to make guys happy. 1. Don't ask for money! 2.Forget about asking for money! 3.Never mention the word "MONEY" 4.Don't even think about money! 5.Reject when he gives you money 6.Be very mad at him if he tries to give you money. 7.Warn him you will break up with him if he tries to give you money. 8.Threaten him you will commit suicide if he ever tries to give you money.


what is your point?

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 10:09am On Jul 12, 2015
Kylez:
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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by MrDoGood(m): 10:12am On Jul 12, 2015
nebukadnezzari:


This your story sorry experience is far different from what the op is going thru. Your moniker is the only thing holding me back from giving you a hailstorm of bashing. You know the type that Moses unleashed on Egypt.
The person the op is trying to take advantage of might just be your future wife or someone close.
We should always treat people with utmost respect and care. They're at your beck and call now doesn't mean life ends there.
Anyway, thanks for not bashing me.

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by eromspete(m): 10:18am On Jul 12, 2015
No matter how you tell your story, you're actually taking advantage.

On the bolded below, your hand did not fall on her bosoms by mistake and you know it. Oga chill undecided


Samfigo1:
Nairalanderz I hail thee....
Goodday everyone , I want to share what I am going through at present, I want your advice or better still judge me I could be wrong with my action.
I have been cohabiting with a lady for a week now, before I move on let me share how the cohabitation began.
This girl came to our house when she was seeking admission to a school close to my house, one of my housemates accommodated her, he claimed the girl was his girlfriend, eventually, the girl got admitted into the school and started living with the guy but after two weeks they had misunderstandings the girl had no where to go, this lady in question since she came into the house I have taken her as my sister and my friend so we had good rapport. After the misunderstanding with her boyfriend she walked up to me and told me she wanted to leave her boyfriend's room for my room and that it won't last long just for mean time I concurred with immediate alarcrity I told her no qualm after consulting her boyfriend about her plan, the guy said he has no problem as regards her plan. The following day she packed her things inside my room, I thought I was dreaming, I started mulling on what to do, someone I have taken as my sister chei! Kongi na bastard you know now.... I kept calm, that night we were discussing she started telling me stories on the same matress with me, suddenly, I kept mute I was not responding to her super story I was even facing down because I was trying to pack my John Thomas I didn't want her to see the kind of press up it was performing, she thought I had slept so she kept quiet. After few minutes I did as if I jarupaing Lol. pardon me sleep walking or unconcious turning anyhow (you should have understood) I put one of my hands across, lo and behold it rested on her bossoms I was thinking she would throw away my hand but she didn't, that was why I drew her closer and we started kissing, pressing and the likes but whenever I wanted to go down low she would say stop and I would sluggishly take my hand off her, after 4-5 days I could not control the urge, I said to myself tonight I must enter this girl, when night came we started as usual when I was about going down she said stop I did as if I didn't hear, I was trying to unclothe her, she was still saying stop but I turned deaf ears when I was about to remove her undies she started crying profusely I was like what the hell! Did I beat you? She did say a word other than crying after few seconds she said ''it's because I'm staying here'' my blood that was flowing for 140km/min just slowed down and I left her on the matress and slept off. The following day she did not leave and this sexual urge was unresistable. Nairalanders am I taking advantage of her? or was she trying to form? If I asked her to leave she has no place to go what can I do?

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by MrDoGood(m): 10:19am On Jul 12, 2015
SkinnyDude:
your story is nice. but, bro. that was then. the world has changed.
people take advantage of nice people, especially girls. i have been there before. i now perceive every girl like a criminal
Bro don't stop doing the right thing. Those that will laugh at you because you're doing the right thing ain't really mature enough and don't know what life is all about.
There're good people out there, please don't remove yourself from the list.

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Brytawon(m): 10:33am On Jul 12, 2015
Only GOD can judge

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