Naija ladies should stop visiting guys at the guy's homes but will dey listen? NO. Tomrw they will cry that they are being raped.
If you want us to see, let us meet in an open place and not an eatery like the hungry OP (typical hungry naija girl) stated.

Na kongi

You are absolutely right and spot on!!!A word is enough for the wise!!!!

vickylala239:



Sometimes I wonder why people don't like saying the truth.

You Whr raped 3 good timez,here u are saying I escape the 1st person,blah blah d 2nd person beg,3 person did dis or Dat.


Nigerian gelz. Wat is hard for u to say Dat u Whr raped After all nobody knows u here.say the truth n shame the devil.

U b witch? 1St pushed Mi dwn n didnt, 2nd person beg n didn't.

Whr on earth will a guy wnt to rape a gel n he will start by touching.Chai dis gel wit lies.rape has to do wit force.


Dem Dey rape wit condom? Whr u wan get tym wear d tin.Chai lies ohh

Person Whr wan rape u Dey romance?. Chai y Nt tell us d truth

Haba na

WOMEN AND FISH BRAIN, GOING BY HER SUPER STORY,

I BET SHE ENJOY THE RAPE


NONSENSE! COMING HERE AND BE FORMING LIES

misspicy:

Whatever way u try to degrade my replies,dats ur business in short ur cup of akamu,buh I still maintain until I sleep off tonyt dat a woman's NO is no,even if she has started giving u a head,u still have no right to rape her,and rape is still not justified

Good. No is no then. Let it rest.

biz2get:
Are we coming to visit your parents or Just you?? Why must your parents be around ?? Is it a family meeting ??

Just my 2cents

You must be a rapist! Why would you desire visiting lady alone at home? At least her parents can be somewhere else in the house and give you space for your conversation but they must be at least in the same building(House)

classicB:

You're just a random.teenager with a low IQ.
Go off.this thread if you know you're too small to comprehend

Bitch next time learn to honour agreements,you might not be lucky,people like you will chop someone money in and start vomiting money...

Osho free things,that how an olosho lives and maintain her life with....osho free

wordbank:

You said it! It's ridiculously annoying reading or listening to victims side of the story. 'hin say make I come collect akara but when I reach dia naim I c say no b beans dem take fry am' RUBBISH!
God go bless and protect you my dear for wetin u talk

Girls should not visit guys!

gdrfgu

That moment when u friendzone a guy....and he gets u by force...!

You have a very valid point. Am sure many ladies have been molested during innocent visits to guys houses. However, you made it sound as if all guys are molesters. I had many female friend visit me while in school and never for once molested any, some even slept over several times, though I had to vacate my room whenever I had a female friend sleep over (for obvious reasons). I know many guys who had female visitors and neva for once molested them. On the general I will agree with you that a lady should limit and if possible desist from visiting guys

Dharniel:
those guys molested you buh they didn't have their way.
to me, when it comes to rape the two parties are guilty but that's not always true cuz at times the lady raped might just be completely innocent.
op, there's something you've gotta always remember which is "NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME", we still have good eggs among us buh nah the bads ones full market, so i put it to the ladies to be watchful and very careful...

"to me, when it comes to rape the two parties are guilty"

Wrong. The innocent party is the victim, the rapist is the guilty one.

Nawa

Brugo:

Good. No is no then. Let it rest.

Yea NO is NO...it shuld rest.

No mata how much am beaten to brk,i wuld rada bend buh nvr gonna brk......

u hookup wit the wrong guy.... How e take affect chelsea from winning bpl dis season again? ....abi u dey advertise lesbianism folks....
N*nesen*se

classicB:

I.do have a boyfriend and we've been together for a long time now. He's the only guy I trust with myself

So why are u visiting other guys? Are u saying u do not have a slight hint that those 3 guys that invited you to their house have attraction or feelings for you?

Mznaett:
Op,God bless you for putting this "devilish act" an average girl faces into writing.

I've been a victim several times and believe me it wasnt not funny.

The latest that just happened to me was when a course mate of mine asked me to come help him prepare something as usual,I went and after eating, I was abt leaving but he got hold of me and threw me on top of his bed. Imagine? This was a guy I took as a friend not knowing he was a monster.
After much struggling though he was stronger I managed to escape
since then,I had to set up my own policy o

why wouldn't u say u escaped

ORALL:


Bitch next time learn to honour agreements,you might not be lucky,people like you will chop someone money in and start vomiting money...

Osho free things,that how an olosho lives and maintain her life with....osho free

You attract your type of personality. I can see clearly that u move with olosho

Dharniel:
those guys molested you buh they didn't have their way.
to me, when it comes to rape the two parties are guilty but that's not always true cuz at times the lady raped might just be completely innocent.
op, there's something you've gotta always remember which is "NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME", we still have good eggs among us buh nah the bads ones full market, so i put it to the ladies to be watchful and very careful...

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I think loss of self-control is no excuse before the law.

If a girls say no, it's no. Even if already penetrated, if she changes her mind, you must pull out. Difficult but she has the right over her body.

Sure it's a bit confusing for guys to decipher if a girl is playing hard to get or simply honestly saying no. To be on the safe side, err on the side of caution and take it as a no.

I had a young girl once and we did everything except penetration. She just said no. You wonder with all we have done so far, how much difference will sex make? But she obviously thought otherwise. It's her body. She wasn't a virgin. We had dated for about two months.

Another girl just got dumped by her bf. Her gf who liked me so much and had advised her to dump the guy and follow me months earlier.
I liked this girl a lot. Her gf now called me to go help her overcome the split.
We slept in the same bed all nite. Again did everything but no penetration. Being a Caucasian girl, she could have even enjoyed the sex and yet call you olokpa the next day. That will be 7 years minimum in jail. Abeg them nor use sex swear for me.

ALL THE GUYS SUPPORTING RAPE AND COUNTERING THIS THREAD ARE RAPIST!

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

Why will guys Nt rape dem.

Wen Dey now wear clothes Without bra,infact booobs is normal tin.

Since wen did u hear Dat bones Whr drop for a dog n he decline it.

Wen u gel Nw wear see tru n u Xcept guys Dat cn c tru u Nt to penetrate

Why find trouble.

Booobs was suppose to Hv case Jst Lik phone case.

Ass was d same tin.

So oyibo no knw Bfr dem produce braa n pant.

Some tin u shuld hid u Dnt hid,u will see group of guys Na Dat place u go wan Pass wit ur booobs Without Cassay.wen Dey tap ur asss u go begin shout stop. IdDiiot.


Wat u shuld wear in ur room, wen u see David Na Dat tym u go remember say u suppose wear am.


Una Neva see Anytin yet Sum time guys no go near room or private place to rappe again Na for open,After all goat no Dey enter room go do am.


If Una no enter guys rum n for street e go Dey hppn.
Iddiot

berbz:
[b]The point is that ladies who form too hard to get always be a victim of rape, if u are nice and free, n one will molest u not even to talk of rape u, u will be everybody's friend. Don't know why ladies always form what they are not. Nkan to ma n koya je wan niyen.

Why should they rape in the first place?

classicB:

You attract your type of personality. I can see clearly that u move with olosho

bitch shut up,I move with olosho because they render professional services,not like you who is just starting from being bribed with food for sex..hungry bitch

davidque007:
You have a very valid point. Am sure many ladies have been molested during innocent visits to guys houses. However, you made it sound as if all guys are molesters. I had many female friend visit me while in school and never for once molested any, some even slept over several times, though I had to vacate my room whenever I had a female friend sleep over (for obvious reasons). I know many guys who had female visitors and neva for once molested them. On the general I will agree with you that a lady should limit and if possible desist from visiting guys

Bros, the women are at fault let's be honest...I know of a guy that the lady came to visit him and spent a night there..The guy didn't touch her throughout.. The next day, the same lady tagged the guy as a novice or jew man (somebody were no sharp)..She stated that she expected the guy to make advances at her but slacked...Now if the same guy made advances they will be the same edioots that will be shouting rape.

no doubt. I know some guys are useless...I mean he-goat dat are controlled by their third leg... I won't advice a girl to visit a guy... meet outside. when d stu..pid guy is ready to take d responsibility of a father by doing d normal procedure. then he can have his p.u.ssy presented.

we men are high and the tendency to rape is there. most times, these girls dress to provoke the hidden weapon of men and when they visit with such dress code then rape is imminent

Manuelson:
come visit me, we go play ps3 tire

shea u wan kill me with laugh

Truly thr were real victims but putting ur self as an example makes us knw the kind of girl in the passage that we can write a whole movie on ur biography. Ur experience remains...Same story they-think-they-know

na so, you de talk like say you go gree pay

classicB:

I can actually foot my own bill

What of those girls that rape boys nko,.female teachers against male minor students..nne its a cruel world,dont personalise it,just live it coutiously..

RobinHez:

Guy..dis ya signature na wa o!

Guy ... Don't dull