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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:40pm On Aug 08, 2015
berbz:
[b]The point is that ladies who form too hard to get always be a victim of rape, if u are nice and free, n one will molest u not even to talk of rape u, u will be everybody's friend. Don't know why ladies always form what they are not. Nkan to ma n koya je wan niyen.
What do u mean by "form hard to get" what if she innocently say no and mean it without any "form"whatsoever

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by vickylala239: 11:40pm On Aug 08, 2015
classicB:

I have never been raped, can't u read and understand?? I said three attempt
Rape didn't happen


So u get rape anti virus

So if u Whr rape will u cum n say u Whr raped??

comon normal sexx wit a gel,if she Pass u,she go do Lik say u and am Neva see before,e cum b rape.

My sister deny d tin jare,if Na Mi b u Na So I for too deny am.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Dragonking: 11:40pm On Aug 08, 2015
coolsix:
ALL THE GUYS SUPPORTING RAPE AND COUNTERING THIS THREAD ARE RAPIST!
Did you see any guy coming out here to say he supports rape?
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:42pm On Aug 08, 2015
vickylala239:



So u get rape anti virus

So if u Whr rape will u cum n say u Whr raped??

comon normal sexx wit a gel,if she Pass u,she go do Lik say u and am Neva see before,e cum b rape.

My sister deny d tin jare,if Na Mi b u Na So I for too deny am.
R u a girl or guy? Either way na to stop quoting ur type
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Ensquare(m): 11:42pm On Aug 08, 2015
There are things that should be done indoors as good friends joor
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Roseey0(f): 11:42pm On Aug 08, 2015
After a focused group discussion, I found that that every gals must have had a near-rape experience.
Says a lot about unreported rate of rape.

Those creatures are bad market to befriend. They always dont know what came over them.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ewosk: 11:42pm On Aug 08, 2015
so u visit guys who stay in a secluded island....dunno but i still cant believe a guy can rape a gal that easily unless with external help...
one hand part legs, one hand hold hands or how una nor dey shout...?

kinda novice in this area sha but find it difficult to believe...

Rape is bad......
for those guys abeg if u are konjinified find the nearest ......., house...nor use some minutes of pleasure damage ur lyf or that of a lady...
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by happney65: 11:42pm On Aug 08, 2015
I can never ever rape a Woman..One of my Girlfriends came today,The second time she came..Made an attempt to have sex,she said Noo..I had to cajole and cajole her before she allowed me to suck her boobs which i did quite well..She gave me her word that she isnt in the mood and which i agreed with her..She knows the next time she is coming we are having sex..Mutual Sex,na my girlfriend be that not to talk of a female friend..Why would I rape my friend?why would i do that do that?I must be out of my senses..RAPE IS WRONG..DO NOT DO IT

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by virus05(m): 11:43pm On Aug 08, 2015
classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman?? embarassed

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his wayshocked.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed lipsrsealed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there shocked"

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us sad

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery undecided

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit embarassed I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" shocked so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing smiley

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

this girl wetin dey do u self..u go dey date guyz wey like sex

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by MizzD: 11:43pm On Aug 08, 2015
classicB:

Na God save u

My dear, i am with you on this, 100%. I was almost molested 3years ago by a friend of 4years, . Someone i had no budding romantic relationship with. It was strictly friendship, we both knew our partners and family members too. My crime was also going to visit him in his family house just to reciprocate his own countless visits to my house. I didn't realise he had it all planned out. I pleaded and cried before he set me free, but not after putting me through so much mental torture. I just couldnt imagine myself being raped. Screaming woudnt even have saved me. And if you see the bubu i wore to his house that day. Sigh.

what hurt me most was when a mutual friend of ours told me the guy asked why i came to his house if i didnt want sex, that why would a girl come to visit him and not expect some good fuckss. I was really hurt to read the screen grabs. He even bragged he just pitied me that day for a reason he cant tell because on a normal day, i wouldn't have been lucky. Said he didnt even showwme 1/10 of what hes caPable of

ever since that day my dear, i have learnt to stay in my house. That so called friend can turn into a beast within a twinkle of an eye just to get in between your thighs. The bitter truth is that is how tue average nigerian guy reasons. You only visit them for sex..it is what you should expect. Some are reasonable enough to stop when they realise it isnt your what you want, while the rest let their 3rd leg do the thinking.

a word is enough for the wise ooo....

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:43pm On Aug 08, 2015
classicB:
Na God save u
amen oo sis
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by chimexdnice1(m): 11:43pm On Aug 08, 2015
@ op; y r u always against d male gender? R u a lesbian
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by biz2get(m): 11:44pm On Aug 08, 2015
coolsix:


You must be a rapist! Why would you desire visiting lady alone at home? At least her parents can be somewhere else in the house and give you space for your conversation but they must be at least in the same building(House)

I don't know why I just like your write up... In my understanding , what you just wrote even meant worst or better than what I had in mind ...

Yours sounds like we should be in her Room while her parents sit in the sitting room with samsung home theater playing BOBO by Olamide on MTV base at highest volume ... Besides we are both in same building just playing personal tones in her bedroom

Hope am correct??
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by SirShymexx: 11:44pm On Aug 08, 2015
The ra.pe topics you lot keep spamming this forum with everyday is becoming nauseating. Did you lot just discover the word or something? It is all about ra .pe this, ra.pe that - give the darn word a freaking break.

You won't get ra.ped if you don't hang around the wrong people, while putting yourself in a vulnerable position. No real guy would ra.pe anyone - ra.pe is for suckers and perverts. There is nothing to enjoy in the act.

Sort yourselves out and stop spamming everywhere with nonsense like every guy is out there to ra.pe every chic they meet. The topic is stale and ra.pe has been out there since forever - just give it a rest. If you are a victim of ra.pe, go report to the police and stop disturbing everyone.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by laplace12(m): 11:45pm On Aug 08, 2015
Lets be factual. Any grown up girl that visits a guy alone in his house didn't go with innocent mind. She knows There could be some advances but she simply prays it doesn't get out of hand.


The bad news is they won't stop visiting...just like one is on my neck now, calling me day and nite sad

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Philipelvis: 11:45pm On Aug 08, 2015
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Dragonking: 11:46pm On Aug 08, 2015
happney65:
I can never ever rape a Woman..One of my Girlfriends came today,The second time she came..Made an attempt to have sex,she said Noo..I had to cajole and cajole her before she allowed me to suck her boobs which i did quite well..She gave me her word that she isnt in the mood and which i agreed with her..She knows the next time she is coming we are having sex..Mutual Sex,na my girlfriend be that not to talk of a female friend..Why would I rape my friend?why would i do that do that?I must be out of my senses..RAPE IS WRONG..DO NOT DO IT
She said No and you still went ahead to cajole her and even sucked her breast? You are a bloody rapist!!! cheesy Na this mistake timaya make...oya classicB I don catch one suspect for you. wink
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by mobi5592: 11:46pm On Aug 08, 2015
its sad enough that we are beginning to see the devastating consequences of moral decadence in the society.
everybody points finger at the effect, hoping we could prune such, but at the same time we celebrate the cause of our problem

a society where people think porn is the next best thing after life, where girls dress so provocatively revealing as much as anyone cares to behold, what do you expect?
gone are the days when you seatback and watch music channels with family mmber, musics today are eyesore...girls ever willing to get naked.

all girls do these days is try so hard tto get a guy aroused...but after that what next

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by misspicy(f): 11:47pm On Aug 08, 2015
coolsix:
ALL THE GUYS SUPPORTING RAPE AND COUNTERING THIS THREAD ARE RAPIST!
GBAMsmiley
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:48pm On Aug 08, 2015
Wetin go carry a single girl in this last days to a demons house in the first place ?
Haven't u heard? Trust no man! Even ur father fit rape u, as far as that devil has access to his empty body.

Well, as for me...I learnt my lessons bck then in school after one fine chik raped me, I raped her back and we made luv. So its past now, and I've learnt my lessons never to get raped again.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Dragonking: 11:48pm On Aug 08, 2015
SirShymexx:
The ra.pe topics you lot keep spamming this forum with everyday is becoming nauseating. Did you lot just discover the word or something? It is all about ra .pe this, ra.pe that - give the darn word a freaking break.

You won't get ra.ped if you don't hang around the wrong people, while putting yourself in a vulnerable position. No real guy would ra.pe anyone - ra.pe is for suckers and perverts. There is nothing to enjoy in the act.

Sort yourselves out and stop spamming everywhere with nonsense like every guy is out there to ra.pe every chic they meet. The topic is stale and ra.pe has been out there since forever - just give it a rest. If you are a victim of ra.pe, go report to the police and stop disturbing everyone.
Go to family section, there is another edioot that open a thread on rape.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:48pm On Aug 08, 2015
MizzD:


My dear, i am with you on this, 100%. I was almost molested 3years ago by a friend of 4years, . Someone i had no budding romantic relationship with. It was strictly friendship, we both knew our partners and family members too. My crime was also going to visit him in his family house just to reciprocate his own countless visits to my house. I didn't realise he had it all planned out. I pleaded and cried before he set me free, but not after putting me through so much mental torture. I just couldnt imagine myself being raped. Screaming woudnt even have saved me. And if you see the bubu i wore to his house that day. Sigh.

what hurt me most was when a mutual friend of ours told me the guy asked why i came to his house if i didnt want sex, that why would a girl come to visit him and not expect some good fuckss. I was really hurt to read the screen grabs. He even bragged he just pitied me that day for a reason he cant tell because on a normal day, i wouldn't have been lucky. Said he didnt even showwme 1/10 of what hes caPable of

ever since that day my dear, i have learnt to stay in my house. That so called friend can turn into a beast within a twinkle of an eye just to get in between your thighs. The bitter truth is that is how tue average nigerian guy reasons. You only visit them for sex..it is what you should expect. Some are reasonable enough to stop when they realise it isnt your what you want, while the rest let their 3rd leg do the thinking.

a word is enough for the wise ooo....
Congrats dear.u,trusted him enough to pay him a visit only.for him to turn things around.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tony1918(m): 11:48pm On Aug 08, 2015
Just because you have been to 3 out of more than 60 million male in nigeria you judge.You came visiting with all cleavages and curves showing what does that portrays you.Girls you all form you can put on anything cuz of freedom while not better still go out nude.You pack will still be the guy that believes in modesty (i.e pampering you on visits) a slow dull guy..As much has i don't condole a worst behavior like rape.Girls please dress with a bit of modesty
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by vickylala239: 11:50pm On Aug 08, 2015
classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman?? embarassed

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his wayshocked.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed lipsrsealed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there shocked"

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us sad

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery undecided

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit embarassed I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" shocked so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing smiley

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

If I Pass n see a gel b rape,I go Jst rush go buy beer for does guys.Mke dem get energy n Also Wait for Nxt batch of gels.

Cuz I Dnt see any reason a gel wit porous asss,will refuse to wear pant and rather opt for only low waist.

There are asss and the are asss, Bt wen u knw ur as is porous, that it cnt stop swinging Without d help of pant.n u say u see this class I Mst go Without u pant.Den Wait for international rapist.


Wen u are carrying 3 jumbo size water melon on ur chest n u decide to wear bra that is meant for 12yrs old gel.rapist will b dancing Azonto n waiting for u.Cuz d watermelon will b So easy for dem.

A decent gel cover ha bdy,from head to toe.

Bt if u say u too hot Oya go,boys go help u wit ice water.
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:50pm On Aug 08, 2015
80% of Nigerian women have been raped or almost raped.

Visiting a guy's home gives him license to force you to have sex?

Oh boy I am NEVER raising my daughters in Nigeria.

What

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:51pm On Aug 08, 2015
chimexdnice1:
@ op; y r u always against d male gender? R u a leI do,. Like I said in a previous thread am currently working with guys and the way they talk about girls is insane. It's like they believe a female frnd coming for visitation is coming for sex, that's insane! How dare you rape your innocent female visitor
I so have male frnds, but when it.comes to visiting you alone?? Abeg count me outsbian
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:52pm On Aug 08, 2015
chimexdnice1:
@ op; y r u always against d male gender? R u a lesbian
Lol, how do u mean??
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Dragonking: 11:53pm On Aug 08, 2015
Lovesdaisied:
80% of Nigerian women have been raped or almost raped.

Visiting a guy's home gives him license to force you to have sex?

Oh boy I am NEVER raising my daughters in Nigeria.

What
Can you show us the source of this statistics if not shut da fvck up.angry

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by vickylala239: 11:53pm On Aug 08, 2015
classicB:

R u a girl or guy? Either way na to stop quoting ur type

Did u see f deir.

I cnt b a gel.

I Hv dikkk.

Proudly a guy wit dikkkk, Since 2341

Weda u stop quoting Mi or Nt I will quote who I Lik n say d truth.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:55pm On Aug 08, 2015
Dragonking:
She said No and you still went ahead to cajole her and even sucked her breast? You are a bloody rapist!!! cheesy Na this mistake timay make...oya classicB I don catch one suspect for you. wink
grin
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by misspicy(f): 11:55pm On Aug 08, 2015
MizzD:


My dear, i am with you on this, 100%. I was almost molested 3years ago by a friend of 4years, . Someone i had no budding romantic relationship with. It was strictly friendship, we both knew our partners and family members too. My crime was also going to visit him in his family house just to reciprocate his own countless visits to my house. I didn't realise he had it all planned out. I pleaded and cried before he set me free, but not after putting me through so much mental torture. I just couldnt imagine myself being raped. Screaming woudnt even have saved me. And if you see the bubu i wore to his house that day. Sigh.

what hurt me most was when a mutual friend of ours told me the guy asked why i came to his house if i didnt want sex, that why would a girl come to visit him and not expect some good fuckss. I was really hurt to read the screen grabs. He even bragged he just pitied me that day for a reason he cant tell because on a normal day, i wouldn't have been lucky. Said he didnt even showwme 1/10 of what hes caPable of

ever since that day my dear, i have learnt to stay in my house. That so called friend can turn into a beast within a twinkle of an eye just to get in between your thighs. The bitter truth is that is how tue average nigerian guy reasons. You only visit them for sex..it is what you should expect. Some are reasonable enough to stop when they realise it isnt your what you want, while the rest let their 3rd leg do the thinking.

a word is enough for the wise ooo....
This is part of wat I have been trying to explain to mr Brugo And Mr Wordbank...

Unless they can all tell us ways of identifing a rapist,we not going to visit guys in der house again.

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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Brugo(m): 11:56pm On Aug 08, 2015
misspicy:

This is part of wat I have been trying to explain to mr Br ugo And Mr Word bank...

Unless they can all tell us ways of identifing a rapist,we not going to visit guys in der house again.

Lol. I thought we have put the issue to rest na. No is no, right? Agreed. cheesy

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