ORALL:
90 percent of rape cases are just agreement that didn't go well...we all know the timaya case,she wanted to follow timaya as his wife,timaya refuse and she screamed rape,the lecturer case,we all know it because of admission..and to you op..the guys spend his pocket money on you,he wants it back...rape my foot...quote me and thunder will strike your smelly pusssies

Ndipe:


"to me, when it comes to rape the two parties are guilty"

Wrong. The innocent party is the victim, the rapist is the guilty one.

Deleayo88:
Can rape ever be stopped or its rate minimized....? The honest answer/truth is NO.
As long as ladies and women are still putting on provocative wears: exposing their cleavages and laps, wearing revealing dresses and so many other ways that is capable of distorting the mind of and average non-God fearer.
Ladies and anti-rape activists should stop deceiving themselves and hit the nail on the head by encouraging GOOD and GODLY dressing for all.
Many times I have seen single and married ladies going to worship houses, offices, malls and so on putting on mini skirts, exposing cleavages and all sort of that. Why have our women found it so hard to Cover up and stop putting on figure-revealing dresses that is capable of encouraging an idle mind to assault sexually.
We all should take a clue from the Catholic sisters' and practicing Muslim lady's mode of dressing. God's policies/instructions for human are to make our lives easier and now that we've deviated and following our own way, rape is the result.
We should stop these hypocrisies and face the truth.
#myopinion

ahsekeena:



I have a mansion on banana island.

Brugo:

Madam. Discuss within my context. Thanks.

tayediggss:

Anyone who forces himself on another sexually is sick and needs to be locked up away from normal people.

biz2get:


I don't know why I just like your write up... In my understanding , what you just wrote even meant worst or better than what I had in mind ...

Yours sounds like we should be in her Room while her parents sit in the sitting room with samsung home theater playing BOBO by Olamide on MTV base at highest volume ... Besides we are both in same building just playing personal tones in her bedroom

Hope am correct??

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

SirShymexx:


The government can be everywhere at the same time. The onus is on the women as well to create awareness, but making the government aware of their plight. That's what their counterparts in the West did - they fought with everything they had through the right channels, not via unnecessary noise on the internet disturbing folks everywhere.

They can put their heads together and start with a body that cater to rape victims. Especially with psychological trauma and probably legal aids. Then from there create a movement to start fighting for their plights. You just don't sit there, moan like you have something stuck in ya arse, while creating a blanket demonisation of folks who have nothing to do with whatever you are going through - and expect everything to fall in place.

I hate hearing about rape and domestic violence due to the number of lives these folks have destroyed with false accusations.

classicB:

Let assume some girls dress scantily to get raped. What about those underage girls?? What about that innocent housemaid that get raped daily by Oga simply.because Madam isn't available, those men that rapes their own daughters nko??

Rockyfancino:

C'mon, don't tell me you've not seen american movies before. The moment u start with kissing, you finish. I'm not saying if the girl says NO to sex, a guy should begin rape.

wordbank:

It's disheartening that the self acclaimed adult is void. And before you quote me and make a bluff please read and ask someone who can comprehend to help you out

sweetgala:


What kind of supid comprehension do I need to see through you being an apologist to rapist. Tranfering the blame to the victim for seduction.

classicB:

Let assume some girls dress scantily to get raped. What about those underage girls?? What about that innocent housemaid that get raped daily by Oga simply.because Madam isn't available, those men that rapes their own daughters nko??

Dragonking:
Naija ladies should stop visiting guys at the guy's homes but will dey listen? NO. Tomrw they will cry that they are being raped.
If you want us to see, let us meet in an open place and not an eatery like the hungry OP (typical hungry naija girl) stated.

rezzy:
I believe we still have decent guys out there.

I met a guy in school, we were friends for 4 years. I started dating him when I came back from NYSC. Whenever I visited him, I will stay in his room for hours before going. He never made any sexual move even though he had asked me out and I refused. We dated for a year and I sensed we were not meant for each other so we went back to our friendship mode.

We are both married and we are still good friends.

I met lots of decent guys.

misspicy:
Yes all guys are guilty until you guys tell us how to identify a rapist...

Dragonking:
Trust naija ladies na, always trying to make a mountain out of a molehill.

Medunah:

Wat do u mean by 'one' of my gf??

searching4love:



u will be raped before the end of this year in Jesus name. u will never escape rape anymore. useless who.re

easystudy101:
Perfect social engineering.

Everyday there is a rape story

EgunMogaji:


What I learned so far is that you have a poor choice in Men.

I've never raped anyone and I got female visitors all the time.

Real men savor a Woman that yields herself willingly and allows...okay I will stop here

AikayDaWrapper:


Why black? Why not white or blue.

This is racism of the highest order.

I shan't stand for it.

Pidggin:


She and almost 90% of Nigerian women that have either been raped or lucky to escape have poor choice in men right?

worshipdevice:

she's as use.l.ess as her topic...am sure she want to use dis forum to advertise her lesbianism activities... Wats my business if she was raped 3x