where would be her pride as a lady?

Same pride that would make her remain a spinster@thoniaslim

funny

only an immature man would refer to the fact that its the woman that did the proposin,no matter how heated the argument might be.like its been said its not an african thing,so anything thats foreign to us,might b abused

lol

Hmmmm Yes a woman can --If U see he is not talking abt it--U ask him urself,even give him a ring self

only an immature man would refer to the fact that its the woman that did the proposin,no matter how heated the argument might be.like its been said its not an african thing,so anything thats foreign to us,might b abused

Girls do tactical or indirect proposition in Nigeria, and then allow you to do the formal thing which is to give them the ring.
C'mon why not? its alowed

@mckren hmmmn,is that so?must be outta touch,pls fill me in and tell me how they do this indirectly.

Mcren, i agree, the only way she should do it is if its undercover. A woman should never do it directly its a shame.

find a tricky way to bring him to his knees

What a man can do, a woman can do it better, so they say. So ladies, either you prostrate or kneel down and propose marriage to your boyfriend when you have the urge to get married.

Ndipe, you sure took overdose this time .

@ Ndipe

What a man can do, a woman can do it better, so they say. So ladies, either you prostrate or kneel down and propose marriage to your boyfriend when you have the urge to get married.

Or

OR remain single if the man harbors the mindset that he, and not the lady should be wooed into getting married.

There is nothing wrong in a woman asking a man for married, If both of you love each other, it is aright.

Ladies should bury their pride and wrong cultural norms and take the bull by the horn before it escapes them once again in 2007

One of my new year resolutions is to discard my playa cloak and get married this year, provided the lady proposes to me on her knees, crying me a river, pledging her undying love

Just imagine the thrill as u grill her heart and distill true love from her deepest self with effortless skill

Anyway, whether a man or the woman proposes, the most important thing is equal commitment/interest from both sides

Definitely. And its not something new nowadays you see it everywhere
.

ThoniaSlim:

where would be her pride as a lady?

Well it's not a matter of pride thoniaslim, its a matter of getting what she wants before its runs away from her. I would prefer a girl who likes me to tell straight to my face if i didn't catch her clue. By the way there are a million and one ways to show a guy you like him without you coming directly to ask him out. Ya feel me!

Bla bla bla. . .

Cilization brought all these craps. It doesn't work that way in the ages.

And even if it does, if a lady to propose to me, I will just throw-up.

Because it is insane, Better to show affection than to open your mouth and splill it out.

I don't think it is a goood Idea.

nazzyon:

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Because it is insane, Better to show affection than to open your mouth and splill it out.

hehehe

men marry women not the other way round. women only GET MARRIED to men.
that should tell who to propose

see yu, your sentence is wrong
its the other way round
"he is married to a blablabla woman

FRESH-B, men marry women n women wed men. i still stand by that, try and see all marriage IVs u will see that the ladies name comes first then "weds" then the man. eq

Rita weds fresh-b or fresh-b marries Rita not the other way round

sorry but i think is the other way round again.
Rita weds TomBoy

this proves you wrong again my friend

"The 31-year-old former England captain, married to former Spice Girl pop star Victoria [b][/b]"Posh Spice" Adams,"

source; (Reuters) Thursday January 11, 07:34 PM, http://uk.news.yahoo.com



makes any sense?

[color=#000099][/color]hi all,
am back i love the way u ppl are taikin bout this thread
some ppl said it right som are just telling lies
any way it doest mater life is only 1 u have to tink of wht u want
to be in life if it is lesbian it is ur life if it is homosexual it still ur life
but remeber life is only 1
for a woman to propose is not new tot

but its a stupid tot

hell no its absurd and not normal for m sha

hell no its absurd and not normal for m sha

archaic views if u ask me!!

wat'z dat mean, hey break it down 2 my level, aight

@ Honey Pot abike?

yu said this?
"Ladies should bury their pride and wrong cultural norms and take the bull by the horn before it escapes them once again in 2007"

i no i do suppor any woman who takes the bull by the horn, but i think yu dont RESPECT the BLACK RACE, otherwise yu wouldn never have ever called WE BLACK CULTURE "wrong cultural norms"
Yu arent fit to Live. the same way tha the onyinbo culture good for them is how fantastic ours is to us. Do mind yur language on we race

for the African culture its like really looked down upon,but where i stay its like an every day's occurrence. its nothing new. i think it depends on the social ethics of the society you live in, some societies feel its acceptable,while the others don't go down well with the idea.