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| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nobody: 7:56am On Sep 17, 2015 |
rasheedmalik113:lol |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Anuoluwapo3054(m): 7:57am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Setaje:Lol...although am not married yet,but whenever my fiancee puts up her attitudes, i will just leave the room for her and abandoned her in the room. when she finally get herself back,she will call me and apologized... the trick works better when she comes to visit me , but when she isn't with me...i have a way of responding to her pings and calls in a cold way,but we settle everything amicably before the next day.#understanding women vol.1 season 1.# 1 Like |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nobody: 8:00am On Sep 17, 2015 |
icedbeatz:what's this rubbish u just wrote here!? Pls don't ever tryy tht shlt again! How dare u take sides with a beast moving to and fro seeking for whom to devour? How dare u say the accuser of brethrens has nohing to do with this? Why must u advice the man to go into adultery? Are u ia new recruit in the underworld? I RUBUKE U son! Is that the best solution u can give? Can't u see why ur resent state has not improved(I assume). Guy...smallie, u better reprogram ur mindset b4 u get ursef burnt. 1 Like |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Moneyab(m): 8:01am On Sep 17, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20:For real  ? |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by MizMyColi(f): 8:03am On Sep 17, 2015 |
aha, finally, someone inspires me to comment on this section. Hello Xynerise. Yap Yap Yap Ignore her, silent treatment her, reset her brain, leave her etc. Btw, thank you @infomaz...I wish you a happier married life  Okay, there are 3 categories of aggressive here...from all I read from page 0-6. 1. She is the kind of woman who jumps into an argument impulsively, she is that kind of person who has no clue what the terms "diplomacy" and "tact" mean. She tends to force her opinion on others....she's the "my way or no way" kind of woman 2. In her healthy emotional state, she is the sweetest being alive, but turns aggressive (Belligerent and Berserk) when her emotional health degenerates to zero....most likely out of frustration and an inner pain. 3. SHE IS AGRESSIVE. From always wanting to be on top her man, to dictating how money should spent, to hitting him, and just shouting like a mad goat. More oft than not, women who fall in categories 1, 2, 3 above know that it's a weakness. They've probably tried to change themselves, and when they found little or no success, they transfer all the baggage to the man in the subconscious hope that he can help them to be better. But that rarely ever happens, because like the woman, the man also has his own baggage to deal with. I want to think that the categories OP had in mind was 1 and 2. This is my take, and please, if it doesn't resonate with you...feel free to shout like Orubebe did --- "WE WILL NOT ACCEPT THIS!!!  Okay so here goes  1. Try open hearted communication. Both of you should talk. Just talk. Show her that you are truly concerned. Bring her to understand that her attitude portends a great risk to the success of your union. Try to inquire from her what usually triggers that state of emotional being. This should be done at a time when you two are emotionally fine. Men tend to be naturally egotistic and thus they avoid situations that'll make them seem vulnerable, but sometimes, you gotta to take that leap. To reach out deeply to those you love, you need to convince them that you have an understanding of what it's like to be them. 2. Observe and show compromise. Most times, the reason for the fallout we experience in our relationships have a lot to do with the fact that we want to prove we are right. If we take away the need to always be right, most corrosiveness we experience in our relationships will fade. 3. If you don't love them, who will? Are you any more perfect? This is specifically to those who are of the opinion that they will leave them. This might burst a lot of bubbles, but agressive women, in whatever shade of 1,2,3 above they appear are some of the most loyal and supportive women. Most times, all they need is someone who has the capacity to be firm with them, and the same time, has the capacity to nurture them, show them understanding, genuine love and patience. If you practice all these and it still doesn't work out, don't count your losses, Infact, count it all joy because either ways...you'll become a better version of you. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Holuwakemmy16(f): 8:03am On Sep 17, 2015 |
aggression woman can only be handle by mature man not boy,if my bro can handle her y not,but for u sayin that u will beat a woman it means u v be doin that with ladies and those that beat a lady r not responsible,infact they shld always be jail for doin that |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by loomer: 8:04am On Sep 17, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20:And u weren't arrested? |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by jojotemitopaz(m): 8:05am On Sep 17, 2015 |
butterflyatalan:you are right..a man is meant to cultivate his woman...trust me there are no exact approach to that...ur method might work for the submissive type but...I hear ppl say the silent treatment...some girls are used to the silent treatment as well...in fact the danger in silent treatment is that its an avenue to look outside...if u are really interested in nuturing her....im speaking of the rude, uncultured, unappreciative, abusive, arrogant and self centered type ...trust me beating her is an option....I know most folks wud say its wrong but to correct sometimes requires a lot of power...silent treatment is one, love is another...beating is also another option....love isnt the only method..it depends on who u are dealing with. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by eskahy(m): 8:07am On Sep 17, 2015 |
i think you should talk to her head may be she might adjust |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by SexyStrawberry(f): 8:15am On Sep 17, 2015 |
wakacome: God bless u! I wish I could marry u right now! awwwww ur so sweet. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by seanjy4konji: 8:19am On Sep 17, 2015 |
See questions You free her of course...i have averagely 130 e mails awaiting reply each day and i will leave that one to attend to a nagging woman She will soon call on the holy ghost to listen to her nagging and even the holy spirit has better quality things to do... Man get some beers from shoprite,stock the fridge and get on with your work ignoring that devil that does not want you to have money like dangote. If you kill your self because of woman? You wont make heaven ooo. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by babeface3: 8:25am On Sep 17, 2015 |
switch off for a while, then come back later, when she must have come to her senses. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by shizzy7(f): 8:34am On Sep 17, 2015 |
halfrica:Which is this Akara on the wheels of steam.... Is that that what you're eating today? |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by adorable29(f): 8:37am On Sep 17, 2015 |
icedbeatz: You my dear, are OBVIOUSLY one aggressive SOB! So you are in no position to pass judgements around the way you are doing on everybody's post! Just saying! |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nicepoker(m): 8:39am On Sep 17, 2015 |
wakacome:easy to type. Difficult to practice. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nobody: 8:40am On Sep 17, 2015 |
The silent treatment ofcourse |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by steph2sweet(f): 9:01am On Sep 17, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20:As in are you for real. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nobody: 9:05am On Sep 17, 2015 |
shizzy7: who wan cook akara for inside school hostel u wan make d hostel collapse i eating bread nd tea *british accent* come join me and av a cup of tea please common its alryt with some akanra oyinbow u know ITS AKARA ON THE WHEELS OF STEAM 2 Likes |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by predatorX: 9:15am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Cutehector: that is the best action...........Silence drives women mad Especially the talkative ones |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by otolorin86(m): 9:24am On Sep 17, 2015 |
talk sense into her empty head to reason with, sending her to her parents won't solve d matter cos am sure her parents can't do everything dats y they condemn her to u for more repairs |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by rhames(m): 9:31am On Sep 17, 2015 |
wakacome: on point. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Misterdhee1(m): 9:31am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Jegaish-mode! |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by marcus12345: 9:40am On Sep 17, 2015 |
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| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by ronald4lif(m): 9:58am On Sep 17, 2015 |
icedbeatz: It's ludicrous and stuporous for a lady to behave rudely and aggressively to expect respect, civility or think they even deserve one. Any woman who crosses her line to act like an insane fellow and in uncouth manner should be treated harshly and rightly so. It's buffoonery for aggressive women not to expect a hostile approach from a man if they, as a lady, throw courteousness to the wind and behave b1tchy. I'd treat everyone same way they treat me, male or female alike. No gallantry gesture or gender debility consideration as such women don't deserve any. 1 Like |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by arabianights: 10:05am On Sep 17, 2015 |
xynerise: lol... rotf... .Its like you have taken judicial notice of him |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Rapture4real(m): 10:06am On Sep 17, 2015 |
pet4ril: My wife told be the same thing.Be soft and casual with me.You women should just have mercy on us.Wetin we do you from the Garden of Eden.Is it a crime to love you people? We men too are emotional.Aggression can never quench aggression.Bible says dwell with her with understanding as a weaker vessel.Some of them don't know why they do what they do. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nobody: 10:08am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Just Ignore and Withdraw your attention. That's it. No word exchange. Spend more time away from home.....in pleasurable activities, which does not include Fanny Swindling.  |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by arabianights: 10:10am On Sep 17, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20: The number of likes you got is raising a red alert.What you did was absolutely wicked and inhumane but worst of all is that you arent remorseful There are better ways to have dealt with her without causing harm to her ,what if she had died?Hmmmmmmm.......................be careful 1 Like |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nobody: 10:41am On Sep 17, 2015 |
shadowgwalker:Hahahahahahahahaha common bro take a chill pill before you have a heart attack meeehn, I'm not siding with no beast I never advised any one of adultery based we are discussing about relationships, where did I encourage adultery? why stick with a disease or something that makes your life uneasy? wouldn't it be shear stupidity? BTW the devil has little or nothing to do with all this, WHATEVER we go through in life or that happened to us we are directly or indirectly responsible take it or not and be it success or failure. the devil can't do a single thing without people that AGREES, God gave us control over this world and most of the time we know what we are doing at the particular point in time once the individual is not under any alcoholic, insane or spiritual influence or manipulation. We should start taking responsibilities for whatever we do and not point accusing fingers at the devil all the time because that's what people do most times IT'S NEVER THEIR FAULT rather someone's. It's sickening to me, in this case now the aggressive female can control or learn to control her anger but she decided not to but rather to display whatever she felt she can. unless the individual is suffering from personality disorder or another mental instability I'm not buying the IT'S THE DEVIL'S FAULT CRAP, hell no that line is generic since 1800. Let us take responsibility for our actions and try to find a way to make ourselves better instead accusing everyone else except us the perpetrators then maybe just maybe we can grow. we always have a choice. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nobody: 10:41am On Sep 17, 2015 |
adorable29:hahaha sweet one relax ok, you can perceive me as an aggressive person that's alright but yes I am and no I'm not I only dish people whatever the want from me but definitely not in this situation or topic on nairaland. I don't pass judgement but I call it like I see it that's it no ill will or bad blood. Remain blessed and enjoy the rest of your day. |
| Re: Men: How Do You Handle An Aggressive Woman? by Nobody: 10:43am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Toks2008:*cheers bro.....:-) that's the spirit. |
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