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spikedcylinder:

Do what same?

He means you would do the same thing that he did , assuming you were a guy.

why didn't you tell her 4for u started
your prick they sweet you to Bleep, now u don Bleep and u won run
make god forgive Oona

Bob James you are an ingrate. And i hope your wife gets a clue and leave you. You must think we are stupid. Look at what you posted back in 2007, you said the same thing last time about being born again. And you said it again on this thread. You really are something else. Now, Mr. changed man, you have another thread saying you almost did it again, after you got back from working out at the gym. I really pity your wife. Honestly, I don't believe that you have changed, and you deserve everything you get hence forth. Don't be supprised if things don't turn out well for you.

deletd

Very simple. Stay out of touch for a while. . . once she gets desperate(as they all do),start preaching to her from Revelations & 2 Corinthians about the fact that adulterers wil go to hell. Tell her u'll call her back as you are oon your way to evangelism etc. After a few weeks she'll RUN !! Trust me

Just find courage to tell her you can not continue. Once you believe it is a sin you are committing there is no good way to commit sin. Tell her once and for all. Make sure you stop intercourse also because if you continue and get her pregnant she may tell you she would be single mother but the child would come back in ten years time and the rest story you could imagine your yourself.

Moreover, you too should stay at home one hour flight Abuja Lagos, you get one wife, if you fly London - Hong Kong 11 hours or Dubai - New York 17hours how many wives you go get.?

r. She is love but am not. I just hope she finds a place in
her heart to forgive me. I guess i allowed it to grow in her cos
i called her always, send romantic texts, advice her on her job,and
even make sur she takes adequate care of her self.

You mae her fall by ACTING like you wanted more now you are now whining cos she wont let go?

You're funny. I hope it ends up exactly like Fatal Attractive.

You must really take us for fools Mr. Bob James. You put up this thread in November 2007.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=92465.msg1667637#msg1667637

A month later this . . .

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=98442.msg1741515#msg1741515

Bloody attention freak!!!

Lol thanks for this Stilly. Dude's obviously a loser.

ThiefOfHearts:

Lol thanks for this Stilly. Dude's obviously a loser.

do you by any chance work for the FBI young lady? you are beginning to scare me now. this is not some rememberance juju you are using here abi?

ThiefOfHearts:

You mae her fall by ACTING like you wanted more now you are now whining cos she wont let go?

You're funny. I hope it ends up exactly like Fatal Attractive.

TOH, seriously something is wrong with that lovely country of ours. we fill various religious houses every where in that lovely land but cant manage to keep ourselves from this cursed lifestyles.

Bob jones, go and sin no more.  the easiest way to cure this heart ache in the future is travel with your wife as much as possible. it is expensive but only safe cure because the land is full of whores. shameless whores for that matter.  

i have said it here before having stayed in various hotels all over nigeria the land is one big brothel. i am sorry the truth is bitter but has to be said.  our morality threshold is too low.  we are human beings for goodness sake.  the ones without money say they do it for money the ones with money i dont know why they still share it like there is no tomorrow.  can someone tell me?

ThiefOfHearts:

Lol thanks for this Stilly. Dude's obviously a loser.

@ Thiefofhearts
U too much. Go join EFCC.
@poster
Nice1. You should have sold this script to Oprah, Sally or Mo. You'll make some bucks dat way.
@other posters
Look b4 you post.
Some pots calling kettle black

kaypinchi:

@ Thiefofhearts
U too much. Go join EFCC.
@poster
Nice1. You should have sold this script to Oprah, Sally or Mo. You'll make some bucks dat way.
@other posters
Look b4 you post.
Some pots calling kettle black

karma you hear now. make i bring you forms?

man it's not fair, why do you men always go out to look 4 sleeping dogs 2 disturb?, what if she's a winchee, and decides to deal with you by seizing dat your thing, the innocent woman at home will be suffering over wat she knows nothing abt, until it gets to a point wen you'l have 2 confess thru your nose, you beta explain things to her b4 she starts blacmaailing you, b4 you know what's up , your wifey go don hear.

1st that u actually sent in this post is a gross insult on your family if u indeed have one.
2nd dat u actually seek pples advise afta indulging and telling it as it is, is a shame on men generally
3rd dat u now feel d oda lady is disturbing is absord.

i really dont know how n y this post was allowed, we shd not encourage shamefully deeds we are africannnnnnns not stupid act of foreign lands shd be lauded, agreed no one is a saint but ur case is a shamefull show of manhood, u not only claim to have slept with her, but that both of u have been trooting naija supposedely enjoying shit.

go f, k ur mum

Bob don't start preaching to me. You have got your nerve. Parading your countless affairs here on NL.

leave town or go and hang yourself in the village

Akinagirl:

Bob don't start preaching to me. You have got your nerve. Parading your countless affairs here on NL.

Well it was supposed to be for good and for bad as it's supposed to be mainly a virgin affair for first timers (i.e people marrying for the first time). But now first timers were into sex well before marriages.People say nothing about this one. As it is hard, so as it is to stay away from sex/affair while in a marriage. Am not married but I see married men and women woo/compete for  chicks with us, some say their partner no sabi, some want extra, some want animalistic styles, some want money, link and property.My man try to let the girl go,stop encouraging her and know that many folks in here and in the world are in your situation. she may be better in bed than her wife and always available for all rounds. Just know that marriage is a channel whether from the sublime to the ridiculous.

Does someone else not see what i am seeing? Everyone is eating up the guy but what about the lady? Is there nothing wrong with her? You see some one on the plane and the same day you start screwing like rabbits? Is that what morals have metamorphosed to in Nigeria? I see a guy today and i start screwing him? . I really thinks she deserves what she gets. She is just like a toilet where every body goes to empty their bowels.She deserves all the stds in the world because i cant imagine not knowing the person and then getting that intimate with him.Nigeria na wa for una o!

[td]why didn't you tell her 4for u started
your prick they sweet you to mess, now u don mess and u won run
make god forgive Oona[/td]

Old boyee how it take happen chai so there are still numbers of Otele in the town like chaiya, any way this is just a leason for your and make sure u did not affect the innocent woman we de house with whatsoever nonsence we you don carry becouse i sure say some body lilke you we no get self control fit forget to use protection when it come to this, anyway follow it with wisdon but after this one dont try that rubish again (Okpe)

this whole scene and story reminds of me JESUS and the woman caught in adultery. The people were all keen to stone her alive. JESUS then gave them a shocker ,'' if any of YOU be without stone let him cast the first stone. the average human are always judgemental , vindictive and hypocritical pious.
You are all standing there condemning the penitent man but most of you are white washed tomb stinking terribly inside with lust, masturbation, pornography, lesbianism and other horribly sin
mr Benson,'' go and sin no more''.
most of NL contributors are blinded with vengeance and rage. only few are thinking specially the foreign based nigerian ladies.

JJYOU:

seriously something is wrong with that lovely country of ours. we fill various religious houses every where in that lovely land but cant manage to keep ourselves from this cursed lifestyles.

i[b] have said it here before having stayed in various hotels all over nigeria the land is one big brothel.[/b] i am sorry the truth is bitter but has to be said. our morality threshold is too low. we are human beings for goodness sake. the ones without money say they do it for money the ones with money i dont know why they still share it like there is no tomorrow. can someone tell me?

yes.I cant believe how every 3rd channel on MyTV is a gospel station, but yet shit like this is comonplace.

I cant even go on what I saw at the MEI hotel in lagos,

Look at this irresponsible son of a monkey.

Seriously ppl dey enjoy oooo!
I can't Imagine how happy I would be if I had a post one of my expensive lie here on Nairaland and call everyone fools who did try giving me advise

@ThiefofHearts
you dey scare me ooo Toomuch baby girl

BOB JAMES MA PADDY YOU DEY RUN
Theif no fit theif Hypper theif ooo!!

I new it was a scam from the very second post

HMmmm.

I have commited a valuable piece of my time to read from gensis of this tread. In all, wether poster is an idot, lost control, or is a waka about, he has learnt a lesson. You may run or deceive and avoid men/women but not God and certainly not your conscience.

Now the bitter truth.

THE DAY DAUGHTERS OF EVE STOP AND REFRAIN FROM TEMPTING, TASTING, POSSESSING OR TAKING A MARRIED MAN OR DISPOSSESING THEIR FELLOW SISTERS
THAT DAY ALL THESE NONSENSE WOULD END.

THE DAY A GIRL SCENTS A MARRIED MAN AND TELLS THE MAN "NO !!! YOU BELONG TO ANOTHER" IT WILL END

THE DAY A GIRL SCENTS A GUY IS HOOKED OR ASSOCIATED TO HER KIND AND SAYS "NO !!! YOU ARE TAKEN" IT WILL END

As I often say women are the only creatures who hate themselves.

No single girl would wish another girl who sleeps with her man in future well.

It beats me as to why a woman wants to do it to another and why in the world she thinks it would happen to her. The law of karma is real.



hala.

Oga Bob James, no mind all these amebos for Naijalist. The best thing na for you to marry that woman as your second wife. That go just settle all the problems. If you marry am and your wife no like am, marry another one join and that go neutralize everybody. Make sure you marry from all other tribes so the wives no fit conspire against you. All our role models for this country get plenty wives and mistresses and concubines and even maids. Na so our culture be. Whether na Igbo, Yoruba or Hausa, or anyone in between. God go bless you in Jesus name. L’agabara oloun, Amin, Isee!!!!!

Bob James keep on rocking, sex is just sex man. Who says you can't have sex elsewhere to relieve tension and yet still love your wife? No mind these bad belle people abeg.

Look at this irresponsible son of a monkey.

@post
Were we there when you began the affair.
Enjoy the pleasures and the pain jor

FL Gators!:



@post
Were we there when you began the affair.
Enjoy the pleasures and the pain jor

GIVE THIS GUY ADVICE, NOT ABUSE. YOU WANNA SHOVEL HIM MORE INTO THE GROUND WHEN WE ARE TRYING TO BRING HIM OUT?
HABA!