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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by BobJames1(f): 9:14pm On Apr 30, 2009
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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by BobJames1(f): 9:19pm On Apr 30, 2009
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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by Nobody: 9:25pm On Apr 30, 2009
You must really take us for fools Mr. Bob James. You put up this thread in November 2007.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=92465.msg1667637#msg1667637

A month later this . . .

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=98442.msg1741515#msg1741515

Bloody attention freak!!!
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by debosky(m): 9:27pm On Apr 30, 2009
stillwater:

Bloody attention freak!!!

More like serial cheat? It's the wife I pity. sad
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by Nobody: 9:27pm On Apr 30, 2009
Bob James:

Debosky pls help.
These girls are something else.
If men were God,
I fear o.
Pls guys come to the rescue of a brother.
I have sinned but i need forgiveness.
Abeg o.

Are you the poster?

I seriously hope your wife finds out and leaves your cheating ass  angry angry
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by tope2000(f): 9:28pm On Apr 30, 2009
stillwater:

You must really take us for fools Mr. Bob James. You put up this thread in November 2007.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=92465.msg1667637#msg1667637

A month later this . . .

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=98442.msg1741515#msg1741515

Bloody attention freak!!!




heheheheheheheeheh . . . . yeye man
I bet he has never even gotten laid b4 . . . . shior cheesy
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by onyinye2(f): 9:31pm On Apr 30, 2009
Bob James:

i used condom. i dont have to say this. The issue of disease is out of it.
Ekwensu ke? I reject it in Jesus name. Amen
I fear these girls o. ah ah why?
Ekwensu? Thats too much

Onye otu anya na abu eze n'ala ndi isi.

Bob James:

Debosky pls help.
These girls are something else.
If men were God,
I fear o.
Pls guys come to the rescue of a brother.
I have sinned but i need forgiveness.
Abeg o.

Onye si na ya anaghi ata anu nkita, ya a hara kwana mmiri ofe ya.
Were ire gi guo eze gi onu.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by BobJames1(f): 9:49pm On Apr 30, 2009
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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by No2Atheism(m): 9:53pm On Apr 30, 2009
@pataki, grin, have you finished using the super computer to discover my identity instead of guessing whether its dummy or dunny or dammy, grin grin grin.


@poster, you are OYO,
- When the thin dey sweet you, you no know say if fit cause diabetes,


i didnt tell her i was married initially because we didnt discuss that and she never asked.
I thot she should know cos i am in my mid thirties.
she was devastated when i told her but she didnt call it quit.
I feel very gulty and wished i never allowed it in the first place.
She is a good person but i love my family.

 - first all this statements smell of bullshit even from a mile away,
 - Do you wear a ring on your finger,
 - If yes that you were a ring, then did she see your ring before, during and after the "automatic screw job".
 - that you are in your mid thirties is not reason for her to guess that you are married, infact if you remove your ring , and you finger shows no ring mark, guess is that she would never know you were married in the first place.
 -  I hope you would grap your manhood next and try to stop the flow of blood from the brain to the place, because frankly, the mere fact that you "overscrewed" yourselfs for 3 days shows that your there was no safety valve to stop the flow of blood from your brain to your manhood.
- Just pray that she does not become pregnant by email, otherwise you in trouble be that,
- I would advise you to do the following:

   1. Go and take an HIV test
   2. If you are negative from the HIV test, then fully postrate before her and confess to her what you did. Then hope that she would have mercy on you and take you back. Also make sure you show her the negative HIV Test results.
   3. If she forgives you, start seeking marriage counselling about your marriage, sex in your marriage and role playing during sex in your marriage,
   4. Then quietly tell the other women to leave you alone and go her way and also ask your wife to forgive the other woman (otherwise that other woman is bound to have some serious spiritual problems) .
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by wembly(m): 10:03pm On Apr 30, 2009
mr man do saying all this to get attention or a standing ovation? its amazing
just cant figure out how u will put dis to your wife,to me i think you are one of
those who give men a bad name.
as giving your side show a push its very easy grin
just show her your family album,and she will get the message clear.
hope it works out wit you and your wife.
before u start getting luv sms 4rm her phone too. cheesy
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by ladybam(f): 10:08pm On Apr 30, 2009
@poster
hmmm, everybody meets temptations everytime.
u dont justify ursef.
just try and triumph over temptation, rather dan falling a victim.
cos belive it or not:
"people ova come such temptations every day",
so please stop justifying ur actions


i hope u've changed 4real!
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by morpheus24: 10:31pm On Apr 30, 2009
@ poster.

Unfortunately you met a girl who was already brding from a past relationship. just let her down softly. Don't anger the babe oh, or she will cause you more wahala. Women are more emotional than men.

Make her realize you are not going to leave your wife no mater what and stop sending mixed signals to the babe if you are still doing so.

Just let her down softly, over time you go disconnect from you . Nah just woman wey catch feelings. If its not nutured the feeling will eventually go away.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by Fiona0007: 11:23pm On Apr 30, 2009
@Poster

Yeah, these things happen in life without plans and everyone involved are going to get hurt.
I have found a website with support and advice for women involved with married men. You can ask her to visit www.gloryb.com
I hope she will understand more what it takes to be the other woman after that. I hope she can make the right informed decision. If you are not in love with her, tell her that. You may need to repeat it often to her. Women won't waste time on a man who is not actually interested in her other than having sex.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by iice(f): 10:29am On May 01, 2009
tkb417:


hehehehe
i no understand english na grin

but why wish the guy whats hes sown when u know hes not sown a good seed?
u wicked small sha

I did not wish him anything. He got what he asked for. He went ahead with another woman other than his wife, and didn't tell the woman that he was married. He took care of this woman basically formed a caring relationship with the woman. . .did he expect that she would let him go like that? undecided With all the enjoyment she got from him, of course she will not let go easily.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by BobJames1(f): 10:35am On May 01, 2009
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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by dae(f): 1:23pm On May 01, 2009
Pataki:

Funny woman. grin grin Long Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

You too, do not do what your fellow woman is doing oh! Leave another woman's property alone! ehen.

Lol, funny man, Longer hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss -- beat that!  grin
LEave dem mini skirt chicks alone. na anoda mans property. Shey u heard how someone died from magun. ehen. i'm telling u my own now o. ehen, ok.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by StrStruck(f): 2:30pm On May 01, 2009
stillwater:

You must really take us for fools Mr. Bob James. You put up this thread in November 2007.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=92465.msg1667637#msg1667637

A month later this . . .

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=98442.msg1741515#msg1741515

Bloody attention freak!!!




I'm still waiting on Bob to explain himself.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by dae(f): 2:36pm On May 01, 2009
St☆rStruck:

I'm still waiting on Bob to explain himself.

Ohh ohhh, ohhhh shyte! someone is Busted!  lipsrsealed

*she sneaks out of the thread*
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by emilyone(f): 2:46pm On May 01, 2009
see how far people could go shocked

coming here to play pranks on our intelligence huh shocked
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by BobJames1(f): 5:36pm On May 01, 2009
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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by BobJames1(f): 5:43pm On May 01, 2009
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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by BobJames1(f): 5:44pm On May 01, 2009
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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by StrStruck(f): 6:01pm On May 01, 2009
Bob James:


The issues raised in those threads were real and did happend.
Why would seek anybody's attention in NL?
Any prize for that?
Pls give a brother some advice and quit the emphasis on issues
that are buried in the past.
If i had this relationship around the time i posted that thread,
my marriage would probaly be in the past cos, i actually
was looking for a way out then.
But now i have all things looking up for me at home. The issue
of an affair would not be justified.
Tell me how many men will not have an affair when the woman at home
say no to sex. Just tell me.
I hope una get my gist sha.
I need help to tell the babe that i was wrong at getting her to such romantic height.
Thats what you should help me with pls

You are as ugly as Freddy Krueger inside and out. According to your stories, you've have cheated wife at least three times. Don't ever try to justify your actions by saying that other men do it too.

Matter of fact, there is no point dropping any advice because you'll turn around and have sex with next woman that is stupid enough to give in to your advances and as soon as she shows interest in you, you pull out your wedding band. It's men like you that give other men out their bad names. Fucking slut.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by BobJames1(f): 10:04pm On May 01, 2009
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Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by StrStruck(f): 10:57pm On May 01, 2009
Bob James:

@star struck

You dey sick 4 ur bum? U are d worst lady on NL.
I cant stand ur demented mind. Tell d truth, didnt u wish u have
me? Am not ur type.
Sorrry u hear?
OLoDo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You really are not my type. I don't do cheats. I see a string of STDs in your future lol.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by Treetop20(m): 11:31pm On May 01, 2009
Bob James:

@star struck

You dey sick 4 ur bum? U are d worst lady on NL.
I cant stand ur demented mind. Tell d truth, didnt u wish u have
me? Am not ur type.
Sorrry u hear?
OLoDo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
oh sod it!
go and sort out the rubbish
you have put your self in and stop
chatting absolutely rubbish on the net
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by tope2000(f): 11:33pm On May 01, 2009
Bob James:

@star struck

You dey sick 4 ur bum? U are d worst lady on NL.
I cant stand ur demented mind. Tell d truth, didnt u wish u have
me? Am not ur type.
Sorrry u hear?
OLoDo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hehehehe . . . look at this idiot that is in a mess n yet he cussing away grin grin
u must be going MAD tongue
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by Hauwa1: 11:35pm On May 01, 2009
what's happening today? so many stressful guys around grin
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by yme1(f): 11:36pm On May 01, 2009
@poster

the truth is you deserve any insult that you are gonna get from NL
just take it as one of your punishment tongue grin
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by posakosa(m): 11:37pm On May 01, 2009
cheated on your poor wife,  hopefully, your so-called fling sends hired killers to you!  Stoooopid~  angry angry angry


If you have daughters, they will do worse to your kids.
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by Sauron1: 11:38pm On May 01, 2009
debosky:

More like serial cheat? It's the wife I pity.  sad

That is if he's got a wife or if he is spewing the truth. . . . . .
Re: How To End An Affair? (I'm Married) by Nobody: 11:41pm On May 01, 2009
i can tell you that this shit plays out like no mans biz in companies across nigeria. what the hell, when i'm working late, i sometimes see some ogas leaving the office with their tricks. i have also seen office romances between married couples . . .

i'm mostly indifferent to the story. this is not the ops first time, and it won't be the last. his wife is probably aware of it on some level (women always are , imho, so she probbaly protecting herself. . .not that there is any need, since her bed is probably cold. . .

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