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Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by cococandy(f): 6:29pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Yea I need to copyright that huh? DonTim1: |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by DonTim1: 10:42pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
cococandy: I guess |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by 2sex(m): 7:46am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Marxxx:I read your previous post and being introvert, I can relate with your disposition as result of unstable mind. I destroyed my phone screen without realising I did until I started looking for the phone, I had a deep cut that required stitches and these were caused by an unstable mind cos a girl was involved. I have to be frank with you, go back to that girl before it's late. Bring her to the city and change her gradually. You are being influenced by what people will think of her or your status but remember one this: "if you have problem tomorrow, those same people won't care" the best you will get is "take heart", "it is well". "God will see you through" No one will share in your problems. That girl is REAL, not fake. Since you want another polished lady, remember many have slept with different men, many cheats and so many things you might not be able to handle. I know someone who married the woman who was there with him when he had nothing. She was supportive and she did send me money in those days. Today they are married with a son. It will be wrong and very wrong to dump this lady wherein she had sweated with you and now that it's time to enjoy with you, you decided to dump her. You are practically telling her to change whom she IS and being as educated as you are, you should know it wrong and very wrong. It's your choice bro, but I do know dumping her for the reasons you gave in your previous post is very WRONG. You indirectly telling her she isn't good enough for you new standard but remember we are all humans, irrespective of our class in the society. You are looking down on her and to me that is discriminating. I STAND WITH HER 5 Likes |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dapsonlou(m): 8:21am On Feb 25, 2016 |
sseunth: You are my kind of person lol, I have all that game accept Lord of war |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Sparkles003(f): 8:24am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Yours wasn't a failed relationship. Yours was a choice. You choose what was most important for you. So live with it and move on. start noticing all the dimples,laughs,great dress sense,fake smiles,nice legs on pencil skirt, fake lashes,mary kay,bm pro, and co faces,well made up pouted lips but nothing beats a good heart,a caring soul,a die hard thick and thin woman. Look out!!!!All that glitters ain't gold. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by 2sex(m): 12:05pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Marxxx: Speechless3: I had to bring this here as it has some element of correlation with what you have 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by 2sex(m): 12:06pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Sparkles003:God bless you. The dude has been influenced by city life. I just hope he does not regret this in the near future. |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Marxxxx, please try and restore your relationship with the lady, I know this is the last thing u want to hear right now. Everyone i know who had similar issues live to regret the decision one way or the other. It is always difficult to have it all, except you don't truly love her then there won't be any need to try rather do all you can to move on. Not everyone has an opportunity at a 2nd chance, even though i don't regret where i am today and won't trade it for anything, i regret the decision i took when i was in a similar position as you years back, cos i was naive and assumed great spouses were easy to come by. My advise to people i meet in similar situation is, life is more than material things, a spouse's deep xters matters and is very important over taste in the journey of life and what really matters in the long run shouldn't be trivialized in the heat or spur of the moment. You need to be resilient, how would you feel if another man can make her everything your were not able to. if you don't mind see this movie "why did i get married 1& 2, (emphasis on Mike, Sheila & Troy's xter) just to have an insight into the possibility of what can be. Just imagine, would dressing, accent etc matter in the next 10years? of cos not what will matter will be fulfillment and realization of dreams & goals, good health, happiness, trust, solid foundation for ur children etc. You are not in any competition with anyone learn to love and appreciate what you have before it is too late. |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 10:38pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Dyt:are you always like this? I mean sarcastic and troublesome?..."No good night to you".... |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 10:42pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxxx, please try and restore your relationship with the lady, I know this is the last thing u want to hear right now.I appreciate your comment. I believe it was more than just material stuff...I trust it was conflict of interest...do have a great night rest |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 10:50pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
2sex:Wow you talk like I came to the city few weeks ago...There are so many things we will have to live with good or bad. My vet doc informed me that my best friend Zara (parrot) may soon give up the ghost...I will have to live with that too!!! |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 10:53pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
2sex:In a relationship there should be unity of purpose, direction and interest. Mine was the opposite.....gracias splendid nite rest |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 10:57pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Sparkles003:Nice write up!...I understand. I notice that you are slim too. Have a good nite rest |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:01pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
2sex:Thanks for your advice. It's not about looking down...I understand you though.. |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Dyt(f): 11:05pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: So he told everyone goodnight Me nko? Snaps fingers I am still waiting for you o You no gree my proposal? |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:17pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
GodnGold:Thanks I am getting along pretty well. I am not egocentric. I may be Xenophobic. Although My Introverted nature makes me look unfriendly and I am a choleric (According to a psychologist). Nevertheless recently I discovered I can be funny and playful. Pray for my best friend Zara (parrot). It may die soon... |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:20pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Dyt:You should be sleeping. Why are you awake? I didn't say good night because you were having fun at my expense! ...That is not cool. and you were being sarcastic too...oh your proposal? You are already married. I don't want to start preparing my will now. I know what a 9mm bullet looks like put that through my rib cage; I will lose 4litres of blood in 200seconds...not a good way to exit planet earth |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dytbabe: 11:25pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: Bite me At having fun at your expense, not really Since you want the opposite of what you had I thought I could fit in so me too can be getting that 7 digits Muchechecheche Don't mind me I can be quite annoying Sleep e no come so I just wanna hang around a bit looking for small small troubles |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dytbabe: 11:28pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: Come and post with your original moniker ooooo Ehn ehn Na you marry me? |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:30pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
dytbabe:Pardon my ignorance are you Dyt? Or you have another monicker/handle? |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dytbabe: 11:33pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: The name is dia na Ahn ahn Why asking again Every moniker with the D, Y and T as the first letters belongs to no one else Muchechechechecheche |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:36pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
dytbabe:ohhhh....How is the baby? What does the acronym DYT mean? |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dytbabe: 11:39pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: I have said you should post with your other known moniker Lil man is great, you don't expect him be up at this time when he's not marxxx The name is Idayatu You can figure it out Stop flirting with me Do you have money? |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:41pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
dytbabe:I thought you have a baby? |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dytbabe: 11:45pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: I haven't said I don't have But wait ooo Ehn ehn You want to mingle seriously? Are you old Tall Slim Bald Big belle Do you live in banana island Can you dash me a 2017 RR envogue Chechechechechecheche *i bet some people will read my posts and shake head* |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:47pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
dytbabe:I do not have another monicker. Definitely he should be in dreamland right now. I hope he likes to read...? You are a muslim?...marxxx is still at the office not yet home....your last question...you don't need an answer do you? |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:49pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
dytbabe:I know you are being sarcastic. I did not say I want to mingle...you are funny |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dytbabe: 11:51pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: He's a 3 year old boy and most at his age loves to read and write even sing it out loud At the office this time? Abeg make I force myself sleep Gotta wake 6am for prayers Yes, a practicing muslim I bet you would ask over and over again if you know me, I likey sha, makes me feel special |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dytbabe: 11:53pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: Marxxx: I hope you not finding me attractive already? *judging from your post ooo* Sorry I have indulged you too much tonight This mama gotta force sleep to come else I will be dozing at work tomorrow BTW, my company is into FM (facilities mgt) do you have a job for us? |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 11:56pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
dytbabe:That is good(@ ur son). It is good to be steadfast in your religion. Finally good night! |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by dytbabe: 11:58pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Marxxx: Did I tell you I am sleeping FM thing jor and I wee go bed |
Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by Marxxx: 12:04am On Mar 01, 2016 |
dytbabe:Now you are sounding ridiculous. Funny you. You are funny in an eccentric way though. I am not in Maintenance. I don't have an inkling about how they function. But I believe it is outsourced... |
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