SAINTSAMURAI:
ITS SIMPLE AS ABC. ITS A MAN'S WORLD AND U GOT TO DEAL WITH IT.

ellacute45:
will you shut up your mouth

ZeeAfrica:


hehehehhe lol, i have noticed dat here in nigeria, homophobia is bread, whereas in other countries, people r free. Does dat mean nigerians are more religious dan other nations? Or does it mean dat nigerians r nt morden?

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

mimzy:
i'll be here dear...waiting for your contribution

dollyjoy:
i totally agree with you, But saying ladies are good for sex alone is totally wrong and ridiculous. Ladies have got more to offer other than sex,in terms of finance,emotional support and more.

mimzy:
1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

mimzy:

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

mimzy:

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?

mimzy:

4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

mimzy:

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

onstelly:

Not so true hon
I wonder why you guys keep saying that

joseph1832:
Only men who move with the crowd say that. Lol.

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

onstelly:
Thank you!

Cutehector:
na too much play dey cause all these things.....

jojosweet:
Hi everyone I am new here, I fit get welcome song

ellacute45:
Am joking

TheSonOfMark:


Religion aside, homosexuality contradicts the natural order. Throughout the mammal world, males have always paired and mated with females and certainly not with males or females
with females.

The female _vaginal orifice is biologically designed to be inserted by a _phallus and not _clitoris against _clitoris.


Homosexuals defy this natural order hence they are regarded as perverts. Nothing supports their delusions.

100Cents:
Nobody is asking you ladies to provide anything financial.

Just give the man sex when he wants it and cook his food.

Not everytime, you are either on intagram or watching telemundo.

Anyway, i still blame buarri.

icedbeatz:
where did i infer that ladies are only good for sex alone? No i never did but the reality check will spit it out that many brizzles are mostly good just for sex millions of guys can testify to this but thank the lord we have some "ladies" thatt have a lot more to offer than their pink island.
If i may ask why do most females like pink?

Persephenee:
Mimzy luv,I think it should be 'The world/nature and its double standards with women'. Truth is it isn't men's fault that the world is like that,its nature!
Nature said a man's way can never be same as a woman's. I believe all this where put in place for the survival of our species. Imagine what it'd be like if we all had the same rights and lives.
A man has tendencies and weaknesses,so does a woman. A man is like a key and a woman like a lock.A key that opens many locks is a master key while a lock that can be opened by many keys is useless.
Ndi Igbo na-ekwu na "anara adi abuo apu ara". There's a man's way and there's also a woman's way. That's what my mother taught me and that's also what I'll teach my girls.Hope this helps.

Cutehector:
na too much play dey cause all these things.....

Persephenee:
Mimzy luv,I think it should be 'The world/nature and its double standards with women'. Truth is it isn't men's fault that the world is like that,its nature!
Nature said a man's way can never be same as a woman's. I believe all this where put in place for the survival of our species. Imagine what it'd be like if we all had the same rights and lives.
A man has tendencies and weaknesses,so does a woman. A man is like a key and a woman like a lock.A key that opens many locks is a master key while a lock that can be opened by many keys is useless.
Ndi Igbo na-ekwu na "anara adi abuo apu ara". There's a man's way and there's also a woman's way. That's what my mother taught me and that's also what I'll teach my girls.Hope this helps.

humilitypays:
@op, God and nature made it that way to keep sanity in the world and to keep the earth's population in check because if women become as sexually liberal as men, believe me, people will be having sex on the street in broad day light.

Many men can never say no to any lady that ask them for sex....but women are not like that and it's not because women have more sense than men but because God made it that way so human being don't end up engaging in sex anyhow and overpopulating the world overnight.

Watch animals too....the male ones have to always chase after the female ones to convince them into having copulation....that should tell u that all these are natural traits but humans want to change things, especially Americans and Europeans and reason the world will be in total mess with time.

So stop bothering about all those things and enjoy your gender because each gender have something to envy about it, hope this helps clears your mind.‎

E be like say na only you get "cɧųkųɭɩ" sense for here.


Mimzy here is a better explaination about the order of gender relationship and interaction


Actually I have reasoned this same question and rationalized it,but I have decided to give it time,or I could ask God on judgement day