Reads post... Ignores...on to the next post...

An0nimus:
I'm tempted to ask how old is the OP but that might look like an insult.

mimzy:
U made so much sense with ur post.
But please permit me to disagree on just one point... These days, the financial burden is shared almost on a 60:40 ratio my dear...

I permit you to disagree as much as it seems ok to you dear .

60:40 could be what is expected
, but it ain't what is practiced.
same goes for the domestic chores issue.

unless if you're talking base on some foreign and well developed countries, and yet 60:40 ratio isn't still a norm in countries like that .

to be really honest with you, I am being in accordance to realty and not sentimental only because I perceive a good level of sincerity in your posts.

if not I go don Dey state 1000 reasons and events where and when 60:40 ratio isn't even in connection with today's thought, not to even mention the today's world in realty.


but I must confess, a hand full amount of women are grabbing the importance of the "independent woman ",but even at that, women seems to be naturally dependent on men when it comes to providing and protection and men find it naturally a thing of pride to take hold of such reponsibilties.

in essence it is only natural that men dominates in providing and protecting and women mostly do keeping and helping .

Double standard you call it.
I guess you want to become a man in your next world if there will be any.

You can only understand the ways of men if you know they way of a serpent on the mountain.

@mimzy, just a simple question, why has the world not known peace since you were created??
you talked of double standard, can you compare it to the double wahala you brought??

Dongata:
[b]1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally? Because we are men. We have balls, you don't

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores? Because women are the helper not men

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?
Cuz the more you rabazamba, the bigger your puna gets. Who wants to marry a woman with an altantic ocean puna


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women? Because this is nairaland

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same? [/b]
Ermmm...you won't want anyone to insult your relatives..would you

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

Why not?

ITS A WOMANS WORLD......ask samson or Adam.
Women just dont realize the power they have, u can turn a man on and off like a switch if u knw ur God given gift.
The hardest of men is a fool for one woman.

Oh Sweet Pea, you are getting it all twisted! And it leaves the feeling you aren't very familiar with your bible (that is if you aren't a Muslim or even a pagan, no offense). You might want to look up 1 Corinthians 11:9.

It is what it is (not that I vote for infidelity any how). A woman's calling is not to rub shoulders with a man and share privileges as a right. Unfortunately, our women are misguided by the illusionary idea of gender equality pushed by the western world whose very hankering for unlimited freedom has subliminally conned them into irrevocable slavery.

And men who generalise women as b*tches can't be further wrong and they know it too. Just that they have to find a way to vent the frustration and/or disappointment meted them by such women.

SAINTSAMURAI:
ITS SIMPLE AS ABC. ITS A MAN'S WORLD AND U GOT TO DEAL WITH IT.

No its not.

@mimzy:

Make your own rules in your own world.

onstelly:
My sister oh You just said some real truth

lets relate please

ZeeAfrica:


hehehehhe lol, i have noticed dat here in nigeria, homophobia is bread, whereas in other countries, people r free. Does dat mean nigerians are more religious dan other nations? Or does it mean dat nigerians r nt morden?

Nigeria is the most religious country in the world. From my observation.

onstelly:
Not so true hon I wonder why you guys keep saying that

GOD is a he

ZeeAfrica:


hehehehhe lol, i have noticed dat here in nigeria, homophobia is bread, whereas in other countries, people r free. Does dat mean nigerians are more religious dan other nations? Or does it mean dat nigerians r nt morden?

it means we dnt tolerate rubbish

SAINTSAMURAI:
GOD is a he

So

onstelly:
So

ITS A HE WORLD.

AssoJnr:

lets relate please

How

SAINTSAMURAI:
ITS A HE WORLD.

Gbam
I know that the next thing you will say and like I assumed didn't fall me

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

Is a natural somtin . Deal with that ma'am!

onstelly:
My sister oh
You just said some real truth

Hello dear hw r u doing. Do u Remember me?

doris4u:
Hello dear hw r u doing. Do u Remember me?

Wow omg where have you been
It's been a long long time my dear

onstelly:
Gbam I know that the next thing you will say and like I assumed didn't fall me

LOL bt are u denying it?

SAINTSAMURAI:
LOL bt are u denying it?

Not so true
#sadface

Men are not d cause because it's been dat way from d beginning. Found out from Genesis account

onstelly:

Not so true
#sadface

hmm cheer up. just that ladies too are standing up 4 themselves but d problem is that the ones standing up 4 themselfs are very few.

Hmmmmm! A food for thought. Men's or women's world does not exist in my dictionary! What the op has raised aren't and can't be exhibited by real men! However, it is only a shameless woman who will want to compete and follow the thread of most guys of today! In summary, the society we find ourself isn't an ideal one and highly insane that most sins that guys are acquitted of result to serious condemnation for women. However, the blame may not shift from our women, even if, not soon because they encourage most guys to indulge in such habits. But I repeat, REAL men won't cheat on their women, shares their pain, display high sense of humour with his woman and gives room for genuine mutual respect! I rest my case here. Thanks

SAINTSAMURAI:
hmm cheer up. just that ladies too are standing up 4 themselves but d problem is that the ones standing up 4 themselfs are very few.

Smiles
Happy am one of them

onstelly:
Smiles Happy am one of them

yeah dats cool, i like ladies like u.

misspicy:

Why did He watch men misuse the upper hand/brains he gave them?

why did he allow some scumbags move freely?

and many more

i ask u something u take style unlook am the other day.

icedbeatz:
If you can reveal why you seek such info its likely be an insult bro and i guess its a rhetorical question, She just wants some explanations.

lol I'll bet she's not up to 21. Still not an insult.

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

What good is a padlock if any key can open it?
Guess who's the key in the analogy?

ZeeAfrica:
Op honey, i love u baby.

This love you guys are sharing.

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

If I take off my shirt and go topless as a guy, would you as a girl?
I mean, in public.
Equality BS.

Mimzy. Women always play the victim. You people always wanna be pampered nd cared for bt at same time step on thes guys nd wana be above em(feminism).

Forgettin that guys are egocentric nd wuld take away that care nd respect wen trampled upon.

If you ask me, i feel this world favors nd smiles on the ladies more.. We men kip suffrin nd smiling only to hear the complaints nd nags of females at the end of the.

I am nd will neva be in support of men maltreating ladies, i condemn it.

Also men are easily aroused, some even by breeze. Its natural even in lower animals.Tho this is no excuse for cheatin bt fact is that its EASIER for a man to fall into havin extramarital sex affairs than a woman.. Unfortunately that law ws propounded by mother nature herself. So if at all less pity shld be accorded to any, it shld be to the man.

Ladies should be treated with maximum love, care nd respect but wen thats taken advantage of...? You knw the rest.. Such thread as urs would come up the next day.