dollyjoy:
"man's world" means men have upperhand in most areas of human endeavour,which is true,over the years,women have tried claiming equality with men but that is not possible,it have been so right from the "early man"days.btw,the world is not really that "tough" to women compared to men.


I believe the world will be a more satisfactory place if we admit and accept our place as "men's helpmate" not men equal.

dare2differ:

Are you sick? Is that what your mother is all good for?

An0nimus:
I'm tempted to ask how old is the OP but that might look like an insult.

Stupedinluv:


It isnt a man's fault that he cheats??
It isnt a man's fault that he insults you? Its natural

Some of you women have no brains( i am pissed)

misspicy:

E be like say na only you get "cɧųkųɭɩ" sense for here.


Mimzy here is a better explaination about the order of gender relationship and interaction


Actually I have reasoned this same question and rationalized it,but I have decided to give it time,or I could ask God on judgement day

agrovick:

And you had to drag his mother into it. Clap yourself.

icedbeatz:
sometimes you just don't decorate madness with a response at all bro. Just for next time you observe it.

smexy:
[s]its quite obvious you have 'the brains' for opining such intelligent points on a crucial matter like this.
P. S:its called sarcasm [/s]

Stupedinluv:
Begone with your dead brain cells.

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

Suigeneris93:
still thinking will get back to you

mimzy:


Yes hun, he's right. I think he gave the best explanation so far.. Lol, what are those questions you still wanna ask chukwu?

Why did He watch men misuse the upper hand/brains he gave them?

why did he allow some scumbags move freely?

and many more

chinonyinye:
dis 1 dat most guys re shying away from d question, nawaa...but if its a thread dat indicts women, dey would have run faster than usain bolt to comment and dis thread would have like 10 pages.anyway I'm still waiting for concrete reasons because so far I've not seen much.

Ralphdan:


Bae first let me complement ur looks,u beautiful.
Secondly pls get feminism of ur mind its western idea nt gud for Nigerian ladies.Ask ur mom she will explain bera.
#winks.

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

humilitypays:
@op, God and nature made it that way to keep sanity in the world and to keep the earth's population in check because if women become as sexually liberal as men, believe me, people will be having sex on the street in broad day light.

Many men can never say no to any lady that ask them for sex....but women are not like that and it's not because women have more sense than men but because God made it that way so human being don't end up engaging in sex anyhow and overpopulating the world overnight.

Watch animals too....the male ones have to always chase after the female ones to convince them into having copulation....that should tell u that all these are natural traits but humans want to change things, especially Americans and Europeans and reason the world will be in total mess with time.

So stop bothering about all those things and enjoy your gender because each gender have something to envy about it, hope this helps clears your mind.‎

Sagamite:


No one forces you to forgive. It is utterly your choice, just like when they make their choice not to forgive.

So I don't understand what you are complaining about.



This is a personal arrangement thing.

Personally, I would wonder what a women brings to my life if she does not do the domestic chores.

I would gain all that emotional bagage and illogical arguments that come with a woman for what benefits?



This comes back to the famous key and lock analogy.

"A key that opens any lock is a Master Key.

A lock that can be opened by any key is a Crap Lock."

Look, girl, pack this crap. You are going to get pumped because men do the fcking, not women. So men are the keys, women are the lock.

So their really is nothing to brag about about your sexual encounters of being fcked. Men do the pumping, except you want to claim to be fantastic and mean in bed, which I doubt.

By the way, a girl's friends are free to hail her about her sexual escapade. Are girls' friends all male? If not, why are you blaming men for them not hailing a girl for it?



Many of them are insecure and senseless fcktards!



If they state all women are such, then they have already said their female relatives are.

flokii:
@OP

why is it so expensive to marry an igbo lady?

I mean.. one has to think twice bfor getting rid of them incase of 'cheating'... after spending millions o

maka WHY?

kelot:
Nairaland is so full of chauvinists its always repugnating reading the derogatory comments made against the female gender. Much more surprising is the number of likes such comments get.

Dcholeric:
1 : if a woman wants to cheat, she should go ahead there's no law that states "a man can cheat but not a woman", if you let the words of people control you, you shouldn't blame anyone.

2 : men are not immune to chores, as I see husbands taking care of domestic chores daily (even when they are the sole financial provider in the home), they lift heavy properties around the house , they take care plumbing, electrical (...e.t.c ) faults.
the thing is that women are mostly on a low percentage when it comes to bill and men are also on a low percentage when it comes to chores, so it is balance , although the reverse could be the case in just a few marriages.
bills most times : men 90%- women10%
chores most times : men 15% - women 85%
my assumption according to daily views .

3 : its same as number one , f*ck and brag, there's no law that support a man and restricts a woman on this issue.

4 : It's nairaland as you have typed, so if you can't beat them , join them

5 : almost everyone is bound to be sentimental on issues concerning their loved ones , so it doesn't apply to men alone .
women do say "all men are cheats/same" but refuse to admit it applies to their fathers .

TheSonOfMark:


Religion aside, homosexuality contradicts the natural order. Throughout the mammal world, males have always paired and mated with females and certainly not with males or females
with females.

The female _vaginal orifice is biologically designed to be inserted by a _phallus and not _clitoris against _clitoris.


Homosexuals defy this natural order hence they are regarded as perverts. Nothing supports their delusions.

Weselion:
You smoke gbana I swear

chinonyinye:
dis 1 dat most guys re shying away from d question, nawaa...but if its a thread dat indicts women, dey would have run faster than usain bolt to comment and dis thread would have like 10 pages.anyway I'm still waiting for concrete reasons because so far I've not seen much.

gcode123:
You have 3 choices, you either choose to be with a man, a woman or be alone. There aint no other alternative.most of your complaints are natural. The way men are wired genetically. So since you cant change that, why not try to understand men and find a way around living with men in peace.....

Women are different from us to and men have generalisations but men honestly study to understand women right from teenage years.... Do d same and have peace....

TheSonOfMark:


Religion aside, homosexuality contradicts the natural order. Throughout the mammal world, males have always paired and mated with females and certainly not with males or females
with females.

The female _vaginal orifice is biologically designed to be inserted by a _phallus and not _clitoris against _clitoris.


Homosexuals defy this natural order hence they are regarded as perverts. Nothing supports their delusions.

Adaure4ever:
thats the injustice in the society.
The Guys will tell you that its a Man's World forgetting that they came out from inbetween a woman's legs