My problem with the guy that recorded this video is that he used a Nokia C2 .. If he'd seen where they steal our money by our so-called politicians.. He wouldn't have recorded it..

wildimagination:



I really don't think this is about rejection or being coward
I'm trying to like put my self in the guy's shoes...and a part of me is saying: a girl proposing to me in a public place would look really embarrassing, like"shebi u don't know what to do as a man, i'll do It for you"
so what was he suppose to do??
Behave like like a sissy and allow her slide a ring on his finger cos I don't get how the rest was suppose to play out

Mayb the guy could have done better and not runaway...but I felt it was an impulse thing.


Ladies should just leave this proposing thing to guys...

In as much a lady's family won't go and prostrate and ask for the guy's hand in marriage...ladies should just bone this parole

My opinion though

Better, like?

This guy don cast big time all thanks to the lady wey do public proposal. I just hope other ladies no come copy this trend of doin public proposal cos in naija everything is copied weda it turns out positive or negative. Mehn man pickin will just be careful on d way he relate wit babes.Lalas247,oyindidi,thornapppl,greiboy,biacan una dey miss juicy Tory oo.

donstan18:


Have a nice day, dog

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WotzupNG:
lalasticlala

please can you tell me the meaning of that

Viicfuntop:

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donstan18:


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You are not serious

He did the RIGHT thing in the WRONG way! Foolish guy...yet Stupid lady!

I salute his courage for being a runaway groom to be. Marriage is totally different from mere boyfriend and girlfriend parole.

I don't support public proposals, but when faced with one...embarrassing the proposing party isn't the best way out.

After all, acceptance doesn't mean marriage.

Ladies listen up and listen good!!

You can initiate dating and relationship with a man, please don't ever dare initiate marriage because marriage is one of the most difficult decisions every man takes in his life.

Men don't just wake up and decide to marry no matter how rich they are, they must be financially, psychologically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually ready to settle down before a man thinks of getting married and mind u, 90% of men in relationship don't wish to marry the lady they are currently dating, so be careful as a lady

lefulefu:
This guy don cast big time all thanks to the lady wey do public proposal. I just hope other ladies no come copy this trend of doin public proposal cos in naija everything is copied weda it turns out positive or negative. Mehn man pickin will just be careful on d way he relate wit babes.Lala..s247,oyind..idi,thorna..pppl,greib..oy,bia..can una dey miss juicy Tory oo.

I see am

Wow! So this is the face of the guy that rejected a LADIES proposal? Wow!

crazymommy:
As for me I think the guy shouldn't have run away,that is a cowardly act....collect the ring and move her away from the scene then you can now reject her privately....and on the lady part I am irritated right now,she showed a lot of desperation....that is what happens when a lady is very desperate to get married and also the clueless society made it look like marriage is the biggest achievement in life....nonsense....honestly I am ashamed of how she was shamefully ashamed of the embarrassing embarassment...see the way her friend or sister was even embarrassed too...if the guy want to spend his life with her he would have proposed to her on his own....

how about if ladies want to spend their entire life with us, they would do what she has done even more?

her proposing to the guy does not mean desperation, it simply means she fancies the guy enough to want to spend her life with him and there is absolutely nothing wrong in that!

she did no wrong leting out her desires. its just that in this case, it didnt go her way. she can try next time with another guy and it might turn out in her favour. ladies turn ua down all the time and you dont hear us say so much about it.

so if a man proposes to a lady, does that mean he is being deaperate too?

Dimples129:


That is the correct procedure

White girl proposes because her Daddy will fork the bill. What be Naija girls part? To give him a list

Na! This shi can't happen!

lol

Nope, since we are all about feminism and social justice here. I think we don't need to care about the bills .

in the modern world( including Nigeria), some ladies earn as much as, if not more than men in some careers and they are still pushing for more

So why shouldn't ladies be able to foot the bill in Nigeria, since they get well paid.

Is it not the groom(man) that foots the bill alone on most occasions


All hail social justice, all hail women's libration movement, all hail feminism

crazymommy:
On this thread,did I ever mention that the guy should accept the proposal??i only said the guy should take her away from the scene and do whatever he wants to do privately

I don't know if you watched the full video, but he tries to get her to stand up and move away but she starts to make a scene so he took the ring and walks away, while she continues to make a scene. If he said yes, then she will celebrate and people will clap lol! Poor guy just Took the ring and go like take away

lefulefu:
This guy don cast big time all thanks to the lady wey do public proposal. I just hope other ladies no come copy this trend of doin public proposal cos in naija everything is copied weda it turns out positive or negative. Mehn man pickin will just be careful on d way he relate wit babes.Lalas247,oyindidi,thornapppl,greiboy,biacan una dey miss juicy Tory oo.

as in, guys need to start staying some inches away from their girlfriends when in public places to avoid sudden embarrassing proposal like this.

Not all men want to trend because of love, relationship, marriage or romance. Men want to trend for being the richest, being the smartest and being the most talented not things like this.

That's why the guy ran away to avoid people capturing his face and posting on social media which has been done already, its embarrassing seriously

Viicfuntop:

You are not serious

Are you new on this forum?

Ghostmode2two:
I salute his courage for being a runaway groom to be. Marriage is totally different from mere boyfriend and girlfriend parole.

how are they different?

lefulefu:
This guy don cast big time all thanks to the lady wey do public proposal. I just hope other ladies no come copy this trend of doin public proposal cos in naija everything is copied weda it turns out positive or negative. Mehn man pickin will just be careful on d way he relate wit babes.Lalas247,oyindi,thorapppl,greiby,biacn una dey miss juicy Tory oo.

I dey here my chairman

Me I think say the guy don turn star self

1. The guy is a coward
2. I love the lady for her boldness, you guys may see desperation but I see a lady that's bold and knows what she wants.
3. getting engage doesn't mean you guys will necessarily get married
4. maybe the guy refuse to take the step and she decide to be the one to...
5. at least now she knows where the relationship is heading so she doesn't have to waste her time anymore

NEXT PLEASE.

greiboy:
lol

Nope, since we are all about feminism and social justice here. I think we don't need to care about the bills .

in modern the world( including Nigeria), some ladies earn as much as, if not more than men in some careers and they are still pushing for more

So why shouldn't ladies be able to foot the bill in Nigeria, since they get well paid.

Is it not the groom(man) that foots the bill alone on most occasions


All hail social justice, all hail women's libration movement, all hail feminism

I agree 100%

A woman who has the means can pull this off and cover the wedding etc...

All hail feminism

samuelezekiel:
1. The guy is a coward
2. I love the lady for her boldness, you guys may see desperation but I see a lady that's bold and knows what she wants.
3. getting engage doesn't mean you guys will necessarily get married
4. maybe the guy refuse to take the step and she decide to be the one to...
5. at least now she knows where the relationship is heading so she doesn't have to waste her time anymore

NEXT PLEASE.

My brother, believe me, if u were in that guys shoe, u would run too lol.

The decision to marry and who to marry is the greatest and most difficult decision every man takes in his life.

Marriage to men, is way different from dating cos every man knows the so much commitment and tying down that comes with getting married, so its not easy for a man to just accept a lady's marriage proposal when he has not made up his mind to settle down with her.

crazymommy:
As for me I think the guy shouldn't have run away,that is a cowardly act....collect the ring and move her away from the scene then you can now reject her privately....and on the lady part I am irritated right now,she showed a lot of desperation....that is what happens when a lady is very desperate to get married and also the clueless society made it look like marriage is the biggest achievement in life....nonsense....honestly I am ashamed of how she was shamefully ashamed of the embarrassing embarassment...see the way her friend or sister was even embarrassed too...if the guy want to spend his life with her he would have proposed to her on his own....

Ahn ahn, calm down na, no go let the anger choke you o.

I pity the lady tho... sense fall on her mumu head

humilitypays:
as in, guys need to start staying some inches away from their girlfriends when in public places to avoid sudden embarrassing proposal like this.

Not all men want to trend because of love, relationship, marriage or romance. Men want to trend for being the richest, being the smartest and being the most talented not things like this.

That's why the guy ran away to avoid people capturing his face and posting on social media which has been done already, its embarrassing seriously

i concur.he had no choice other than to run na.imagine if he had accepted..he would have been mocked by his friends as a man who is not man enuf...his whole neighbourhood will remember him as the man whose proposed to him.anyway this one na lesson to all fukboys wey dey lie dat they love a babe just because they want to get into her pant.sooner or later if u no propose she will take the bull by the horns and propose to u.ur relationship with a lady should be clearly defined.if its a casual relationship let her know if its casual and don't lie that u love her. Just watch as other girls will use this public proposal stunt on their boyfriends.mehn those guys with multiple side chics how dem go avoid embarrassment na?

What's the name of the movie?

lefulefu:
i concur.he had no choice other than to run na.imagine if he had accepted..he would have been mocked by his friends as a man who is not man enuf...his whole neighbourhood will remember him as the man whose proposed to him.anyway this one na lesson to all fukboys wey dey lie dat they love a babe just because they want to get into her pant.sooner or later if u no propose she will take the bull by the horns and propose to u.ur relationship with a lady should be clearly defined.if its a casual relationship let her know if its casual and don't lie that u love her. Just watch as other girls will use this public proposal stunt on their boyfriends.mehn those guys with multiple side chics how dem go avoid embarrassment na?

Apparently, the Guy was married

On the video you see him whisper something in her ear. He didn't run he walked away with the ring in his hand

Amarabae:
Even if he was not interested, he would have pretended and accept the thing to save her from embarrassment.
Then when they reach home, he will then reject it secretly before her .
The girl also should be blamed too, if you wanted to take this big risk, why in an open crowded place?
Why not in a secret place?

Rata-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta.. Blah blah!

Dimples129:


Apparently, the Guy was married

On the video you see him whisper something in her ear. He didn't run he walked away with the ring in his hand

ehn did u say he's a married guy? ...anyway i will check d video later dis night.

For my own observation maybe the girl na from IMO state whr u ve to sales all ur fortune to pay bride price not only to accept the ring but expenses how far

Amarabae:
Even if he was not interested, he would have pretended and accept the thing to save her from embarrassment.
Then when they reach home, he will then reject it secretly before her .
The girl also should be blamed too, if you wanted to take this big risk, why in an open crowded place?
Why not in a secret place?

Guys get rejected every now and then yet heaven doesn't fall, so what's all these preaching about?
is life supposed to be rosy just because one is a woman or there's an unwritten law that says "women must be exempted from life's challenges"?

crazymommy:
As for me I think the guy shouldn't have run away,that is a cowardly act....collect the ring and move her away from the scene then you can now reject her privately....and on the lady part I am irritated right now,she showed a lot of desperation....that is what happens when a lady is very desperate to get married and also the clueless society made it look like marriage is the biggest achievement in life....nonsense....honestly I am ashamed of how she was shamefully ashamed of the embarrassing embarassment...see the way her friend or sister was even embarrassed too...if the guy want to spend his life with her he would have proposed to her on his own....

Chai english!!!