frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

Ahhhh, mo gbedi funyin....

more reason I don't pick ladies call, I would rather drop Ur call and call u back. Na now u go dey hear something like...u don waste my card ooo, Na my card a dey use call u o, u go recharge my line back for me oo....
She never even spend reach 3mins on call with u oo.

There own na small
My gal dash me 30k after we quarrel she call police for me say I borrow her 30k n she want am n I no gree give am. Na so I de police cell transfer for her her money back still bail myself.
Na dat tym I begin stingy for women o. I de calculative pass Dem.

HantaVirus:


She got a 'premiumly' beautiful sister that lives in Italy..She's mysteriously gorgeous

with your choice of words I guess she's more beautiful than your ex. Is there a way I can see her picture?

King123456:
This post is not funny or an attack on women. Men stop accepting help from so called babes. If collecting money from women is your calling then collect from female family members. A girl whom I took care started earning better while I lost my job. She started to assist me every now and then. Brothers, the disrespect rose so high to a stage of me migrating from main boyfriend to side guy. I could no longer control or ask her to stay away from any guy I felt she was getting too close.

The story would be told in full soon. Hustle make woman no turn you to insult bag. H U S T L E

That's just Nigeria women for you. Sorry about your ordeals. If you see me collect anything from woman just know the woman is my sister or mother. Even the one that never give you kobo will come out and say she help you build your life when you had nothing just because she was dating you as side nigga when you were broke.

Caseywilliams:

there was a time I wanted to buy Pepsi and snacks so I had only 1k notes on me, bae had to pay for me #200 later on in the day took her to Kilimanjaro bought food for two almost worth 3.5k only for her to ask me for her 2h at the end of everything.asked her to send me her account nmbr let me do transfer. Las Las nah so I take cut her off wen it comes spending on her.

hmm can you imagine!!!

Oluromantic:
You just dey learn? You no know woman before?
When God said in the Bible that it's more blessed to give than receive.. He wasnt talking to everybody o. He was talking to men only cus He knows women don't have any idea about giving. All their own life is centered around receiving. They may carry the biggest Bible but that giving verse is not for them.

Not all women o. Slay queens especially does it.
Buh women Sabi give pastor ehh

Solomonogbuefi:



Can u imagine the trash this bae wrote.....you can't give your man your heart and also money but you expect same in return. Momma it's bad,if you lend someone money no reason am for your sad mood,find a suitable way of telling him about it when you're happy because he does more financially

total thrash she wrote up there. Many females now don't have sense, they are the reason men generalize. Nonsense!

AfroKnight:


If some babes dash you 1K, you don enter be dat.

One day you will hear news that she’s the one who made you who you are today.

Lol.

cococandy:
And men are not?
The ones that think you owe them your body because they helped you are what? Not men?

Can you help me let me give you my body freely . I don’t know why Nigerian women always see sex as a price.

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

Buh wen a man borrow women money even with a written agreement she hardly pay back

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Women are like the devil
They will give you with one hand and take back from you with double hands

U get it wrong. They are devils

HantaVirus:


Life must be hard... PM your account details,let me bless you.

e dey pain me for you, I don't like seeing people throw away opportunity like that...no vex

If you mean am baba thank you

thesicilian:
If your Nigerian girlfriend is able and willing to help you financially in the first place, you should thank your God.

Thesicilian again!

paulolee:
it seems thats happening in S.A because our naija girls would never have any cash to help u with in the first place...they spend soo much money on thierself bt always complaining being broke whenever you ask for help..
was with a bea last year that was working and earning nice cash, asked her to lend me 10k to add to mine so i use to pay bills for an interview in another state that i budgetted 40k because i planned stayin a week, days letter she miraculously gave me 5k maybe because of the fasting and prayer i did and GOD touched her stonned heart..
went and the interview didnt work as planned but i meet an old Friend in the same hotel dt jus came back from u.k and he transferred 100k to use as t.p bk to my state and to offset bills, only for me to return and the idiot girl was accusing me of cheating on her with her own money because i stayed longer than planned..
I explained to her what happened, then transferred 10k to her and told her dt i dnt wana ever see her wicked face again in my life..
my perception for girls changed from then up till now..

U be better person if na me I no go give her pass 5k

If a lady give me money in the name of gift and tomorrow she tells me to return it, I wont return it. A gift is a gift and not borrowed money so why should I return it. U guys make some of these ladies feel its their right to be selfish while benefitting from men. If u gave a lady money out of help, would u tell her to return it? Even if a man tells her to return it, will she do so? Wont she call all her friends to insult the man? Omo men dey Bleep up wella and its making these ladies manipulate them as they want. If u arent ready to give, pls dont give instead of embarrasing yourself by asking back for a gift. It looks and sounds stupid. If any lady tells u to return her gift pls dont because its not in her own right to do so.

Haaaaaaaaa!!!!! These 'specie' again! Strange specie.

Shellsploit:
True talk.. Reminds me of my Ex
She thinks she smart..

Any little quarrel, i did this for you., I did that for u.
She go carry calculator dey calculate how much
help she don offer to me..

Local man was finally fedup..

... And this was how she kept crosschecking for all what she had done till i broke up with her silly ass

ROTFL.

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

frozen70:
You guys ate getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out if nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keros more financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her pussy and gives you her money, no naw haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo


Hmmmmmm

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vickydevoka:

Buh wen a man borrow women money even with a written agreement she hardly pay back

Wetin she wan pay, is she not his woman ?

OlawaleBammie:


Ahhhh, mo gbedi funyin....

more reason I don't pick ladies call, I would rather drop Ur call and call u back. Na now u go dey hear something like...u don waste my card ooo, Na my card a dey use call u o, u go recharge my line back for me oo....
She never even spend reach 3mins on call with u oo.

Hahahaha
I like your style, just call her back if you know you will pay for her airtime, even at that you will still send card to her
You must be very caring

SegFault:

I am not misogynist but this is trash.

Leave it for LAWMA

Solomonogbuefi:



Can u imagine the trash this bae wrote.....you can't give your man your heart and also money but you expect same in return. Momma it's bad,if you lend someone money no reason am for your sad mood,find a suitable way of telling him about it when you're happy because he does more financially

If he borrows pay back if she requests give her if you have

kid7soccer:
just imagine this. Now you see y men treat women like trash. So if you give your guy cash and ask him not to bother about paying you back and wahala enter you now ask him to pay you back, does that make sense. Women with fish brains "they are so many"

That's the same fish brain they use when they want to work on you

Bellotelli:
My ex once borrowed me 50k out of her own volition to complete my rent and I promised to pay her by month end. Can you believe after a week she requested for her money because we had a little misunderstanding.thank God I had someone handy to borrow me so that I could pay her. I learnt my lesson since then.

Just imagine how insensitive she is..
Don't tell me you intend to push the relationship further.

To be honest men are the course of women being stingy especially in Nigeria. Our approach towards women are wrong. I could remember vividly, some years back wen I took a gal out I told her from de beginning I wasn't having enough money dat if she can bring some money along with her I would appreciate. Do u believe she end up paying for everything. If u can bring down ur ego n also be shameless lyk Ladies u will go a long way with them.

In Nigeria them, women stay at home men go hustle n bring food back home uh now things has change, women are now gainfully employed than men n de still expect men to spend all dere cash on them (African mentality).

Skmoda:

just listen to this one again....shoro niyen?

Who ask you to read it?

Saintinoo:

I don't normally qoute female monikers on nairaland, but just want to ask this question.

What do you mean buy a lady giving her heart?

Your babe will be the best person to answer this

To be honest men are the cause of women being stingy especially in Nigeria. Our approach towards women are wrong. I could remember vividly, some years back wen I took a gal out I told her from de beginning I wasn't having enough money dat if she can bring some money along with her I would appreciate. Do u believe she end up paying for everything. If u can bring down ur ego n also be shameless lyk Ladies u will go a long way with them. ( Women shameless approach are making Dem have more ground )

In Nigeria then, women stay at home men go hustle n bring food back home uh now things has change, women are now gainfully employed than men n de still expect men to spend all dere cash on them (African mentality).

alllivesmatter:


What the Guy did was totally wrong and I condemn same. However, this happens both ways...

Had it been the tables were turned, some women or girls ( as the case maybe) wouldn't even consider refunding a kobo and they'd be justified that they haven't committed any crime at all in as much as that money came from a guy.

That being said...I think there's a reason we all have what we've come to recognise as conscience. Everyone has it.
It's just that some people deliberately choose not to hear it whenever it speaks and that makes a case for an individual's action(s).

Exactly, you nailed it.

The problem here is that most people are not honest. As long as the two people are not married(cos that is between them and God, i have no input there), if you borrow money, then treat it as loan and repay.

If you know you are not willing to pay, then just ask for help. If you are fortunate to get, good for you.

It is better than opening topics to bash women.

frozen70:


Wetin she wan pay, is she not his woman ?

Watin him wan pay is he not her man (gender equality)

mariahAngel:
Why is an inconsequential random person's tweet on the front-page?

EVILFOREST: 10:10pm On Aug 12
WOMEN.
... a man can marry a Jobless woman and no noise will be heard.
The same man can marry a gainfully employed Lady , but when he inadvertently loses his job along the line, his Wife will announce it on FACEBOOK, TWITTER, INSTAGRAM, to the PASTORS