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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by HEAVEN4444: 1:25pm On May 11, 2021
not possible. true love that is
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:25pm On May 11, 2021
Yes.

A woman can love a man and still cheat on him.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Dukeolumidemans(m): 1:27pm On May 11, 2021
No comment... grin grin grin tongue

Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by xynerise: 1:27pm On May 11, 2021
It is called conditional love
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:27pm On May 11, 2021
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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by gbolswag(m): 1:27pm On May 11, 2021
very much possible...u can love someone and still do what makes u happy flirting and fornication
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:27pm On May 11, 2021
True love should be free from cheating.

Cheating is the end of the relationship for me.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by bluefilm: 1:28pm On May 11, 2021
Draslo:
For most couples, infidelity marks the end of the relationship. I have noticed that it's easier for women to forgive an unfaithful partner than for men to do the same. As a matter of fact, men who do are considered weaklings while women are encouraged to forgive.

Now to the main issue, does having sex with someone other than your current partner mean you love them less? Less discuss, maturely like adults, please.

My final answer is YES.
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Hideki(m): 1:29pm On May 11, 2021
Kondomatic:
Dude, how can a man who claims to love his wife do things that will hurt her if she finds out?
A man can leave home without harbouring any thought of cheating. He may not even have a side chick but along his way to to work, he may come across a good barca and the rest is history. He loves his wife.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:29pm On May 11, 2021
Kondomatic:
Dude, how can a man who claims to love his wife do things that will hurt her if she finds out?

It happens brother..
I have a friend with a very lucrative job with oil coys but cheats on his beautiful wife all the time because the boss is in love with him and she's not ready to wrek his marriage.. All she wants is him.

Albeit the wife is left out of the loop and she's enjoying the money. At the same time she doesn't care as long as the money keeps coming.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by DEMZEE(m): 1:30pm On May 11, 2021
Humanoid01:

This is a degrading view of a species which you share common characteristics with. Sexuality isn't the only thing that validates a woman. If that was the case, then women wouldn't have the capability to make wealth and contribute positively to the society.

By the way, what makes you so sure that sexuality is not a thing that men should value? Why should it feel right for a man to cheat and a woman not to? That's a slave mentality and it doesn't do much justice to the purpose of coexistence.

Because privilege is invisible to someone that has it. Women from a young age of 18yrs are already having sexual abundance, men must create their own value to get such sexual abundance and it takes time to do this, it's always around 35yrs plus before men reach and maximize their potential. Moreover most men are monogamous because they lack options, a man is as loyal as his options. Monogamous men are monogamous because of necessity.

Men are women are fundamentally not equal.
Men lead
Women follow.

Men seek beauty, young, fit, feminine, cooperative in ladies
Women seek strong, status,looks and money in men

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by RPG2020(m): 1:30pm On May 11, 2021
Kondomatic:
Dude, how can a man who claims to love his wife do things that will hurt her if she finds out?

He only hurt her he didn't kill person
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 1:31pm On May 11, 2021
No. It's not possible
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Hideki(m): 1:31pm On May 11, 2021
Bola146:
Not at all, you can't cheat on someone you love. The love and trust will always make you happy to always be with your spouse. Anyone who cheat doesn't love the spouse
that is untrue. Men have sex without emotions.
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Oghenerobo2002(m): 1:31pm On May 11, 2021
To me, cheating is the end. I've dated more than three times but I've never cheated. Thing is, I'll be broken if someone I love cheats on me, so I dare not do same to her. Not even having a female friend close is accepted

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:32pm On May 11, 2021
Bola146:
Not at all, you can't cheat on someone you love. The love and trust will always make you happy to always be with your spouse. Anyone who cheat doesn't love the spouse


Men don't cheat we just have sex
It's our Biological imperative, very natural , women cheat only not men
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Spiff20(m): 1:32pm On May 11, 2021
Yes cheating can't be restricted by love. It's a spirit that even follows some men of God. Love is too small a factor to contain it. Can love prevent gambling and other vices? Nope.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by fergie001: 1:33pm On May 11, 2021
YES
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by sirjustice1575(m): 1:33pm On May 11, 2021
Is it possible for one to enjoy eating rice and then still eat beans and agege bread!! grin grin

Nothing wen Jonah nor go see for shark belle.
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by DEMZEE(m): 1:34pm On May 11, 2021
Wittyduchess:
Yes.

A woman can love a man and still cheat on him.

That's a lie

It takes much more emotional connection for a woman to have sex unless she's a LovePeddler. Once a woman cheats on her man, she doesnt respect him again. She's done in that relationship. Women don't love men they don't respect.

Men however can Bleep other bitches and still love our main bitch (wife). Men can have sex detached from emotions

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by AntiWailer: 1:34pm On May 11, 2021
YES
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Keesymictana: 1:35pm On May 11, 2021
Yes offcourse
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Spiff20(m): 1:35pm On May 11, 2021
Looks like the cheating in the context here is sex. What of flirting and sex chats and attempted kissing. Is it only sex that is classified as cheating? If it's like that then most men haven't cheated yet.
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 11, 2021
Humanoid01:

So you're saying a man has the right to have sex with as many women as possible, and a woman doesn't?


A woman can do it but she won't be respected by any sensible man ,she's going to be tagged a whoree
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by AntiWailer: 1:36pm On May 11, 2021
DEMZEE:


That's a lie

It takes much more emotional connection for a woman to have sex unless she's a LovePeddler. Once a woman cheats on her man, she doesnt respect him again. She's done in that relationship. Women don't love men they don't respect.

Men however can Bleep other bitches and still love our main bitch (wife). Men can have sex detached from emotions

Life is not black and white bro.

At times she sees a man she cannot av 4 life but he ticks every check box.

She will fck him and still love her man.

She can fck another man for cash to keep her love and make him happy.

She can fck to get cash to keep the family. Call her a whhore but remove the financial constraint and she will never cheat.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 11, 2021
DEMZEE:


That's a lie

It takes much more emotional connection for a woman to have sex unless she's a LovePeddler. Once a woman cheats on her man, she doesnt respect him again. She's done in that relationship. Women don't love men they don't respect.

Men however can Bleep other bitches and still love our main bitch (wife). Men can have sex detached from emotions
For someone who refers to wife as "main bitch". You are better ignored.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by emerged01(m): 1:39pm On May 11, 2021
Temptation is real. If you can love God and still sin, you can love your wife and still cheat. It takes strong will to resist temptation and it is not given you build it. Building strong will means you have to keep charging yourself with the words of God like the way you charge your phone for power to stay active.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:39pm On May 11, 2021
Wittyduchess:
Yes.

A woman can love a man and still cheat on him.


A woman is born with sexual abundance when she's a legal adult


Men must work and get socio-economic status to gain sexual abundance, they don't cheat they just have sex because they deserve it for their hardwork

A woman needs only to exist, be pretty, be sexually attractive that's all, if they cheat they are Hoes

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Akinbahm(m): 1:39pm On May 11, 2021
DaudaTheSexyGuy:


Not true.

I have married women as girlfriends and they know the relationship is basically about sex so they still love their husbands.

Just as men get tired of banging the same toto year in year out women also get tired of banging the same diƧk

So to say, ow are you comfortable befriending married women?
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by iRepNaija1: 1:40pm On May 11, 2021
Draslo:
For most couples, infidelity marks the end of the relationship. I have noticed that it's easier for women to forgive an unfaithful partner than for men to do the same. As a matter of fact, men who do are considered weaklings while women are encouraged to forgive.

Now to the main issue, does having sex with someone other than your current partner mean you love them less? Less discuss, maturely like adults, please.

Of course, you can. People do all sorts of terrible things to the people they love. But the issue is that people and this topic are focusing on love when that is not the problem. Cheating stems from a lack of respect and regard for your partner and the relationship.

Generally speaking, women are encouraged to forgive because Nigerian society expects women to stay in a relationship/marriage no matter what. Men, on the other hand, are not given that same expectation but are permitted to leave or "send the woman back to her father's house." Most will deny it but this is the way they reason.

Edit: I wanted to expand. Love is the feeling. Respect is the rule, meaning that when one enters into a relationship with another, they are agreeing to the rule: to be faithful and forsake others for that person. When one chooses to cheat, they are breaking that rule and therefore demonstrating their lack of respect for their significant other.

Some of the excuses the men are making for cheating should clearly show you their lack of accountability on this topic, OP.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Still Cheat On Him Or Her? by Nobody: 1:40pm On May 11, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:



A woman is born with sexual abundance when she's a legal adult


Men must work and get socio-economic status to gain sexual abundance, they don't cheat they just have sex because they deserve it for their hardwork

A woman needs only to exist, be pretty, be sexually attractive that's all, if they cheat they are Hoes





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