Masterkernel1:



I'm not planning such, God has transformed me. I will live faithful through to my marriage vow.

But I won't judge others, but rather pray for them. Mine journey is purely Grace.

Rozcol:
Cheating does not exist in an unGodly boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it only exist in marriage. Boyfriend/girlfriend is just an avenue for fornication and no one has the right to claim he or she is been cheated on.Cheating start to exist the moment marriage is Introduced.shikeenan

Sterope:
Were you a woman in your previous lifetime?

DEMZEE:


First of all, men and women are fundamentally not equal. Men lead, women follow. Now asking a lady to marry u doesn't mean she's the prize.

In a relationship(marriage) there's no partnership, we have the dominant gender (man) and the submissive gender (woman).

JESHAL:



The Bible says you should be fruitful and multiply

DEMZEE:


Firstly understand that men and women are fundamentally not equal. Men must become, women just are. Men must create their value, women are born with value ie their sexuality is their value. Women are sexual objects and men are success objects.

There's nothing like a high value woman. Women are hypergamous and wud never date or marry down. They don't see equality, they only see weak and strong men. They are the sexual mating selectors, men are the commitment and relationship selectors.

TheRealestGuy:


If she isn't a prize to be won, why do you want her exclusively to yourself?

Just answer the question, skip all the fundamentally not equal thing.

bepositive11:


F*ck off!!! Women are not sexual objects!!! Is your mom a sexual object? Is your daughter a sexual object? Is your sister a sexual object? I pity the women in your life!

Women are human beings. Women have emotions. No human being deserves to be treated as a sexual object! A sex doll is a sexual object

TheRealestGuy:


If she isn't a prize to be won, why do you want her exclusively to yourself?

Just answer the question, skip all the fundamentally not equal thing.

bepositive11:


F*ck off!!! Women are not sexual objects!!! Is your mom a sexual object? Is your daughter a sexual object? Is your sister a sexual object? I pity the women in your life!

Women are human beings. Women have emotions. No human being deserves to be treated as a sexual object! A sex doll is a sexual object

JESHAL:



Men are for production
Women are for reproduction

LordReed:


No surprise here, expect nothing less from a misogynist.

LordReed:


No surprise here, expect nothing less from a misogynist.

iRepNaija1:


Of course, you can. People do all sorts of terrible things to the people they love. But the issue is that people and this topic are focusing on love when that is not the problem. Cheating stems from a lack of respect and regard for your partner and the relationship.

Generally speaking, women are encouraged to forgive because Nigerian society expects women to stay in a relationship/marriage no matter what. Men, on the other hand, are not given that same expectation but are permitted to leave or "send the woman back to her father's house." Most will deny it but this is the way they reason.

Edit: I wanted to expand. Love is the feeling. Respect is the rule, meaning that when one enters into a relationship with another, they are agreeing to the rule: to be faithful and forsake others for that person. When one chooses to cheat, they are breaking that rule and therefore demonstrating their lack of respect for their significant other.

Some of the excuses the men are making for cheating should clearly show you their lack of accountability on this topic, OP.

Draslo:
For most couples, infidelity marks the end of the relationship. I have noticed that it's easier for women to forgive an unfaithful partner than for men to do the same. As a matter of fact, men who do are considered weaklings while women are encouraged to forgive.

Now to the main issue, does having sex with someone other than your current partner mean you love them less? Less discuss, maturely like adults, please.

DEMZEE:


[s][/s]Firstly understand that men and women are fundamentally not equal. Men must become, women just are. Men must create their value, women are born with value ie their sexuality is their value. Women are sexual objects and men are success objects.

There's nothing like a high value woman. Women are hypergamous and wud never date or marry down. They don't see equality, they only see weak and strong men. They are the sexual mating selectors, men are the commitment and relationship selectors[s][/s].

iRepNaija1:


Of course, you can. People do all sorts of terrible things to the people they love. But the issue is that people and this topic are focusing on love when that is not the problem. Cheating stems from a lack of respect and regard for your partner and the relationship.

Generally speaking, women are encouraged to forgive because Nigerian society expects women to stay in a relationship/marriage no matter what. Men, on the other hand, are not given that same expectation but are permitted to leave or "send the woman back to her father's house." Most will deny it but this is the way they reason.

Edit: I wanted to expand. Love is the feeling. Respect is the rule, meaning that when one enters into a relationship with another, they are agreeing to the rule: to be faithful and forsake others for that person. When one chooses to cheat, they are breaking that rule and therefore demonstrating their lack of respect for their significant other.

Some of the excuses the men are making for cheating should clearly show you their lack of accountability on this topic, OP.

Alexaonfleek:
Some people just open mouth waaaaa

DEMZEE:


Lolzzzzz

Facts don't care about ur feelings tho

JESHAL:



I can send you citations to show evidence of my quotes, Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideology doesn't adhere to Biological realities, look at the gender equality paradox the most Egalitarian societies scandanavian countries like Finland Norway Iceland are facing as gender differences have widened

Don't use ad hominem attacks on me , make your objective case to invalidate my points

Kobicove:


Are you here to engage in a simple debate or lecture us on sociology?

Alexaonfleek:
Nothing factual in the gibberish you typed

Draslo:
For most couples, infidelity marks the end of the relationship. I have noticed that it's easier for women to forgive an unfaithful partner than for men to do the same. As a matter of fact, men who do are considered weaklings while women are encouraged to forgive.

Now to the main issue, does having sex with someone other than your current partner mean you love them less? Less discuss, maturely like adults, please.

JESHAL:


Men are success objects
Women are sexual objects

Men are logical
Women are Emotional


Men are risk takers
Women are risk adverse

Men are analytical
Women are intuitive

Men are leaders
Women are followers


Biological proven facts from statistical analysis

BLOODYSPERM:





That's why western societies are gynocentric and women dominate their culture and Africa is Patriachal and men dominate the Culture


Men don't cheat
We just have sex

Women cheat

Men must become and gain socio-economic status to get sexual abundance

Women just exist and have sexual abundance

Don't use the same metric to make your judgement on both genders , you're not been objective