ifyalways:

OP,You have no business checking out his Facebook or any other social site status.You guys are neither married nor into any kind of committed relationship so why stalk him and bother your life with his status  

contracult:

@ Inked_nerd

In my opinion, casual sex is an oxymoron. There is no such thing - particularly for a woman. Forget the propaganda - its crap! Sex is the most intimate activity you can perform with somebody else. I know that society says that it is okay to divorce it from commitment and all that crap, but it is just that CRAP! There is always an emotional price to pay because it was not designed to be that way. No need for self deceit. It does not work and it will never work because it is not designed to work. You sleep with somebody long enough no matter the "arrangement" with which you started and you will start to catch feelings. That is the way women are designed. So do not set yourself up for failure by trying to cheat nature and indulge in  an arrangement that is destined for failure.

That is what is wrong with casual sex.

Missy ★ B:

You don't necessarily have to check on people to view their Fb status update.    

Amya:

there was nothing casual about the intimacy, just because it isn't the regular convention relationship does not qualify it to be termed as casual sex. My friends actually call him my boyfriend because of how close we are. I see him every other day, and not just at night. We have very good chemistry and actually talk about anything and everything.

I've you asked him what he meant by that infamous status update yet?    Pls leave NL, and go and ask him.

ifyalways:

OP,You have no business checking out his Facebook or any other social site status.You guys are neither married nor into any kind of committed relationship so why stalk him and bother your life with his status?

Missy ★ B:

Oh please shut up, you shameless, silly puzzay hunter.  
Because you want a puzzay you must rudely act like her voltron to pass the message across? Ewè! You must be feeling like Michael Signator, huh?  

ifyalways:

OP,You have no business checking out his Facebook or any other social site status.You guys are neither married nor into any kind of committed relationship so why stalk him and bother your life with his status  

Listen girl,don't ask him anything about his facebook status,you guys did not meet on fbk so whatever he says there ain't no biz of urs.Blimey,If you confront him,even If he meant to stay . . .he's gonna pick his shoes and run.Learn to let certain things lie as it were.
If he wants to call off the whole thing,he should be able to say it to your face or take the easiest route ie avoid you.As it is now,he has done[b] NONE[/b] of the above so I really don't get whats your problem here ?
I'm married and I know my marriage was not contacted on facebook so I try as much as possible to disregard whatever my husband does on fbk or at any online forum.Of course,I watch but I pay certain things no mind . . .He respects himself though.

What Im trying to say is this:Whatever he writes on fbk is none of your biz.You wanted constant s3x,companion and a friend and u got it,why stalk him now?Things happen and u saw urself falling in love,u are a woman . . .our mothers thought us that na,subtly but quietly change position.Corner and finally rope him-in without
saying much. . .that is,If he too is interested.

Missy ★ B:

You don't necessarily have to check on people to view their Fb status update.    

agabaI23:

Nne sorry about that silly cow. At least he should have been wise enough not to broadcast it the way he did.
People who knew you were close would decode.

Never mind him you will get over it

For you sex is the most intimate activity that someone can engage in, but its not like that for everyone else. If you feel emotionally tied or drawn to someone after having sex then good for you but not everyone is like that. Just as my experience will never be like yours, yours will never be like someone else's. Do I use my sexual experiences as a representation of all women? No. So why is it that you feel the need to tell us who is and isn't inclined to be attached when being intimate? There is nothing wrong with causal sex. As human beings, we're not genetically designed to be monogamous creatures. Can monogamy work? Yes, it most certainly can but we as humans are not build in that manner to just naturally stay with one person. If casual sex is not for you then its not for you, plain and simple. Because she [the OP] just happened to have feelings for the sex partner doesn't mean that as a whole women are like that. She is just one example of what can happen in such relationship. I don't know why it is that some of you feel the need to tell women what they can and can't feel while engaging in sex? A woman  being sexually detached isn't some urban tale or mythical creature. Whether you or anyone else for that matter wants to believe it, there people both men and woman who are and can remain emotionally detached when having sex with someone regardless of whether it is for long periods of time of short periods of time.

fork adict:

I knew i wouldn't have to wait for long before i.d.i.o.t.s like you start signing in. and I must say that it's quite unfortunate for you to be the first amongst f.o.o.ls.
I could type sense all day into that thick malfunctioning mass you call your brain but i'm a keep it short and simple. Beach, my advice for you is to go finger yourself with a broken bottle or better still with a knife!
And by the way you need to modify that disgusting and arrogant signature of yours to 100% gutter bred nigerian,  Full of stain. You ill mannered disgusting little beach!

ifyalways:

LOL

Anyhow,Even if the updates gets thrown at your inbox,spam box or wall,its still none of her biz.

IMO,this is just unnecessary drama.What they share (sex and companionship) is still going on fine so whats new or wrong?I think I know the OP's problem though . . .She wants more than sex,she wants commitment but don't know how to go about it especially after claiming Miss Good-s3x is all I want. 

agabaI23:

@Amya

I think you have left so much information here on nairaland.
Hope you don't care your relation might bump into this or someone you wouldn't like to know about this.

ifyalways:

LOL

Anyhow,Even if the updates gets thrown at your inbox,spam box or wall,its still none of her biz.

IMO,this is just unnecessary drama.What they share (sex and companionship) is still going on fine so whats new or wrong?I think I know the OP's problem though . . .She wants more than sex,she wants commitment but don't know how to go about it especially after claiming Miss Good-s3x is all I want.  
You amaze me.
How do u know for sure the guy was talking about them

Amya:

I wasn't stalking him! he's my friend on facebook, and i couldn't help but see the update

BABE!:

I've you asked him what he meant by that infamous status update yet?    Pls leave NL, and go and ask him.

Amya:

I acted spontaneously, and now, I'm beginning to regret it. . .

Amya:

I acted spontaneously, and now, I'm beginning to regret it. . .