Men like the whole conquerer bullsh@t. They want to be the first one. The one teach the girl and so that even if they are not performing right she will not have anyone else to compare him to. I hate it so much, I think girls have the bad end of the stick. The hymen gives it all away unless you can say riding a horse or doing sports tore it. With men you can't tell, I think. I myself is a part of that wait till marriage bullshit. Well because am afraid of disease, AIDS is a bitch you know and pregnancy. I however don't plan on marrying anyone who is not a virgin. If am going to be clueless then we have to be clueless together.

@thiefofheart
C'mon yu dont hav to com up wit anoda id to reply yaself, yu sound too loving for that , yu hav my back so yu can lean for as long as yu wish to

wendymanda:

I however don't plan on marrying anyone who is not a virgin. If am going to be clueless then we have to be clueless together.

   That's the spirit, girl.
  . . And humorously put.

naijaborn, if you wanna believe that dude's slanderous trash, na your own be that. k?

wendymanda, how will you be able to tell if he truly is though?

Good question thief or hearts.That's the problem why I say we woman got the bad end of the deal. I was wondering if any one on this site has an idea. My friend says premature ejaculation is a sign of a virgin boy. If at the end I can't tell then scr3ew it I won't marry. You might ask what if you fall in love. The way I see I don;t think most Nigerians marry for love. Just doctors and engineers.

Gogirl, boon has done nothing at all to me o. he's yours all yours alone to keep.

wendy kilode? ogini? by then it will already be too late. the deed would be done and zapped.

lmao and if this so called virgin boy ends up with premature ejaculation for the rest of his life n ko?

k0be:

Gogirl, boon has done nothing at all to me o. he's yours all yours alone to keep.

you sure?


@ G-girl,

Did you say ego? I will pretend I did not see that.

Don't mind K0be, probably he is still hurting from the "Holy Nail" you gave him on a thread like that. .

Shalom

For fear of ending up with a premature ejaculator I will never marry. I will send myself to a nunery. Unless anyone here has a better idea to finding out whether a boy is a virgin. Perhaps a lie detector test. If the machine is too expensive find me a human lie detector tester. People that work for theFBI are trained to do the human one.

My colleague has a device to test for premature ejaculation, just bring your proposed hubby to her and she'll do all the rest, 100% Guaranteed

wendymanda, you won't marry a virgin because you dey fear premature ejaculation, lol, na complete wa o.

boondoggle, yes o, in fact I was surprised, there I was on that thread getting my hopes up, and she came out of nowhere to "erase" my daydreaming with that "Holy Nail" she gave me, so yes o, I'm sure she's all yours, you can have her.  maybe i'll reconsider if i re-assess the situation.

My colleague has a device to test for premature ejaculation, just bring your proposed hubby to her and she'll do all the rest, 100% Guaranteed

Debosky, why do I fear that if your collegue tests him to find out whether he is a premature ejaculator he might not be a virgin anymore. Thus bringing us and especially me back to square one.

i guess you're in a lose-lose situation. sucks to be you.

KObe when you say na complete wa o what exactly you deh mean?

One of my friends once said that

He dislikes divorced women because they have been used and have been at another man's beck and call.

He says a woman has no reason to get divorced irrespective of the circumstances because no man wants a woman who has been used and worn out by another man.

I was like

Is he right?

of course all men (and women too) want something fresh and untouched, the problem exists when the men in question have a double standard - not holding themselves to the same requirements they want of their mate which is a patently selfish mindset.

or the other case, because of their sexual failures will rather go with one who won't know any better, and so his fragile 'ego' tied to his 'performance' in bed will remain intact.

of course all men (and women too) want something fresh and untouched, the problem exists when the men in question have a double standard - not holding themselves to the same requirements they want of their mate which is a patently selfish mindset.

or the other case, because of their sexual failures will rather go with one who won't know any better, and so his fragile 'ego' tied to his 'performance' in bed will remain intact.

The world is filled with double standards but men are the biggest perpetrators of it. The sad part of it is that women end up having to give in to the idea of being a virgin till marriage while most times their partners have been gallivanting about. In the end we tend to say it is because men are scare and we women have to settle with what we can get. I hope I don't have to suffer this same fate but that is most times what desperation does. Women become afraid that they are getting too old so they marry anything out there. The virgin marries the divorcee with three children, sucks for us doesn't it.

Oh yes in response to you Kobe I said my friend said you can tell a virgin boy by premature ejaculation. I didn't ask her the intricacies of going about to find out whether the boy is a premature ejaculator.

Awoof de run belle. Not all men are like that.

thank you my sister.

Anytime

Macutie bawo ni, it's safe to say you have a good man in your life that's treating you like a special gem, right? i'm probably wrong

I will not say anything concerning that till i know why you are asking

macutie i'm not going after something excessive, i was only being curious. lot of women just wan throway men under the bus.

I aint like that! I've met some shitty men but blive me, there are still some good ones.

[quote][/quote]My colleague has a device to test for premature ejaculation, just bring your proposed hubby to her and she'll do all the rest, 100% Guaranteed


really i would like to find out


if am still a virgin thats is,

does wet dreams constitute lost virginity(actually i would have loved to use disvirginity but e bi like that word no exist)

in this case wendy i am the proposed hubby

as i stated earlier i cant marry a virgin

i would rather a divorcee than a virgin

what you see as being used i see as experience

Virgin dis virgin dat virgin blah blah blah yu guyz shuld stop debating over an illusion, there's no such thing like a virgin joseph,it's either yu're xperienced or not :Daight [color=#006600][/color]

in this case wendy i am the proposed hubby

as i stated earlier i can't marry a virgin

i would rather a divorcee than a virgin

what you see as being used i see as experience

Good for you. I never said I have a problem with non virgins. I just said if I am going to wait then who ever I am with should have known that patience is a virtue. You might like experience when it comes to sex. I like a diseaseless person, if I marry a virgin I don't have to worry whether or not he might have something. When I say virgin I mean to the fullest extent; no kissing, no MouthAction, anal sex or anything of such nature. He should be like a monk that left the monastery. When I say clueless together I mean absolutely clueless, like a caveman seeing fire for the first time.
Take it however you will

wendymanda:

Good for you. I never said I have a problem with non virgins. I just said if I am going to wait then who ever I am with should have known that patience is a virtue. You might like experience when it comes to sex. I like a diseaseless person, if I marry a virgin I don't have to worry whether or not he might have something. When I say virgin I mean to the fullest extent; no kissing, no MouthAction, anal sex or anything of such nature. He should be like a monk that left the monastery. When I say clueless together I mean absolutely clueless, like a caveman seeing fire for the first time.
Take it however you will

wendymanda, you yourself dont sound like a virgin now.

a virgin wouldnt know all this stuff you listed here.

wendymanda:

Good for you. I never said I have a problem with non virgins. I just said if I am going to wait then who ever I am with should have known that patience is a virtue. You might like experience when it comes to sex. I like a diseaseless person, if I marry a virgin I don't have to worry whether or not he might have something. When I say virgin I mean to the fullest extent; no kissing, no MouthAction, anal sex or anything of such nature. He should be like a monk that left the monastery. When I say clueless together I mean absolutely clueless, like a caveman seeing fire for the first time.
Take it however you will

funny enuff

only the first part of the post was directed at you

the rest was to the thread, please dont get testy on me

moreso a virgin doesnt mean lack of disease