Samantha123:
Dm you for what exactly?

let us start a Nigerian south African love

AishaDant:
I have forgotten what I wanted to say sef.

Oh I remember some part now.

Well, most Nigerian men don't value love. If you don't value something, how are you going to look after it or even deserve it?

Dan Borno....(Kanuri boy)

Aisha most Nigerian girls value money more than love.




Shikenan nagode

ukaface:
Make she go sit down one place

Na this one now these NL men go use raise shoulder.
Another avenue to yab Nigerian girls.

Their parents probably raised them separately.
But here, we're taught in school that men are the head and provider of the family....lol
So who's supposed to have the money to take care of us?
Men now! It's simple.
No blame us, blame the society wey teach us.

But still, I stand for female independence
I work, I make my money,I don't call guy for data or call credit, I buy my clothes, shoes and bags and hair myself. I pamper myself.
I buy my IPhone 14 myself, but guess what? The stupid Nigerian guy mentality will be ' Na lie, she get sugar daddy ' they too don't believe a Nigerian girl can do all of that herself, and it's really pathetic.

We should not blame females but the society
Are girls not part of the society?
Why can’t they change the narrative
Be self reliant
Why must the society shape you to be greedy
Stop sugar coating it , because its your gender
Don’t be biased the SA chic is right even if it’s or totally true. But she have a valid point .
With you guys stubbornness
I still love my Nigerian girls anyways .

Samantha123:
Meaning?

You can love someone and still be a xenophobe.

Well, that's your opinion.

Nobleou:

Anyone can love...? I'm not sure

Samantha123:
I don't get it, where did I talk down Nigerian women?

I will read over your post again, but to be frank most Nigerian men marry within their ethnic group to keep their bloodline strong, it's mostly Igbo men that marry other African women and talk down on their women. Next time just check the names.

Nah! Just be yourself and one day you'll meet the right person for you.

Every Romeo has got his Juliet out there waiting for him.

Dearlord:


Sure! I know that.

I think one needs to hide his true self to access through what he wants

AishaDant:



The one thing missing in your reply is the word "some". It is obviously a small portion of Nigerian men who know what love is and even deserve it.

Deserve
What do you need to do as a Nigerian man to deserve a Nigerian girl love?

Jeez..

Johnboom:
Send me your number

Igbo vvomen are the worst set of women in the world.

I'm just lucky because I marry my wife when she was still under 19 years. we have been together for 7 good years now with three kids.
I stop her from joining umu NWANYI OMA enugu group at Lagos because I'm afraid of Igbo vvomen. Thank G0d she obeyed me.

I'm Igbo but I detest Igbo vvomen

BloomingDale:


No, we are not fighting for you guys. They can take you guys without bringing us into it. We don't want what is going on between AA men and AA women. You never see Nigerian women disparaging other African women. If you want them go for it. Don't just bring us into it.

It's mostly Igbo men marrying them. Other tribes are marrying their women to keep their bloodline strong.

I've heard that most Nigerian men are too cultural.

Allisgud:
let us start a Nigerian south African love

AishaDant:
I have forgotten what I wanted to say sef.

Oh I remember some part now.

Well, most Nigerian men don't value love. If you don't value something, how are you going to look after it or even deserve it?

That's why a 9ja woman should overbill the men and not work to get her own money to use to take care of herself abi? A man is only supposed to dash you money as a woman anytime he likes to.

fman:
kwaya girl.
Too much codeine don fry ya brains!!
Keep skipping!!
Banza!

hahaha babban gaye hadda zagi haka


Kanuri boy.....

Last, last na virgin from Isreal I go marry. This I have seen.

People don't just wake up and decide to be xenophobic.

And what does being xenophobe has to do with the discussion?

ShaqFu:
You can love someone and still be a xenophobe.

AishaDant:



Facts!

That Nigeria guy that loves you years ago, how did you manage him? is it not this same mentality that you carry that makes you to chase him away... girl wise up. True loves only exist in two people 1. your mother 2. a man. ladies be it a wife or girlfriend especially in Nigeria it is base on conditions.

Leechhhhhhhh....

virginprincess:
Mtcheeeew,most Nigeria men don't deserves love because usually take it for granted.

virginprincess:
Mtcheeeew,most Nigeria men don't deserves love because usually take it for granted.

That Nigeria guy that loves you years ago, how did you manage him? is it not this same mentality that you carry that makes you to chase him away... girl wise up. True loves only exist in two people 1. your mother 2. a man. ladies be it a wife or girlfriend especially in Nigeria it is base on conditions.

Wotoporiously speaking

I laugh in Swahili

Gubioma:
hahaha babban gaye hadda zagi haka


Kanuri boy.....

Walahi!!

Samantha123:
People don't just wake up and decide to be xenophobic.

And what does being xenophobe has to do with the discussion?

Of course, just like people don't just wake up and decide to be racist.

It has everything to do with the discussion because I find it hard to believe that one can love a man and still be xenophobic.

A south African girl can lecture Nigerian women on how to love Nigerian men but they can't lecture their fellow south aftican women on how not to be xenophobic.

God bless you the beautiful one, we just dey suffer in the hands of those wicked souls who called themselves Nigerian girls, I no even send them again, no Ghana babe, no marriage, Nigerian girls are all useless and heartless

KillSars:
Shey majority of 9ja girls sabi love sha....

Only when money is involved.

AishaDant:



This general assumption from you just shows I shouldn't even be having this conversation with you. Have a good day.

Good guys are still there, if u want I will introduce u to a relative of mine that will show u how good some men are , so to prove to u that u are wrong , if he 4ks up, I will pay u 10m . We will sign the agreement between us , but he will not know.. unless u 4k up then u will not get the money...

virginprincess:
Mtcheeeew,most Nigeria men don't deserves love because usually take it for granted.

Bt if they have money they deserve love??

emekachief:
Igbo vvomen are the worst set of women in the world.

I'm just lucky because I marry my wife when she was still under 19 years. we have been together for 7 good years now with three kids.
I stop her from joining umu NWANYI OMA enugu group at Lagos because I'm afraid of Igbo vvomen. Thank G0d she obeyed me.

I'm Igbo but I detest Igbo vvomen

so are Igbo men

tollyboy5:

But abroad nigeria men finds love easily and Nigeria ladies complain of no husband abroad lol.

Some Nigerian men.

Also, some Nigerian women.

BloomingDale:


I will read over your post again, but to be frank most Nigerian men marry within their ethnic group to keep their bloodline strong, it's mostly Igbo men that marry other African women and talk down on their women. Next time just check the names.

You just typed the exact opposite
Marrying a different race makes your bloodline stronger
Actually not weaker

I don't really care who Nigerian men date or marry or what tribe marries African women because I'm not interested in them okay?

I'm content with my SA men.

A while back a nairalander asked me to compare between SA women and Nigerian women and I told him that I don't know anything about you guys.

So how can I talk down people that I don't even know?

BloomingDale:


I will read over your post again, but to be frank most Nigerian men marry within their ethnic group to keep their bloodline strong, it's mostly Igbo men that marry other African women and talk down on their women. Next time just check the names.

Samantha123:
She's right.. we South African women don't really care about a man with big bucks because from a very young age we were taught to be independent and work for our money.

Only few of the women are after rich men.

So even if you're just a security guard or a garden boy, when we love you, we love you.

SA women are prettier too. Looking supple and energetic.

virginprincess:
Mtcheeeew,most Nigeria men don't deserves love because usually take it for granted.

How will someone take you people serious when you pretend to be a virgin meanwhile ur p*ssy is wider than river Nile.

Who does that.......

tollyboy5:

Lies! Only Nigeria girls complain of been single abroad.
They've gotten to their dream feminist country and noticed it's equal right and responsibility.

Entitled mofos think oyinbo will treat their jobless ass as queen.

Lol
You know the saying that one can't eat his cake and still have it.
Hahaha