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Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 2:01am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Danka7777: Preach, brother.. It's always refreshing to meet people who emancipated themselves from the mental slavery called religion.. God lives inside everyone of us, and we don't need a boogeyman to get to him/her. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by naijarican(f): 2:08am On Jun 14, 2012 |
shymmex: Awrite now!!!!! This is what I'm talkin' bout! |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by segun2012: 2:19am On Jun 14, 2012 |
What a story!!! i really feel for u. i don't want to be bias, but the truth is Ђơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ω are we sure that you are not the first to break the guy's heart. Anyway if not, then you should have known since that he dosent love or cares for you after having four abortions. i will advice youths to "zip up" or if need arises, use CONDOM.as regards the oath, pls take it serious by praying over it. i wish you all the very best. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by HighChief4(m): 2:36am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Akinagirl: Like you know somebody up in here GAL fool Shut up you dimwit, did I mention your name? Abi, your conscience is already buggin you. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by DECOtech(m): 2:40am On Jun 14, 2012 |
yinkaGreen: The only way to get back at people that have hurt, disappointed and treated you without respect is to turn out to be successful.Two thumbs up n a wink! |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by EASY39(m): 2:40am On Jun 14, 2012 |
kay9:ODE, convenant without any spiritua sighn,is ure boyfriend a herbalist or what,yehn yehn yehn mtchew |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 3:07am On Jun 14, 2012 |
@op. . i have only two words for you.. SHIT HAPPENS |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Ivynwa(f): 3:10am On Jun 14, 2012 |
[size=14pt]4 Abortions??[/size] I feel like beating somebody! How could you do that to your body girl? How can you put yourself through that for a fr*aking boy? How did he make you do all that? I don't even have words of consolation for you right now cause I am very unhappy with you, yeah others can go ahead and rub your heart when I simmer down I may pass by here to see how you are doing. Gosh! we must teach the young girls around us the things they need to know about man and woman relationship. Teaching them stuffs like abstinence(yet equipping them with the knowledge of stuffs like safe period, ovulation, postinor, birth control) isn't giving them the go-ahead to "go into the world and have s-ex". They are better off with the knowledge of these things, how can a young girl of 22 (seems she started having s-ex at 16) know how to have s-e-x with a man but does not know about ovulations, safe period and birth control issues? Girl I am mad at you! Better never let any man make you abort a child again in your life! Concentrate on your studies and graduate well, where did you get the courage to let people meddle and fidget with your womb like that? Do you expect us to clap for you, look the other way and tell you that it is alright. I am writing this to make you realize the gravity of what you are doing to yourself. If they spoil your womb for you and you are unable to have a child, that fr*aking boy you were endangering your life for will leave you for another woman. Oh am I forgetting that the thread is a lamentation that he is gone! How could you? Better stop girl. 3 Likes |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Ivynwa(f): 3:11am On Jun 14, 2012 |
I am just reading your angry words where you were saying----- "Someone you removed 4 kids for" "The blood of your kids will fight for you" I felt more angry reading that, I refuse to judge you or begin to make it all weigh you down but please don't even use curse words like that on him because you may not be exonerated. Just never do that again, if you must have s-e-x----get your acts together, don't go getting impregnated and begin to fidget with your wombs and body for the umpteenth time. How do you do that? Gosh man! Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by WhyAWhy(m): 3:28am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Chei Oga oh 1. NEVER make blood Covenants with ANYONE. (I think I read that you quoted Ruth What a contradiction) 2. NEVER open your laps to any man talk more of getting pregnant or even abortion when you're not married 3. A MAN will ALWAYS see a NEW THING so KEEP your PRIDE. Solution: Pick up the pieces of your life again, naturally the law of karma will catch up. You've lost so much, you can't gain it back again. This guy obviously just used you to pass time, he's never coming back except with JAZZ sha but then |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by MaxDick9ja: 3:36am On Jun 14, 2012 |
When would the Part two come out eh? Abi Jim iyke finally got married to Nkiru sylvanus and rita dominic dey busy dey cry dey swear for am? |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 3:52am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Jesu, have mercy!! |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 3:55am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Ivynwa: [size=14pt]4 Abortions??[/size] I will answer the questions in bold by this song by R.Kelly - When a woman loves. You have to understand that when a woman is in love, she can't think right. Don't blame the young lady; she doesn't have control of herself. Enjoy the song! [flash=400,425] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_W0K_EkDoHk''[/flash] |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 3:56am On Jun 14, 2012 |
nicole9: Good afternoon. I am a 22yr old girl dating a guy of 28. Please I urgently need your advice.This is my story. Did u sell your shame + stuupidity on ebay? how much? |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by abbey621(m): 4:00am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Useless Stewpid, ASHAWO!!!! How can a woman have four abortions for the same man? These girls of nowadays are nothing but animals. Everyone knows that guys can be very useless most of the time, and with so much stories and movies and real life examples of complications resulting from abortions, how can anyone go through such torture four times? I do not pity you, people that are blaming the guy and sugarcoating things are BOMBASTIC ELEMENTS! I don't care how fine or smart the guy is, no woman should ever mutilate her body that much, wetin she dey find sef? Money you no gain, marriage you no gain, fame you no gain? Tell me what profit you derived from such degrading behavior. Enough, if you like go hug transformer, sometimes it takes HARSH and CRUEL words, to sink reality into some people. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 4:04am On Jun 14, 2012 |
abbey621: Useless Stewpid, ASHAWO!!!! How can a woman have four abortions for the same man? These girls of nowadays are nothing but animals. Everyone knows that guys can be very useless most of the time, and with so much stories and movies and real life examples of complications resulting from abortions, how can anyone go through such torture four times? I do not pity you, people that are blaming the guy and sugarcoating things are BOMBASTIC ELEMENTS! I don't care how fine or smart the guy is, no woman should ever mutilate her body that much, wetin she dey find sef? Money you no gain, marriage you no gain, fame you no gain? Tell me what profit you derived from such degrading behavior. Enough, if you like go hug transformer, sometimes it takes HARSH and CRUEL words, to sink reality into some people. Don't use ashawo too freely. It's not like she had abortion for several guys. She was in love with a man who I assumed did not want all 4 pregnancies. You can call her naive, but ashawo is out of the question. The dude should not be absolved of any blame here, he had a hand in it big time. Some of you ppl need to free her. How many girls/guys have y'all dated? It's now a crime? 1 Like |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 4:10am On Jun 14, 2012 |
abbey621: Useless Stewpid, ASHAWO!!!! How can a woman have four abortions for the same man? These girls of nowadays are nothing but animals. Everyone knows that guys can be very useless most of the time, and with so much stories and movies and real life examples of complications resulting from abortions, how can anyone go through such torture four times? I do not pity you, people that are blaming the guy and sugarcoating things are BOMBASTIC ELEMENTS! I don't care how fine or smart the guy is, no woman should ever mutilate her body that much, wetin she dey find sef? Money you no gain, marriage you no gain, fame you no gain? Tell me what profit you derived from such degrading behavior. Enough, if you like go hug transformer, sometimes it takes HARSH and CRUEL words, to sink reality into some people. Good words my dear! I never knew my sister could disown me until she met this guy. She went ballistic for this guy. A guy me and my whole family thought was useless in our judgement. Remember, women and men think differently. I have no doubt that a lot of people warned this young lady not to date this guy, but as most women in love (this includes my sister) would say: "I Know what's good for me". To cut the long story short, this guy ended up messing her life and her career. Women indeed 1 Like |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 4:11am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Poster, Words cannot truly describe how sorry I feel for you. sincerely feel like crying. I hope the everlasting lord looks upon you with the eyes of mercy. Let that man go, yes it must hurt. Move on. It will be hard to find a "better" man because you're eventually going to tell your new man about this abortion and blood convenant. Abeg, don't listen to his mother about him coming back. Women shouldn't have to wait for men, it ought to be the other way. And about the blood convenant, people actually do it? Every woman should know their worth. We often find out too late https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtMUIwOE2ss 1 Like |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 4:12am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by bashr8: 4:17am On Jun 14, 2012 |
4 abortions? , blood convenant. a man u will never get over in ur life .? God ohhh make i start now find virgin wey i go marry. na so una go dey carry baggages all around dey llook for mugu wey go inherit ur baggages |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by GodspowerNdu: 4:18am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Wow my dear, it's quite unfortunate dat u had dis kind of terrible experience. My admonition 4 u is 2 4get everytin about dis guy now & go into serious prayer & fasting, asking God 4 his forgiveness 4 committing murder 4 times, & God being a 4giving father will 4give u & make u b as white as snow again. And 4 d blood oath u tuk, it's not a child's play, it will have an immediate/ long term effect on u if u dnt break it/kip it, b/c blood is very signicant dat was why Christ shed his own blood 4 us, 4 d remission of ur sins. So u shud do something about it swiftly 2 break d oath & come out of d shambles/entanglement u have got urself into. And d only way 2 break it is btw two of u, reversing everytin u pple have said wit dsame seriousness & manner u said it, doing everytin u pple did in taking d oath. I wish u d best of luck. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by lekejob(m): 4:33am On Jun 14, 2012 |
It's a pity,now u need Jesus 2 help u out. Run 2 him and He wil teach u wat 2 do |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 4:40am On Jun 14, 2012 |
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Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 4:41am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Poster, Words cannot truly describe how sorry I feel for you. sincerely feel like crying. I hope the everlasting lord looks upon you with the eyes of mercy. Let that man go, yes it must hurt. Move on. It will be hard to find a "better" man because you're eventually going to tell your new man about these abortions and blood convenant. Abeg, don't listen to his mother about him coming back. Women shouldn't have to wait for men, it ought to be the other way. And about the blood convenant, people actually do it? Every woman should know their worth. We often find out too late https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtMUIwOE2ss |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by waleski(m): 4:44am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Why do people do foolish things while in L♥√ع? As much as I would wanna sympathize with the op,I just can wrap my head arnd why someone wuld do 4 abortions for a guy and whatnot.....did u ever think to urself,what has dis guy sacrificed for me in dis relationship,wat pain has dis guy gone thru to keep d relantionship...I understand d̶̲̥̅̊aτ̲̅ he prob is ur 1st L♥√ع,caught u wen u were @ a tenderage wen u are just new to romantic feelings and so ur hormones may av been thinking for u,but really 4 abortions......that guy is wicked and u were naïve.....he prob got bored of u after using u nd wearing u out.....best thg u can do for ursef is either wait on d bas.tard and pray he still loves u to take u in or lock-up and just to take a break from d whole dating game,build up ur self-confidence cause I know the scars of d relantionship wuld be dere and it wuld affect d next relantionships.... |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by femmy2010(m): 4:44am On Jun 14, 2012 |
So touching. Life goes on so free your heart and mine. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by tpia5: 4:47am On Jun 14, 2012 |
he said he couldn't use a condom on a woman he intends to marry. We thought of keeping it but we did not have the resources and we also couldn't think of telling our parents, so we made a decision to abort it. good for you. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by tpia5: 4:50am On Jun 14, 2012 |
This is a man I had looked up to as my husband. Someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Someone I removed four kids for. Someone who took my most prized possession, my virginity and pride. forget all this virginity talk abeg. after four pregnancies/abortions, i think that's a moot point. is this a fake thread? @ bolded rather d.aft, sorry. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Akinagirl(f): 4:54am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Ill just say this because I am in a better mood today. Forgive and be forgiven. If you forgive him and yourself and ask God too for forgivness you will be forgiven. High Chief sorry that I was mean. Just your general statement kinda pissed me off. Going off on people really isnt my character. |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by abbey621(m): 4:56am On Jun 14, 2012 |
Don't use ashawo too freely. It's not like she had abortion for several guys. She was in love with a man who I assumed did not want all 4 pregnancies. @Ileke-IdI : Any girl that allows the same guy to impregnate her over and over again and instead of accepting the responsibility, chooses 2 abort the pregnancy, NOT ONCE, NOT TWICE BUT FOUR TIMES na baba nla ASHAWO!!! Na only ASHAWO go repeatedly commit sexual acts, get pregnant, commit abortion and do it all over and over again. Let's be real here, nobody is above mistakes but four times in a row, that's INSANITY!!!! |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by waleski(m): 4:56am On Jun 14, 2012 |
I wonder if dere is any guy who would be willing to look beyond d fact that u had 4 abortions within ur short life while u are in a relantionship with him.....op has d biggest baggage av heard in a while |
Re: Dumped After Blood Covenant And Abortions by Nobody: 5:18am On Jun 14, 2012 |
abbey621: one, do you have a girlfriend? How many times have you entered her? does that make you an ashawo? How about the man who, over and over and over again, got her pregnant? What do you label him? You think she would have aborted her babies of he had wanted them? She was naively in love. |
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