If he tried it once, I would say its a normal phenomenon with most guys and I was once guilty of this childish attitude. I did that just to show the height of my annoyance and to see if she would show Remorse! But my dear, at the end I ended up pleading for a RE - ADD. Lols! Eversince then, we've had countless miss understanding but such issues never came up!! Your own case is quite different here hence he does that frequently! My candid advice is Don't Re Add or Accept Him anymore most men prefers to learn the hard way! If he can't get Rid of this childish attitude at this stage of your Relationship, what becomes of you when you get married? That's he kicks you out each time you have minor misunderstanding? That's the implication!! I don't get why a man Twice your Age should be acting this way? Probably that's the more reason he's unfurtunately still single at 41! Coz not too many ladies would tolerate his kind of attitude. Age indeed isn't maturity!!!

Ok its easy to fish out IPOB alleged sponsors but for the past 8yrs no one has made any concrete arrest of bokoharam sponsors!!! Let's call a spade a spade! Its about time we kiss this kangaroo country goodbye! The foundation of this country is faulty! We were never meant to be together as a country if not for the selfish Interest of Britain that muggled us up for their economic gain.

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lol,c'mon i was only kidding!!

ok

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prettythicksme:
I heard dat any lady with a beard is a witch!

this is why philosophy and Logic is compulsory for all first year students in University!!! I thank God for that course! You get to learn never to make Hasty Generalisation just because you heard or you saw one isn't enough to conclude all are the same! That's the point I'm making.

[b]for you to excel here in Nigeria as a business man or woman, you must have good sense of packaging! Have anyone been to Ikota shopping complex Road5 just the front gate of Gtbank, you'll see some well dressed guys! Looking quite flambouyant selling Recharge cards! One will readily ask what their intentions are? The good thing here is that big shots from VGC usually patronize them well. So I think the only magic here is doing things differently from the norm! You'll make it!

Not Over for me!!!! It took 3 months for my fiancee to accept my Proposal. Patience is indeed a virtue!

Yea take for instance, my fiancee is much aware of my Basic salary! There's this attitude of most ladies already planning how your salary would be spent hence they know the exact amount. If u decide to be open, then you should also be ready to give account of how the money was spent. Personally, I use the other allowances I earn to solve family issues. I mean my own family. (Mum, siblings).

My Dear, the moment he or she steps out to make calls when they're together or uses a security lock on phone, you know something isn't right. It will always arouse suspicion which isn't good for any healthy Relationship. For me, privacy is a NO NO! When it comes to Finance, I can open up my Basic salary to her but won't let her know the extra allowances I get.

Well, I can only say its by the Grace of God Almighty! Me and my Fiance just celebrated our 8yrs of Relationship recently! And hoping to Get married Next month by the special Grace of God. My Dear, I would say its God! Especially when its a Long Distance Relationship Like ours. We built our Relationship on solid foundation with True Love, TRUST and understanding. I would say I'm lucky to find someone that we are both compactable! It doesn't take rocket science to know when you truly love each other. Most importantly, if you make Sex your priority in your relationship, it won't work! We spent 3yrs plus without Sex! And we were very much commited to each other with the Highest Level of Trust coupled with constant communication. My Dear, what works for me, might not work for you! I don't think there's a single theory that guides Relationship. I think its quite relative. True relationship goes with a lot of sacrifices. One of the partner must be willing to sacrifice his or Her right to make sure there's Peace. You can't always have your way. You must be tolerant and very contented with each other. We attempted break up for several times! But never worked out!! We loved our selves so much that we can't stay apart from each other for just one day even after serious misunderstanding. Well, I'm her first love and she's also my First and last. My Dear, true love is sweet when you find the right person. Finnaly, patience is a virtue! I know a lot of guys that would readily crash out of the relationship once their partner says NO SEX! This is just one common issue with most guys! What helped me was that I actually saw my fiance as just a friend at the initial start of the Relationship. Till today, she remains my Best friend and partner. We are not perfect! I'm truly Grateful to God.

Ok

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Bride looks pregnant! Pictures quite Dry! All the same! HML!

[b]hello my friend! I once found myself in your boy friend's shoes! There's this lady I've been dating for the past 8yrs right from our University days! Immediately she passed out of Nysc, her family came up with the issue of marriage and all that! She told me about the pressure from her family so angrily, even though it wasn't from my mind, I told her to go ahead and marry any suitor that ask her hand in marriage. I told her point blank that I can't rush to wed her just because of the pressure from her parents when I don't really have a meaningful job. Fortunately, she reasoned with me and decide to stick with my decision. She kept telling her parents that she has chosen her man! And would wait for the Right time. After a short while, I did her introduction and gave a gap of another one year! Thankfully, I have a meaningful job now, she is also working with a good firm! We are now ready To get married next month. So my Dear, if you both are convinced that you've found true love, nothing can come between the two of you! Not even the pressure from your family or parent. Its only the TWO of you that can decide what, when and how you want it!! Your boy friend should assure you that he's not gonna disappoint you! He should state clearly that he has fully made up his mind to get married to you! Lastly, let him put it to you the year or time he's ready! 2016 or 2017? this will help guide your relationship and make you both Focused! That was what helped me and my Fiance! We gave a clear target of 2015 as our wedding date come rain come shine! The pressure came right from 2013. But we stood with each other! Remained committed despite the pressure. Today we are happy! Pls, I hope your boy friend isn't one of this time wasters? If so, pls don't stick your neck on him! Find a more serious suitor. Ok bye![/b]

Lols! Peeps working hard to make Front Page!!! Even GNLD guys will walk in here to testify of their job offer. If we all rush down here to Testify of job placement, believe me! Nairaland will freeze!!

Ok

[b]Nothing astonishing about his CV! I've read more intimidating cv than this! Prof charles soludo etal! This people went to school in the good old days when education was apparently free! So back then one can read to the Highest level of education if he likes and still get an instant job offer unlike what is obtainable in present day Nigeria. If you watch closely, you would notice that those that were privileged to Read back then are now the Elites we have in our body polity today. Most are in key government positions, and handdling other Top management position in other parastatals. Today we have first class, 2.1 without jobs! University education is now for the Rich! So a lot of things has changed now. Nigerian Youths are getting demoralised with the Rot in the system. Where you can't get a good government job without connection. Where, without work experience of 3-5yrs you can't get employed! How is it possible for a fresh graduate to get such experience? Again to prune down teaming number of job applicants, they came up with Age limit. Just so annoying!!!![/b]

handsomeclouds:

I agree with you, but not quite.
Tinubu is still much more relevant than saraki.
Tinubu still wields much power in the south-west.
Who is Saraki?
He's only suffering from megalomania
He's lost the control of his own base
He was stoned just last month..
No matter how hard saraki tries, his influence will never go beyond Ilorin. He can't go beyond the senate presidency...
He can keep attaching himself to the north... Hausas won't consider him for presidency
Not the Hausa's of Nigeria where those of the Northwest feels superior to those of the Northeast, how much more a man from Ilorin!

bros stop yarning Trash! Saraki is the number 3 citizen of this country! Now tell me Tinubu's position or shut the "F" up! Tinubu's power and Influence ends in His bourdilion House. I'm not a fan of Saraki! Just happy with the Change in our body polity! The End justifies the Means!

Dawdy:
na plane smoke you see jare

you're entitled to your opinion.

Below is the pics of the RainBow lines I saw today! I haven't seen Rainbow in a long while. So I thought I should capture this moment.

Pls stop embarrassing Nairaland with this your horrible english! I can't make anything out of what you scribbled down sef!! It beats me why a mature man like you can't just type simple basic english on a public forum like this? Money is not everything! Money without basic education can be very embarrassing!

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I agree totally !

your post got me cracked up! Please can someone summarise all that happened in Mecca?

exotiqueify:



My brother, no one is interested in talking u down. I agree with u to at least, 50%, but I rily don't think u should conclude just yet if u weren't on site. I was there and d venue is at industrial estate & CVS were collected. I knew from d get go that spectranet wouldn't pay 120,000k for an entry level position, I think that was just d OP talking, also a reasonable firm would NEVER publish how much they pay, let alone that laughable amount, so chill, we know. I was skeptical at first, and almost turned back wen i got to oregun, my only reason for going was I have 2yrs experience in CSR, but wanna move to HR. Anyway, we were told those who are shortlisted would be contacted, soo....maybe those who would, might come back to give their praises, u never can tell....

lols @blolded! But the opening is strictly customer service so how do you intend to cross carpet into HR ? I still repeat, that job opening is a scam! Believe it or leave it! Or at Best, pure marketing !!! With a ridiculous amount as salary! Imagine a job without reasonable experience, qualification and all that! So they made the job application quite flexible so a lot of people will fit in! Hence more people! More money to make!