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Nice1 teddy.......I'm luvdoctor by nick,I must confess u doing a grt job!Nice1 teddy.......I'm luvdoctor by nick,I must confess u doing a grt job!Nice1 teddy.......I'm luvdoctor by nick,I must confess u doing a grt job!

Xxxtedyxxx....I av to sae ur rilli doin a gud job..kip it up.. meslf get bottleneck for dating issues o...people always flatter me (both boiz and gals) DAT I am cute..sum even say ..I luk lyk wizkid...i often use DAT 2 get gals attention Buh d problem is dat I av a dry skin..and this has made my palms rough ..to d extent that people always complain wen I shake dem DAT my hands r 2 rough...so am always scared to shake gals to avoid dis comments..even tho sum pretend..wn I shake dm..I get uncomfortable wn a gal is lukin @ my hands or feets..dis has made me so insecure..shud I go 4 a surgery or try creams(av used many BT day didn't work)..dunno wat to do abt it ..really appreciate if u cud hlp

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@ xxxtedxxx
Watt do I do,to kip ma reltnship funfull*i'm nt d intrestn kinda guy,wah do I do?10ks man

@op...really appreciate ur hardwork here....despite d fact dat I already a girlfriend, I still got some hint from u dat could possibly help me boost d relationship...I must commend u
U r gud

OP!!! U bad gaaaan.... Respect

nice one op .well ive read all the previous post nd now I'm here .well I'm gona b helpin out wit sum of the question in my own opinion.

Hy OP I met a girl in ma skul and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ minors from ma dept recently and we got chatting. I get to click with a lady I like immediately. It seems we got off right den I asked for her digits and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ said NO. I just told her I would nt stop till I get it and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ said LET'S WAIT AND SEE. What can I do

dan_weezy: Xxxtedyxxx....I av to sae ur rilli doin a gud job..kip it up.. meslf get bottleneck for dating issues o...people always flatter me (both boiz and gals) DAT I am cute..sum even say ..I luk lyk wizkid...i often use DAT 2 get gals attention Buh d problem is dat I av a dry skin..and this has made my palms rough ..to d extent that people always complain wen I shake dem DAT my hands r 2 rough...so am always scared to shake gals to avoid dis comments..even tho sum pretend..wn I shake dm..I get uncomfortable wn a gal is lukin @ my hands or feets..dis has made me so insecure..shud I go 4 a surgery or try creams(av used many BT day didn't work)..dunno wat to do abt it ..really appreciate if u cud hlp

u shudnt let dat stop u .wen u proud of ur flaws ppl wud learn to take u the way u are nd wud lik u fr dat .shake dem nd wen they call u on it u joke about it or laugh wit dem let dem knw u dnt care.

drjoebond080:
u shudnt let dat stop u .wen u proud of ur flaws ppl wud learn to take u the way u are nd wud lik u fr dat .shake dem nd wen they call u on it u joke about it or laugh wit dem let dem knw u dnt care.

and dey shud learn to accpt u fr wo u are

Blain: @ xxxtedxxx
Watt do I do,to kip ma reltnship funfull*i'm nt d intrestn kinda guy,wah do I do?10ks man

simple u add sum fun.
u can add suprise to ur relationship.always suprise her.u dnt nid money to av fun wit a grl u love .u can get a mat sum fruits nd mayb 5aliv wit two cups .one evenin tak her to a cool place be it field were ppl are not much .u guys can sit dere play nd have fun.lik wise go out on a walk .u can invite her to ur awse cook fr her b it indomie get a nice movie probly best seller nd watch wit her while cuddlin nd stuff.I advise u buy romantic movie nd start watchin

@xxxtedxxx,jez sent u a mail,kindly reply asap.thnkz

xxxteddyxxx, my own problem is mainly convos. I don't really know how to keep up convos. Yes, a normal answer would be get to know a girl. So I ask questions. And there was this girl that ended up asking if this (our convo) was an interview. Yeah, cuz most girls give straight annoying answers to a stranger, no mattter how open the question is.

E.g
Me: Have you ever traveled abroad?
Girl: Yes
Me: Cool, where?
Girl: Blah blah
Me: Okay, me I have (or haven't), I enjoyed the place, good food, this that, especially the blah blah (If i've been there before) OR I would like to go there one day tho, how was it, what do you miss about blah blah?
Girl: Cool/okay.. it was nice. Everything

And no matter the question, na so straight answers go dey fly in, or worse ignoring/snubbing (if na texting or bbm) as for face to face talking. their face shows it all and demoralizes you. no matter how you smile pass.

Yeah, bringing up a joke might lighten things, i guess, but i'm very bad at that, I'm not a funny person. and it's worse whenever I try to be!

usmanspihn: Hy OP I met a girl in ma skul and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ minors from ma dept recently and we got chatting. I get to click with a lady I like immediately. It seems we got off right den I asked for her digits and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ said NO. I just told her I would nt stop till I get it and ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇hε̲ said LET'S WAIT AND SEE. What can I do

well u made a mistake here u shudnt have said dat u av made her wnt to prove to u u cnt get her number nd trust me dat not good .wat u shud do is ,wen u see her tell her she has won nd dnt ask fr her digit .start again frm the beginning by trying to create rapport nd dis time take it slow after creating rapport u might wanna end by saying we catch up lata .anoda time u meet u try knwing wat she lik doin best nd suggezt wen u both can do it togeda .den u tell her u wud call her assuming u had her number so u guys can meet nd request fr her numb again.

My Game has now been stepped up.

enomasly: See tedy i undastand d way u comin from but bak 2 d 1st page u advised ifex to go into d 'guess wat am thinkin chat' n u said d short gown with ur backside.....best advice dat technique wud kill ur chances hw wud u just bring up such randy talk of backside in a chat u maywonder if i ave experience ave done an experiment in d past 3months of my stay in skul n ave had relationships n flings wit 12 girls 'unbeleiveable but its true infact i cud advise anyone who needs help'

U don't understand what I meant... Ifex was chatting wit her, dat technique will get her juices flowing..I av been using it since 2OO9 and dis is 2O13...it has never failed me or given me a -ve respons.

#..everytin am using here is what I av tested..for long. Am not just bringing up random stuffs. Dis is what works bro.


And congrats on ur escapades..*winks*.thumbs up baba

Naam22: Ok!so a friend hooked me up with boyfriend's frnd,knowing am single..and we went out on a date and we click so I thought,we exchanged numbers and guess wat? He didn't call me,am so confuse infact I taya for guys,I feel lyk I shud call him and ask y he didn't call me,lol but I know better,u don't force yourself on people...still single till I find dat person that'll actually call back..he probably couldn't handle my Awesomeness

Don't call..unless u want too..if he wants the interaction to continue..he shud av called u by now...its dat simple.

Op help! Dis girl was staying in my street in Lagos.i never 4 once said 'Hi' to her,although she is cute.she was disturbing my friends for my number and got it from one of them.i was in school(enugu) wen she called,started disturbinig me about she admiring me.she calls me like 3times in a day.i fell for her love.even wen i came back after d semester,d girl was all over me.she made me fall for her,but i never kissed her,even wen she wanted it so bad.they later moved out from our street.she started reducing our talking time.sometimes wen i call,i do run out of topic..dat gets her bored,she de even laugh me sometimes like 'i knw u dont knw wat else to say,lets talk 2mao,bye'.we date for 2years,although distance made us not to be too close to each other.she stoped calling at a stage because i got her angry.we broke up 3times and made up.now she hardly call.even to see her na wahala.she made me fall 4 her,now she wants to leave me.what do i do? Because i still love her.

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lawrencia40: Nice1 teddy.......I'm luvdoctor by nick,I must confess u doing a grt job!Nice1 teddy.......I'm luvdoctor by nick,I must confess u doing a grt job!Nice1 teddy.......I'm luvdoctor by nick,I must confess u doing a grt job!

Thanx broda..I appreciate ur comment and support

Ekhemini: Hi teddy,a gal I'v dated for a year witout any major issues jst askd for a brkup,won't evn tell me my offence,claims I avnt done anytin n 2 d best of my knowledge,I avnt. I dunno wat else 2 do,a lil advice will help...tnx

Broda...a year of dating a chick.is not beans.

U shud relax...relax..take a deep breathe and calm down.

#...den..call her..mand request for a date..or u guys shud meet.

Am aving dis feeling she has gotten a new guy.or sth. U even admitted not to av done anytin or made her feel special after a year of dating. U need to meet up wit her as soon as possible bro.

D4V1D~D4:
xxxteddyxxx, my own problem is mainly convos. I don't really know how to keep up convos. Yes, a normal answer would be get to know a girl. So I ask questions. And there was this girl that ended up asking if this (our convo) was an interview. Yeah, cuz most girls give straight annoying answers to a stranger, no mattter how open the question is.

E.g
Me: Have you ever traveled abroad?
Girl: Yes
Me: Cool, where?
Girl: Blah blah
Me: Okay, me I have (or haven't), I enjoyed the place, good food, this that, especially the blah blah (If i've been there before) OR I would like to go there one day tho, how was it, what do you miss about blah blah?
Girl: Cool/okay.. it was nice. Everything

And no matter the question, na so straight answers go dey fly in, or worse ignoring/snubbing (if na texting or bbm) as for face to face talking. their face shows it all and demoralizes you. no matter how you smile pass.

Yeah, bringing up a joke might lighten things, i guess, but i'm very bad at that, I'm not a funny person. and it's worse whenever I try to be!

yap I feel u bro .d simple truth is u asking open ended question .u are asking question dat brings on one answers which is bad .wen u ask open ender questions u transition frm dere e.g
you:hy are u frm around here
her:yes
you:I'm kinda new yr is dere is dere ny fun place were one can have fun
her:mayb d beach
you:u look lik the fun type wat was ur last experience dere .u can also ask wat do u like doin fr fun
(may b she says swimming)
u can tell her a story of wen u or sumone went to swim nd u can form nytn jst to kip convo not lookin like interview.
and also u must b a good listerner to b a good talker wen u listen u get point u hook on to get her talking e.g she says:I'm dis kind of indoor person dat dnt go out
.the hook I'm gonna pick here is indoor
me:u stay guess wat do u do wen u alone
she:well I chat watch films.
hook I'm gonna pick is film
me:so tell me do u lik home made or foriegn .she:foriegn.
me;so tell me wat ur favorite.nd on nd on
the clue is u listenin nd pickin hooks.

Soso990240: Op help! Dis girl was staying in my street in Lagos.i never 4 once said 'Hi' to her,although she is cute.she was disturbing my friends for my number and got it from one of them.i was in school(enugu) wen she called,started disturbinig me about she admiring me.she calls me like 3times in a day.i fell for her love.even wen i came back after d semester,d girl was all over me.she made me fall for her,but i never kissed her,even wen she wanted it so bad.they later moved out from our street.she started reducing our talking time.sometimes wen i call,i do run out of topic..dat gets her bored,she de even laugh me sometimes like 'i knw u dont knw wat else to say,lets talk 2mao,bye'.we date for 2years,although distance made us not to be too close to each other.she stoped calling at a stage because i got her angry.we broke up 3times and made up.now she hardly call.even to see her na wahala.she made me fall 4 her,now she wants to leave me.what do i do? Because i still love her.

I understand..I ave been down dat road before.

# the basic concept of what happend is dat..dat unique attraction she used to feel for u has waned. And u didn't make any effort to spike it up.

I will say its ur fault..#sorry I don't mean to be hard on u. But wen a girl is feeling u..dats d time to act. Or make a move. Attraction with girls wanes easily wen u don't make any move, kiss dem, hug dem, s****x dem! It just reduces wit time..and before u know it..u. Av become just a normal friend wit her


#i will adived u..to call....and just talk abt wen u guys met.ow it used to be..and..all..bring back dose dead memories in her head.

#dont give up..on her yet..and relax..ur composure and confidence matters..if she can feel u before..she can feel u again.

So..relax..and focus on the little tins u r gona be doin from now.

Send her dis message...

"Hey hi.missed u..just a little note to let u know...I stil care"

Leave it like dat
Den call her late...

Getting topics with babes is simple wen u alrdy know what's on ur mind. U don't av to fidget..dats y we all need to practise everyday.

Focus on light calls..and messages for now..preferably..sms. Mornin texts...den call..nite text..den do it..again..don't call for a while, den text again. Just remix it. Den ask for a date.or meet.

xxxtedyxxx: .

Wow...@ first u were on point bro...u see..there is something dat is called attraction. Dat is what makes a girl go gaga over a guy..weda d guy is short or ugly, doesn't matter.

## to cut to the d chase. U didn't stir up attraction in her.

Dats just d fact bro.

U were acting too much like a friend. Just a normal friend.and ladies don't like dat.

There is something I always work it. I av made dis same mistake before. Wen a girl initially acts cool wit u..laughing,smiling and joking, asin she is feeling u, just like u depicted in ur post..den dat means @ dat point ...u were doing sth she likes, but later wen she stars acting odd, not picking ur calls, and oda dumb stuffs, just know..dat u av changed, u didn't make any move, or act like a boyfriend material. She was happy to meet u before, but all of a sudden she just changed..wit no obvious reason. Bro..sth is wtsup wit u. It boils down to U.

#..anoda tin..is..all does her excuses r just plain lies, her busy, tin, goin to d hostel.all na lie.

Give her space bro.

Dat what u shud do..now.. Give her some space..

Don't act like u r bothered..or anytin..I know..u myt wana send some messages to her, asking y she is acting like dis. But u shudnt.. Act like u don't care.

Just focus on light chatting wit her. U r d one doing all d work. She has to be invested too..before she can like U.

Focus..on just sending..her..normal texts..in d morning..den @ night.

From her own..terms..its like u r disturbing her or stalking. So free her..n just focus on light chatting n calls..and game oda girls too..worrying abt dis one..wit limit ur game. And don't give up on her.

Den u can..call..just to check..on her later..
Please how do I stir attraction?
and I already act bothered, I have already sent some messages and she apologized but continue afterwards.
A friend told me she is hooked up is that a full stop for me or can I still win her over?

Nice tips !

dan_weezy: Xxxtedyxxx....I av to sae ur rilli doin a gud job..kip it up.. meslf get bottleneck for dating issues o...people always flatter me (both boiz and gals) DAT I am cute..sum even say ..I luk lyk wizkid...i often use DAT 2 get gals attention Buh d problem is dat I av a dry skin..and this has made my palms rough ..to d extent that people always complain wen I shake dem DAT my hands r 2 rough...so am always scared to shake gals to avoid dis comments..even tho sum pretend..wn I shake dm..I get uncomfortable wn a gal is lukin @ my hands or feets..dis has made me so insecure..shud I go 4 a surgery or try creams(av used many BT day didn't work)..dunno wat to do abt it ..really appreciate if u cud hlp

Ok..I understand.
Don't let dat be a limiting belief for u..u are alrdy cute and u av sth u can count on..let ur focus be on dat.

# don't for any surgery...dey r lots of hers u can use... E.g..ori..snake oil..and honey..it suits dry skin...apart from many oda herbs.

Don't let dat limit u. U r gud to go broda.

If ur palms r roff u can try scraping wit stone. A rough stone.. Dey sell dis stone for 2OO naira in market..most girls use it. Get d stone..and honey..wit normal bathing soap..and be using iit to scrape ur pals.

#dont forget to be drinking lots of water


Just to get ur sef hydrated @ all times

Jez sent anoda mail @xxxtedxxx,kindly check,thnkz man.

Ooookkkk.... So, this is where this guy comes to learn all these skills from? No wonder! Ahn-ahn! I have been wondering how a guy I just started chatting with suddenly makes himself exclusive to me; me, that is Margaret Thatcher Redefined. Everything I read here, he is using on me and...well...*averts eyes* it is working. But I don catch una today! *snaps fingers at OP and stomps out*

xxxtedyxxx:

Broda...a year of dating a chick.is not beans.

U shud relax...relax..take a deep breathe and calm down.

#...den..call her..mand request for a date..or u guys shud meet.

Am aving dis feeling she has gotten a new guy.or sth. U even admitted not to av done anytin or made her feel special after a year of dating. U need to meet up wit her as soon as possible bro.

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Berylmoi: Ooookkkk.... So, this is where this guy comes to learn all these skills from? No wonder! Ahn-ahn! I have been wondering how a guy I just started chatting with suddenly makes himself exclusive to me; me, that is Margaret Thatcher Redefined. Everything I read here, he is using on me and...well...*averts eyes* it is working. But I don catch una today! *snaps fingers at OP and stomps out*

Lols..dear..oya come back...here...pull over.

Berylmoi: Ooookkkk.... So, this is where this guy comes to learn all these skills from? No wonder! Ahn-ahn! I have been wondering how a guy I just started chatting with suddenly makes himself exclusive to me; me, that is Margaret Thatcher Redefined. Everything I read here, he is using on me and...well...*averts eyes* it is working. But I don catch una today! *snaps fingers at OP and stomps out*

Lols..dear..oya come back...here..baby pull over

Berylmoi: Ooookkkk.... So, this is where this guy comes to learn all these skills from? No wonder! Ahn-ahn! I have been wondering how a guy I just started chatting with suddenly makes himself exclusive to me; me, that is Margaret Thatcher Redefined. Everything I read here, he is using on me and...well...*averts eyes* it is working. But I don catch una today! *snaps fingers at OP and stomps out*

Lols..dear..oya come back...here...pull over.

Berylmoi: Ooookkkk.... So, this is where this guy comes to learn all these skills from? No wonder! Ahn-ahn! I have been wondering how a guy I just started chatting with suddenly makes himself exclusive to me; me, that is Margaret Thatcher Redefined. Everything I read here, he is using on me and...well...*averts eyes* it is working. But I don catch una today! *snaps fingers at OP and stomps out*

Lols..dear..oya come back...here..baby pull over..he he..#thanx for stopping by

Orry for multiple posts friends..bad netty