U want to give him cash to bail him out from his present financial challenges and u expect him to forget u.. Who ever does dat?

This guy must b a mugu if he collects it.I never accept ur point shld b put in consideration to ur actions.honestly ur points are pointless,u're jst tryn 2 betray him 4 other hidden reasons d@ I can figure 1 out.U said "he's currently broke".I think u're tryn 2 leave him bcox he doesn't hv cool cash. Remember "The rice @ d top of the flask was once at the bottom of the pot.

I can't , once done and dusted dats all.....there is more to Acceptance of gifts than meets the eye

Would uu accept a gift along with your sack letter

nieema:
I've been trying to end my 2 year relationship for a few months. There are several reasons but the MAIN reason is that I am NOT happy with myself. I need to make some adjustments to improve my life and I need some space to refocus. I love him but I don't NEED to be in a relationship at this time with anyone. We promised each other that we would always be honest about how we were feeling. I reminded him of this when I tried to break things off six weeks ago. I told him that I would still be there for him if he needed anything. I respect him but I need to take care of some things in my peronal life that require my full attention.
I proposed that we go back to being friends but he rejected my offer. Even though we started as friends he said he isnt willing to have a friendship with me if I end the relationship. I don't think it's fair because I've been genuinely good to him. After much consideration and further frustration, I've decided to break it off tonight face to face. At the moment he is having some financial difficulties and I plan to gift him 40k to help ease the sting. I hope he undersatands that I sincerely care for him as I refocus on my own life.
Would you guys/ladies feel better if your honey left you with a break up gift?..or no??

nieema:
I've been trying to end my 2 year relationship for a few months. There are several reasons but the MAIN reason is that I am NOT happy with myself. I need to make some adjustments to improve my life and I need some space to refocus. I love him but I don't NEED to be in a relationship at this time with anyone. We promised each other that we would always be honest about how we were feeling. I reminded him of this when I tried to break things off six weeks ago. I told him that I would still be there for him if he needed anything. I respect him but I need to take care of some things in my peronal life that require my full attention.
I proposed that we go back to being friends but he rejected my offer. Even though we started as friends he said he isnt willing to have a friendship with me if I end the relationship. I don't think it's fair because I've been genuinely good to him. After much consideration and further frustration, I've decided to break it off tonight face to face. At the moment he is having some financial difficulties and I plan to gift him 40k to help ease the sting. I hope he undersatands that I sincerely care for him as I refocus on my own life.
Would you guys/ladies feel better if your honey left you with a break up gift?..or no??

go ask Cleopatra or Chloe for Casmo FM...

Now u can take dis 2 d back of the page

ireneony:
Aba how this one take enter front page wey many creative topics de waste for romance section .
Yeye de smell

Why do you always sound frustrated llike this? To the OP, I can't Accept such gift, it will continually be a reminder which I dnt want

:PWuld go for a yes..nd m sure most guys wuld want dah xcept d opposite sex..it wont look so cool on dem..#lifeincolour..

sagio09:

Dats. The reason I sometimes hate girls,sometimes they reason with fish brain.you said he's gwud nd u're both happy wit d rlshnshp nd u also said "u no ur action isn't a fair one". Pls can u imagine the type of girls we have in Africa. SMH

nieema:
I've been trying to end my 2 year relationship for a few months. There are several reasons but the MAIN reason is that I am NOT happy with myself. I need to make some adjustments to improve my life and I need some space to refocus. I love him but I don't NEED to be in a relationship at this time with anyone. We promised each other that we would always be honest about how we were feeling. I reminded him of this when I tried to break things off six weeks ago. I told him that I would still be there for him if he needed anything. I respect him but I need to take care of some things in my peronal life that require my full attention.
I proposed that we go back to being friends but he rejected my offer. Even though we started as friends he said he isnt willing to have a friendship with me if I end the relationship. I don't think it's fair because I've been genuinely good to him. After much consideration and further frustration, I've decided to break it off tonight face to face. At the moment he is having some financial difficulties and I plan to gift him 40k to help ease the sting. I hope he undersatands that I sincerely care for him as I refocus on my own life.
Would you guys/ladies feel better if your honey left you with a break up gift?..or no??

Dats the reason I sometimes hate girls,sometimes they reason with fish brain.you said he's gwud nd u're both happy wit d rlshnshp nd u also said "u no ur action isn't a fair one". Pls can u imagine the type of girls we have in Africa. SMH

" I am done with you, here is N40,000 for your troubles" could you make him feel any more cheaper and used?

Dont insult him more abeg

It luks to me lyk ur mind's made up alredi...wel i'l implore u 2 go ahead wit d financial aid...buh nt as sum damn gift...dnt mak him anymre miserable..

Do you all believe this story?. If you wanted to break up a relationship the easiest way is off your phone. If he don't hear from you again he will forget about you. Simple.

temitemi1:
No amount can buy my love...

Is dat not so? Tell me, if I offer you =N=100 Million naira, will I not buy ur love? And perhaps change u frm grass to grace?

No.

Don't give him, it'll only make him feel like a Boss and make you feel bad


I'm sorry for the breakup bt it's now time to move on and forget the Bastard


Ps:Lot of guys probably wuld die for u. Meet other pple

holatin:
if its range in millions

Wa sere padi mi.

OlamiB:

Why do you always sound frustrated llike this? To the OP, I can't Accept such gift, it will continually be a reminder which I dnt want

am only saying the truth. The mods should wait for topic to enter the 2nd page before pushing it to front page and topic that interest people which leads to high traffic. Am saying talking logic here, you can see the guests are not much in this very thread

ireneony:
Aba how this one take enter front page wey many creative topics de waste for romance section .
Yeye de smell

i bin don d wonder y d place dull like dis
.
Anyways....welcome

A gift? Wow! Why not throw a break up party 2 go along

and who told u that by breaking up you would achieve those things... wait self! what has the relationship been based on? cos I think the first thing should be to help each other achieve their goals in life... he should be part of that little struggle u wanna face alone and contribute his quota...
he accepting the money doesn't mean he never loved u sha o!

Meanwhile, I have to go tell my dad that his car tyres are touching the ground!

ireneony:
am only saying the truth. The mods should wait for topic to enter the 2nd page before pushing it to front page and topic that interest people which leads to high traffic. Am saying talking logic here, you can see the guests are not much in this very thread

You would make a strict moderator

nieema:
I've been trying to end my 2 year relationship for a few months. There are several reasons but the MAIN reason is that I am NOT happy with myself. I need to make some adjustments to improve my life and I need some space to refocus. I love him but I don't NEED to be in a relationship at this time with anyone. We promised each other that we would always be honest about how we were feeling. I reminded him of this when I tried to break things off six weeks ago. I told him that I would still be there for him if he needed anything. I respect him but I need to take care of some things in my peronal life that require my full attention.
I proposed that we go back to being friends but he rejected my offer. Even though we started as friends he said he isnt willing to have a friendship with me if I end the relationship. I don't think it's fair because I've been genuinely good to him. After much consideration and further frustration, I've decided to break it off tonight face to face. At the moment he is having some financial difficulties and I plan to gift him 40k to help ease the sting. I hope he undersatands that I sincerely care for him as I refocus on my own life.
Would you guys/ladies feel better if your honey left you with a break up gift?..or no??

Now I want you to answer this question sincerely...
If this guy was 2face idibia. Wud u be considering breaking up with him to 'refocus'

Be truthful to ursef and us and tell us the real reason u wanna break up wit him

Yea...
But must be in cash o.

Cos u won't break up wit me and I will buy the handkerchief I will use for my eyes durin the crying.

Depends!

Some breakup aren't really breakup.
Some breakup happens for the good of the two people involved.

A scenario in which a guy won a scholarship to study abroad for more than 5 years. If they both decide to breakup with their relationship, in this case it is understandable. And no one is cheated. So it isn't bad if they both exchange parting gift or one of them gives the other a gift.

Based on what now? What's the essence?

The money might annoy him

Op... How did it go Please, tell us, My need for closure is strong!

tomiobj:
Would uu accept a gift along with your sack letter

Good question!!!!

sawdust:


i bin don d wonder y d place dull like dis
.
Anyways....welcome

ok you are welcome too. There was a thread I created yesterday, without hitting FrontPage it got to 0-5 page and nairaland peeps really contributed to it, but it did not smell front page...but the one that is struggling to get comment or contribution will automatically hit FrontPage within 1hour which is not fair

Ok I have an advice for ladies. Your life is more precious than just hanging on in a relationship that your heart is no longer in. And when you must break up, never go alone to the scheduled meeting point. Go with someone who watches unnoticed from a distance. Never continue seeing a guy you broke up with; whether to give him gifts or whatever stupid thing you want to call it. For you own safety, stay out of his way. Some people are already wondering why I'm sounding like a nihilist. That's because between 19th of December till yesterday night, I have helped resuscitate and manage two acid burns on the face, two thorough beatings with severe injuries, and one comatose patient. Five of them girls. All sustained from love-turned-sour relationships. Some guys are stupid sha, and most girls cant discern that. They just want to be in a relationship. Nonsense. I'm so angry atm.

holatin:
if its range in millions

all dz nollywood threads sef

Op, ur expression sounds like u neva loved d guy from d onset of ur relatnship with him. If at all u need some break, considering his financial circumstances U can gradually discharge him b4 u tell him face to face.



But ladies sha we understand ( ur future seems not to b secure with him again)

although am a guy. I would like a range rover 2015 model, a G wagon and mercedes benz C290. Then a well furnished mansion in ikoyi with two boys quarter and a barbeque joint. Then a swimming pool added. I would like a sponspored trip to paris and las vegas then to the romantic city of barcelona. Then a shopping spree in london will be all. All these are my heart desires if am to break up with my rich sugarmummy. Glory be to God

i ask: hope u wunt regret ur actions later??
Wisdom & Diplomacy matters alot in dis case, u don't have to end d r/ship. Explain ur challenges to him nd I guess he will undstd nd let d r/ship remain b4 u regret ur actions.
sipping my..............& smiling