strenghtofawoman:
If a man is not exclusive in dating you, why should you be exclusive in dating him?? He told u how he has sex with another lady to your face and you re here asking if u should leave him?? Are u paralysed,blind,crippled to accept such disrespect, gilfriend DUMP THE FOOL ..

Now dt u av moved to abuja, forget bout him, delete his contact to avoid d temptation of calling him, stop chasing guys away, u need to make friends, u av already wasted 5years of ur life wit the LUNATIC, pls move on.. And dnt look back,he's taking u for granted.

Pls my dear get over this, start a new life, ignore him, belive me he will come begging wen he's done f**king all d whores in town, nd by God's grace u ll be happily married by then..
I truly wish u d best, I blive ds is ur time to find the right Man and settle down, God help u,, amen

. He won't come begging.

Sexytemi:


thanks a lot, I think I'll take your advise and let him go.

and trust me, a year from now, you ll be so glad you did may the lord strengthen you in Jesus name..

I lost interest after reading the first few sentences... it just did not make sense to me. Also these mods men...

After viewing ur profile,i will say you should forgive him because u might never find someone who will truly love u for who/what/how you are..

he is angry because you starve him of sex for 5 years , he saw change and believed in it . its your choice to make[b][/b]

From ur responses n reactions to pple's opinions, sounds like u have made ur mind up already to take a bow, so why did u come here? Nawaoo fifle funny o....


meanwhile, for ur boyfrnd to fvck arnd n come back to tell u hmm..#meanestguyever#

EZEUDENE:
nop if u really love him try 2 sort out tins with him

Pls, are you Ezekaudene in Pol sci dept? In Unizik Akwa, Anambra state? I mean 2007/2008 set?

Please i must tell u d truth, please let him go, he is tired of u. For him to open up his mouth n tell u that he haz bn having sex with another person shows lack of respect, so quit

Pay him an August visit, I quote 'I believed in his love even after moving to abuja and he was in lag, I could bet on is love with my life'. My dear he's still yours, you just have intruder in your means. Go and reclaim your man Girl.

phrancky:
I have often frown at d idea people try 2 create dat there are some faithful dudes out there. I have loads of friends who are married and not one is faithful to their wives, tho they claim they love them. Dat dude ain't married to u yet and u want absolute faithfulness, even if na me I nor gree. Just go back 2 him and settle ur scores cos d next dude dat might come ur way might be a serial cheat worse than dis one cos men dese days are viral cheats. if there is any male dude here dat doesn't cheat, let him hit like.

But the dude never claimed or denied his infidelity! He needs strength to overcome if u ask me and that's exactly what I expect his girl to do, help him out, he needs u now more than ever

phrancky:
I have often frown at d idea people try 2 create dat there are some faithful dudes out there. I have loads of friends who are married and not one is faithful to their wives, tho they claim they love them. Dat dude ain't married to u yet and u want absolute faithfulness, even if na me I nor gree. Just go back 2 him and settle ur scores cos d next dude dat might come ur way might be a serial cheat worse than dis one cos men dese days are viral cheats. if there is any male dude here dat doesn't cheat, let him hit like.

yea right,I liked your post cuz I don't cheat,I only get fed up of d damned relationships n take a walk,more reason why marriage ain't in ma plans till I can wrap my head around living with a woman for the rest of my life.

Sexytemi:
Have been dating this guy for the past five year, we'av never fight or break up within those five years, I believed in his love even after moving to abuja and he was in lag, I could bet on is love with my life, because of him I told other guys off, recently we were to go to his sis wedding which I had prepared for, then a week to the wedding he stopped picking his calls that were from me, till the wedding day, i called his sis and asked her if he was @ the wedding and she said yes, I cried cos of the pains, when I told my friends, they were like I should forget him cos he's cheating on me, I refused to accept that logic and still believe he was not cheating on me, then Thursday this week, he told me on whatsapp how he has been having sex with a lady, and when I got angry, he started blaming and even stopped to reply my massages and am like who's suppose to be angry here, him or I?, that is why am here to ask if I should just let him go?.

He doesn't know how to end the relationship the only option he could use is to tell u he's having sex with another lady so that u can quit. My sister if u love him as u said and still want to hold on instead of quitting him simply tell him to use condom so as not to infect u and that u are not jealous about him dating another gal. tell him u still love him that seeing another lady is not us problem but his happiness is paramount to u. then lay siege and watch his reaction. lols

Sexytemi:
Have been dating this guy for the past five year, we'av never fight or break up within those five years, I believed in his love even after moving to abuja and he was in lag, I could bet on is love with my life, because of him I told other guys off, recently we were to go to his sis wedding which I had prepared for, then a week to the wedding he stopped picking his calls that were from me, till the wedding day, i called his sis and asked her if he was @ the wedding and she said yes, I cried cos of the pains, when I told my friends, they were like I should forget him cos he's cheating on me, I refused to accept that logic and still believe he was not cheating on me, then Thursday this week, he told me on whatsapp how he has been having sex with a lady, and when I got angry, he started blaming and even stopped to reply my massages and am like who's suppose to be angry here, him or I?, that is why am here to ask if I should just let him go?.

1. Nigga didn't ask/beg for your forgiveness from the story above

2. Nigga really feeling the new lady

3. Nigga took new lady to his sister's wedding

4. You are the pest in your relationship

My advice : continue at your own risk...but then, you might like the status of a "side chick"

This is the reason i hate long distance relationships. This shii is bound to happen. If i cannot see you around and sense your body language then ther's no need of it. The calls, whatsapp, emails all zero to nothing when it comes to a relationship. Not even skype

Sexytemi:


have never ever denied him o, he was even my first.

Ur first! It's gonna be very hard to let him go...

Forget him and come to me

ginawest:
abeg leave d guy jawe!!he told u he was having sex wit anoda lady,u did d normal tin n he started blaming u..was he not supposed to apologize first?bae,dre r many fishes in d river.

which fishes? na crabs and crayfish dey... Sardines, tuna and mackerel don turn great white sharks and killer whales.

The question is have you been very possessive in that relationship..

Are you choking him with love with constant calls, bombarding him with messages that he got no breathe in him.

I ask this questions because for him to attend a wedding without you he wants to be free a little. And he cannot blame you just like that.....

But if nothing like that happened, let him go because he will do it again. Sorry for investing 5yrs on that relationship but you can't trust him again if you remain on it.

If you choose to move on please that does not mean Mr. B will cheat on you. Go with it with a new mindset. Do not carry past baggage into a new one.
Goodluck.

x

if the guy is actually guilty of all the charges against him, he sure fvcked-up and a disgrace to upcoming ones that will suffer in the hand of women. he is not faithful at all, his own method of relationship is based on sex alone.

If you were to take my advice, MOVE ON. U deserve better and never tie your happiness to anyone. after the heartbreak there would definately be a rainbow of joy around the corner.

Sexytemi:


thanks a lot, I think I'll take your advise and let him go.

Fast fast no waste time. Go taste the water and come back and tell us what u been missing. Girl you too dull 5years. Girl go ride another rode. It a free world.

That's why I don't do long distance relationships. I don't even trust myself muchless someone else who is in far far away land.

EZEUDENE:
nop if u really love him try 2 sort out tins with him

I hope this is sarcasm... if not, I wonder if you'll give your sister or future daughter the same advise.

INTROVERT:
At times I blame ladies.... why date a guy for 5years.




Sorry sister.

asin ehh..5 full years!!!..he is bored wit d relationship dats y he left...he left u nd u did nt die,life goes on..find someone else.

Themaingate:
he is angry because you starve him of sex for 5 years , he saw change and believed in it . its your choice to make[b][/b]

So she should give him sex in exchange for his loyalty. People like you are a danger to the world

I understand hw hurt u r bt u need to look inward. He might b wrong bt something tells me u faulted. Ur guy seems lik d type dat keeps issues in mind. U tot u never fought 4 5 years, bt e might never agree wt u on dis. Ur guy has conscience, so it appears to me.

Conclusion : don't quit, I feel e still loves u. U need to find out d issue n don't b too blind not to understand him.

Mizmycoli

Meat don show!

younghartz:
Little drop of water makes a mighty ocean
Female If u forgive em he will kip on misbehaving!
That's why I love white girls
Whenever you cheat on them and they catch u ? Mehn! Forget it.....nothing will bring them back together....

Never go back to an old relationship is like a book you have read,you know how it will end...

A cheat remains a cheat!!!!



No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it’s time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him. You can’t stay at that hurtful place anymore. You can’t keep shedding tears over someone who doesn't deserve the love you gave. You can’t keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more. You can’t make them want the relationship because if they wanted they wouldn’t have let go of you.

You deserve better now. You deserve someone who appreciates you and who won’t play with your delicate heart.. Just like a cut on your hand will take time to heal, your broken heart needs time to heal as well. That’s not the end of your life. You will get over that pain you’re having right now and one day you’ll be happy again.

God bless u,so onpoint

My dear, another name for love should have been forgiveness....but that's not until one asks... Is not easy to forget the one u love...if u give love...u will receive love.... Txt him...all kinds ...remind him of how swt d relationship was @ d beginning..tell him is the same u... Call him his name and ask him...if he's kicking u out just like that... Tell him u love him...even if he doesn't reply u..start letting go ... Since ur in abj..we can hook up..### hope say u fine shaaa..

Sexytemi:
Have been dating this guy for the past five year, we'av never fight or break up within those five years, I believed in his love even after moving to abuja and he was in lag, I could bet on is love with my life, because of him I told other guys off, recently we were to go to his sis wedding which I had prepared for, then a week to the wedding he stopped picking his calls that were from me, till the wedding day, i called his sis and asked her if he was @ the wedding and she said yes, I cried cos of the pains, when I told my friends, they were like I should forget him cos he's cheating on me, I refused to accept that logic and still believe he was not cheating on me, then Thursday this week, he told me on whatsapp how he has been having sex with a lady, and when I got angry, he started blaming and even stopped to reply my massages and am like who's suppose to be angry here, him or I?, that is why am here to ask if I should just let him go?.

First of all, your face looks familiar
Back to your question. Don't break up with him because of that. Five years in a relationship is no joke. Take out time so the both of you can see and talk things out.
Cos there's no amount of advice anyone can render that will be of great help to you cos they don't know what the both of you have been through nor how much love the both of you share.
1. You guys have built trust over the years.
2. Understanding is one thing that has to deal with time.
3. This little error will always make you doubt other men. It may eventually extend to your future husband.
4. Two wrongs can never make right. What i can say is wrong with him is arrogance and ignorance.
Please call him a try to understand his problem.
If he still doesn't understand what it takes to stay in a relationship for half a decade and still can't co-ordinate
Himself, then i give up. That simply means his problem is beyond this world. You deserve better

I'm sorry if I've used any word of insult against your boo.
Wish you all the best.

To move on will be difficult for you babe... but that's the best you can do. experience has thought me that people don't place value on people who show them genuine love and care, but to those who treats them like a piece of rag... take heart and move on... he will surely regret this.