xxxtedyxxx:
. Make it a one on one date. Reel her in..tease her n joke with her, make shure u hug her wen u guys meet, face to face hug, not side hugs, be confident, if u r confident and not anxious she will feel ur vibe. make her comfortable with all dat play, and make sure u kiss her on d date. U need to do sth extra-ordinary. Sth a boy will do. Ask about what she does for fun, her most embarassing moments and stuffs like dat. Just be cool and d date will go fine. For the other chick ...two years is a long time no doubt. I think u shud just free her package..uve invited her severally, and she has declined.. And focus on d first girl. If u still want d second chick.u shud just keep d flow on normal hi hi. U can make her jealous if u get dis first girl..and use it to taunt her..like a jealous plotline. Dts if u want her do.

xxxtedyxxx:
. Make it a one on one date. Reel her in..tease her n joke with her, make shure u hug her wen u guys meet, face to face hug, not side hugs, be confident, if u r confident and not anxious she will feel ur vibe. make her comfortable with all dat play, and make sure u kiss her on d date. U need to do sth extra-ordinary. Sth a boy will do. Ask about what she does for fun, her most embarassing moments and stuffs like dat. Just be cool and d date will go fine. For the other chick ...two years is a long time no doubt. I think u shud just free her package..uve invited her severally, and she has declined.. And focus on d first girl. If u still want d second chick.u shud just keep d flow on normal hi hi. U can make her jealous if u get dis first girl..and use it to taunt her..like a jealous plotline. Dts if u want her do.

iamfbanj:
okay...help solve dis den...

dis babe i met in my skul, i checkd her...for d first week she ignored me...den after 1week..she started talking to me.....she told me shejst broke with her bf which is out of the country...to me...i tot e make sense...bt she said she have zero interest in dating ...i took d chick out oo..buy things ...we became frnds..thinking frm there...she will fall...later she started talking to d ex bf in my presence ova d phone....i was like u broke up...she said we are bak..infact she used d guy name for all her acct passwrd...inshort we are together like 7mnths till nw...bt she spent more time wit me..nd still kip telling i cant date u...she told me recently i broke up wit him...i was like...make sense...still she do sumhw...if call her bae..all those sweet name she will change it for me..nd told me m nt ur gal...dis particular babe use to bhave like my gal..cus everyone arnd find it hard to bliv we re nt dating.....so Oga teddy...any method to own dis HARD chick.........funniest part..dis babe use to allow other guys flirt wit her...one even go down low wit her by force..nd d guy she dy claim is out of country..

collinsflex:
from what I learnt from Teddy I fink d babe finds ur boring n not fun to be with...pet names don't realli mata to me cuz every one uses it on her, so I prefer you come up with a unique nickname for her...Bro u gotta control ur presence n stop asking her to b ur girl...just act as her guy n make her miss you

emryxleena:
Hi guys..I need ur opinions..

There is dis girl I met online..tho! I didn't knw how she got into my friends list..I later found out she lives in my hood .. Then' we fixed a date to meet each other..we met on dat day...I was in hurry so, we couldn't talk for long..few days later I asked her out..sent all forms of emotional texts..but she said she cnt date me dat we should just b friends..she visits me sundays when she is free but she doesn't stay long..few days ago I found out she is datinq..I queried her nd she said yes..then she was like..let's just b friends..I'm datinq..she finally friend-zoned me..nd she still claim she loves me but she doesn't want to break up wit her bf ..dat she loves him too.. I dnt seem to understand..whenever we chat online..she always talks abt doinq intimate tins wit me

valdetino:


Thanks very much bro

iamfbanj:




u are frndzond ....shes dual choping two guys...jst try to talk to her as if u are d alpha...d leader ,her boss...dnt ever talk abt her bf oo or who shes dating

emryxleena:
Hi guys..I need ur opinions..

There is dis girl I met online..tho! I didn't knw how she got into my friends list..I later found out she lives in my hood .. Then' we fixed a date to meet each other..we met on dat day...I was in hurry so, we couldn't talk for long..few days later I asked her out..sent all forms of emotional texts..but she said she cnt date me dat we should just b friends..she visits me sundays when she is free but she doesn't stay long..few days ago I found out she is datinq..I queried her nd she said yes..then she was like..let's just b friends..I'm datinq..she finally friend-zoned me..nd she still claim she loves me but she doesn't want to break up wit her bf ..dat she loves him too.. I dnt seem to understand..whenever we chat online..she always talks abt doinq intimate tins wit me

xxxtedyxxx:
u av been friendzone. U met her on d first date but u didn't establish dat necessary first impression or attract her in a perfect stage one game dat will make her respond well. So d emotional text didn't achieve its intended effect. Don't query her about her bf again. Girls friendzone us wen we show no bf potential. So free dis chick for a while. Make her miss u. Like two weeks. Den resume again. Don't ask of her bf. Just play ur role as a second bf. If she tells u she has a bf n all dat. Just reply her. Its ok dear. Den switch convo and continue what u r doing. don't fall for any texts dat will make u start falling n talking about ur love life with her bf. Its hard but try. Getting out of friendzone aint easy. But being absent for a while n resuming with a different approach is a good shot.

xxxtedyxxx:
*for sexual investment. U need to be on stage 3 first. After rapport. Hugs weda side hugs or face to face hugs should be a normal thing wen u see her. Always be smiling, act fun, give her positive emotions. Let her know, u aint running away, u sticking with her, even after 6months n stuffs like dat. Also. U can earn trust in a simple way..by doing things u promised. If u tell her " am gona call u by 6pm babe".. Call her by 6 on d dot. Girls notices minor stuffs. Wen u set a date...tel her ur meeting by 5...keep to time, she notices all dis stuff if u don't know. Do things wen u say u would. Also don't do things for her wen she doesn't deserve it. Dat doesn't make her invest...she will end up taking u as just a normal guy. Don't buy her stuffs wen she doesn't value u. U r not a maga. Sending her card wen she is not calling u or chatting with u wif d airtime is just dumb. Do things for her cos she deserves it. Wen u do stuffs dis way, she will always work to keep the convo goin.

xxxtedyxxx:
to keep her interested in you, you must be unpredictable and control your presence with little doses of absence. Dts y its important u don't get too serious, come up with fun ideas during a conversation, joke play, den get serious about sth she is telling u, back n forth like dat. If dere is anything u dat she likes so much, maybe d way u call her d cute nickname uve given her or maybe its d way u tease wen she laughs, stop it for a while, wen she laughs, don't do it, den do it later, like an off on thing. U got to be unpredictable. never turn off d switch wen it comes to teasing girls. Don't forget, what is most precious and valuable to us is what we think is rare, what we can't easily obtain.

presh247:
I just got to know about this wonderful thread...wish i knew abt it much earlier...I meant a very beautiful chick online about a month ago,she stays in lagos while am in delta,we have not seen each other but she is very friendly and open to me. I had made the mistake of asking her about her bf and she told me about her guy in USA but she said she is falling out of love with him. I have invested a little into the relationship(cash,calls,cards,chats regularly,time etc) just to show that I truly care but she says she wants us to be just friends for now.
How do I get her to truly love me? I really need your advice.
Thanks.

kennboiy:

nice work xxxtedyxxx,you are awesome for keeping this thread for almost 2 years,I have learned alot and I had to Join nairaland because of your impact and dedication in helping others.

Lordgatt46:

As a responsible guy i have tried all my best to
make the relationship work up but she always
want to feel bossy and as a guy i hate such from
a gal.i have been there for her in terms of
everything.Anytime i talk to her she wouldn't
listen but will feels that anything she do is always
right and i so much hate such.i don't know what
to do because i can't cope again.





pls help Op

ldpele:
Op, pls help me out in certain issue troubling me. Am always a perfect guy for ladies via chatting, but once I get to meet them, I turn out dry to some, the vibes that made them wanted to meet with me won't be there anymore. Trust me, I don't lie or hype myself to them, am even loosing touch with reality, because it's really been a long while I approached a lady, it has always been online scouting and my relationship level is dwindling. Pls advice

xxxtedyxxx:
thanks for d kind words bro...I see u......one bottle of orijin for u.