No vex o...I don't even know if i should ask this question...if a chick whe dey respond well to the game here ask abt your gf...how will you respond to dat...
I just dey skip the questn anytime they ask ni o...I thought dat if I say YES,my aim may not be accomplish....if I say NO, she may start to dey do shakara
Shalom.

**Xteddy** I really commend your efforts bro... i need your help on a particular issue. I met a girl in my Church around February last yr. We are even in same sub group... we started talking, I do call her like 4 times a week then just to familiarize myself with her b4 moving to other stages. I could count the number of time she calls me. I invited her to my house on my birthday in May, she came but she doesn't spend much time as her Mom kept calling her to check on her. Due to this, so as to spend quality time with her, I've asked on her out on three occasions which she gave lame excuses. Most of her responses on phone are monosyllabic like yeah, okay e.t.c Of course she is aware that I love her and i'm planning to date her. So she has been turning my gesture of moving things past mere friendship with her. Then, I went back to school but anytime I come home and see her in church I'll just bone her. Now, i'm back home fully, we are no more in talking terms as before. We normally see each other on sundays but boning tinz... I really love this girl. But I wish to know if something could be done? or should i move on?

kennboiy:
He is right,some dudes are very annoying cos they are asking questions that have already been answered.They are too lazy to read and learn

The way he put it is kinda funny

I really need your help on this!!! We've dated for 5 months (Long Distance Relationship but we see each other often) At first it was all love in the air, well for the first 3 months. Things started changing after that.. She changed. Stopped calling,texting,caring and behaves non challant and even tlk abt her ex with me.. when I talk to her about it she turns it back to me like am acting too possesive. She made a lot of excuses about things and I felt like I was the one making efforts alone . On the fifth month,we had a major disagreement nd days later she used the "I wanna be alone" breakup line on me and I felt used. It hurts a lot.. Weeks gone by.. She occasionally text me bt I'm too angry to respond. She later asked for us to meet nd we talked things out and I accepted her back and right away she switched feelings cos she saw a friends (females) photos on my phone more than hers. I tried explaining things to her but she left at once and that day I tried texing her on social media and we chatted normally. But for weeks now we havnt texts or call and I'm confused cos one part of me wants to let go of her because it feels she's using me and the other still wants to try. She told a friend of ours that she wants to settle but I aint helping matters, which I don't understand cos she's to make efforts to make up if she really wants to...I'm so confused and sad about the whole issue.. Please I need ur advice on this.. Thanks!!

Hello there was this certain girl in my house I really like her but she is generous to me. she often comes to look mirror in my room and put on attractive dresses dat got me moved,but I just controlled my body.But is a friend to me sha. And I like her so I want to know how I can build a true friendship with her.hope to here from you soon. Bros xteedy I need your help on this issue.

Hello there was this certain girl in my house I really like her but she is generous to me. she often comes to look mirror in my room and put on attractive dresses dat got me moved,but I just controlled my body.But is a friend to me sha. And I like her so I want to know how I can build a true friendship with her.hope to here from you soon. Bros xteedy I need your help on this issue.

josiah74:
Hello there was this certain girl in my house I really like her but she is generous to me. she often comes to look mirror in my room and put on attractive dresses dat got me moved,but I just controlled my body.But is a friend to me sha. And I like her so I want to know how I can build a true friendship with her.hope to here from you soon. Bros xteedy I need your help on this issue.

Don't make d mistake next time. When she comes around, comment on her dressing/outfit/hair or sth she has on..like a necklace ear-rings or sth. Ladies love wen we dey know we appreciate the considerable amount of time they spent in looking good; even if its not for us..lolz. Don't be scared, cos I can sense u av approach anxiety. U need to start gaming her, making her laugh, she is already showing u she is interested, if u waste too much time, u will end up being friendzoned. Ladies place we guys into different categories depending on how we act and react to what they do.

You said u wana build true friendship..pls if u do...add some romance to it. Make her open up to u..its all easy..check page 9-12. Don't forget to appreciate n compliment her, act like u av been dating her already. A girl that goes out to meet a guy more dan once a week is not ordinary. Act fast.

Back n better...replying all posts asap. Miss u all...ma bosses.

NLjona:
I really need your help on this!!! We've dated for 5 months (Long Distance Relationship but we see each other often) At first it was all love in the air, well for the first 3 months. Things started changing after that.. She changed. Stopped calling,texting,caring and behaves non challant and even tlk abt her ex with me.. when I talk to her about it she turns it back to me like am acting too possesive. She made a lot of excuses about things and I felt like I was the one making efforts alone . On the fifth month,we had a major disagreement nd days later she used the "I wanna be alone" breakup line on me and I felt used. It hurts a lot.. Weeks gone by.. She occasionally text me bt I'm too angry to respond. She later asked for us to meet nd we talked things out and I accepted her back and right away she switched feelings cos she saw a friends (females) photos on my phone more than hers. I tried explaining things to her but she left at once and that day I tried texing her on social media and we chatted normally. But for weeks now we havnt texts or call and I'm confused cos one part of me wants to let go of her because it feels she's using me and the other still wants to try. She told a friend of ours that she wants to settle but I aint helping matters, which I don't understand cos she's to make efforts to make up if she really wants to...I'm so confused and sad about the whole issue.. Please I need ur advice on this.. Thanks!!

. Nice one bro, but u don't av to be confused, sad, or feel angry becos of a girl. I av plied dat road before, I only ended being f^ked up n desperate. First thing u need to do is...free dis babe for a while...get ur act today. U r a bit desperate, I know u want things to work out, man, dts cool...but u need to apply some new techniques.

Its gud to av pics of oda girls and u doing stuff, or even if its just d pics of girls, but u need to hide some...sometimes u need to lie to make a relationship/convo work. And don't take stuffs girls do too serious, she saw d pics, got angry n left..lol.. U could av txted her



"...lols..mummy...u didn't need to get dat angry...u know ur my nbr 1...missing u alredy sweets..will call u later.



And don't be angry to reply her texts, a girl texting u is a form of investment, feed on it bro.


I must commend u cos u av really tried, I'd like u to make dis work, go for anoda date, set it up...don't be too logical dis time, like talking tins out, and talking abt d past. Just be romantic. Show her anoda side of u. Kiss her, play, laf, don't talk about things dat has caused a drift between u guys, if she wants to, tell her, its all in d past now, and u just wana make dis relationship work, cos she ur special to me, follow up with a hug, caress, etc, anything beyond d normal...trust me...dis girl needs a FXXXXk.....asap..u don't need to be angry or confused cos of her. Just know she is urs, and act accordingly. And don't over-react or react wen she does weird stuffs, just smile n continue, it so so hard to do...but I av learnt to master it.

abayo4luv:
**Xteddy**
I really commend your efforts bro...
i need your help on a particular issue. I met a girl in
my Church around February last yr. We are even in
same sub group... we started talking, I do call her
like 4 times a week then just to familiarize myself
with her b4 moving to other stages. I could count
the number of time she calls me. I invited her to my
house on my birthday in May, she came but she
doesn't spend much time as her Mom kept calling
her to check on her.
Due to this, so as to spend quality time with her, I've
asked on her out on three occasions which she
gave lame excuses. Most of her responses on
phone are monosyllabic like yeah, okay e.t.c Of
course she is aware that I love her and i'm planning
to date her. So she has been turning my gesture of
moving things past mere friendship with her. Then, I
went back to school but anytime I come home and
see her in church I'll just bone her.
Now, i'm back home fully, we are no more in talking
terms as before. We normally see each other on
sundays but boning tinz... I really love this girl. But I
wish to know if something could be done? or should
i move on?

. Re-strategize. Dts all u need. But its gona be difficult a bit cos u ve been boning her for a while. Anyways. Wen u see her next, just smile @ her, don't talk to her, den meet her later, don't tell her u miss her oh..dts a big NO NO. Just compliment her on sth she is wearing, tell her its been a while, den shift d blame on her. Tell her.." Long time (name)...been a while..u just fashi me like dat, am sure u ve met one alaji and sugar daddy..." Smile...wit a fun attitude. To get dis babe back..u don't need anything logical. U need to play on her emotions. From ur posts, permit me to say she got bored or sth. Its very important u follow dis pattern..stage 1...where u get to use homour n funny stuffs to get a chick attracted, den stage 2..u need to initiate rapport...den 3...u move on to whatever ur intention is. Am not saying dis is a golden rule..but its sth av known to work. u need to start all over subtly, hope u still av her nbr, don't rush it tho. Dts if u still want her bro.

Hidorano:
No vex o...I don't even know if i should ask this question...if a chick whe dey respond well to the game here ask abt your gf...how will you respond to dat...
I just dey skip the questn anytime they ask ni o...I thought dat if I say YES,my aim may not be accomplish....if I say NO, she may start to dey do shakara
Shalom.

never give a girl a yes or no answer. U need to be unpredictable. If she asks about ur gf..tell her..." Which of dem r u asking about".....a girl loves it wen oda girls like u. If u don't wana go dat route and u just wana play a little safe...den teller her " I just av lots of female friends we do stuff togeda, besties..etc...just girls who r very good close buddies with me"...cheers bro.

Some of us having limiting beliefs hindering us from meeting girls. If you do your best to attract girls, and u get some degree of success, den dat belief is not limiting you. Some guys r like " am broke, am shy, am too short, am not rich enuf, I don't own a car, I don't own a bb,iphone blah blah, I am not handsome..am not her type... The turning point is wen u can accept ur sef for who u are, and to hell with any girl who can accept those things about ur sef dat can't be changed..eg.height..run ur game, and package ur sef well even if dat means changing ur wardrobe, gettin a haircut dat fits ur face, visting the gym etc. The point is..u just av to overcome ur limiting belief.

"A lot of girls r coming my way. Am the man...I will get a lot of girls, I av nothing to lose, and I don't give a damn about this one wey dey use me form.". When u deeply believe they r lots n lots n lots of girls out there, u begin to realise ur lantent powers. At this point, even ur behaviour and things u say to girls will change, u become a guy who gets d girls.

Stop treating her like a queen. She is not investing into u. She doesn't call u, send ur texts, initiate chats or act interested in d convo/relationship and ur still treating her like a queen: buying her stuffs and doing all d work. U r a maga ma guy . Only do stuffs for a girl cos she deserves it, u will notice she will do more or behave cool towards u. Reward good behaviour, not bad uninterested behaviour.

Stage 1 2 3..is so easy to follow. Try it out. It works wella. Stage 1..meet her/introduce or open, use humour and teasing to spike the attraction, stage 2, get to know her, compliment her @ dis stage, stage 3...go for ur goal. Maybe her nbr, xxxx, etc. Flirt with her, be confident, tell her " babe I like d way u lick ur lips wen u talk...its sexy..."...she will laf, say how...or sth..den explain..." I mean d way u lick d words out of ur lips wen u talk..+ plus d way u smile..its realy cute...(Den give her a nick name)...am gona call u...lipsie...mzcute..or any oda blah blah. What u r doing is flirting, and she will love it. She knows u already..u av done stage 1 and 2. So she won't act weird. Stage 2..is where u make her free n open wif u. By asking deep stuffs about her, u can transition from family stuffs, to her most embarassing moment...etc....eg...so r u like d first born or last babe...am thinking u r d last tho..u r too cute to be a first born..(smiley.)...she will laf blah blah, den tell u, u den recap her reply, den relate it to sth else.." Oh dts nice...so u r d last born..mummy's girl..no wonder, am d first tho...how many r u guys..like 10 abi?......... If u just ask "how many ar u guys" it will get her feeling like she is being interviewd. Dts wen convos go boring n stuff.

So the point is...whatever she says, recap it a little, den use to transition into something new. Dat way...conversations won't get boring or monotonous

xxxtedyxxx:
Stop treating her like a queen. She is not investing into u. She doesn't call u, send ur texts, initiate chats or act interested in d convo/relationship and ur still treating her like a queen: buying her stuffs and doing all d work. U r a maga ma guy . Only do stuffs for a girl cos she deserves it, u will notice she will do more or behave cool towards u. Reward good behaviour, not bad uninterested behaviour.

I have missed unselfish post like this...


well done boss....

babadenno:
URGENT HELP NEEDED!!!

Boss xxxtedyxxx, I met this girl since 2010. I must confess, i was captivated by her breathtaking beauty. Somehow, i initiated a conversation and we got along. We exchange numbers and she told me her name is Princess. I call her once in a while, sent text messages at least once in every two weeks and sometimes sent romantic messages (Just to test the waters .. u know what i mean). It was not easy getting to know her at first because most of the tricks i employed to for proper conversation failed. However, we continued like that until i succeeded in setting up a lunch date with her and she gave in. I thought i had won the battle, but NO! She came to the eatery late but refused to eat anything. Imagine... lol.

So we had about 30 minutes conversation that day and i asked her when i will see her again and she said "You have to wait forever"! Infact, to cut the long story short, i kept on and on for 5 years now. So when she was in school, she calls atimes just to know how i am doing that is after i might have called 3 times. In fact, we now rapport very well to the point that she visits me anytime i asked her to. She now feels free to share some of her problems with me and i help the best way i can.

The problem now is that she has visited me 9 times now and i have not visited her even once though she never complained or invited me either. In fact, she has spoken of me to almost all members of her family and i know they are all looking forward to seeing me. My reason for not visiting is that i don't want her to introduce me to them as just a FRIEND because i know i wanted more than that. So, i waited to ask her out first! She is now a graduate which i know i have impacted in the process. I work presently in one of the new generation banks. I asked her to come over last week and she came. So i used the opportunity to ask her out and she told me that she is engaged!

Oga xxxtedyxxx, i know she likes me. And my instincts told me that she was far from the truth. What do i do

Boss xxxtedyxxx Waiting for your response

iamfbanj:
okay...help solve dis den...

dis babe i met in my skul, i checkd her...for d first week she ignored me...den after 1week..she started talking to me.....she told me shejst broke with her bf which is out of the country...to me...i tot e make sense...bt she said she have zero interest in dating ...i took d chick out oo..buy things ...we became frnds..thinking frm there...she will fall...later she started talking to d ex bf in my presence ova d phone....i was like u broke up...she said we are bak..infact she used d guy name for all her acct passwrd...inshort we are together like 7mnths till nw...bt she spent more time wit me..nd still kip telling i cant date u...she told me recently i broke up wit him...i was like...make sense...still she do sumhw...if call her bae..all those sweet name she will change it for me..nd told me m nt ur gal...dis particular babe use to bhave like my gal..cus everyone arnd find it hard to bliv we re nt dating.....so Oga teddy...any method to own dis HARD chick.........funniest part..dis babe use to allow other guys flirt wit her...one even go down low wit her by force..nd d guy she dy claim is out of country..

Asin ehn.... Bruv, are u joking? ..
The girl doesn't want any relationship from any of u or her friends... That's OBVIOUSLY clear in ur story..

She's the type that loves fun (real fvcking NOT love making) ... If u shower her with love and sweet words, u're On Your Own....

She wants to enjoy it while it last, what more do u need...?
U guys can complicate simple issue..

Bruv go out there and dig some oil, Come back here and give testimony...

No dey reason babes like that.... They are not and will never be the same...

#peace 69

bro,what response could a guy give a lady asking questions on an intimate pictures she saw on her toasters phone?
is it best to deny that she isnt her girl or tell her truth ?so as not to spoil his chances

oga teddy ..i have dis colleague of mine that am squatin cos she hasn't got her on accomodation...we have been stayin in d same room for 3 weeks nw..i lack an idea on how to bed her cos i noticed she has totally friendzoned me..and she has a bf dat she is bangin she even told me...pls give me tips on how to bang her

JhyMedex:
Guys!... Anybody get TAO OF BADASS PDF?...
help a bro out

If you still need it, I got it.

Widall:
she has totally friendzoned me

1 week pass, 2 weeks, 3 weeks, ha bros why na?
Start to show bf/lover potential but do it on and off then,
You can try to make her jealous by bringing another babe home, note that this will only work if your guys rapport wella
The best I can advise based on the limited info make baba OP take over or DJboosting/VJaykilling.

tr3y:

If you still need it, I got it.

Yea,! Still do... Gracias

***

tr3y:

1 week pass, 2 weeks, 3 weeks, ha bros why na?
Start to show bf/lover potential but do it on and off then,
You can try to make her jealous by bringing another babe home, note that this will only work if your guys rapport wella
The best I can advise based on the limited info make baba OP take over or DJboosting/VJaykilling.

Don't bring any girl home... She won't get jealous...
She'll only start getting jealous when u begin to fvck her...

Djboosting:



Don't bring any girl home... She won't get jealous...
She'll only start getting jealous when u begin to fvcking her...

That's is why I first said he should show bf potential first as in start acting like her lover.. which you have killed in the post above..

After she sees him from the bf perspective that is when she might get jealous..

JhyMedex:

Yea,! Still do... Gracias

Well, PM me or drop your mail here.

DjBoosting and Trey...I see u guys. Both suggestions will actually work, it all depends on if the guy's confidence. He has really wasted a lot of time with her. But all is not lost. Just do as u r told. Stop hiding the animalistic desire u av for her.

NLjona:
I really need your help on this!!! We've dated for 5 months (Long Distance Relationship but we see each other often) At first it was all love in the air, well for the first 3 months. Things started changing after that.. She changed. Stopped calling,texting,caring and behaves non challant and even tlk abt her ex with me.. when I talk to her about it she turns it back to me like am acting too possesive. She made a lot of excuses about things and I felt like I was the one making efforts alone . On the fifth month,we had a major disagreement nd days later she used the "I wanna be alone" breakup line on me and I felt used. It hurts a lot.. Weeks gone by.. She occasionally text me bt I'm too angry to respond. She later asked for us to meet nd we talked things out and I accepted her back and right away she switched feelings cos she saw a friends (females) photos on my phone more than hers. I tried explaining things to her but she left at once and that day I tried texing her on social media and we chatted normally. But for weeks now we havnt texts or call and I'm confused cos one part of me wants to let go of her because it feels she's using me and the other still wants to try. She told a friend of ours that she wants to settle but I aint helping matters, which I don't understand cos she's to make efforts to make up if she really wants to...I'm so confused and sad about the whole issue.. Please I need ur advice on this.. Thanks!!

dude... Fork that girl and fork her reall good. Thank me later.

xxxtedyxxx:
DjBoosting and Trey...I see u guys. Both suggestions will actually work, it all depends on if the guy's confidence. He has really wasted a lot of time with her. But all is not lost. Just do as u r told. Stop hiding the animalistic desire u av for her.

Hello Bros. I am bck again. So everything went well, untill recently 4 days ago. We was suppose to go to town for the salah brake(both of us to our family house). She wanted to leave early cause she wants to watch telemundo. I left her room to mine, so that i can dress but unfortunately i decided to check for my material that i will read during the brake. She finished preparing her stuffs walked into my room but I wasn't dressed. She got angry and started complaining that i am too lazy and she hates guys that are like that. I apologized to her and told her I was checking for somethin. To cut the story short we later left for town together but she didn't say a word to me in the car. She got to her destination 10 mins pass 5 for the pprogram which starts by 5pm to 6pm. I called her to ask if she got home safely she said yes. Since that day she has not called nor text me. I also did not call nor text her. This is the 4th day. What do you think? Should i call her or continue to shun her too. And less i forget i applied ur strategy of getting hawt girls to call me while we are together, she is sooo jealous and even warned me to stop chatting with them. Pls i need your advice. Cause i am going back to school 2mrw and so will she also. And her money is in my account cause she feels she will be spending it uselessly when its in her possession. So she will definitely have to call or come to my room.

Djboosting:





Asin ehn.... Bruv, are u joking? ..
The girl doesn't want any relationship from any of u or her friends... That's OBVIOUSLY clear in ur story..

She's the type that loves fun (real fvcking NOT love making) ... If u shower her with love and sweet words, u're On Your Own....

She wants to enjoy it while it last, what more do u need...?
U guys can complicate simple issue..

Bruv go out there and dig some oil, Come back here and give testimony...

No dey reason babes like that.... They are not and will never be the same...

#peace 69

thumps up. Like I met one damsel at first bank few days ago. Omo I tell myself say I must collect this babe number ooo. Luckily she initiated a convo and I took it up from them. We left the bank together and I followed her to go collect her number o cos her phone was switched off. Omo my own Na to look for possibility of forking her and move on. She is extremely pretty and light skin the way I like it but I am taken already so I just wanna chop and waka.