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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 7:56am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Joy1706: No wonder |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Ilaje44(m): 7:56am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Brugo: You don't need to tell people to go and read what you wrote, because reading it a million times won't change the fact that you have been trying to blame the victims of rape for their predicament, saying they invited that upon themselves for dressing scantily or for seducing the rapïst. When someone says NO you should stop. 4 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Joy1706(f): 7:57am On Aug 09, 2015 |
vetsolo28:What kind of bush men do we have in naija? So where do you take girls on dates oga? Your bed? Smh 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ibietela2(m): 7:57am On Aug 09, 2015 |
DollyParton1: STFU sis |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 7:58am On Aug 09, 2015 |
ahamonyeka: Weren't you not the pervert that mentioned that rape cannot occur unless a weapon is introduced? You should kill yourself. Your daftness is beyond redemption 3 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dasrackhor(m): 7:58am On Aug 09, 2015 |
biz2get:falls from iroko tree.so make girls rape you abi.Hmmmmmm |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 7:59am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Dharniel: Bah! You are still an Ode. I can read and I read what you have written perfectly. Don't hide behind the use of ‘sometimes', I can see what you really are, A PERVERT and nothing more. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:00am On Aug 09, 2015 |
searching4love: I thought you were dead. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Ilaje44(m): 8:00am On Aug 09, 2015 |
nicerichard05: Can you please provide the source of this claim? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ibietela2(m): 8:03am On Aug 09, 2015 |
vickylala239: Sometimes I wonder why people don't like saying the truth. You Whr raped 3 good timez,here u are saying I escape the 1st person,blah blah d 2nd person beg,3 person did dis or Dat. Nigerian gelz. Wat is hard for u to say Dat u Whr raped After all nobody knows u here.say the truth n shame the devil. U b witch? 1St pushed Mi dwn n didnt, 2nd person beg n didn't. Whr on earth will a guy wnt to rape a gel n he will start by touching.Chai dis gel wit lies.rape has to do wit force. Dem Dey rape wit condom? Whr u wan get tym wear d tin.Chai lies ohh Person Whr wan rape u Dey romance?. Chai y Nt tell us d truth Haba na |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:04am On Aug 09, 2015 |
rabbuy: Ode! She should have sued their asses_ for sexual assault. You have never been in her shoes, so why don't STFU and take it as it is. Try and imagine yourself in that situation with no idea of what could happen the next second. They should have stopped immediately when she started struggling or said ‘no' and they should have asked her why she didn't want to. It is not in their place to try to break her restraint with their sickening touches. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Ngokafor(f): 8:04am On Aug 09, 2015 |
....Ladies please you do not have to argue with kids here.Just adhere to the op's assertions to avoid stories that touch.If you must go to his house,please pack your friends or else the eatery,park,church or even bustop should suffice. ...Our society is a backward and primitive one.Filled with rapists,potential rapists and their apologists.From secondary schools,Universities and all..its the same story all over and more often than not,there is usually no justice for victims.. ..Be wise!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ibietela2(m): 8:04am On Aug 09, 2015 |
misspicy: Who said girls don't harm boys? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:05am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by AmarachiOnuoha(m): 8:08am On Aug 09, 2015 |
I am 34 and met this beautiful girl of 22yrs and like her so much that I have to approach her for friendship, though she told me she's still a virgin. So we got into relationship, but whenever we talk on phone, she kept talking to me about sex, telling me how she wanted it with me. blablabla. Tomorrow she will start telling people that she was raped. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Amazo: 8:08am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Just because a girl comes to your place in revealing clothing doesn't automatically mean or ratify that she wants to be rapëd. She might want to have sex though. Every man needs to understand that there's a tiny BIG difference between SEX and RAP.E; and the difference is "consent". If you play your cards well: make her laugh, get her excited, work out her passions...etc, then you will likely get consented sex. No girl wants to be raped, not even a prostitute! Scientifically speaking, humans are referred to as "Higher Animals" because we are considered, known and proven to be the most intelligent (both in actuality and potential capability) creatures verified scientifically to exist. Consented sex is one of the ways we prove our salt to ourselves and the rest of the subspecies of creatures that we are indeed creatures of superior intelligence! This means you have no human dignity if you commit rapë. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dasrackhor(m): 8:08am On Aug 09, 2015 |
biz2get:He should do the needful... |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Brugo(m): 8:09am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Ilaje44: Oga. I would blame them over and over again within the context I discussed. Let me state it clearly that I was talking about a situation where a lady gets raped by her friend or lover. Not paedophiles. Not psychos who rape old women. I believe that is the context within which the topic was created. Address the root and don't wait for the damage to be done. The OP suggested a drastic measure which would be to shun visits altogether. I have rather attacked the triggers which ladies knowingly deploy when they go visiting. Why do these ladies dress so scantily and alluringly? Simple. To look "attractive", "sexually appealing", etc. Why then would they go ahead to engage in forèplay? Ultimately, why should they be absolved of all blame when their dressing and actions begin to fructify? They must share in the blame because measures could have been taken earlier to avoid rape. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dasrackhor(m): 8:10am On Aug 09, 2015 |
agoadiv:she w̶̲̅ǟš raped and shy to say ΐτ̅..All dis girlz fink we r all fool..we get brain nah..Surely n verily she w̶̲̅ǟš raped.. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dasrackhor(m): 8:12am On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB:ehya..say d truth and put d devil to shame... |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by hensben(m): 8:14am On Aug 09, 2015 |
christinie:if men don't stair at you ladies then who will? Fello ladies abi? Now I confirm lesbianism don common for Naija |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by udz: 8:15am On Aug 09, 2015 |
I have read through comments and its a real debate going on here. However, one clear thing is clear, Rape is a Crime. Though am still trying to wrap my head around the 'catchy' topic... It can send alot of females on a 'zombie' path which MIGHT not favor all. Infact, let me observe comments. I want to read Gaborone 's comment. This is one NLer that I look forward to read from. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 8:15am On Aug 09, 2015 |
The question is, why choose an eatery Why not choose a public garden, where no "food" is served... classicB: |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by femi4: 8:16am On Aug 09, 2015 |
ireneidiva:They might be very close and its not as if it happened everyday. I can't remember how many ladies I helped to fix wall hanger, cupboard, light even killed snakes in their rooms, yet taking advantage of them never crossed my mind |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dfrost: 8:17am On Aug 09, 2015 |
yetseyi: Haba yetseyi. Roughen up teenage boys, with little or no respect (some though)? No please . If you were one of the boys, what will you say to me? Busybody right ? I have a code and abide by it. I took it up with the mother to make her see reasons why she should not have laughed over the matter but she waved it, attributing it to boys and girls talk. To her, I had 0 experience in bringing up a child since I had none after all I didn't assist her in pushing the child out during labour. Some mothers believe that since you don't have a child of your own, you should keep your advice to yourself. I don't have a little sister, but I protect my younger brother up till today as if he's a baby (he's past his teens). The matter tire person jare... some parents can kill you with the way they handle their ward(s), as if they picked the little one up from the trash . |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dasrackhor(m): 8:19am On Aug 09, 2015 |
shadowgwalker:una follow rape unaself....both r rapist...Rapist in d room..run!run!!run!!! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dasrackhor(m): 8:22am On Aug 09, 2015 |
vickylala239:chisoooos,u buy beer for rapist. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ultra100(f): 8:22am On Aug 09, 2015 |
some guys think is fun raping girls and knowing so well that some of them will be ashamed to tell a third party.since they have not been caught,then,it has now become their game to lure innocent girls.but let me tell you, the one you least expect will cause your down fall. if you know that you can't hold yourself if you are alone in the house then don't welcome any female visitor or insist she brings her friend along or probably meet in an open space else your days of doom are near. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by christinie(f): 8:22am On Aug 09, 2015 |
hensben:lusting after ladies is different from admiring them. Please help me check for the meaning of "pervert" |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by noblegrex: 8:23am On Aug 09, 2015 |
U ladies should also leave d fake lifes' u r living n eat whatever u so desire to it,u r full of pretence n that's d major problem that lead some guys into sleeping with u or mayb rape some.u always don't make your intentions known.some girls wanted to Bleep u, bt will pretend as if they don't want it until u persuade them. whereas is what they wanted actually,so this lead some guys into using force cos uve tougth them this way. It happened to me bout two ocations where I touched a lady n she resited me asking me if I wanted to rape her n I was so shocked to hear that so I let go immediately cos I hate that word., only for her to tell me afrterwards that I'm too weak,that I got intimidated easily.just imagine. D second lady too resited me only to tell me I'm too gentle. Haa I tire oo.bt all thesame I'll always bleep without using any persuation even if she's my woman n if she blees outside,,,that's all |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by femi4: 8:23am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Joy1706:Must you go to eatry? Why not Church, bustop, field etc |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by nicerichard05: 8:26am On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos: Sharap, rape nor be rape, 90% of guys are. Guilty of it cos at a point a lady will always say no |
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