classicB:

No is no my brother

classicB:

I met the wrong guy, like that that 18year old girl met the wrong man, just like those kids that get raped daily met the wrong guy

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

misspicy:

Yes all guys are guilty until you guys tell us how to identify a rapist...

Brugo:


You should work on your comprehension and logic. If you could read and understand you wouldn't attack me so.

classicB:

Let assume some girls dress scantily to get raped. What about those underage girls?? What about that innocent housemaid that get raped daily by Oga simply.because Madam isn't available, those men that rapes their own daughters nko??

misspicy:

See ur life?why reject it,u cnt take it,no one can....buh its safer to meet in an open place dan a cinfined space.

And I still mantain my stand,all guys are not to be visited privately until u guys tell us how to identify rapists.

misspicy:

Yes all guys are guilty until you guys tell us how to identify a rapist...

EggovinMma:


BROS you dey make me vex for this thread
E be like say you be rapist. Una plenty for here, I know that one. No dey talk anyhow.

misspicy:

No one is denying they still exist buh how do we identify dem,no rapist will tell u am a rapist,until u find out,babe pray u dnt fall victim,beta not to trust any guy at all,dan to trust d 'good' ones and be raped.

yinkeys:
Hence forth I shall no longer support you on any thread. #feminist

EggovinMma:
I noticed most guys that tackled this issue objectively are nigerians who are based abroad. Those ones living in a sane climate, away from the Zoo, where even a judge, policeman, lecturers, soldiers, Doctors, pastors can rape and go free without any charges. Our justice system is terrible! but not for me lynpetra.

Na only once, person try rape me.Ime.I think I was 14/15 years then.They lured me by telling me my brother needs my attention "upstairs".But they choosed the wrong girl, I actually screamed till neighbours came out.I reported them to my most elder brother, who told some of his friends a nd my cousins. That night all of them buy cane, marched to the first guts house a d beat him mercilessly as his mother watched.The other guy escaped.


I have always been a careful girl, that was the first a d last time I had that kind of encounter. Maybe na because God no want make I rotten for jail.Look, no be joke o, I can murder a rapist if i have a chance, YES I GO KILL AM.I DONT MIND SPENDING THE REST OF MY LIFE JAIL.BUT I WILL KILL HIM AND WILL NEVER ASK MY MAKER FOR FORGIVENESS. IF HE KILL ME, NO PROBLEM.

When my daughters grow, I will make sure they tell me everything. If I happen to hear any case of "attempted "alone, no be naija we dey? Me lynpetra tell police? For where? Over my dead body will that rapist remain the same again.

ahsekeena:
But ehn? Tbh,I cannot visit a guy in his house o! The last time I visited a guy who was not my boyfriend was in 2006,was much younger and naïve.



But now! No way!

wordbank:
Ur conclusion makes no sense in any way. U met d wrong dude so what? So others should be slaves to their own selves?
U r just amusing!

oreos:
Ode!
There is only one guilty party in rape cases.
Get that into your thick skull, pervert!

misspicy:

This is part of wat I have been trying to explain to mr Brugo And Mr Wordbank...

Unless they can all tell us ways of identifing a rapist,we not going to visit guys in der house again.

SirShymexx:
The ra.pe topics you lot keep spamming this forum with everyday is becoming nauseating. Did you lot just discover the word or something? It is all about ra .pe this, ra.pe that - give the darn word a freaking break.

You won't get ra.ped if you don't hang around the wrong people, while putting yourself in a vulnerable position. No real guy would ra.pe anyone - ra.pe is for suckers and perverts. There is nothing to enjoy in the act.

Sort yourselves out and stop spamming everywhere with nonsense like every guy is out there to ra.pe every chic they meet. The topic is stale and ra.pe has been out there since forever - just give it a rest. If you are a victim of ra.pe, go report to the police and stop disturbing everyone.

BabyDaddy20:


B√tch, shut the fucck up.
What are you tryna say ??
All men are rapist ??
How many girls did your father rape ??
I was locked in a room & raped for four days by 3 girls, what about that (?