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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 8:38pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
worshipdevice: A responsible man with image to protect yet you try to intimidate women for speaking out. Are you really sure you are responsible because it seems you are only deceiving yourself. FYI if you call me idiot again, I will insult every member of your family. 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by petkoffDrake(m): 8:38pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Sanmel:. . don't spoil my name pls...... which one is sanmel.... instead of SAMUEL |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by 3rdlegxxx(m): 8:44pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Goldmaxx:And we can only imagine the psychological trauma she went through or the lies she convinced herself to believe just to go on, i am a guy and i think this topic is a good one, i don't understand how guys enjoy that level of forceful sex, when she is struggling, crying and all, some guys bad sha, me i bad ooo but rape is a no no, i get turned off fast when a girl starts to cry and changes her mood and tries running from me, na me gan go dey beg am say na play i been dey play oooo, my D..k won't even stand |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by worshipdevice(m): 8:46pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Pidggin:1. sorry for calling u dat.... 2. Am intimedating any woman here... I av elder n junior sister to protect as well but some1 is trying to spoil d image of every man knowing fully dat all men are not d same, it piece me off... |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Sanmel(f): 8:54pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
petkoffDrake:Sanmel- Sanguine + Melancholy |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Pidggin(f): 8:58pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
worshipdevice: OK I understand, don't take it personal since you say you are not like that. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by bummyla(m): 9:06pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Well Written! She Who Has Ears Let Her Listen! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dfrost: 9:20pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
lexisjay: You're welcome brother. Shalom. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dinachi(m): 9:36pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos:Now it becomes clearer why you should be confined to a cage and only released in the wild to relate with your fellow apes, as swipe! 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by SirShymexx: 9:45pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
yetseyi: Lol. I don't know much - just learning like everyone else. Education is a continuous process. Okay, if you say so. But I think our sisters also have to do more to stop making every guy a villain. They're also going to have male kids one day and how would a mother feel, if she ever finds out that her sons are falsely accused of rape or targeted as potential rapists? Everything in life always go full circle, hence it's always better to maintain a balance. No probs - you've got the supreme pass. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by abdulkayus(m): 9:53pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
otokx: It seem u have a comprehension problem or u didn't understand that post or u just tend to ignore it. The victim was handed over to the lecturer who was his friend. The father of the victim trusted the lecturer. It is not the gal that went on her own, so stop blaming the gal and rape victims. It seem u are a rapist also. 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 9:54pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
EggovinMma:pray u dnt meet someone like me cos i be badt guy and i go arrange 12 guys wey go rape u to death. U neva jam |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 9:56pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
3rdlegxxx:me i hate rape also but why do rape victims always conceal their ordeal |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:56pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
dinachi: Pervert! 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:57pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Goldmaxx: You hate rape yet you don't mind arranging 12 guys to rape her to death. You get problem I swear 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Goldmaxx(f): 10:13pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos:no i hate women claiming king kong |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dinachi(m): 10:15pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos:No wonder! 2 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Kidstell: 10:21pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
let me betray the |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Kidstell: 10:26pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
let me betray the brother hood. No guy can refuse sex lets assume it could be given as a gift. so miss, no guy hates you completely and do you know why? you have a cunt. I am trying to sound hard, so please feel free to panic. every guy you have in your life be it a feiend, your brother's friend and name it even your choir master and ustaz. they all have an interest in you especially if u are both unmarried, you are still thinking that interest is academical in nature or musical or career wise. yes it is but its a little more than that. As a lady, no matter who a guy is to you, if you should show him the slightest loop hole or vulnerability. be ready to sleep with him. use this experiment. tell him that you usually feel Hot when you eat fried rice. he will buy you fried rice every day. I could say more but experience is your best friend. take a guy for granted and you will learn. spend the night in my house every now and then. and you expect me to overlook. are you that ugly? One day Mr. Nice guy will make passes at you. rape becomes a possibility depending on how hungry Mr. Nice guy could be. if he is like me, he will just carry his laptop and start watching photoshop tutorials or better still start writing programs. though I restrain my female friends. except some who were able to break me. #noToRape #noToPremaritalSex |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:37pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
Goldmaxx: You hate women claiming king Kong? Why can't she claim KingKong? If she like she can claim the king of the jungle, it is no concern of anyone. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 11:41pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
dinachi: Pervert! 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ajog1: 12:19am On Aug 10, 2015 |
it's thread like this that are written when the op and female commentators get myopic.rape is a dreadful cancerous epidemic that should be understood properly and not this child-like expressions i'm seeing. 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Max24: 1:49am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Brugo: What context is that? 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by petkoffDrake(m): 3:12am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Sanmel:No vex abeg I thought u are sane |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by opedaydydx9(m): 3:44am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB:that was what a nairalander said before she visited ooooo....... So they say ebinnas, why wont they rape them... Lmao not all guys are patient... That's just the fact!!!!!!! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Ricadob(m): 4:17am On Aug 10, 2015 |
It is appalling that a man would forcefully have knowledge of a woman/girl. I have had the sad privilege of talking to about 4 actual victims of rape, I know of a kind-hearted young lady who was molested by her stepdad in the house as young as the age of 15. Granted she's a pretty girl with pretty features but by her dad? I DO NOT CONDONE RAPE IN ANY FORM AND UNDER ANY GUISE OR EXCUSE!!! However, as an activist and with 2 pretty sisters, I give this advice to women all over the world : Proverbs 4:7 (TLB) Getting wisdom is the most important thing you can do! And with your wisdom, develop common sense and good judgment. A decent man should have enough control over his spirit to ignore 'improper' dressing by a girl or even go the extra distance of asking that he and the visiting girl go sit outside if he's not 'comfortable' with looking at her the way she's dressed. BUT let's face it, in this present age, few men can do that. My advice then to the ladies first is: 1. IF ITS NOT TOTALLY NECESSARY, DON'T GO TO A MAN'S HOUSE!!! Be he brother John or brother Sam or alfa sule, shady cousins and even uncles (Yes I mean it ) ; If there's no genuine reason to go to his house, don't go. Chances are, if you don't go to his house, he can't rape you. (that of course is apart from those really sad cases of relatives perpetuating the devilish act) 2. Make your intentions /stand very obvious from the get go. Men are different from women. A guy might consider the fact that you're going to his house to mean you want him. Not all men think this way but some do, so it's good you let him know what kind of visit it is and act accordingly. I had a female cook some years back as an unmarried man and I know how that ended Not forming holy here but just stick to what you went for. 3, An igala saying goes like this "If you don't like vultures, don't put its feather in your cap" I know some ladies would not like this one but it's the truth: Please try to dress decently. I'm a guy not a perv but I assure you most guys would rather fantasise about Beyonce instead of Jannelle Monae (Great girl by the way) or Victoria kimani instead of Asa.. That of course doesn't mean Beyonce or Kimani deserve to be raped but I doubt you have the kind of protocol and security they have.I hope you get my analogy. This is not to say that decently dressed girls don't get their share of gazes and advances but at least they can't be labelled 'asking for it'. I've heard ladies say "I'm a sexy young woman and i can wear whatever I like, it's my body"...... True it's your body but ask victims of rape, it won't be your body when some guy has you pinned to the wall and effortlessly raises your short gown ( Sorry about the graphic picture). Conclusion: DRESS DECENTLY 4. I was reading a post where a girl said "If a guy wants to spend for me that's his business, I didn't force him to so he can't force me to have sex with him" Sigh. Ladies, if a man works all month and gets his 80k salary and spends 30k on you monthly while you're not his wife or girlfriend it might not be as innocent as you thought. Now, men, I don't believe if you spend on a girl she has to sleep with you. Some guys can spend without asking for anything but not all men will. So if you don't want him sitting unnecessarily close to you or any other form of harassment, a good 'no thank you' to suspicious gifts and outings will come in handy Point: Don't collect unnecessary gifts Above all, while it is true that family members and relatives can be predators, I think as a lady, if you've 'almost' been raped thrice, you should consider changing your circle of friends or have a look at something you might want to do differently. I'm not referring to the unfortunate instances of child abuse but as a grown lady something has to be wrong. Sorry to sound rude but there are lots of pretty ladies with seductive features that go through life without as much as one 'almost rape' scenario. WISDOM IS KEY 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 5:29am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Goldmaxx: Before Abraham, Jesus was born! 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by tpiander: 5:36am On Aug 10, 2015 |
is the op Nigerian btw. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Carlmax(m): 6:20am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB: I just want to ask doe |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Carlmax(m): 6:21am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB: I just want to ask does your boyfriend rape his female visitors also? |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by devonpaul(m): 7:31am On Aug 10, 2015 |
ahsekeena:I agree completely. I guess that's what am tryin to say indirctly too. To whom trust is given, thrust is expected.. Devil has reall suceeded in poisoning youths of nowadays heart with immoral thoughts, act, doings. Most of dem think of nothin useful once dey see a female even to d extent of thinkin of sex with your half sister. Its saddening. I agree with you jare because after all is said aand done. U'll be d handler of ur own fate |
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