Ugosample:

He seems muslim, judging by his name. It is very common of them to marry small girls, even 14 years is not spared.

1miccza:


Hi my runaway friend,are you from Delta state....

kandiikane:


If you are educated, you would know the complications that comes with teen marriage and pregnancies, Kids who get married are more likely to die early. If it was so beneficial or if it did not have any adverse effects, it would not have been illegal in most countries to marry a child. I don't care about Omotola's story, I only care about biological facts. A 14 year old is not ready for marriage and all that comes with it. If you want to marry an 18 year old that's up to you but don't come here promoting paedophilia and child marriages. If I am not mistaken your country's law states that you should not be with anyone below the age of 18 but I know many of you are perverted anyway and the only way you will find sexual pleasure is from a small child who is yet to have breast that are fully formed. The laws are there to restrict you from your paedophilic tendencies because atleast by 18 the pelvis and birth canal are more matured than when they are 14. I mean if a 14 year old is capable to you, why not an 11 year old or even a 9 year old who started early puberty. Please read actual scientific facts on child marriages and stop promoting your perversion. Who would want to have a 45 year old man on top of their 11 or 14 year old daughter? This is what the majority of child marriages consist of.

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chimkaire:
Hello, I'm not

Ngokafor:


....@deniyor you sound like a really responsible dude..I had hope in our men by your posts here..God bless you.


...as for the op,10yrs is not much but 17 and 27 is not appropriate.You are way too matured for her.I know you will not listen to reason now,but will heed the silly ones urging you to go on,but dont worry,you will only come back to nairaland to cry us a river on how Nigerian girls are bad...una no dey hear word

Stephansmily:



Lol

U knw wah ah mean

Gurgle:


I didn't really understand...So you fell in love with her, got to know her real age and then whats the end?

Chelseafan1:



Go ahead if u are ready to share her with one or more guys if she gets to school, especially if she's pretty and sweet.(Boys go disturb am taya, rich guys, fine guys, church mates, senior colleagues, classmates, she wud definitely have her own crushes too)

If you are the possessive type, be ready to complain often times.

If you are not interesting, loving and don't visit her frequently, just be prepared for a shocking heartbreak eventually.






Take note of the IFs.

killerman47:
Please help... i'm 27 but loving a 17yr old girl... is this normal? Is the age difference too much? Can we work something out?

For the records, I'm done with school, working and self sufficient; while she's about getting into school...

Honest suggestions needed pls...

deniyor:


Yes allow. Afterall, if the parents approve the relationship, then they are allowing it. That's not to say the parents approval is going to be sought anyways.
As for the 20 - 22 year olds, I'd probably have less issues with it. At least the 22 year old won't be chased out of my house with guns and dogs. However, If the 17 year old was my daughter, you can be sure the guy will be going to jail.

And since you are so concerned about the use of the word allow, I will rephrase :
Will you be okay with your 17 daughter sleeping with a 27 year old? How would you react to finding out?

harristo:


I don't know why people don't know how to answer a simple question on the internet. I notice the trend on most question and anwer website on the internet.

The OP never said he was sleeping with the 17 years old girl. You just assume that he is, because it will make it easier for you to condemn him.
If your prefix is wrong how then will you succeed in giving the OP a proper answer to his question.

killerman47:
Please help... i'm 27 but loving a 17yr old girl... is this normal? Is the age difference too much? Can we work something out?

For the records, I'm done with school, working and self sufficient; while she's about getting into school...

Honest suggestions needed pls...

deniyor:


Dude, stop being naive.

What your point mister? So he loves a 17 year old, and you think he doesn't want to sleep with her? Stop fooling yourself mister. And for the record, he did not say in his post that he has no intention of sleeping with her.
And even if he doesn't plan to sleep with her for the next three years, he's going to have a huge influence on her that is just not fair. And I bet he won't be acting as a big brother to prevent her from making stupid teenage mistakes. More like teaching her sex positions.

harristo:


Stop assuming things. Stop assuming that the OP is incapable of having a decent relationship with the girl. And stop thinking that a man can't have a decent relationship with a girl 18 and 10 years younger.

Anyway I guess the OP should take it what you're worried about is the fact the he can't maintain a healthy relationship with the girl. And that if he can you have no problem with their relationship - yeah I know you believe that he can't.

1miccza:


You dropped a line in that post that i mentioned that contradicts what you said,in few words, a don believe you...

pbs4real:
kindly give me some of the rules please..cos the last time I checked age has notin to do with love.... I stand to be corrected tho..

LaDivva:
Why not give her three years, she'd be 20 by then and probably in her 3rd year in school. You can then choose to marry her or wait for her to graduate before you marry her at 21.

Fourwinds:
girls don't have a stable mind dats y some dude impregnate them before dey have a change of mind

zaragal:
There is nothing there ooo....my bf is 10years ahead of me.......if there is love and sex is not included dey there is nothing wrong with him...

Ugosample:

imagine the mindset. damn it

chimkaire:
...I don't get you.... I'm unrepentantly MBAISE
But, which 'line' actually? Can you quote it, maybe?

Fourwinds:
it is serious. Even where i live. I have met some girls very young some teenagers only to discover they have given birth to babies and who is responsible, a poor guy with no stable income and d boys parents take care of caring for d baby mama and d baby

deniyor:


You really are naive if you think someone who can't see that a relationship with a 17 year is wrong. You think that person will not sleep with her? Have you seen what 17 year olds look like these days? Dude wake up!!!! There is no healthy relationship btw a 17 year old and a 27 year old. What are they going to be talking about? What do they have in common apart from sex? What level of maturity and thinking does a 17 year old bring to the table. How long do you think the 27 year old will be able to stand her childishness before he dumbs her for another 17 year old?

And for those who keep saying husband, did the OP say he has approached the parents to marry? Here's hoping the parents believe in their daughter well enough to chase him away.

I also suspect you are capable of doing the same if you don't see anything wrong with it.

Topman0001:


If i don't agree with your opinion, that doesn't mean you're wrong or i'm right. It just means we're different. I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 20, a 300L student. Before i met her, i used to be a game boy. I met this pretty lady as a virgin, initially i wanted to bed her but she wouldn't let me. I give her 100% attention and stoped gaming. Now our families has met, i'm still waiting for her to grad. Budy if ur 17 yrs old babe is still a virgin, pls don't bed her- that's enough keep her yours bcuz she will not go and do it elsewhere. If she tries it u'll know. Just love her and give all the attention she needs so that rivalry will nt be a threat.

killerman47:
Please help... i'm 27 but loving a 17yr old girl... is this normal? Is the age difference too much? Can we work something out?

For the records, I'm done with school, working and self sufficient; while she's about getting into school...

Honest suggestions needed pls...

Fourwinds:
i don't see anything wrong with it except d girl is still a teenager. When d guy turns 37 years d girl will be 27 years. So i don't see any problem here. If d guy can wait and d girl must not betray him for waiting likewise d guy

Fourwinds:
i don't see anything wrong with it except d girl is still a teenager. When d guy turns 37 years d girl will be 27 years. So i don't see any problem here. If d guy can wait and d girl must not betray him for waiting likewise d guy