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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Aug 28, 2015
Orikinla:

Please, not all women behave like dogs.
We have some decent and faithful girls and ladies in Nigeria.
I am with one of them.
Don't worry, pretty soon, you will change the tune of your music. The girl might be cheating on you.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by ladyF(f): 8:47pm On Aug 28, 2015
mildflame:

Since d essence of d communication was understood why U don't u ZIP ur LOOSE MOUTH
Yet again. It's *why don't u*

Lol English must really be difficult for u cry
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by omotoyossi(m): 8:47pm On Aug 28, 2015
shes fuckin anoda guy..nd u r askin us wat 2 do..she kill herself..wat is ur own dere..beta dump d cheatin bastard b4 i curse u.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by 2sex(m): 8:48pm On Aug 28, 2015
EggovinMma:


Lol. You don vex.
I don't know why people lie o.If na me, I will say the whole and truth and take a bow.I know how it feels to cheat and lie, it's like a dangerous double dose. The lie sef dey pain pass.
lol, you? I know wetin u fit do na. cheesy.

See, most guys are often the cause of things like this. That's why when I am with a lady, I do try to let them know that I am different from most guys, that means letting them express their sexual desires freely with me... make the free. Most times these girls want good fvck or feel Hot at a point but THEY can't speak for fear of being labelled a hoe. angry

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 8:51pm On Aug 28, 2015
OP break up with her, not even because she allegedly cheated on you but because she threatened to kill herself, that's exactly how she'll always try to cage you, should you have any reason to break up with her.

No one should be in a relationship where they are being threatened.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Edusouls(m): 8:52pm On Aug 28, 2015
BiafranNigerian:
Countless times, girls do visit me, we hang out together and even go to club. When we get back home, I show them to the guest rooms. There are other men like that. The fact that your girl slept in another guy's house does not mean she had sex with him, may be the guy does not even find your girl appealing. I realized that we judge others based on our weaknesses.

OP, the core reason you believe that no guy can allow a girl to sleep in his apartment without having sex is because you do not trust yourself to sleep with a girl in a room without having sex. Work on your insecurity and you will trust others.
well i get ur reasoning,but cheating is cheating brother, why sleep over in a guys apartment? And why did she lie that she is at home?if she knew that her concience is clear,she should have clearly told her guy were she is? And she offed her phone? The guy should dump her without time wasting.. The girl is a smart snake, deceitful, a serial cheat and a hardened liar, and this was just the time she got caught,it was not the first time...and my guy erase this ur kind of mentality,u may end up in the arms of a super snake girl..

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Alexebo(m): 8:53pm On Aug 28, 2015
went to her huz arnd 11:30pm nd stil went back arnd 6am.....click like if you tink ds op is jobless nd brainless

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by timota(m): 8:54pm On Aug 28, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?
kill ur self
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by NoRetreat(m): 8:54pm On Aug 28, 2015
You better leave by numbers else you might end up being killed! Who knows if the other guy knows you and is ready to kill over her?

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by mildflame: 8:55pm On Aug 28, 2015
ladyF:

I think it's *why don't u concentrate*

Hope u will go and demand a refund of ur school fees from your English teacher in school? U better remove the log in your eyes first. grin
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by chinchum(m): 8:55pm On Aug 28, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?
u have done well preventing a seeming suicide by telling her u will not ditch her. who knows if she truly had stabbed herself to death in your presence, you would have a murder case on your head, while u struggle to prove it was a suicide case. Trust Nigerian bloggers, the headline will be like" boyfriend brutally stabs girlfriend to death over suspected cheating". The time to leave her is now, brutally "stab her" with a phone call as to how u can no longer continue the relationship and why she must never show up again in your crib. it is all over bro, don't deceive itself to think you can salvage anything.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Lawsimon(m): 8:56pm On Aug 28, 2015
Tapout:
hmm so ladies, this is the latest means of trapping a guy eh undecided....... interesting




Pls to the guys out there, make sure u get a breakup permit from the nearest police station b4 breaking up with bae.....just incase she goes suicidal
Make I quickly enter police station collect breakup permit in case of necessity cos girls are very serious with this their suicide tactics.**fear women**

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:57pm On Aug 28, 2015
hmm.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:57pm On Aug 28, 2015
freecocoa:
OP break up with her, not even because she allegedly cheated on you but because she threatened to kill herself, that's exactly how she'll always try to cage you, should you have any reason to break up with her.

No one should be in a relationship where they are being threatened.
Absolutely. cheesy

You're pretty smart.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Walexsammy(m): 8:58pm On Aug 28, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?
truth of the gist is dat 'u truely love her and don't wanna break up with her'...and not dat she'll kill herself, cuz believe me,she wont

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Amen747: 8:59pm On Aug 28, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?
I av once been a victim, I tell u wat she need is a good Bleep. Get ale, afato,opa eyin, baby oku, doro webo and probably long journey. Give her a thorough Bleep and bring back the matter she will tell u exactly wat u want to know and wat do problem is. But honestly, there is smtin u r not doing right if she is still that kin abt u

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by basille(m): 8:59pm On Aug 28, 2015
Guy please run for your life. A girl once played this trick with my friend. It didn't stop her from cheating.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by 400billionman: 9:00pm On Aug 28, 2015
vfactor:
That's what they always say: I will kill myself! When she was sleeping over she didn't know she would kill herself? When she switched off her phones, she didn't know she will kill herself?


Its just like "I can't live without you" and the next thing they are married to someone else and living happily - without u of course!


You know them too well. Any girl that makes many promises, don't take her serious. That promise is 24hours Warranty. ..

The silent ones are better. And these ones won't cheat.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by legendsilver(m): 9:00pm On Aug 28, 2015
since she dey beg, I will advise u turn her into side chick then move on with your net and hook for better fish in planet ocean since she dey beg, I will advise u turn her into side chick then move on with your net and hook for better fish in planet ocean sad
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Lawsimon(m): 9:03pm On Aug 28, 2015
Tapout:
hmm so ladies, this is the latest means of trapping a guy eh undecided....... interesting




Pls to the guys out there, make sure u get a breakup permit from the nearest police station b4 breaking up with bae.....just incase she goes suicidal
Make i quickly enter nearby police station collect BREAKUP PERMIT in case of necessity cos girls are very serious with this their new found suicide deceit.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by mildflame: 9:03pm On Aug 28, 2015
ladyF:

Yet again. It's *why don't u*

Lol English must really be difficult for u cry
Madam CLERICAL officer why don't come n type 4me
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Aug 28, 2015
missmary:
You can still be with her if you wont bring up the past.. Could be devils expenditure to break you and she fell into the trap... Maybe nothing happened.. No one knows... Goodluck

U are taking this position only because the girl is not the victim in this case. The devil indeed.....

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by engrshakespeare: 9:06pm On Aug 28, 2015
ladyF:
Forgive her na cry she didn't do anything with the guy...maybe she was lonely and didn't wan to sleep alone

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin

mumu undecided

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by 989900: 9:07pm On Aug 28, 2015
What should you do? Your mumuism no be here.

Anyway, there was a time wey I mumu pass you; then I mumu pass pa Jimoh self. cheesy

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Aug 28, 2015
[size=14pt]One thing you need to know is these girls cheat a lot. I don't care what anybody says, most ladies are serial cheats whether the actual act, or emotional cheats (which will lead to sex anyway)...... I personally have experienced cheating girlfriends and fiances first hand (there was this religious girl who was due to marry in one month who used to come after work and on sundays to have sex with my flat mate at those times guys shared flats, my friend would make jesting faces behind her back to be about how crazy the sex was), some weeks back a girl came to spend the night with me she is in a serious relationship still, this girl was practically lying to her boyfriend about how she was in school (plus she had planned with her room mates the lies to tell incase he called them) and then she blamed bitterly him for not trusting her,I LOST ALL RESPECT FOR HER AFTER THIS. several of these instances...... They say Nigerian women are the greatest cheat and honestly i believe because i have experienced another nationality and i can say i agree with this survey.

Break up with her, patiently get someone else, DONT PRETEND LIKE YOU CAN COPE.[/size]

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by stankezzy: 9:08pm On Aug 28, 2015
Na waa oo!

Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by woli2shehu: 9:08pm On Aug 28, 2015
[quote author=petsolo15 post=37430527]I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?[/quote
What you should is to forgive her though ,it is not easy but if you can it is better, it may be your turne in another time.
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 28, 2015
You just a sucker for love (2pac's voice)
As her mind don come down small,make sure she escort you as you dey go house,as soon as you mount okada scream tell her say you don dump her cheating,and psyhocotic a$$,make we see whia knife wan come from,plus na public una dey so when ever she eventually find knife you wont be around the scene,omo hear gist sef.she tidy another homeboy finish kon dey threaten you ontop..nne you must stab yasef to show the love is real oh..before you take my advice buy viagra then knack knack enough when go last you when she don die.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Aug 28, 2015
Jhenny:
yea right. And u believed her. Op ehn,leave d babe jare. She is a cheat and a liar. D knife and trying to kill herself is a prank abeg. I dont believe that nonsense

I am already engaged else with this your post, I for pursue you till I propose to you. cheesy
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by JideTheBlogger(m): 9:11pm On Aug 28, 2015
@ petsolo15

Start hunting for a new bae.

If she enjoyed that night with that guy, she will keep going to that guy. trust me.

There are still many good baes out there.
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Mznaett: 9:12pm On Aug 28, 2015
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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Jhenny(f): 9:12pm On Aug 28, 2015
emmyrichie:


I am already engaged else with this your post, I for pursue you till I propose to you. cheesy
lol. Eeyah

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