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My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by promgurlP(f): 7:26pm On Dec 07, 2015
Hi there fellow romancelanders, this is actually my first time writing here and I'm writing this out of frustration and anger. Well here it goes:

Today before my boyfriend left for work, he asked me to give him N2000 that when he gets back he'll give it back in the evening. But I told him I wanted to use the money for my personal use. He then asked me what I wanted to use the money for and I was like undecided it's my money and I don't have to tell you. Initially he thought I was joking cos he asked me like three times but I gave him the same answer.
He insulted me calling me a useless and selfish person, that I'm very inconsiderate and wicked. cry He said it's today he knows I'm a certified calabar witch and the kind of hatred he has for me is making him feel disgusted. At first I was laughing, thinking he was joking but when he said I'm not taking him seriously I knew this n.igga meant every word he had just said.embarassed
And the worst part of it all, he went to complain to my elder sister that I'm refusing to give him the money and I know fully well that he is in need of it urgently. He collected the N2000 from my sister and left my house. angry
I'm just sitting here wondering, so it's because of only 2k my boyfriend is behaving like this, why did he have to embarrass me like that in front of my sister by complaining to her and borrowing money form her too? I'm feeling so bad that I've chosen not to speak to him again, at least not this night. What do you all think, was I wrong? What should I do now?

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by dachaste(f): 7:28pm On Dec 07, 2015
Sorry jus curious, are u guys staying in D same HAus with ur sis n BF?

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Nobody: 7:31pm On Dec 07, 2015
Stingy selfish self centered and egocentric calabar girl is what you are.
Common 2k, he say he go give you this evening and the evening don reach now.
Gerrarahere jare. U jux a replica of my main side chick. I dey vex angry

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Djicemob: 7:32pm On Dec 07, 2015
Must you people complain and whine about everything and bring it up on social media? undecided

Its obvious you guys are just going thru a normal phase in relationship and definately gonna settle later....so WTH? undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by talktonase(m): 7:33pm On Dec 07, 2015
Ur BF was very wrong for reacting in such a manner....see what two thousand is causing.He must be an end time boyfriend!

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by inme: 7:34pm On Dec 07, 2015
he go soon dey do tinx with your sis since u be akagum

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 07, 2015
Cats should be able to keep their emotion in check. 2000 naira can be a reason for anger but not a reason to curse.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Bambless1(m): 7:36pm On Dec 07, 2015
Relationship Is About Give And Take,,,,, Not Take Take And Take, So What U Did Was Wrong,



Shame On That Your Broke Boyfriend, What About His Male Friends?, I Think Collecting Money From Your Sister (his Would Be In Law) Its A Big Shame.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by dammytosh: 7:36pm On Dec 07, 2015
u need another boyfriend.

Call 911 with code name Calabar Witch. I will attend to you personally.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by RuggedArab: 7:38pm On Dec 07, 2015
Mtcheew! Same sh!t everyday.
Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by illmatic101(m): 7:40pm On Dec 07, 2015
Just tell us the truth, you are angry because he called you a calabar witch cheesy

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Nobody: 7:40pm On Dec 07, 2015
kill him.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by lampardizik(m): 7:41pm On Dec 07, 2015
That guy don't deserve you




Period!!!

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by kingslly(m): 7:41pm On Dec 07, 2015
So what dobu really want,u want us to help u curse ur boyfriend?

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by promgurlP(f): 7:42pm On Dec 07, 2015
dachaste:
Sorry jus curious, are u guys staying in D same HAus with ur sis n BF?
No we are not. I stay with my mum and my siblings
Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Nobody: 7:44pm On Dec 07, 2015
U self stingy cheesy 2k small naa sad

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by promgurlP(f): 7:44pm On Dec 07, 2015
illmatic101:
Just tell us the truth, you are angry because he called you a calabar witch cheesy
You sef undecided it's not that... this is actually the first time I'm refusing to give him some money
Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by jasssbabe(f): 7:45pm On Dec 07, 2015
Just 2k u can't give?? U are really a calabar witch

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by godofwar666(m): 7:45pm On Dec 07, 2015
Op how old are you?

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Nobody: 7:46pm On Dec 07, 2015
Bambless1:
Relationship Is About Give And Take,,,,, Not Take Take And Take, So What U Did Was Wrong,



Shame On That Your Broke Boyfriend, What About His Male Friends?, I Think Collecting Money From Your Sister (his Would Be In Law) Its A Big Shame.
shut up there, what's shame in collecting money from her sis?

The way she narrated it, she didn't complain the guy has been collecting money from her or borrowing and never pay back. If I can't ask my bae for 2k when I know she has it, why shud I call her my bae?? For the guy to react and borrow money from his bae's sister, it means the guy spend on his bae and prolly the bae's sister as well. Gals are generally stingy.

U buy her recharge card.
And still call her with ur airtime
Give her money to fix her hair
Give her money for upkeep
Pay her Tfare
And so on

But run to her when u need little thing, she doesn't have, she wan use am do nothing.

If na she ask the guy for money to make her hair and the tellam say he nor get, she go carry am for head.

I dey vex

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by misspicy(f): 7:46pm On Dec 07, 2015
grin
Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by promgurlP(f): 7:46pm On Dec 07, 2015
prettythicksme:
U self stingy cheesy 2k small naa sad
Haba babe.. this money was the only cash on me and I needed it to get stuffs for my personal use

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by dachaste(f): 7:47pm On Dec 07, 2015
promgurlP:

No we are not. I stay with my mum and my siblings




Ooh ok thank. Back to the subject I guess he was angry cos u refused to tell him wot u were gonna use the money for. To me it sounded as if u dint just want to give him. since u refused to state wot u'll use it for





Coming to think of it. He's ur BF and wots so personal u couldn't tell him? Am sure he even knw ur family well.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by naijaboiy: 7:47pm On Dec 07, 2015
So you just want to justify your actions. undecided

What was so difficult in lending him the money? And if you knew you were really going to use the money then why didn't you simply tell him what you wanted it for.

You refused to lend him the money and yet you refused to give him a tangible reason why you can't lend him.

I'm sure if he was the one you would have said he was spending his money on another girl.

What Is a relationship if you both cannot share little things?

I won't join the band wagon of people insulting your boyfriend. You are a very selfish,inconsiderate and stingy girlfriend. angry

And you are the cause of that quarrel. Drop that pride and go apologize to him for your actions if there is love in your heart for him.

Next Thread PLEASE!!! undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Johnnoah1st: 7:47pm On Dec 07, 2015
@op maybe u should just poison is food anytime he want to eat. My2cent
Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Tallesty1(m): 7:48pm On Dec 07, 2015
Typical of what most nigerian ladies do when a guy's bank clicks empty.

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by godofwar666(m): 7:48pm On Dec 07, 2015
jasssbabe:
Just 2k u can't give?? U are really a calabar witch
ehen! Just 2k, ok send me 5k I will send my acc to u

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by promgurlP(f): 7:48pm On Dec 07, 2015
Because you were with us right? Don't give the same analysis for all cases nah sad

stupidity:
shut up there, what's shame in collecting money from her sis?

The way she narrated it, she didn't complain the guy has been collecting money from her or borrowing and never pay back. If I can't ask my bae for 2k when I know she has it, why shud I call her my bae?? For the guy to react and borrow money from his bae's sister, it means the guy spend on his bae and prolly the bae's sister as well. Gals are generally stingy.

U buy her recharge card.
And still call her with ur airtime
Give her money to fix her hair
Give her money for upkeep
Pay her Tfare
And so on

But run to her when u need little thing, she doesn't have, she wan use am do nothing.

If na she ask the guy for money to make her hair and the tellam say he nor get, she go carry am for head.

I dey vex
Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by Maxi112: 7:48pm On Dec 07, 2015
u only think of ya self, always collecting with out giving.... shm

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by naijaboiy: 7:49pm On Dec 07, 2015
misspicy:
Broke boys gigolos roaming everywhere am milking my fellow.ladies dry yet coming on nairaland.to bash girl


Thunder fire una blokos undecided
Don't disappoint me. undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by jasssbabe(f): 7:49pm On Dec 07, 2015
B fast! Waiting
godofwar666:
ehen! Just 2k, ok send me 5k I will send my acc to u
Re: My Boyfriend Is So Annoying!!! by promgurlP(f): 7:51pm On Dec 07, 2015
For you to know, I've never in my life asked my boyfriend for money ever since we started our relationship... I don't collect money from him even if he begs me cos he needs it more than me.. so don't say that about me please
naijaboiy:
So you just want to justify your actions.

What was so difficult in lending him the money? And if you knew you were really going to use the money then why didn't you simply tell him what you wanted it for.

You refused to lend him the money and yet you refused to give him a tangible reason why you can't lend him.

I'm sure if he was the one you would have said he was spending his money on another girl.

What Is a relationship if you both cannot share little things?

I won't join the band wagon of people insulting your boyfriend. You are a very selfish,inconsiderate and stingy girlfriend. angry

And you are the cause of that quarrel. Drop that pride and go apologize to him for your actions if there is love in your heart for him.

Next Thread PLEASE!!! undecided

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