First of all, I'm repeating myself!!I've never asked for money from him and even when he gives me, I never collect it cos he needs it more than me! Secondly, this is the FIRST time I'm refusing to give him!

Psoul:


Just listen to urslf......u want need it to get stuff for ur personal use. If a guy can swallow his pride, come to ur house and begged u 4 financial assistance and still promised to repay u within couple of hours and u have and turned him down, Babe, u r not worthy to be his girl friend. For him to come to u means he must have given to u in the past. If care is not taken, wot he want dis money 4 may even be for the good of u and him.

For him to go to ur sis means dat he really needed that money.
Babe, u r so inconsiderate. Let's say u r d one in his shoes and u received dis kind of treatment u meted on him, by now you would've been considering changing a boy friend.

Even at this, u still have the mouth to come complaining and telling us how angry you are and how u dont feel like calling him. U better go to him and render an apology to him.

naijaboiy:
So you just want to justify your actions.

What was so difficult in lending him the money? And if you knew you were really going to use the money then why didn't you simply tell him what you wanted it for.

You refused to lend him the money and yet you refused to give him a tangible reason why you can't lend him.

I'm sure if he was the one you would have said he was spending his money on another girl.

What Is a relationship if you both cannot share little things?

I won't join the band wagon of people insulting your boyfriend. You are a very selfish,inconsiderate and stingy girlfriend.

And you are the cause of that quarrel. Drop that pride and go apologize to him for your actions if there is love in your heart for him.

Next Thread PLEASE!!!

#Gbam!

stupidity:
Stingy selfish self centered and egocentric calabar girl is what you are.

Common 2k, he say he go give you this evening and the evening don reach now.

Gerrarahere jare.
U jux a replica of my main side chick.
I dey vex

boss abeg no vex

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Omg!!! Will you just read all my posts before you comment? Please

harry509:
u Rr so stingy, since he said he wil gve u later n d evni, u shud gve him d money 1st. N relationship boyfrnd n girlfrnd shud udastnd each oda. My girlfrnd gave me 3k d oda day, bt since den I avent gvin her d money and she dos nt complain abt it @ all. But wat I ave done 4 her since den is more dan 3k and she is cumn home soon 4 dis dec, and am stil planin 2 do more 4 her, I love her so much. I HATE STINGY GIRLS and GIRLS WHO HAVE PRIDE Dats y I dump my EX girl.

you should have explained to your bf what was so important for you to do (with the 2k) that you couldnt borrow him the money. et voila!

You accuse him of reporting and asking your sister for money, yet you bring his matter to public domain. What's the difference between you two.

Face Sit him he will never ask you for money again. Like wise let him deep throat you, he won't need to ask you before you give him money. It has worked for many, including myself. x.x.x™

u should hv given him d money mayb he rily nid ur assistant, n wil refund u back. d ones he has been given u nko

Try to apologise and let him know wot u wanna do wid d money... And 2me there is notin bad borrowing money from your sister so far he's in nid of it and u dnt want to give ur own

happyjuliet:
Lol Op ur bf broke oooo common 2k na he gather all those names give u naa wa ooo, d point is, u are just his side chick coz a guy who truly loves u won't utter such.

I suspect there is a lot of history here. Maybe she has been demonstrating stingy for a long time and "the man must do everything" attitude. Probably this 2k wahala was the last straw for the guy and all the pent up emotions were let lose. But I could be be wrong and the guy is probably a jacka$$. On a sidenote, no responsible man has any business being with a woman you can't rely on when times are really bad.

QatarPlayboy:

Sure i did. u havent turned down his request to borrow b4 doesnt mean u shud do it one day. And d sad tin here is dat u did it probably d day he needed money most. i wud advice u jettison ur thought of nt talking to him atleast 2nite bcus if he does hv my kinda heart, i tel u babe, u might never hear frm me again xcept u cal. and i might even decide to pay u back wit a french sex for ur elder sis who helped me wen i was in lion's den, same tin my "gf" cudnt do. cal him babe, and apologise.

Is that how u sleep around with ladies bcus they do u a favour? Ur girlfrnd is in once chance.

promgurlP:
Hi there fellow romancelanders, this is actually my first time writing here and I'm writing this out of frustration and anger. Well here it goes:

Today before my boyfriend left for work, he asked me to give him N2000 that when he gets back he'll give it back in the evening. But I told him I wanted to use the money for my personal use. He then asked me what I wanted to use the money for and I was like it's my money and I don't have to tell you. Initially he thought I was joking cos he asked me like three times but I gave him the same answer.
He insulted me calling me a useless and selfish person, that I'm very inconsiderate and wicked. He said it's today he knows I'm a certified calabar witch and the kind of hatred he has for me is making him feel disgusted. At first I was laughing, thinking he was joking but when he said I'm not taking him seriously I knew this n.igga meant every word he had just said.
And the worst part of it all, he went to complain to my elder sister that I'm refusing to give him the money and I know fully well that he is in need of it urgently. He collected the N2000 from my sister and left my house.
I'm just sitting here wondering, so it's because of only 2k my boyfriend is behaving like this, why did he have to embarrass me like that in front of my sister by complaining to her and borrowing money form her too? I'm feeling so bad that I've chosen not to speak to him again, at least not this night. What do you all think, was I wrong? What should I do now?

Wow . You are a good girlfriend. I wish there are many like you.

Certified Calabar witch!!!

There's something very sexy about young witches; especially when they are from Calabar. OP, holla at me with your contact details... I am in love with you.

promgurlP:

Not just one! Don't say what you don't know please.. it's the money to balance TWENTY for your information

You keep highlighting the fact that this is not the first time you've been giving him money, what do you intend to achieve by that? OK lemme guess, you wanna paint him bad whilst you're the saint.

Are you implying that he's only at the receiving end while you're the one making all the sacrifices to keep the relationship afloat? I blame guys that request financial aid from their babe, if she ends up giving you, the whole world must know. SMH

Today before my boyfriend left for work, he asked me to give him N2000 that when he gets back he'll give it back in the evening. But I told him I wanted to use the money for my personal use. He then asked me what I wanted to use the money for and I was like it's my money and I don't have to tell you. Initially he thought I was joking cos he asked me like three times but I gave him the same answer.
He insulted me calling me a useless and selfish person, that I'm very inconsiderate and wicked. He said it's today he knows I'm a certified calabar witch and the kind of hatred he has for me is making him feel disgusted. At first I was laughing, thinking he was joking but when he said I'm not taking him seriously I knew this n.igga meant every word he had just said.: Maybe He want to dump U 4 ur 6ta. That's why E use borrowing Money reking @U. Buh what's Ur decided too?

[quote author=Mistermamus post=40796055]but u cn collect?[/quote ] Collecting is allowed but giving is not

Shoot him, and every thing will be just fine

promgurlP:
Omg!!! Will you just read all my posts before you comment? Please

I av red it. He ask u 4 2k and he also said later n d evni he wil gve u. Y don't u gve him try. But wat I don't like 4rm him is 2 tins.
1: 4 nsuitn u he shudt av done dat @ all.

2: and he went straight 2 ur elda sister and complained 2 her and n took d 2k 4rm her na there he take 4uc.k up.

promgurlP:
For you to know, I've never in my life asked my boyfriend for money ever since we started our relationship... I don't collect money from him even if he begs me cos he needs it more than me.. so don't say that about me please

I want to recommend you to someone very nice,trust me! You sound really good

mizquote:
I can never lend my bf money.

you will lend when you have one.

hehehehe... certified calabar witch. Nafdac reg no 666000

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promgurlP:
Omg that's really mean and so uncalled for

akpaniko

JrizzyJosh:
But wait o! That Nigga is truly broke and not his first time of asking. .He nor get hand to take hustle? Real Niggas hustle for himself and his family. ..#Teamhustler

I'm sure that Bigga is cute,cute guys don't hustle,they always depend on ladies...a male version of golddiggers.

Small pikin they worry una

preetyb:

Is that how u sleep around with ladies bcus they do u a favour? Ur girlfrnd is in once chance.

Bt i cant remember ever tellin u there is a gf. So which gf re u talking abt?

Live that guy and come bunk with me baby

with me u dont need no money
i will be ur ATM
but sometimes e go be 50/50
live that Nigger oh cos he gone wreck u,for 2k and he said all that he doesnt deserve jack of ur money or ur love
#Holaaturboiifmyadvisemakesenceinodejokeohhhh

MrsPhyno:
Ur boyfriend na mumu. How can u ask someone for something of theirs and still be insulting them on top of it?

I hate that kind of attitude.....

it happen when you beg for love.

MrsPhyno:
Ur boyfriend na mumu. How can u ask someone for something of theirs and still be insulting them on top of it?

I hate that kind of attitude.....

it happens when you beg for love.

I can never beg my gf for money when I start dating....
I have guy who can always help me with a bail out fund anytime, Any-day and Anywhere

dammytosh:
u need another boyfriend.

Call 911 with code name Calabar Witch. I will attend to you personally.

Bad Officer, I feel you . LOL

Since u knw nobody here stays wit u......y are u asking us.......it seems u have made up ur mind anyway

promgurlP:
Because you were with us right? Don't give the same analysis for all cases nah