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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 2:55pm On May 21, 2016
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fabulous2000(m): 3:03pm On May 21, 2016
fabulous2000:
Xup 2 xxtedyxx..ilegend..dj boost..and everybody...help me out in dis fresh chick...
My primary skool frnd...nw we ar both in diff uni...though I've seen her once since primary skool...we reconnect through Facebook...she ask 4 mai whatsapp...we been chatting and I was inspired 2 call her through d answer 2 a guys questions here....call her 2day nd she sound comfortable with me..though joke with her a lot abt her skool....hw do I step up dis game....I don't want 2 rush her...pls reply me fast guyz...
abeg guyz::.::reply dis my message nw
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:02pm On May 22, 2016
craiggylad:
teddy ah geh diz bae wey I won runz she jst dey gve me shit,anytym I call she alwaz say she z busy nd d background alwaz noisy,wat do I do?

Wow...perhaps she is really busy...dont push her...give her time..ignore her flr a while..find new girls and run other packages....den try her again. If she is always in a noisey environment...and always busy...u cant blame her...just free her..Nd focus ur other babe packages

I hail
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fabulous2000(m): 2:23pm On May 22, 2016
xxxtedyxxx:


Wow...perhaps she is really busy...dont push her...give her time..ignore her flr a while..find new girls and run other packages....den try her again. If she is always in a noisey environment...and always busy...u cant blame her...just free her..Nd focus ur other babe packages

I hail
Boss..pls reply ma question...please
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:14pm On May 22, 2016
fabulous2000:

abeg guyz::.::reply dis my message nw
..sorry for the delay bro.

U need to chill back first. Yea u r right...u don't need to rush this.

1) U guys are only reconnecting after such long time..what u wana do is lay back..and use humour as ur nbr one power. The jokes fun of past school days. U wana make her comfortable and free with u as ever. Stay clear of all dating relationship talk...like " so do u av a bf??..

2) make sure she is investing...I tink she is doin that already...so not much talk here. Play ur cards..ryt..and always give her the gift of missing u...don't ball...talk for long...free her/ ignore for while. U av other babes to package too.

3).. Start acting like a bf. U don't need her permission to do this. Don't ask abt her relationship life..or bf...or sex...just assume the position of a bf immediately.

4) Ignoring nbr 3 will make her friendzone u.

There u have it bro.



U get abi?
I hail.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fabulous2000(m): 12:17am On May 23, 2016
xxxtedyxxx:
..sorry for the delay bro.

U need to chill back first. Yea u r right...u don't need to rush this.

1) U guys are only reconnecting after such long time..what u wana do is lay back..and use humour as ur nbr one power. The jokes fun of past school days. U wana make her comfortable and free with u as ever. Stay clear of all dating relationship talk...like " so do u av a bf??..

2) make sure she is investing...I tink she is doin that already...so not much talk here. Play ur cards..ryt..and always give her the gift of missing u...don't ball...talk for long...free her/ ignore for while. U av other babes to package too.

3).. Start acting like a bf. U don't need her permission to do this. Don't ask abt her relationship life..or bf...or sex...just assume the position of a bf immediately.

4) Ignoring nbr 3 will make her friendzone u.

There u have it bro.



U get abi?
I hail.
Thanks bro apprecite....will be updating u
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by craiggylad(m): 12:08pm On May 23, 2016
xxxtedyxxx:
..sorry for the delay bro.

U need to chill back first. Yea u r right...u don't need to rush this.

1) U guys are only reconnecting after such long time..what u wana do is lay back..and use humour as ur nbr one power. The jokes fun of past school days. U wana make her comfortable and free with u as ever. Stay clear of all dating relationship talk...like " so do u av a bf??..

2) make sure she is investing...I tink she is doin that already...so not much talk here. Play ur cards..ryt..and always give her the gift of missing u...don't ball...talk for long...free her/ ignore for while. U av other babes to package too.

3).. Start acting like a bf. U don't need her permission to do this. Don't ask abt her relationship life..or bf...or sex...just assume the position of a bf immediately.

4) Ignoring nbr 3 will make her friendzone u.

There u have it bro.



U get abi?
I hail.
,teddy aldo av asked d gal out b4 she said no,nw iono wat appened I jst wana bang her nd I asked her out again bt diz tym no ansa yet,anytym I try bringin up our datin issue she will jst immediately switch it 2 anoda discussion fast fast(I jst dey luk am she dey form flash)she z my departmental gal,she hardly call unless wit etisalat free 60sec.tell me woh 2 do bro
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by heryurh(m): 5:50pm On May 23, 2016
What's good Badasses. I know you've been good & i know you're feeling fvcking amazing right now.
Anyways let's keep that aside for now
I know you're wondering what does this modafvcker have to say right now but not to worry i won't be saying anything sticky for now.
Alright, lemme just cut to the chase. 10pm tonight I'd drop a "Deadly Attraction Hooker" which i learnt and my advice is that you use it every fvcking time, it boosts your ego incase you're worried what to say when you approach a girl.

So later Bruv.
Peace.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by heryurh(m): 10:16pm On May 23, 2016
[b]Hey There MotherFvcker!

Heryurh

So earlier i promised something,didn't I?

I didn't?

Thank God.. I thought i did, you know i was kinda scared but since i didn't I'm calm now.

See you Bitches around!
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Ok Chill... You honestly didn't think i was serious did you?

C'mon! So someone cannot play with again abi? grin

Lol...

Alright down to Business or should i say Work or Fun?...

Whatever the fvck you wanna call it man!

English can be very much annoying.. Ish!

So the Deadly Shiit i promised to give to you... I call it


[size=32pt]HELLO-GOODBYE HOOKER[/size]


Now what would think when i say that?

You know what, I'd just go straight to the point,what it simply means is this...

Walk Up to any girl and say "Hello,***** Goodbye" all in 30 Seconds or less.


The ***** up there,you could just insert anything there and i mean it when i say ANYTHING!

Tease Her!

Okay let me give you a quick example right now...

I walk into a party like i own the place,after a couple of minutes I'm all chilled... So many hot girls in the party so i walk to this one and am like..



[size=20pt] "..Hello, is it true you hate chicken?!"


And she'd be like "..No! Who said that?!"


And am like " Oh really? I heard a different story from those guys over there.. Ok Whatever! I gotta run,ttyl!" [/size]


And you walk away.You know the Amazing thing about this is opening that kinda conversation again would be way lot EASIER!

So got out there MotherFvcker and try this on almost every girl at that Party or anywhere else. Another thing is that this Shiit also aids in Preselection which i believe you know it's meaning.

Be that Action Taker!
Be that Amazing Version of Yourself.

I'm Mentored by Jason C.

Got love for that dude! No homo!

Peace Dude.




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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kingstylo01(m): 7:14pm On May 25, 2016
this thread is really cool. have been following it on ghost mode.....
xxxtedyxxx I have been hearing about scrambler method, used in hacking a ladies mind, do you have any idea about it? heard is a series of questions
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Teesan: 11:13pm On May 25, 2016
Oga Ted abg I collected a girls number from ma friend.. She's he's cousin.. Hw I wan take run the package + she's not on whatsapp
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by 12month: 3:42pm On May 26, 2016
heryurh:
[b]Hey There MotherFvcker!

Heryurh

So earlier i promised something,didn't I?

I didn't?

Thank God.. I thought i did, you know i was kinda scared but since i didn't I'm calm now.

See you Bitches around!
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Ok Chill... You honestly didn't think i was serious did you?

C'mon! So someone cannot play with again abi? grin

Lol...

Alright down to Business or should i say Work or Fun?...

Whatever the fvck you wanna call it man!

English can be very much annoying.. Ish!

So the Deadly Shiit i promised to give to you... I call it


[size=32pt]HELLO-GOODBYE HOOKER[/size]


Now what would think when i say that?

You know what, I'd just go straight to the point,what it simply means is this...

Walk Up to any girl and say "Hello,***** Goodbye" all in 30 Seconds or less.


The ***** up there,you could just insert anything there and i mean it when i say ANYTHING!

Tease Her!

Okay let me give you a quick example right now...

I walk into a party like i own the place,after a couple of minutes I'm all chilled... So many hot girls in the party so i walk to this one and am like..



[size=20pt] "..Hello, is it true you hate chicken?!"


And she'd be like "..No! Who said that?!"


And am like " Oh really? I heard a different story from those guys over there.. Ok Whatever! I gotta run,ttyl!" [/size]


And you walk away.You know the Amazing thing about this is opening that kinda conversation again would be way lot EASIER!

So got out there MotherFvcker and try this on almost every girl at that Party or anywhere else. Another thing is that this Shiit also aids in Preselection which i believe you know it's meaning.

Be that Action Taker!
Be that Amazing Version of Yourself.

I'm Mentored by Jason C.

Got love for that dude! No homo!

Peace Dude.




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Rubbish
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Melancholy(m): 4:46pm On May 26, 2016
Omo mehn! Awon guys binu gan o. Lol
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 8:05pm On May 26, 2016
One Gurl I was about building a rapport with deleted me dunno y....now anoda one I took out n took her to my crib without her consent ....I called her wen she was with her bf....she said....she was with her guy...blocked me again....how do I unravel all dis?...
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:01pm On May 26, 2016
diggy4real:
One Gurl I was about building a rapport with deleted me dunno y....now anoda one I took out n took her to my crib without her consent ....I called her wen she was with her bf....she said....she was with her guy...blocked me again....how do I unravel all dis?...


Sth must be wrong smwhere. I sense ur a little desperate in ur game.

To build rapport easily...u must av used and mastered these elements before hand. Elements like teasing, making her laugh, nicknames. Etc.

Never take a girl out without her consent. Its risky considering cases of girls framing guys on rape allegations.

Focus more on the process...and not on the goals. Also try working the numbers.

Don't let this affect u negatively. Don't be confused. Get out there....and continue your game..
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:09pm On May 26, 2016
Teesan:
Oga Ted abg I collected a girls number from ma friend.. She's he's cousin.. Hw I wan take run the package + she's not on whatsapp
nice..but next time...e go better to get d nbr ursef...it paves the way and makes things easy.

U gats to talk to her..I will advise u make ur move physically before running any fone game..so as to avoid all the who is this and how did u get ma nbr is.

However, if u guys are on talking terms already...u can start by sending her a normal gdmorming flirty message den following up with a call in d afternoon or evening.

All in all..u wana avoid the "how did u get ma nbr" question.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Omuka: 9:30pm On May 26, 2016
Hmm this gal texts me first but when we start chatting she starts to behave like she is not interested in my chat and i'm not boring. How do i decode her.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 3:34am On May 27, 2016
xxxtedyxxx:



Sth must be wrong smwhere. I sense ur a little desperate in ur game.

To build rapport easily...u must av used and mastered these elements before hand. Elements like teasing, making her laugh, nicknames. Etc.

Never take a girl out without her consent. Its risky considering cases of girls framing guys on rape allegations.

Focus more on the process...and not on the goals. Also try working the numbers.

Don't let this affect u negatively. Don't be confused. Get out there....and continue your game..

How do I continue? Cos I still want this chicks......plus how do I build rapports? Wen sm1 doznt chat.....cos constant calls can make sm1 rlly look desperate.......I don't wanna send her a text message buh being apologetic..... I feel is gonna make me weaken me....so how do I get them back?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Yhemit(m): 12:34pm On May 27, 2016
About that my girl, I can't help.... always thinking about her everyday for the past 3 years now, there's no compliment in dzworld I ve not rain on her (via whatsapp only) but lack the mind to tell her to her face. am confused like this girl, what can I do..... can you help me,by just giving me some insight on how to ask her if she love or I should forget her.

some vital key green light I wasted from dz damsel are

* she do chat me up till midnight
* she called me for her dept party
* she once asked me if we both can travel back home together
* she tell me everything about her n her family
* how her popsy want her to study science course
* she once asked me about my hostel hall (where I stayed)My fault, which I think turn her off
* I do snub her, not intentionally but due to my shyness
* I didn't remember her birthday day
* she thinks am making jest of her,with my compliment about her. which sounds negative in hear.
* Her best friend do see me with ladies
*once asked her why she is not replying me, her response was that she as view it.... (smiling at me) and behold before I reach me room. saw her reply

# is it possible to get back to her, because whenever I try to talk to her, she's always in hurry to leave.... with smile in her face.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:35pm On May 31, 2016
Guys check out this post if ur having issues with getting girls to behave the right wah with u.


Its a long post...but try and read to the end.

www.nairaland.com/3129312/danger-over-focusing-how-want-women

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:42pm On May 31, 2016
Yhemit:
About that my girl, I can't help.... always thinking about her everyday for the past 3 years now, there's no compliment in dzworld I ve not rain on her (via whatsapp only) but lack the mind to tell her to her face. am confused like this girl, what can I do..... can you help me,by just giving me some insight on how to ask her if she love or I should forget her.

some vital key green light I wasted from dz damsel are

* she do chat me up till midnight
* she called me for her dept party
* she once asked me if we both can travel back home together
* she tell me everything about her n her family
* how her popsy want her to study science course
* she once asked me about my hostel hall (where I stayed)My fault, which I think turn her off
* I do snub her, not intentionally but due to my shyness
* I didn't remember her birthday day
* she thinks am making jest of her,with my compliment about her. which sounds negative in hear.
* Her best friend do see me with ladies
*once asked her why she is not replying me, her response was that she as view it.... (smiling at me) and behold before I reach me room. saw her reply

# is it possible to get back to her, because whenever I try to talk to her, she's always in hurry to leave.... with smile in her face.



From ur posts..u seem to be a nice guy. U like her...go for it...dats if ur delay has not resulted in her friendzoning u already.

U need to stop thinking and over analysis the whole matter- that's the trap most guys fall into. U need to take action now. Take action and start acting like her bf already. U don't need to ask her to be her bf or whether she loves u. Just assume the role of a bf.

Also,.from what u wrote up there, its obvious she is invested already to some degree..u need to feed off that. Failure to act now myt result in being friendzoned.

Don't be shy...and go easy on the compliments bro..u need to focus more on ur one on one convo with her. Tell her/compliment her physically. Don't be shy...u can do it.

And pls...don't ask her if u can be her bf..or whether she can be ur gf...oh...


Cheers...

Update us..

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:52pm On May 31, 2016
diggy4real:


How do I continue? Cos I still want this chicks......plus how do I build rapports? Wen sm1 doznt chat.....cos constant calls can make sm1 rlly look desperate.......I don't wanna send her a text message buh being apologetic..... I feel is gonna make me weaken me....so how do I get them back?

That's y u need to focus on other girls....flex and run other packages...tjst way..u will condition and adapt properly which will further reduce any desperate moves on urr part.

I gues u avent done enuf work in stage 1 rate. Its important for u to understand...rapport is stage 2 stuff...its what comes after u av done some work attracting her via( teasing. Jokes, role play, nick name etc).

I will suggest u forget rapport now..and focus on attraction.

Free her for like 5 days...den call her..

Tease her, about how its been a while...don't tell her u miss her...u need to break her, tell her " how u av been...I guess u v been busy wit ur sugar daddies".u grab?

U need to break her...and get her to initiate convo. She will do just that when she sees how interesting d convo is.

If after all these..she is still stuck up...na to jjlust free her...lots of girls yapa..no need to waste time on one.

But all in all..u need to break her..fet her to talk . Interesting topics will do...( What she aite for breakfast launch/did she cook it her sef or her sweet mum made it"wink..etc
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:03pm On May 31, 2016
Omuka:
Hmm this gal texts me first but when we start chatting she starts to behave like she is not interested in my chat and i'm not boring. How do i decode her.


For her to initiate the chat means she is slightly invested...its left for u to take on on an emotional ride .

What do u chat her about?... It myt not be her fault..loook into ur kinda messages bro.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:18pm On May 31, 2016
craiggylad:
,teddy aldo av asked d gal out b4 she said no,nw iono wat appened I jst wana bang her nd I asked her out again bt diz tym no ansa yet,anytym I try bringin up our datin issue she will jst immediately switch it 2 anoda discussion fast fast(I jst dey luk am she dey form flash)she z my departmental gal,she hardly call unless wit etisalat free 60sec.tell me woh 2 do bro

Don't ask her out...assume u guys are on. Parole already...and she will flow with u..asking her only puts her in a logical position to say yes or no - which is sth we must avoid.

She is not really invested...don't bring up dating ish again...just assume u r datinf her already...and act d way a bf flows with her gurl..u will be amazed how responsive she will be.


Girls wana be led....so lead her bro.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Melancholy(m): 11:26pm On Jun 01, 2016
Xxxtedyxxx,ilegend Is there any technique to use on this babe i suddenly liked but only had seconds to flirt with due to the fact that she was in haste to meet her mum somewhere on that day. Afterwards, about a week i met her mum telling her to greet this girl for me while including my name which the girl dont know, already putting her in that curious state made me happy atleast if her mother relayed my greeting to her,she would be curious to know the exact person. But right now, am lacking patience cos she is now music in my head. Am having her number with me which i got from a brother, but to avert question of how i got her number, how can i double talk my way out and sound convincing of not mentioning the person that gave her number to me, and still getting on with her perfectly with no flaws? Or better still wait till we meet?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:05pm On Jun 02, 2016
Melancholy:
Xxxtedyxxx,ilegend Is there any technique to use on this babe i suddenly liked but only had seconds to flirt with due to the fact that she was in haste to meet her mum somewhere on that day. Afterwards, about a week i met her mum telling her to greet this girl for me while including my name which the girl dont know, already putting her in that curious state made me happy atleast if her mother relayed my greeting to her,she would be curious to know the exact person. But right now, am lacking patience cos she is now music in my head. Am having her number with me which i got from a brother, but to avert question of how i got her number, how can i double talk my way out and sound convincing of not mentioning the person that gave her number to me, and still getting on with her perfectly with no flaws? Or better still wait till we meet?


Don't ruin ur chances bro....chilll and get her digit....ur sef...its better that way. Its better to avoid any hiccups instead of trying to deal/solve them..or to start explaning stories/reasons..which will obviously lower ur status and kill any attraction.

Play tight.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Melancholy(m): 10:27pm On Jun 02, 2016
xxxtedyxxx:



Don't ruin ur chances bro....chilll and get her digit....ur sef...its better that way. Its better to avoid any hiccups instead of trying to deal/solve them..or to start explaning stories/reasons..which will obviously lower ur status and kill any attraction.

Play tight.
Thanks boss!
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by versashee: 11:35pm On Jun 02, 2016
I want to table my own issue down.


i am 21 and have still not yet straphed. i think i am ready but currently have no girlfriend but ex. i wish to bang her but she insidted thst before i do so i must promise to come back to her and be with her forever. i dont know what to do in this situation.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 8:59pm On Jun 04, 2016
versashee:
I want to table my own issue down.


i am 21 and have still not yet straphed. i think i am ready but currently have no girlfriend but ex. i wish to bang her but she insidted thst before i do so i must promise to come back to her and be with her forever. i dont know what to do in this situation.

The fact that you have not straphed at 21 is not a curse or sign of weakness, there are lots of better things out there apart from sex. Trust me, in a few years to come, you will look back and realized that sex is overrated. I wish I had never straphed at 21, anyways just get your priorities right and have fun.

If you still need to straph then that your ex is not someone you want to start with. She wants to use her hole to control you and it won't be in your interest. Find a hobby and work on it, live life. In life, the most important thing is self-improvement.

Peace

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by versashee: 6:25am On Jun 05, 2016
tr3y:


The fact that you have not straphed at 21 is not a curse or sign of weakness, there are lots of better things out there apart from sex. Trust me, in a few years to come, you will look back and realized that sex is overrated. I wish I had never straphed at 21, anyways just get your priorities right and have fun.

If you still need to straph then that your ex is not someone you want to start with. She wants to use her hole to control you and it won't be in your interest. Find a hobby and work on it, live life. In life, the most important thing is self-improvement.

Peace



U don spoil my mood! embarassed
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JhyMedex: 7:43pm On Jun 06, 2016
xxxtedyxxx:


Wow...perhaps she is really busy...dont push her...give her time..ignore her flr a while..find new girls and run other packages....den try her again. If she is always in a noisey environment...and always busy...u cant blame her...just free her..Nd focus ur other babe packages

I hail
Tedy boss.. She jst said she loved me flat out...
I like her bt I don't know if I luv her..
Hw do I respond pls...
Epp me abeg sharply.. Tanx
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:23pm On Jun 07, 2016
JhyMedex:

Tedy boss.. She jst said she loved me flat out...
I like her bt I don't know if I luv her..
Hw do I respond pls...
Epp me abeg sharply.. Tanx

As e dey hot. Bro.

U need not reply ,I love u too..just show it in ur actions. Act like a bf

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