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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Nobody: 12:01am On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas: Chaiii You like fight o ! You just dey dash am out like AK47 !!! |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by thesuave10(m): 12:01am On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE: [b]So in your mind because it is the least of your problems then it should not be handled. Young man think na . Pls what is marriage adding? Marriage is a house built on the foundation you laid up before marriage. Bros if you didnt get to know yourselves properly the marriage will fail. The key is not only on sexual compatibility stop reasoning anyhow. The key is taking everything thing into perspective including sex. Now let me advise Cuz you're obviously inexperienced. A man who is less concerned about his sex life like you will have problems. It's better to be in check with your partner in all things emotionally physically sexually etc. Because sex is such a big deal to you, you have removed it from the equation and made it scared IN your world. So why does it become food in marriage? Because you think she's all yours abi. There's a word in the dictionary called divorce look it up. What you dont know is lack of sexual compatibility causes different problems and you'll be wondering were it came from. Now I know your problem so you think if you and your partner and not sexually compatible she'll come and say "babe we are not compatible sexually o" hahaha see this man. She'll just change mood attitude everything and then you will just be confused and not know what the problem is which will make you make greater mistakes Oga be wise and receive sense[/b] 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by FILEBE(m): 12:02am On Aug 15, 2017 |
thesuave10: What are we saying what are you saying? I said the essence of relationship is to know your partner before marriage. If we agree to court or date then it is because we love ourselves and we have marriage in mind. I dont know how we came about Serious and unserious relationship if not for thi sex thing . Abi what is a serious relationship? Isnt it the one you guys have it in mind to marry? and the unserious one is what we call a fling or whatever, that one you are just attracted to him/her but deep down u can't marry her. Men are logical beings bro.very logical and wise gan . Also we are manipulative. That was how we came about the "blue ball" story just to get laid out of pity. lol. imagine how many girls are falling and have felt for it? lol. We just have to always call a spade a spade. Truth should be said every now and then. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by thesuave10(m): 12:03am On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas: hahaha e pain the chimp You're a cartoon, you don't exist in the real world 5 Likes
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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by thesuave10(m): 12:06am On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE: You are high on waterleaf weed bros. So as you're entering a relationship, you know that you'll marry her? So as your dating and you know that you'll marry her, why don't you have sex with her? After all you know that you'll marry her. Now what happens if you don't marry her? Baba stop making fallacies up and down this thread 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Tedassie(m): 12:07am On Aug 15, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 12:07am On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas: So what's the way forward? We can't continue like this nah. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by pocohantas(f): 12:08am On Aug 15, 2017 |
truthsayer009: I don't like fight. When girls say, guys shouldn't date without money...they flare up. But they say girls shouldn't date if they don't want to have sex. That's arrant rubbish coming from both sides, relationship is way beyond sex and money, if at all it is present...it should be mutual. If a girl looks you in the eye and tells you, she can't date you without money, will you find it funny? You'll probably run to NL to create a thread and they'll jump on it like monkeys to call her olosho. No one should make his sexual preference a standard. Do your own, let others do their own. What pains me most is, create another thread now...saying Nigerian girls are lose. These same hypocrites would be there to judge. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Denko2721987(m): 12:10am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Ifedith: Ah.. I dont understand nairaland women again ooo.. Is there a kind of war going on between nairaland men and women cos its becoming too obvious... The OP is very clear with his point and this is an opinion i have personally harboured within myself.. I see women as keepers and men as the seekers.. If as a woman, u decide to be celibate, then that woman has absolutely no business been in any form of 'informal' relationship except its strictly and clearly defined from the onset.. Infact if u ask me, i would say she completely stays out and off any 'informal' or 'undefined' relationship with the opposite sex other than those of her immediate or extended families.. This is just the same case as avoiding water if u dont want to get wet or avoiding raw inorganic sugar if you are severally diabetic knowing fully well it might kill you.. Its as simple as blinking an eye and as clear as you'l see the sun on an uncloudy bright day and the OP is 99% (i'l leave the 1% for people with differing opinions) spot on with his analysis and conclusion on this issue.. So i dont understand why nairaland ladies are fussing about and almost embarrasingly opposing this solid fact here.. Come on ladies.. Kilode.. Abeg nairaland boys/men make una beg them oo cos e be like say una done offend them somewhere which has turned to pure undiluted animosity which is poisonous and dangerous because like play like play we could start having an anti-men movement, believe and ideology spread among the women folk of this country.. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Yuji: 12:10am On Aug 15, 2017 |
If sex could make men marry you, all prostitutes would be married by now. A man stays where he is well loved, not where he is well sexed. So don't allow satan deceive you. You do not have to engage in premarital sex to keep a man..... It is high time we understand this... 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by FILEBE(m): 12:11am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Gerrard59: @Bolded. what is good for Greece is also good for Uganda . before the bolded. hmmn. Whether it exceeds its elastic limits or not , no girl will be proud to say to her husband her high bodycount except they are pornsters . lol. I am saying sex should be mutual. If a girl asks me for money before she lets me sleep with her then she is love peddler. If she zips up because of purity, morality or controlling her urge then i should respect her decision and work towards mine. It is a relationship . Every relationship should not be sex oriented na. Romance is their. Why are we justifying a reason to have sex na. Kilode na! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by yellow237(m): 12:12am On Aug 15, 2017 |
gudofuck231:exactly u just said my mind but u forget to add that her father is also a member of the bingo club.some girls go just dey talk rubbish forgotten that they have father,brothers,uncles who aren't any saint at all 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by thesuave10(m): 12:13am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Yuji: If you tell me where anybody said a woman can win a man with sex, I'll deactivate my account. Be there smoking bitterleaf 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Nobody: 12:15am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Silentscreamer:.. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by pocohantas(f): 12:15am On Aug 15, 2017 |
SlayQueenSlayer: They should live their life and leave ladies vagina alone. If they are not checking the mileage of our vagina. They are checking the diameter... The depth... Na wetin sef!!! their future dey inside there? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Yuji: 12:16am On Aug 15, 2017 |
thesuave10:Stop quoting me with trash I only aired my opinion. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by yellow237(m): 12:17am On Aug 15, 2017 |
some of all this ladies ranting ontop this tread aren't any virgin at all some of them went as far as using their bum-bum as their dp,after they will come here forming holy Ragina na God go judge una......., *make una no quote me at all o to avoid the anger of Zeus 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by FILEBE(m): 12:17am On Aug 15, 2017 |
thesuave10: Bro! kilodw gan ! han han! what is it with you and this sex sef? han han! I am a dating her, i will marry her. If she opens ... i enter. If she doesn't open ,it wont change a thing. If she opens and i enter and we ended up not getting married, then we both wont be angry. It was mutual. Abi? Sex with a g.friend is not your birthright. It should be mutual. Shikena! wen entering a relationship, define your aim and goals , state your terms,if that is what you want and if she agrees(mutual). no shaking. If she doesn't agree. Move on and not make it a point that you must 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by IamLEGEND1: 12:18am On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE:Get married first.... Experience that shit_ before you come back come yarn dust. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by oviejnr(m): 12:18am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Im currently in a no sex relationship, it can be really annoying and tiring sometimes but its an individual decision as long as shes virtuous cos I can be a fool for no woman. By the way I get all the pleasures that I need elsewhere without strings 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by FILEBE(m): 12:22am On Aug 15, 2017 |
thesuave10: if you have succeeded in tearing hymens up and down, suceeded in tasting all species here and there all in the name of compatibility, and you later found who you are "sexually compatible" with . Pls, Bros, who will marry all the girls you have drilled here and there? come to think of it sef . dude, what if men have a vagina and the ladies have the rod, will you say they should be testing you if you are sexually compatible first? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by thesuave10(m): 12:23am On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE: Your sense is irredeemable. I am done with you. This my diagnosis. I'll get back to you when it returns 5 Likes
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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by yellow237(m): 12:23am On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas:like if I ask u to open now u no open abi? |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by yellow237(m): 12:23am On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas:like if I ask u to open now u no open abi? |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by atheistandproud(m): 12:23am On Aug 15, 2017 |
udemejack:Same experience here bro. Why person go dey chop food without meat, infact the next thing, them come carry our food go. Ogun go kill many girls oh. I give her red card instanta. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by thesuave10(m): 12:24am On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE: You can't argue without fallacies abi. Get some sense then we'll talk 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Ifedith(m): 12:24am On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE:But they are also testing us too, na girls dey even enjoy sex pass, and it's a fact. We just have a higher libido. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by demefa(m): 12:24am On Aug 15, 2017 |
I here by declare as the General of Nairaland that any gal who refuse a guy sex should be sent to prison. Haba that hole too sweet abeg, especially the ones with big ass 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by 1234IKECHhukwu: 12:24am On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE:My guy sorry to dissapoint all u said here is rubbish, u made mention of no reason to justify our request for sex,but there is every reason to justify their request for money & other goodies as their right in a relationship.U made mention of guys making it in terms of(money) before being entitled to sex ,so in essence how much do u think a guy should worth before being entitled to sex,since it is now based on the highest bidder,when in essence it should come naturally whether their is money or no money. U re one of the reasons why guys as soon as they get some little change in their pocket they term to use this ladies at will & dump them at will, since it is all about money. If it was a lady that wrote this rubbish I 'll d have called her a hoe.On the contrary how can I marry someone that has given sex to some other dude(s) some where & has refused to let me in, on the grounds that I must marry her before any show, m sorry I can only do that for a virgin who has the absolute right for such a magnanimous request. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by FILEBE(m): 12:24am On Aug 15, 2017 |
IamLEGEND1:Oga. it is not a disease. Stop justifying your reasons to satisfy your sexual urges every now and then. Who the hell even brought that sexual compatibility crap? lemme ask you this question. Have you ever had blue balls? |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by thesuave10(m): 12:25am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Yuji: Ok 5 Likes
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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Skubidude(m): 12:26am On Aug 15, 2017 |
FILEBE: Big lie. Oga be realistic for once na haba. If you meet marriage counselors they would tell u about 80% of failed marriages has to do with sex or indirectly related with sex, so stop playing the ostrich already. 4 Likes |
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