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Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Timekeeper: 3:43pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Thanks you all.. I really appreciate your advice.... I'm so much grateful |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by openmine(m): 3:45pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
mercy0008:Spot on! 1 Like |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by yashau(m): 3:45pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
zinnyzee:wow, beauty and brain |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Cocao(f): 3:53pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Nope. She's not ready to date you. When a lady begins to tell you stuff like that, let it go. Else, you will get hurt and cry foul. Save yourself today. 1 Like |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by openmine(m): 3:56pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Timekeeper:bro that's the point the lady you quoted is trying to make! U must value and respect yourself enough to move on....that's giving her the space she needs since she is afraid of losing her freedom! infact giving her the needed space by reducing ur calls to her and social media chats can actually make her see what she has really been missing which will influence her decision to change her current stance! Please don't force urself on a lady who is not ready for a relationship! U are too important and sophisticated to even hang around someone like that hoping for a change of mind from her! |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Shugavee(f): 4:02pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
akiOYIBO:no matter the advice he get here!! There is no assurance it would be the right decision!! The only reason she is acting that way is because she doesn’t love u OP, so my dear if u love her date her n make her fall in love with u then u can talk to her about her freedom, u can’t be an ordinary toaster n expect her to change her life cause of you,, it’s not happening bro! Life is about risk, u won’t really know her till u try!! U don’t know how the next girl will be. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by akiOYIBO: 4:03pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
I met a girl. I was dumbfounded and always speechless whenever she comes around. After a month she friendzoned me but without knowing I asked her out she replied "am not ready". I asked her in what aspect, she said she's not just ready. I was devastated, felt so bad and sometimes couldn't feel the taste of meals. The next day she said she was only 20 and wants to make alot of friends, I was even more sad. I was determined to get her so I went to google, did alot of research and to my greatest surprise every information pionted to the fact that she frienzoned me and that I haven't done anything to attract her sexually- like eye contact, confidence, touching sensitive parts on her body. I was told to cut all information, caring or whateva she use to enjoy from me. She came to my house to next day and I asked her not to come to my house again without calling me- I saw the look in her eyes and throughout that I stayed confident and aloof. For days I did not call her, she called and I ignored. She came the next day I told her I had a female visitor all through yesterday and I was busy. She requested we buy corn as usual I asked her "its on u right?" she reluctantly said yes so she bought and we ate. I avoided her for two weeks, she started chasing me. She kissed me one night and was generously discussing her sexual history with, I was marveled for a girl of her age. Alot happened but sex became a daily meal. And I never had to care more, spend more or shiver at her presence. My guy stop talking about marriage, or relationship to her. Focus on getting her sexually attracted. Bleep her if possible and she will be urs forever if u want. Don't be a wimp. 3 Likes |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Nobody: 4:05pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Shugavee(f): 4:06pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
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Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by akiOYIBO: 4:09pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Shugavee:u are dishonest abt this. Must u ladies always be on d defensive? Advice him correctly, tell him the truth. The girl friendzoned him to continue to loot and enjoy him without committing. It has notin to do wit love, its sexual attraction. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by openmine(m): 4:11pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
tunjilana:superb |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Shugavee(f): 4:15pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
akiOYIBO:I hv said my peace,, he can choose to take it or not! |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Timekeeper: 4:17pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Shugavee: Thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Ishilove: 4:25pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Op, you sound like a pussy. Stop cramping her style |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by kokomilala(m): 4:25pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Dump her in a heart beat. You don't deserve the emotional hold up of an unready and unserious lady unless you want to subject yourself to the swings of an emotional roller-coaster |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Lizilicious(f): 4:27pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
When I was ur gals age, I told a guy the exact same thing she's telling u now.. I wanted freedom... Didn't want any guy calling me on the phone and asking me where I was, didn't want a guy telling me my dress is too short or way too tight..( on a general note, I didn't want a monitoring Spirit of a boyfriend).. I think that shit comes with the age.. But along the line, I realized I needed someone that'll call me and ask how my day was, or if I arrived safely from my journey.. I didn't need friends, I needed a friend and a soulmate.. What am I even saying sef, don't rush her. Just take it slowly, she'll definitely come around.. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Nobody: 4:44pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Timekeeper: The above are your mistakes, and I'll explain. Before I explain, click that link below and read this first. https://www.nairaland.com/4659936/demonic-airforce1-vs-explorers-what/1#70028326 When you are done reading, let me know. If you miss this opportunity, you will regret. 3 Likes
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Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by jonadaft: 5:00pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Timekeeper:Don't waste your time She's a slut.... |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Nobody: 5:16pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Guy baba,leave that small girl na,person pikin way just enter uni,say u want her to have a divided attention, partially focusing on her academics, n u fit still use the time sort ur yourself out n become ready for any Marital life in d future.Focus those ur attention n thoughts you are giving that girl on your career n yourself |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by sommyboi(m): 5:22pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
zinnyzee: This my dear, is the ultimate road to the Friendzoneville. But still a nice advice. 1 Like |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by IBBG(m): 5:22pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
zinnyzee:no offence intended to the person i'm quoting, but baba if you do what this person is saying she go friendzone you o. she will never take you serious at all. she will only see you as one of those admirers she can use or on her beck and call. From what you have written, what i can deduce is that she doesn't want a committed relationship just yet. she wants to be free to explore her fantasies without being caged in a relationship, atleast not yet, while she has the opportunities. And from all indication you seem to her like someone who will be monitoring and policing her if she gives in to you in the name of love and it will be choking and irritating for her. how it works out between the both of you depends on what you want. If you are desperate for something serious then cut her off. But if you are open to just having fun then play along with her, and don't ask her out again. just start acting like she is already your girl friend when she is around you. But when she leaves your side just ignore her totally by allowing only her to be the one calling or chatting you up. Even when she complains about it don't change. otherwise she will friendzone you. Act cozy, friendly, romantic when she is around, but when she is not with you just ignore her completely. And watch how the tide will change in your favour. Thats how you handle this kind of girls. 2 Likes |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by FunnyDude(m): 5:36pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
zinnyzee: Abeg park well please.That's how you ladies do. Looking for mumu guy. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by fizzy1: 5:37pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Am fazing the sane issue here!! |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Nobody: 5:40pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
IBBG:. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Nobody: 5:40pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
sommyboi:. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by geezyk(m): 5:52pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
If a lady tells you she doesn't want to date you cos. of her freedom, Oboy just let her be oo, cos if you pressure her into dating you you'll surely regret it. I met a girl like that, she told me she values her freedom, but whenever I call we talk a lot and not a single attitude is given, so I concluded she was into me, so I forced her in to dating me, Atleast I thought I did. I started noticing the attitude and she was always with guys in the school, I acted like it didn't get to me, but with time I became frustrated cos there's this guy he's always with, always!! finally, it was her friend that told me not to kill myself over her cos I was so madly in love with her, that she has another that controls her like mugu, Na when my eyes clear be dat, but the love didn't die, I had to wash her off my system like someone in rehab, fell sick and all before I pulled thru.. So oga, don't tow that lane oo, BTW is her name Emmanuella or Progress? |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by DaddyNimo(m): 6:09pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
girls are evil, they know how to spot a man that has baby brains and confuse him with useless replies when asked out....see as the small girl dey confuse this one brain. lemme advice you bro, what she means is that she's not feeling u simple, and dats the most polite way she could tell u. you've got two options, never talk about ur feelings for her to her again, meet other girl and treat her like one of ur male friends with no special female favours....or keep doing like a baby and watch her keep confusing u and turn u into something worst Dan a friendzoned nigger. you're a man, u should be the one confusing girls not the other way round... man the fork up. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Daeylar(f): 6:09pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Timekeeper: Timekeeper: sorry my comment came from these parts in bold which showed you asking for tips on what will make ladies change their mind from the freedom they (this girl in particular wants ) to the relationship you want. not how to understand what freedom means to ladies and the last part in particular where you said you can't give up because of her freedom but you can if she isn't interested, to me, you were basically saying you don't respect her wish for freedom, you can't respect her wish because it doesn't make sense to you, but you want to date her? you want to date someone who you won't respect what the person says as long as it doesn't make sense to you? even if it means a lot to her? this is somehow which is why I posted this Daeylar: however if you say that is not what you are asking for then all right. |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Uchenaija: 6:12pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Viicfuntop: Everyone you say? In a country where only 40% has DSTV.....How many would have iPhone?
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Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by Timekeeper: 6:19pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
iClef: I'm done reading.... I can't do those things u said n I can't be d bad guy u want me to be.... I prefer to be rejected than act as a bad guy Cox of girl.... Whether nice or bad, ur lady will come... |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by romenna: 6:21pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Hmmmm u r d one forcing her now ohhh. I don't want to hear pemmmm from u tomoro ohh |
Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by folake4u(f): 6:30pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
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