NOPET: I met this girl on facebook when i was doing my NYSC far away North,after i added her on my facebook we started chatting and finally fell in love,she came all the way from PH to visit me and i tried to make her happy, i took her out every evening and we spent at least #5000and after 2 weeks she went back to PH...we loved each other so much. After my service i decided to move from where i intended to stay(Abuja) and came to lagos cos she said she was relocating to lagos to stay with her sister and i have brothers staying in lagos also,in 2011 i came to lagos and i started searching for job and after few weeks she arrived lagos and where her sister was staying was close to where i was staying too so we meet once in a while... i could not treat her well again cos i was not having enough money and work was not forth coming. in 2012 i started teaching i a private secondary school and i was paid #20000 only so i saved some money and in 2012 November i lost my brother whom i was staying with it was so sad and tough for me...we went for the burial in Dec. and after i returned i decided to rent my house with the little money i was saving because i could not continue staying with my brother's wife and kids... iin january this year 2013 i got another job though it was a little better than the teaching job and all this while i give her the little i could and in march this year 2013 God bless me with anothe job with an improved salary so i try and give her the little i could,but with all my explanation she keeps saying i am stingy in september i told her i will be paying #5000 into Account every month and buy her all necessary materials she needs,i paid in her september allowance and i bought a pair of shoe and some wears for her and after 3 weeks she said i should pay 30k into her account that she has something to sort out but i pleaded with her to be patient as i dont have much for now... i called to explain things to her but she wont pick her calls and later her sister picked her call and pretended to be her and told me i should not call her again if i cant give her the 30k... and all effort to make her see reasons with me prove abortive.... now i have moved on with my life and i wish her d best too

Ngokafor:


....yep one of your mums employers needs bj tomorrow so sleep on the net surfing for latest manuals on that, that being the breaks you'll take from your internet scamming...little maggot talking about having time yet you had the nerve to quote me talking trash...you were dying for my attention now you've got it,you suddenly remember 'you are busy'...indeed!...

...listen you homo,poverty has scraped your diseased head a shiny bald thats why in your drug-induced haze,a man spending on his woman equals to a woman being dependent...stick to your gay partner and leave male-female relationships to straight guys/men who has got game..it's clearly not your call so bounce...wheel-barrow pusher with zero balls keep wailing all over the place with your rabbies...cry baby.

Mcbussy:


Keep tagging parents...uncultured who®e. it only shows u have no regards for yours. The fact that your parents failed u and made u forever dependent on men doesn't mean I should be here exchanging crappy parental diss with u.....get a life

Unlike u,I've got things to do. So,move biätch!!!

Enjoy ur day

Ngokafor:


Ill-mannered hoodlum..of course i'll tagg your parents cos your sorry existence is as a result of your irresponsible parents who failed to bring you up properly..ass-wipe that cant tell the basics about relationship...keep dreaming about western -style relationships you hear?..thief!..yet you idiots believe that domestic duties is strictly for women.Son of a bitchy slut you'll reply me alright cos you internet fraudster obviously had no sleep hence your reply at 4.am!..jokes!..
... but i'll be back to give you the come backs scums like you deserve, you can bet on that..

...have a nice day as well...

2s£xy:
You are of the Opinion that a guy should spend on his girlfriend which is BAD!

You also feel when guys oppose such gesture, they are broke and immature or still a kid.

To you, many people here are broke.

Ngozi.... Na wa for you.

2s£xy:
You are of the Opinion that a guy should spend on his girlfriend which is BAD!

You also feel when guys oppose such gesture, they are broke and immature or still a kid.

To you, many people here are broke.

Ngozi.... Na wa for you.

Mcbussy:
Leave the idiôt and let her keep fooling herself...

B4 I say dis,I don't mean to generalise or anythn,cos its not my thing. this Ngozi nah very weak,swagless,crude "igbotic" chic, and that's how "crude" igbo gyals reason.....no offence meant to the enlightened igbos though

Other enlightened females have come here and made their intentions about self-sufficiency known.....but the hungry,loose,lowlife,gold digger from an obviously wretched background insists auctioning her pü$$y to the highest bidder is the way to go...u no dey shame??

To the shallow-minded sociopath, expecting a woman to be independent and self-sufficient = brokeness and poverty ...smh

rigormortis:

people have a way of projecting their situation into everybody

it is a naïve way of facing reality

2s£xy:
Na so we see am o.

BUT I will like to also state that MANY Ibo ladies ARE HARD WORKING.

PERSONALLY, I see nothing wrong in giving your girlfriend money BUT when you make it seem like ITS a MUST, then you will be relegated to the back seat and of course equated to be one of those sluts around, even if you are working. My respect will definitely dwindle and wane toward such a person, irrespective of her beauty.

It also depends on my relationship with the person,too. If it's not a serious relationship I could care less cos I know I will dump her pretty soon.

As for Ngozi, I hope her relationship ends in Marriage. All the best to her sha.

While those they consider broke are here watching with our telescope.

It's really funny how they do it you know; when they don't even know you offline.

2s£xy:
That so miasmic and disgusting bro.

Whats the difference between that and selling your body for cash?

Yeah... When you oppose, you are a kid,broke and immature.

2s£xy:
Na so we see am o.

BUT I will like to also state that MANY Ibo ladies ARE HARD WORKING.

PERSONALLY, I see nothing wrong in giving your girlfriend money BUT when you make it seem like ITS a MUST, then you will be relegated to the back seat and of course equated to be one of those sluts around, even if you are working. My respect will definitely dwindle and wane toward such a person, irrespective of her beauty.

It also depends on my relationship with the person,too. If it's not a serious relationship I could care less cos I know I will dump her pretty soon.

As for Ngozi, I hope her relationship ends in Marriage. All the best to her sha.

While those they consider broke are here watching with our telescope.

It's really funny how they do it you know; when they don't even know you offline.

Mcbussy:


Honestly,that's just the fact....ofcourse if u're dating a lady,u gotta show concern and give on a reasonable basis,and when u feel the need to.its not that she'll start conditioning u, and make it your civic or social obligation.

U are right,I know some igbo ladies that are really cool,learned and hardworking.that's why I mentioned that I'm nt generalising....but the few crude ones always think with their punâni just like our beloved sister Ngo

Having a female gënitalia doesn't give u a right 2 condition men.So please,even if that's her style,she's gotta be civilised enuf to know its wrong.

pickabeau1: Dear e-warriors MCBussy and Ngokafor.. abeg oooo

E don do... You have derailed the thread

Na person ask advice and na insult full ground

Mcbussy:


Honestly,that's just the fact....ofcourse if u're dating a lady,u gotta show concern and give on a reasonable basis,and when u feel the need to.its not that she'll start conditioning u, and make it your civic or social obligation.

U are right,I know some igbo ladies that are really cool,learned and hardworking.that's why I mentioned that I'm nt generalising....but the few crude ones always think with their punâni just like our beloved sister Ngo

Having a female gënitalia doesn't give u a right 2 condition men.So please,even if that's her style,she's gotta be civilised enuf to know its wrong.

Ngokafor:

My friend shut up and get lost!..what do you know about relationships yourself??..that you claim to be male does not mean you are one...you are a born bastard to talk about civilisation at this point...if your mum is not a slut why would you come here insulting strangers you dont know?? Cos i stated facts?...you were clearly born in a brothel thats why why all u know is kitty selling, idiot!..

Yes you are a broke,poverty-stricken dead-beat loser..go kill yourself if u are pained..rabid dog.

..besides i thought a scammer like u claimed you were too busy..yet u appear to be here 24/7 like the criminal u are typing trash!...

lynpetra: But this kind afternoon too hot for this kind cause na.Una no dey tire?

2s£xy:
You are of the Opinion that a guy should spend on his girlfriend which is BAD!

You also feel when guys oppose such gesture, they are broke and immature or still a kid.

To you, many people here are broke.

Ngozi.... Na wa for you.

Mcbussy:


Hehehehe ....e-warriors indeed.u are right sha.

I don dey shake sef cos when she reach here,she go fire me again

I think ama beg and apologise dis time....e don reach make I form gentle man small.

pickabeau1: Please it does not mean you are weak... just free her make she free you too

Abeg

Arsenate: ;Dhungry hos all over the thread trying hard to justify their
disgrace of a life. no amount of insult will change shiit :'

Mcbussy:


Hehehehe ....are u interested in the gf job??....I can't pay you monthly,but I should be able to pay quarterly; Valentines day,easter sundays,birthdays and christmas....with gifts ofcourse

kalimera101:
Guy, those are part-time payments. Na full time things. Which day go be interview, I've prepared my resume.

Chomzy19: oh I see, but its nt funny hw d guy does it abi, labelling someone he does nt know offline a LovePeddler.

Mr man or watever sex u re it is becos off pple lyk u dt Nigeria is where it is today. U re so clouded by ur bias, by ur gender u enter into d middle of a tirade, n take a side

if u are nt going to b an unbiased judge do not ever enter into d middle of pple's argument online or offline. If u re going to wonder y a person can call someone they dont know broke or a boy u shld also wonder y somebody shld caal a person they dont know a slut or u forget abt wondering at all

Last i checked, Everybody still hv d freedom to giv watever is dia opinions or blive on nairaland n if anybody decides to call another name for wat they blive then watever they get is wat they bargained for

Afterall none of them knows themselves so they could be very Wrong or Very Right abt each other