NOPET: You better thank God by sending the rubbish out of your love. Note boy,to buy any girl love,if she can't love you the way you are,let loose the slut.

Ngokafor: @redidiot,your ashawo mama nyash...spitting cobra that has learnt how to poo on his useless mother..armed robber.

RedBenson:

Thank ur stars dat mod had to come in to hide posts, if not, i was ready to bastardise an unremorseful prosti.tute like u. Horribly smelling toto.

nipeks001: Lmao,woe betide the man that eventually marry you.
Ngozi Okafor get a job and stop ranting.It is normal to spend and infact impossible not to spend in a relationship but when a lady demands for money and gives you ultimatum,it's called MADNESS and when a shameless bottom comes on cyber-space to defend such act it's called STUPIDITY OF THE HIGHEST ORDER.

nipeks001: Lmao,woe betide the man that eventually marry you.
Ngozi Okafor get a job and stop ranting.It is normal to spend and infact impossible not to spend in a relationship but when a lady demands for money and gives you ultimatum,it's called MADNESS and when a shameless bottom comes on cyber-space to defend such act it's called STUPIDITY OF THE HIGHEST ORDER.

Ngokafor:


lol!..you very daft!!.who is ngozi okafor??onuku,if you are not sick u wont be referring to me...woe betide the woman that will marry u too...shameless she-male..

..besides who is forcing anyone to do anything or issuing ultimatums??..my opinion still stands...go get a job and stop reading..or better still dive into a gutter....coward who only switched ids to type trash,use your original id the next time you refer to me okay?..


...nairaland cry baby,little wonder your ex dumbed your sorry ass and moved on,leaving you crying since..ewu coward.

nipeks001:
In ighoo's voice singing *E DEY PAIN ME O GAH GAH O*
lmao at switching ids,you really have issues.
I repeat woe betide the man that marries you.

Ngokafor:

Olodo son of a LovePeddler whose hiv-stricken mum is about to give up
soon....who is supposed to thank who between an about to die lowlife like you and me??.loser!...u certified criminal should rather thank ur decomposing slut of a useless mum for ur useless wasted life...dead-beat mum-kitty-sniffing criminal...ashawo pikin like u..


...keep f***kn ur diseased- stricken mum with rotted kitty u
carcass..i'll keep taking u 2 the cleaners here...rabid dog....hang
around kid,i'll be right back...

Ngokafor:
...this thread has been really hilarious i tell you...imagine all the hues and cries over 5k...lol!..like my fiance would say 'poverty na bastard'...the op is even doubly silly to open a thread whining about 5k,forgeting how she stood by him when he was a corp member.I can bet u his babe dumped him for some other reasons and he comes twisting the whole story on nairaland,just to belong to the Association of Nairaland Whinners(ANW)..

..@all, as long as you are working, you must spend on your girlfriends whether you like it or not!! [/b]or else remain unattached!,you have a choice!!..failure to do that and the op's story will be your portion.

[b]
....dating is for big boys who understands the rules of the game and not for little kids . Women the world over LOVES a caring and sharing man you can take that to the bank! .The good ones (like moi hehe)will understand if their man falls on hard times and would even help him stand on his feet financially,but a stingy koko is a big no!...and you wonder why SA women fall over themselves to date or marry Naija guys?..go figure!

2s£xy:


hmmmm...



It's not a must madam.



Hmmmm... AT Machine man, huh?

Nothing wrong in giving a girl money but when you say it's A MUST, what are you insunauting? The very moment a girl makes it a must, she is seen as a what?

Who shall we blame; it's just the common naija girl speaking.

lynpetra:



2sexy,you guys dey misunderstand the babe.I don't see anything wrong with her previous posts.Although I always advocate that ladies should go out and work for their own money,guys must still spend for their babe.No guy go tell me say him never give him babe money,or buy her gifts.They can actually come to NL and rant.I can only blame girls who are overly dependent on their man because no be everytime money dey dey man pocket.Life isn't always rosy!



The babe is entitled to her own opinion and so all those bashing at her are just wasting their time.

pickabeau1: This statement contradicts the feminist mantra ////

lynpetra:

It doesn't change the fact that its a man's world.A man must take care of his woman.

lynpetra:
2sexy,you guys dey misunderstand the babe.I don't see anything wrong with her previous posts.

Although I always advocate that ladies should go out and work for their own money,guys must still spend for their babe.No guy go tell me say him never give him babe money,or buy her gifts.They can actually come to NL and rant.I can only blame girls who are overly dependent on their man because no be everytime money dey dey man pocket.Life isn't always rosy!

The babe is entitled to her own opinion and so all those bashing at her are just wasting their time.

pickabeau1:



In the new world order we are moving on towards, men n women are supposed to be equal
Spend on me n I will spend on you

2s£xy:


I don't misunderstand anything. I am judging her by her own words. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.



well said! But did you see where she emphasize that it's a 'MUST'? I mean the very post I quoted above.

There is nothing wrong in giving a lady money but she too should also know that same or equal gesture should be reciprocated, else that's outright selfishness.



yes, she is. But from the way she speaks, she seem like someone who hardly spend her money on her supposed 'man' EXCEPT he is financially down, as in broke. Why does she have to wait till that time before she would decide to do same thing she expect from a man? Quite typical of a naija chic. That's understandable.

Whats wrong if you take your man on a date and pay the bills for weekend date at a lovely restaurant?

I don't have a problem spending money on a girlfriend as long as it is not abused.

I didn't comment much on this thread for a reason and that's why you see me at the tail end of it. Those who opposed her point of view are merely seen as broke or kid.

I remember a when LogicBoy said I was broke and just pretending to be an irrestible dude. She found it amusing to 'lol' going comment to that post.

Look at that the very post I quoted. Did you see the emphases on brokeness or how her fiancee decribed poverty?

Before I went for my NYSC I spent same 5k for monthly subscription on my laptop from Sept-Feb. Brokeness is a mental image that does not exist in my brain. With or without a job I will complete my mum's duplex which she left behind.

Just because people don't want to spend their money the way some mugus do does not mean they are broke. Top millionaires have one thing in common-frugality. Or how do you think they built their wealth if the spent it lavishly at the beginning of their financial voyage?

I don't have a problem in giving money. I am a cheerful giver but some of this ladies can abuse it when guys do it.

So, what happens if her fiancee stop giving her money? Dump him right?

It was here on nairaland I read about a guy who took interest in a girl while he was in school. He just developed likeness for her as if she was his sister. So, he freely gave her things when she make request, including making her hair and not because he wanted to date her.

One day he dial his number while the girl wasn't around but left the phone. What did he see? Mugu 1.

lynpetra: But you would have to spend more..