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digitite:
She is right. But what if she does out there and ask somebody else? Won't that bring shame on the relationship or she might end up cheating on you?

Bring shame on the relationship

Y'all weirdos worship relationship too much.
Bleep, it's not even a marriage.

Why should you care if the broke thing you are dating decides she needs to go beg for money? That's her life and her choice.

That kind of Relationship will kuku scatter when one Yahoo boy with more money comes to start toasting the female in question.

If you make money, you should also be checking for women who make money. That way you buy each other gifts instead of one way supporting some other grown ass adults lifestyle. Leave these broke girls alone una no go hear.

Gentlemen. The reality of living in the 20th century has changed, and so must every notion formed from previous days that no longer hold weight today.

Women are not the only ones who should be asking what you do.
You should also be asking her what she does....and guaging her wifeability from her response.
Nobody likes to suffer...yourself included. So why sign up for a lifetime of every financial request of your immediate family (and possibly both your extended families ) coming to just you alone?

Gone are the days where families survived on one income alone. Those days, houses in Nigeria used to cost #5M or less. These same houses now cost well over #30M.

I can bet your income did not also inflate 6x over the same time.

The reality is that you need a wife who also brings something home, and honestly it should hopefully be around the same (or more God willing) of what you pull in.

This way one person's income can cover the family stuff and the other person's income goes towardssavings/investments/emergencies/joblessness buffering/ etc. Your family will go farther and you can even both retire earlier if this is done right.

Also Naija guys please, have some respect for yourself.
If you meet a girl and she has the mental configuration of always wanting money from you, just know that she is not the one.

As a sister here once said, "A girl who truly likes you, won't ask you for money...unless it's bad and you are her last resort."
Na woman talk am. Believe that sister. Peep that one game from her, and most of you will be alright.

If a girl really likes you, she'll be too busy trying to think of ways to be an asset to your life or impress you...not a taker.

Get you a girl who makes her money with a good source of income and who understands that her income is to be included in plans.

You have been told.
You should be done with your broke girl phase right about now ^{(much like how women should be done with their bad boy stage).}
It does nothing for your life.

NOTE: I am not saying go and marry an idiot because she makes money.... Obviously.
You are still looking for a good wife, who just ALSO happens to be equipped with income and/or good income prospects and drive.

SQMrProducer:
Cardi B all day long

She has herpes...

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Collins4u1:
What exactly did you do?

Wish you all the best.


Wish I were still a virgin...

Grant us Grace to live above sin o Lord.

No be just virginity o.
There are virgins in this world that have herpes.
All it takes is a kiss.

lezzshyte:
like we didn't have sex per se. did other stuff oh. I am in deep shiit

Sounds like you were giving your male friends rimjobs.
You mean you actually licked another man's anus and he gave you the herp?

I for understand if na one very fine babe babe give you, but your fellow man? That's that gay shit bro. (pun intended)

Anyway Modern medicine can't cure it right now, but can only aleviate symptoms.

Also, this is uncharted territory, but you might want to do some research around some of Dr Sebi's works on organic healing.
Don't buy anything from anybody claiming to be a cure. Do some research and run some personal experiments. Might require lifestyle changes for a very long time.

When they say vote for Sowore, fools will say No.

Later they will say there is no money and then they will use that excuse to go and borrow from China. If only you people realize that it is your children that will pay these debts. You should be angrier.

283 million USD can build several power plants in that country.

Yet you fools were laughing at Sowore when he was in prison fighting for you. Likewise, I will be out here laughing at you when your country is destroyed and you are sold as modern slaves to your debtors.

Fools!

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They'll be fine.

Ofcourse, their own money and allowances will not change.
In fact, it will increase as they begin panic looting....knowing that interesting times are near.

I pity boys wey just dey kiss random thots.
If a girl has been to dubai to stunt, and you know she has no job or legitimate business...you suppose suspet am say she dey chop shit.

Eberechi24:
I don't understand as in eat faeces like food? The shit will be placed before them in a plate and they start consuming.

What is the motive behind it for the arab man?

Google "Dubai porta potty" for details.
I can't be thinking about nonsense tonight.

Lamanii22:
I've heard it before... I just don't want to believe it is true... Cause to look at my own poo in my WC Is really hard for me... Not to talk of eating it... Eating disease... Mo fooooooo ooo.... I'd rather keep selling my 10 10 naira stuff...

Well those thots don't eat their own, they eat the turds of fat, hairy, dirty arab men.
Straight from the source. Just for money.

Disgusting, empty human shells those girls are.

CAPSLOCKED:
3.1 inches, to be realistic.

Lol I guess you didn't switch back to your alt before posting.

Don't worry about it CAPSLOCKED.
I think men need to start supporting each other by detoxifying our spaces from body shaming. It has become standard societal practice to be cruel to men. I don't think it's right.

All the parts of a vagina you really need to hit are 3 inches in. Everything else is just Jara. You don't owe her any more past that. Using fingers, mouth and toys will complete the experience for her if she has configured her body through vigorous use to need more. Refrain from killing yourself or taking harmful drugs over nothing.

Love yourself bro, and don't let anyone make you feel any kind of way about the body God made you in.

Men were made in the image of God.
We generally don't think like fools.
We are not prone to support evil ONLY BECAUSE the other person commiting it has a penis.

Bad as e bad, We are more apt to value things like Justice and fairness i.e logic.

Females generally have no such divine inheritance of these virtues.
Order, fairness, justice....these things mean nothing to a female. The intellectual loyalty of a female is purely based on self-interest and how to one-up men, with no consideration at all given to higher things.

If you think men are bad, if women ruled anything, it would be run to the ground even faster with nepotism and psychophancy.
Alison Madueke is an example....with her 20 Billion USD thieving ass. The destruction of the family in the west is another.

MEGA4BILLION:
once again, you know nothing. Don't you know hoeing is a full time job to some?

Clearly, you lack comprehension.

I can't just fathom the fool that will pay expensive imo state brideprice on top a human being like that.

MrBrownJay1:
i wouldnt feel sorry for that man, i would instead feel sorry for that dishonest DEAD WOMAN, after her husband finds out she was a shiit eating olosho.

Who knows, she might end up with some Brigadier-General Save-a-hoe who would be okay with it....because that dude would have to rank higher than mere Captain to make that shit work (pun intended).

MrBrownJay1:
a very close friend is currently in Dubai... and the amount of Nigerian babes into undercover prostitution on Tinder there is alarming... and majority would ask for some kind of donation (before they meet you). but he told me the story of one of them who came to his hotel as a "friend", they got down to business kissing and caressing "as friends", then got UnCloth and as she just finished sucking his dick and he was grabbing for a condom to fukc her, she then told him that she needs some bills to be paid and he should enter his credit card on her phone to pay for 90$ .... when he told her that she was out her goddamn mind, she got up, got dressed and left!

Sounds like that woman is living beneath her full potential .
She could easily clear 30,000 USD in a weekend by ingesting kaka.

She is not yet serious with her chosen profession

MEGA4BILLION:
2buffagain, you know nothing, the dubai trip is a job

What kind of job?
Look, the stigma has already been established for Dubai.
So if she goes to Dubai for legitimate job, she needs to do it on the low and not make noise about it, lest she risks tarnishing her image.

Unless she is posing while wearing mature clothes or corporate clothes then thats fine.
But we all know what an IG thot is wearing when she goes to Dubai. Because that is the only "job" they know how to do.
And the only thing that pays well for that type of "job" over there, is toilet service for fat hairy arab men.

I just hope these females understand that posing in Dubai is not helping their social media image as much as they might be thinking.

Whenever I see a jobless female traveling to and posing in Dubai on IG,
the automatic conclusion my brain makes is that she went there to eat shite for bar.
Does anyone else assume this or is it just me?

Awon shit choppers

The only reason why Africa has no "cases" is because nobody goes to the hospital in Nigeria unless at their near-death.

Checkups and even just "maintenance-mindset" in general is lacking in this continent...at least in the non-white sections of it.

ubunja:
even myself I shudder at the relentless brokeshaming on NL. You won't see it on any other social network of another country.

I spent years on 2go SA but I can count on one hand the number of times I heard a guy shamed for being broke. Nigerians take this to a whole new level. It's almost like an obsession.

In Nigeria, you can be guilty of a lot of things, but it better not be poverty.

drmikeadams:
me and u know that ur lying

Leave am.
Most Women talk a lot and say whatever to make themselves feel good for positive self perception.

When it comes time to hold them to their word, that is when they will be looking for a man to blame and push the responsibility to. No be today.

Nigerian guys need to respect themselves.

This is immature female behavior.

If a girl decides to play this game, the next time she sees you it should be you with another girl. Especially as she has been told several times that no be only you Waka come the relationship.

After a few loses like this, she go get sense by force.

Notice the question he asked initially.
"Is it alright if I flirt with you"
She said "yeah a little, we'll see".
Then he says "alright then I won't [flirt]".

The old guy was being respectful.
How she managed to turn this into what it was not is sick.

Fake boldness until you make it.

Stop trying to tell these women what to do. It never works that way.

Exodora:
I feel like giving you a hot slap this afternoon. How can you be this ....

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