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Randy100:
I wasn't dating her, I just wanted a one night stuff. I tried discussing with her, to my chagrin she doesn't know anything despite her having a very big phone. I tried politics, sports, world news and still I couldn't find any common ground for us to discuss. After some few minute of awkward silence I just asked her to come to my place that I just got season 7 of Game of thrones and she replied that the movie is overrated. I asked her to tell me why she think the movie is overrated and she couldn't say anything. I deleted her number and walked away. People shouldn't be joking with my best movie.

I bet you she would be talkative if both of you started talking about the different types of fake peruvian hair.
It's a pity she did not apply her brain more.

Thing with such girls is, the less built up her brain is, the more her pussy must pay for her stupidity.
It is the only thing she has to exchange.

Fountainofyouth:
It is a pity that we still have men that are lacking intelligence, how is it that in these modern era, they still don't know that some people switch babies at birth in the hospital, either mistakenly or intentionally? It is either the schmucks above are blind to topics like these that graces front page, or they see it but comprehension and assimilation is far from them, or they just like to gloat about anything women,

I really pity women who will fall under these category, I pray they don't meet these manboys above as husband.

Good point.
All the more reason why DNA testing is required.

It is the only way both parents can confirm they are leaving that hospital with the right child and not a hospital or thot swap.

With this added benefit you have just (perhaps unknowingly) admitted to, the mutually asserted conclusion is that the only woman that can ever be against DNA testing (while knowing all these benefits) is a thot trying to pull a thot swap.

namiji2598:
Lolita, who grew up in South Africa, is now an online celebrity with 180,000 followers. She is tanned and she is called a “Barbie” of chocolate skin.

In the photo, she has a good figure, tall long legs, delicate features, big eyes, tall nose, and most importantly, sexy thick lips.

After Lolita became popular, her parents did not let her go out alone, because it’s dangerous for beautiful girls to go to the streets alone, and their families can't rest assured.

In fact, true beauty is not measured by skin color. Everyone has its unique beauty.
What's ur stake on this?

Meh. IMO Small red for dey her skin sha.
That's too dark for me. She is a dark elf.

If she stand near you for night you go think say those people don finally find you.
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nlPoster:
As for you, since when have you been saying this, because some folks here seem to have been trying to marry for long. They are always listing what they want in a wife, yet they never marry, most don't even date.

Who says I'm not dating one right now?
Dating is easy. Marriage is a longer thing. You need time to scan a person properly.

These things mentioned are floor-level requirements.
Other things beyond just this determine marriageability.

bolayei:
Not all Nigerians abroad can marry Nigerian women. See it like this we love Nigeria but Nigerian is not conducive to live in. Same way we want to be with Nigerian women but compared to other women, Nigerian women are in the bottom of the food chain.

Nigerian women look too serious abroad
Nigerian women always have one problem or another
Nigerian women kiss their teeth(hissing)
Nigerian depend on you for everything in a country full of opportunities
Nigerian act inferior when in the same room as other nationalities
Nigerian women always learn the common ways and mistake it as oyinbo way
Nigerian women in Nigeria are more attractive than the ones I have seen abroad
Same way you won't marry an illiterate in Nigeria same way we want to marry a woman with prospect not marry carers, cleaners, customer service attendance etc
Nigerian women hardly integrate


If you travelled abroad in your teenage then you will most likely not marry a Nigerian woman except she too came here as a teenager or was born here.

I can give a lot of reasons why people marry foreigners for the long term

Trust me I feel you on these points.
The more beautiful nigerian women are the ones I see when I visit Naij, not really when I'm here.

Also, I wouldn't consider a naija woman here unless she is on an actual professional path...not some basic ish.

The fact that she is in a land with so much opportunity, yet decided it is basic ish she is going to be doing with herself tells me all I need to know about her. And I don't care about her talking about her dreams, bish needs to already be on that sh!t.

Team #PowerCouplesOnly.
We don't play with broke girls.

I go still marry Nigerian woman las las as that fits into the vision.
But she will have to be at least middle class all on her own so we can both combine powers and collectively move up, not down.

I can think of uses for that tongue �

Martinez39s:
— No single mum will ever concede that it's a smart move to avoid raising another man's kid when you could raise your own. I dear michellekabod2 to concede such.
— No single mum will ever concede that it is better to look for a fresh product in the dating market instead of another man's left over. I dear michellekabod2 to concede such.
— No single mum will be comfortable to allow her son marry a single mum because she knows the son could get a better deal; they know the risks involved; and he is short changing himself.

I could go on but I will reserve my points for my upcoming thread on why men should not marry single mothers. People will always argue selfishly in their best interest so it's not surprising when michellekabod2 is arguing the way she is arguing.

This is the long and short of this thread.
The thread need not get any longer.

First rule of engagement with women is to fully expect that they will NEVER argue a matter based on logic but on pure, unbridled self-interest...not necessarily emotion.
To that last point, I know many single mothers who cry like the OP but would hands down say they will not allow their son marry a single mother. They will say this without shame, because women are actually not illogical...they are just liars.
They act like they do not understand logic, but will surprisingly use it only when it suits them.

This is why you don't argue with women when they are being illogical.
They already know that they are lying, so no need convincing a liar that they are lying.
Silence, as they say, is the best gift to a willful fool.

MrBrownJay1:
bro, some men take such issues very seriously... imagine the dude who loved/care/cherished/raised/educated 3 bastard children that he thought were his... imagine the hurt when finding that these 3 bastards (that you were killing yourself to try to give the best of life) were not yours? imagine how this man's EGO will be crushed? imagine the SHAME? kai!!!!

when some men would even kill for mere gf cheating, this one is indeed lucky!

Lucky indeed!
She made a bloody cuck out of him, without his consent.
No be only teeth him suppose break. Bone suppose join.

Michellekabod2:
it wouldn't take long before we adopt that.

Twitter feminists are not playing o

That's their problem.
I will always say that until these mumu nigerian feminists militantly refuse their family members from collecting bride price and list, they can forget about feminism in Nigeria. That is the first step.

They should go about their matters logically if they want to achieve anything.
It is not just to be making kpekpeye sounds on twitter.

Very good for her.
3 teeth for each child, then the fourth teeth for him.

For that economy, man dey sweat like dog to provide for all of una, yet you are busy giving birth to community children wey no go move the man generation forward.

A whole 3! That's too much.

Wicked bitch.

Guys please begin talking to your girlfriends and fiances.
Just like you talk about finances after marriage, also talk about required DNA testing.

Besides personal verification reasons, the logical argument to use is that if you both plan on relocating, it is needed so it might as well be done from the get go.
If she still fights that logic, know that she is a ho and is afraid to get caught.

If they flee after sex, and you are fine, then it is unfortunate but....YOUR PUSSY STINKS OF ROT AND DEATH.

At the very least, most men will keep a fine girl with good pussy around for future rounds.

Waterview:
why would the judiciary be in favour of unfair accumulation of wealth, something you didn't work for.

Emmanuel Eboue, a famous player lost 90% of his wealth ( £7m) to his ex wife........ Now tell me how you'll feel if your BROTHER or SON were to be his shoe.

Men suffer in the west what men enjoy in Nigeria.

It's at a point where men who marry in the west are fools given the terms they sign up for.
No woman will ever agree to this with their mouth, but they know they have him by the balls when he says "I do" and signs that evil contract.
Even though I am not into boys clubs, the MGTOW thing is kind of a logical response to the unfortunate realities in the west for men.

Romeo3:
Lmao...

"smooth pussy, tight pussy, creamier pussy"

As in, e too pain the man say she no give am.
She is a very wicked someburry

Stephenmoka4:
That's not something that can be refunded and the term "refund" don't apply to it, check your previous statement and mine, if you can read between the lines you'll get. Peace

The fact that you don't see the link between those 2 things means YOU don't get it. Bye.

1Sharon:
Ppl need to stop conflating classroom/academic intelligence with real world intelligence

It's all about opportunity expense.

If she doesn't have a degree, then she better at least have an actual successful business.
Otherwise, what has she been doing with all that free time?

Something must be brought to the table.
I cannot finish investing so heavily in my physical, financial and mental worth, only to join my life with someone who has just been f*cking around all her life looking at time pass her by without investing in herself. To a lot of women, the only investment they know is plastic surgery.

I demand more from women. Much more.

1Sharon:
Ok. So how many men are ok with their women being a highly skilled professional like a doctor?

Or an architect? It screams independence

TF do I care about "how many men"?
I can only speak about what I want.

Generally though, most men don't care about these things as much as you women keep talking about.
I think the thing is, nobody wants a braggart.
If you always want to keep throwing it in anyone's face that you have this or that, or you use that to want to disrespect the other person, then ofcourse you will get problems.

Most women (married to modern men) who keep complaining about this thing, are not telling the full story.
They probably caused trouble in their marriage through other means and then decided to blame it on her degree when gossipping with her girlfriends. Do you honestly expect a woman to tell her girls "This happened because I called him a weak uneducated and impotent fool"?
No.

Women will always make themselves look like saints who, for NO REASON WHATSOEVER, some man just ran and left what he was doing to come and choke them because men are evil . The next time you hear crap like that, get more details and push for truth. Bishes be crazy.

1Sharon:
Lol..I actually think it's a turn off especially when it's an advanced degree


You can be educated, but don't let your education surpass theirs!

Only a low achieving, low self esteem man cares about his wife having more degrees than him.

The only time it can be a problem is if she went to take all manner of student loans that put her in 6 digits debt and her degrees are basic liberal arts degree that won't bring any money.

If she is going to enter 6 digit usd debt, it might as well be for a house asset or a science/tech degree.... Not useless toilet paper sold to you at some 419 school that managed to con you into thinking that wasting so much money and 4 years of your life to study "Woman Studies" was a great idea. Women (and manginas) who fall for these degrees are mumu.

Kennedyiheme02:
its not the degree thats gonna keep a man thats my point

If that's your point then change title to "does not keep a man" instead of "does not attract a man".
Because assuming everything else balance between 2 girls, I will approach the one with a good degree over the one that doesn't.
Smart men only be adding assets to the team these days.

Because it does.

Who wants to marry a dunce in this day and age?
As long as she did not take a degree in something stupid, like women's studies.

A woman like that will always struggle for relevance and will stress you with practicals of her degree due to low self-esteem of having such a useless degree.

Michellekabod2:
like you men don't cry foul when we chose the rich over the average guy. You call girls hoes for it so why do you guys have an issue with being called a paedophile for opting for a younger girl?


The fact is,everyone wants the best for themselves, its impossible to want the best for yourself without angering and disappointing those who don't get picked. And no one wants to compromise their standards because of pity. That's the reason behind wailings of men/women for people having their standard and spec.

Na so.

I always advocate that a man faces his hustle and stop chasing girls tho.
When his hustle is right, they will chase him. confarm.

Amakavula:
A debate which originated from Twitter has sparked my interest.

The original tweet by Twitter user, Moe poked fun at those men.

What is your take on men like in their forties who go for really young women in the twenties or say 18,17,19..

What debate?
Sounds like the pointless ramblings of unmarried left-over women.

Men will do what we have always been doing, which is marrying whoever the heck we want to marry because...boss.
Women will do what they have always been doing, which is marrying men who are older than them because...hypergamy.

Only losers who did NOT get chose bitch about these facts of Life. The females in that thread are losers.

Farki:
I must have double posted, but I'll answer anyway.

I personally don't support 'lineage through the father only'. I thought marriage was the joining of two houses so you can't have one without the other. Although not everyone I met believes this, some think since the mother grew the child and spent most of the child's formative years together she claims it for herself.

Eguns have totally assimilated into Yoruba culture having lived here for hundreds of years, just that some people don't accept because of variation in names also because they think Yorubaland ends at Badagry.

Go to the border towns and aside from accents there isn't much difference from other parts of the country. If you don't believe me all those men in boats fishing on Lagos lagoon are eguns.

I thought you quoted me for my comment about Yoruba women .

The thing with Nigerians when trying to resolve a matter is that we like to start from Z instead of starting from A.
The okada ban is a recent example.

Things can't just be stopped like that. You have to first resolve the root of why that thing exists to begin with.

The only way lineage won't be by man alone is for parents to stop the backward practice of selling their daughter i.e bride price/list. That is why the woman's lineage is treated as irrelevant in these calculations. She was sold.

In fact, until feminists really focus on fighting how marriages even happen in Naija, the concept of a Nigerian feminist is a joke. They are wasting their time until then.

Brightgem:
Analized this post for my Facebook followers they still came for my head that she doesn't mean anything, we all trying to twist what she said.

What an irresponsible, degrading post.

As in sis, How do some women reason that they don't see this post as disrespectful?
A lot of women don't even know what respect is nor how to give it. This is why they keep having problems with men.

But the irony is, if that post was written by a man about a woman, they will see the wrong in it then, because of how it would make them "feel in real time", but they are unable to apply sense as to how it would make anyone else feel that is not them.
It is why some of the people of your gender simply cannot be reasoned with.

Angelfrost:
Nope... She was being stupid!!!

You don't wash your dirty linens in the full view of the public... What she put up there was completely unnecessary.

I think I now agree that majority of today's ladies are quite bereft of commonsense.

Bro shey you too have seen the countless number of utterly foolish females revealing how they think through this subject?
They keep clapping and saying shit like "honesty". They actually AGREE with the atrocious and self-centered manner that thot used to embarrass the poor nice guy that married her in the name of "praise". This is why nothing works for them. They don't even know what praise IS. She made him a phucking GLOBAL laughing stock and wrote that shit without even applying any modicum of sense/decency.

The scary thing is that in their minds, some of these females think there is NOTHING WRONG with this writeup.
That's some scary phucking lack of judgement right there.
This is why I don't pity a lot of girls who are simply phucked and discarded. It is possible that that was simply all she was good for.

That is disgusting.
Whoever that guy is, he made a terrible choice.

She still lacks good judgement.
This is not a wife.

Stephenmoka4:
... For the purchase stuff try reading the refund policies for the company.

And you believe the refund policy for sex should be....to cry rape?

I did not call you foolish. I am saying that what you are advocating for is foolishness. Foolishness that will soon meet you if you keep trying to preach it.

Stephenmoka4:
For the last part I both couples are married and decide to have relations, that's not rape.



E.g Spouse A; Hey you look hot tonight, wanna get naughty
Spouse B; haha, I can't wait.
...... That's just an example and that situation it's not rape

Listen to yourself.
By your same logic, that same spouse B can simply wake up the next morning and go "Hey you know what, last night I agreed, but I regret the sex we had. I think this now qualifies as rape. Sorry but I have to go report this to the police".

Do you not see the foolishness you are advocating for?

Upon agreement, all sales are final.
You can even cancel the sale halfway through and leave the shop.
But you cant buy the thing, come back the next day saying you don't want the thing again.
Market don already calculate for that day.

Stephenmoka4:
The thing is creating options with a no-no pick, that is putting the victim in a state of DILEMMA. Once the person says no, it means the person sees YES as undesirable but, the other will manipulate the person to feel different about choosing NO, which makes NO looks undesirable.

Women manipulate the Bleep out of men everyday.
We don't go report them to police because of it.

Again, stop infantalizing women.
They are grown adults.
People CHOOSE. If they choose to do something, it is infantile to then go running that you were forced when no force was applied.
In this matter, unless physical force is involved, there is no such thing as a "no-no pick". If he asks too much, and she does not want, it is a simple matter of "Mr man, it's my body. I don't want. In fact, let's stop seeing each other for a while". Lobatan!

Again, stop encouraging the further infantalization of women.
You make them out to be fools with this your logic.

Stephenmoka4:
Convincing is different from this aspect. When a girl says no and you give 1001 reasons to say yes and she did, that's sexual coercion not Convincing. Same applies to your wallet and try to understand what gift means. Remember gifts should be done willingly and freely not be pressured or when your conscience judges etc. Try to understand mutual agreement and not someone that feel guilty for not taking part of an action, or submitting to when truely the person doesn't want to

I generally do not care about wasting time convincing a woman to have sex. I'm a "1 no man".
You tell me no once, that's it for the day.
Tell me no when we are halfway in it, that's it for the day.

That said, I will never accept that some guy verbally communicating his sexual needs to his woman....and she agreeing to meet those needs.....is rape. Stop it. He did not put a gun to her head.

She regretting to do something she CHOSE to do after, does NOT make it rape.
If you want to give way to that kind of snowflake logic then every girl that was ever disvirgined (perhaps out of wedlock) was raped.
That kind of logic is even an insult to women because it infantilizes them and suggests they don't have enough damn sense to make their own decisions as adults.
That's backward as Bleep. Stop reaching.

Stephenmoka4:
Exactly, let's say A and B are dating and B is telling A if you love me you would lay with me, come on everyone is doing it, you are mine, I thought you say you love me and would do anything... seriously A will feel guilty and do it. B just manipulated A. A can say all my friends partner are taking them on a luxurious vacation and showering gifts look here Madison got a Silver bracelet in Sydney, Jane's bf gave a golden necklace while they were in Singapore City, why won't you break the bank for me, you love me so much don't you, remember love is blind. B will likely do it, which is not right

This makes absolutely no sense.
If a verbally convinced me to spend money on her, would I not be a ridiculous fool to go and start saying that she raped my wallet?

You don't give someone a gift and then start going to report them to police that they held you at gunpoint and robbed you.

She simply said what she wanted. That's been assertive. Much like a man assertively requesting he needs his dick ate. If the person agrees to do it, then that is not rape. If during the action the other person says they don't want to do again, then that's their choice. In no scenario was she forced to do it or forced to not stop.