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lefulefu:
well those overseas guys who are cunning prefer keeping their home based wives back in nigera cos they scared if they bring her with them back to the western country they reside she might grow wings and start demanding for her rights .so they come during the holidays like easter and christmas to spend time with their home based wives while the wealthier ones amongst them can visit occasionally without waiting for easter and christmas per se.but like u said it benefits the homebased wife more because she can have as many lovers as she likes when the husband is away.

I can understand (and discourage) already being married in Naija and then only him going overseas and then keeping her there.

What I don't get is coming back to marry just to leave her there.
Makes no sense. She's just an extra monthly bill that he would have been using to buy stocks instead
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OneChanceTaxi:
The victim mentality is one big problem with the AA and the Democrats are so much feeding on that narrative. I follow CandaceOwens on Twitter and she's trying to reawaken these folks using her BLEXIT movement

Candace Owen is a solid babe. I love watching her speak and how she changes the black american narrative.
If I marry an AA, she is the type of AA I can see myself marrying *for real*.
She has to be on "The Right".

I can't tolerate that self-destructive victimhood mentality in my house.
It has no place around me.

Everybody since the history of mankind has been shit on.
You wipe it off and keep moving! You don't start rubbing it more on yourself like lotion.

wiseone28:
Who made these stupid laws..

Men or women?

Simp manginas and their feminazi overlords.

lefulefu:
lol its better yu just marry the devil u know than to be going back to naija looking for a bride.many yankee based naija guys who went home looking for homebase wife to bring to US have sorry tales to tell.if u still insist on marrying homebase just marry her and keep her in nigeria and be sending monthly upkeep then visit her during easter and christmas....but there chances she will codedly have a lover while u over there cos she go need man to warm her bed during the cold lonely nights.

WTF is this? Then what is the point of marrying if you can't even get the benefits?
Overseas marriage is a benefit to the woman alone.

Crispels:
I guess you don’t even know my background. I spent the first 21years of my life in Nigeria( and my current age is below 25). My Uncle could not get a job many years after graduation. We’ve been homeless in the past. One of my uncles lost his investments to govt recklessness. My family and I have lived in slums and villages(I’ve experienced Nigeria at its worst) but Nigeria is forever our home and we will forever love it.

We love Nigeria not because of its political leaders or its difficult environment but because of its people, the Naija spirit and culture. When I was in Nigeria, I also had this mentality that if I get the opportunity to travel out of the country, I will never look back again. I was wrong! A few months after I left, I began to miss the country - so much so that I had to return to spend some time home. Nigeria has its enormous challenges but even America and other Western countries are not perfect as well.

Living abroad will make you understand that Nigeria should be better than many of these Western countries if it properly harnesses its human capital and natural resources.

Very true.

And this is why I always say "Only a returning diasporean can love Nigeria well enough to change it for the better" .
You cannot know your house is smelling until you leave it for a while and then return.

Una fuckup wey no vote Sowore. Yes I went there!

pDudd:
Hahahahahahaha. I'm Khia's bitch? Lol. You have no idea.

Most of you have boring lives and come on Nairaland to troll and fight. I have a very exciting life and spend little time on here. If I write something on Nairaland and someone takes offense, it is my responsibility to explain to that person that my post was never to offend and I WILL APOLOGIZE IF I CAME ACROSS AS OFFENSIVE. THAT IS HOW CIVIL I AM.

I don't come to Nairaland to troll, fight or cure my boredom. And most especially I don't come here to seek pussy. There is plenty of real pussy around me for several miles if I need one. I don't need virtual pussy from Khia. . Khia is a provocateur and is just here to have fun and seek attention and many of you simps are falling for it.

Khia thrives off virtual attention. It is like a life giving serum to her. Like a life force to her, and sadly enough, there are enough Simps on Nairaland ready to refill her veins with the attention serum.

Khia kept blowing hot and spewing all manner of invectives my way. I needed it to stop and I apologized. AFTER MY APOLOGY, SHE INSTANTLY STOPPED. SHE BECAME NON PROVOCATIVE AND SETTLED TO ENJOY THE THREAD . Am I not a smart one? Khia tried to mindfuck me for days and started derailing the thread. A simple apology thrown her way ended that shit.

Telling me I'm seeking pussy on Nairaland. Mtscheww. When did pussy become so rare that I come on Nairaland to seek it. Nonsense.

Many of you are just idiots.

Let her matter rest.
Leave her to her simp army and imaginary boyfriends/daddies.
Continue with the thread if you still have more content.

khiaa:
I have lived in Cali mostly all of my life and I am purchasing my home so it will be awhile before I leave. I have always dreamed of moving to the South someday, my family is from Florida and Alabama but I only visit, I haven't lived there since I was 3.

Cali, middle class, buying house.
You're bougie so I can see why you feel the need to fight the OP's observations.
You feel that they don't represent you....and they don't. But you are 1 in 1000000. You can't really speak for the other majority AA to whom these things represent to a T. And I do mean majority.

I lived in Cali before so I understand just how much a minority you as an AA are there.

And this is life. Groups of people are judged by their majority, not their minority.
You do it too. It's actually a scientific way of concatenating facts.

I, for one, never got angry when Trump insulted Nigerians and called our country a shithole.
In fact, I agree. Because I'm not blind. I have 2 eyes and I say it all the time.
In fact I even agree with AA when they say Africans are foolish for still allowing china, france and co to still be messing with them like that.
I agree, because I am logical and I have eyes to see and a brain to think. Working on it is one thing, but africans will call something bad if it is bad. No need to get our emotions involved with defending something that is actually bad.

But one thing I always find hard to see is an AA that is honest enough to say "yup. I agree. my people do too much and/or could do better here or there".
The rote response is automatic defense. No one improves that way if they can't even agree that they have a problem.
To the AA "We are not the problem. Everyone else is". And it's the primary reason why many in that community do not progress. It always has to be someone else's fault. No personal responsibility.

AA think they have it bad...while living in a society with constant electricity and running water...with various programs to get an education with nothing out of pocket if they so choose. But no, they choose foolishly. Only to start making noise in everyone else's ear like idiots. Living in this yankee, sometimes I understand why the other races see black people as subhuman. Majority of Akata don't help with fighting this negative narrative.

pDudd:
Look at my result. Zero sperm. No hoe is getting pregnant for me. Hahaha.

Listen to Drake's "I'm Upset" and you will see how the system uses child support to destroy men's lives in US. I'm not falling victim to that so I got cut.

You have a female doctor?
How do y'all do that?

I can't have a female doctor especially when it comes to personal man things.

scaramucci:
Truth is the Democrats have messed up the African American population and are blaming it on Republicans. I love Republicans because they would rather show tough love. If you are shit, they tell you you are shit so that you can sit up.

Beware of a white person who calls another white person racist.

This!
And this is why the only black people I mingle with out here are those on the Moderate or at least the Right.

They are usually more sane, more logical and less emotional/impulsive.

khiaa:
I'm in Cali and the only place you know me is NL.

Black americans in Cali are a staunch minority and are mostly middle class there, which is why you keep trying to counter these hard facts.

Cali is predominantly white, asian and hispanic. It's also too expensive a state for bottom-class akata to remain in for too long before seeking an area with cheaper rent. Hispanics manage because they have special survival skills and can pack 10 of themselves in one room and parlor.

You find the type of blackfolk the OP is talking about more east and more south you go. They are the majority there.

khiaa:
Come on now, you know I'm only part Native American. My father is black American my mother is half black half native, also I said some natives are dark not all.

Hmm, sounds like you are in Texas and I might know you

pDudd:
She has 4 kids from 3 different men and the oldest of her kids is a few years younger than you are. She may or may never have been married. And if she was married, it is obvious she had a failed marriage because here you are .

And be prepared to live with grown kids that are not yours. Her youngest child may be 2 or 3 years old while her oldest may be 15 or 16. So the choice is yours

Also in this dynamic relationship you now find yourself, be prepared to have those other men in your house from time to time, and unannounced, because they have every right to see their kids that they had with the woman. Also try not to scold or discipline any of the kids that are not yours because they will tell their daddy . And their daddy is a muscular, tattooed guy who has been to prison several times and he won't hesitate to kill you for laying your hands on his kid

OP is a man after my own heart.
A worldly, well-traveled man that says it as it is.

The only Akata I genuinely enjoy associating with here are the conservative and Moderate ones.
Liberals are generally mad.
Liberal akatas? The maddest of the mad.
A collective hivemind of degeneration and crass filth.

IF this story is true,

then it means the OP is being a typical woman leaving out MASSIVE, meaty chunks from the story to manipulate the emotions of her audience.

People don't get thrown out of their house by their spouse by..."asking a question"....as you put it.

What exactly did she do?
Until that is answered, I am not an audience of these telemundo narratives.

You know the funny thing?
The money didn't just dissappear.
Someone is profiting from these "lost" billions right now.

The question is who?
The other question is can I learn their hustle?

They won't.
I pretty much already gave the answer.

Suffice to say, a girl that exhibits this behavior should never be considered for anything serious.
Invest nothing in her. String her along and make use of her purely for knacks.

Even if a woman is a ho, there is honor in hoing. She should own it.
What she should never be, is a lying ho.
That's just unnacceptable and shows she is weak and pathetic.

emmanuelewumi:
If you check my writings and contributions on Nairaland you will find out that I am very active in the investment section.

Character and good attitude is very important. Especially when you have a supportive spouse.

A lady who is a full house wife once sent a private chat to me on what she could invest N10 million on. I asked her how she got the fund, she said she gets paid a salary of 150k every month by the husband which she had been saving for the past 5 years, she inflated school fees and other house hold expenses, and the expenses the husband spends on his in-laws. Unfortunately this was a time the husband needed N5 million to execute a project that will give a profit of over N2 million to the man.

I asked why can't she loan her husband the money, she said the husband will stop all he had been doing for if he knew she has over N10 million in her name.

I sha helped her to open a money market fund account with one of the Investment banking firms at Ikoyi Lagos.

LOL case in point!

How many investments would that couple have had by now openly if someone was not trying to overdo the housewife matter.

Funny thing is that the women on here talking look like mama kudirat.

Eulalia:
Why use mouth. Not hygienic.

You sound boring.

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That us why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

So all they would be doing is using mouth on each other then.

davidnazee:
You are wrong.. she gets nothing.. only probably child support but won’t get any of his wealth.

Dude...that's only if they are not married.

If they are married, which they are, she will get half of his wealth STANDARD. Then we add child support, alimony, etc.
This is made worse if she is fully financially dependent on you and does not make her own income. Never marry a housewife in this day and age.

The western courts don't care about who the biological father is.
As long as you signed the birth certificate, you are the father and are responsible for the child.
The western courts don't even care about infidelity, unless you explicitly penalized it yourselves in your prenup....which most people unwisely do not create.

This girl again. I have always wondered how her body became like that.
Everything she ate literally went to her bottom half.

Fat girl in bottom, skinny girl on top.

She shouldn't waste the benefit of this her youth doing holosho work.
Everything go soon collapse.

J111333:
...i took a step and told her that it's is over between us. I can't do such a thing and is a taboo. She said she hate me with all her heart...



So all the love she had for you suddenly grew wings and flew away. Wonderful.

Same way you would be angry if the animal you thought you caught, that you were going to cook to feed your starving family with, seemingly develops strength and runs away last minute.

E go vex you.
"You mean I have to enter bush this night and go and find another one?! Fvck that antelope mehn."

whichever of them gives me peace and is fine with a thick ass.
I don't know or care for their names.

Sounds like more of a utilitarian fling than "dating".
You would be better off keeping it as what it is and not overthink it lest you confuse yourself and start talking about "love".

Left to me, you should flee adultery.
You could possibly smash someone else's girlfriend all day, but the line must be drawn at marriage.

Clearly this OP has sliced off, cooked, sauteed and garnished his balls with shnardine in hopes that some female will eat his dignity and bless him with her validation.

I couldn't even read the text wall. The simp energy was too much to take in one reading.

daddytime:
Are those Nigeria's finest, if yes, I'm sorry to say, the Ghanaian babes are hotter and won hands down.

Check out their front and back plus hips, our babes dem resemble our war against COVID.

I'm not impressed at all.

Op, please look for better flattering pics of our service women.

Nigerian girls can never compare to ghanian girls in terms of hips and thighs.

Swtbabyvee:
funny enough he’s catholic, he goes to church , I don’t get seriously

Catholics are generally more concerned with generic rote religion than with actual things of the spirit.
You will be hard pressed to ever find a catholic who even considers spiritual warfare a thing.

Lead him to Christ

Does the "good girl" know how to wash her pussyhole and keep it from stinking?

The only time this will be an issue is if the man is a bum.
Then ofcourse resentment will set in.
As long as you don't get comfortable over the mindset of "My wife has money", and you are also keeping things balanced around the house, And she is not psychotic, then you'll be fine.

If you are doing you and handling things and she is still a bitch, look I'm not above divorcing a woman who is hellbent on being disrespectful. This is one thing she will know about me from day one. Respect is my number 1 love language.

Pelaguis:
I advise you to look into studies related to preferred penile length and most used Love Machine sizes it's an eye opener.

You as well https://www.discovermagazine.com/mind/what-are-the-dimensions-of-the-average-sex-toy.
Also, intimacy gadgets are even longer because she needs something to grip while using it on herself.

Long story short, my message is: Everyone be happy with yourself and only give your energy to people who like what you have and whose stuff you also like.
No be competition. Neither does it feed anybody.

CoolAmbience:
See mugu...

I can cater for your full generation.

Yes. Tell them!
You're such a good minion.

Now come and wipe my ass with some of this stolen money!
I just finished taking a shit

You can keep the used paper bills